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Authentic Confidence with Dr. Aziz

Dr. Aziz Gazipura, Psychologist and Authorwww.socialconfidencecenter.com
Do you worry what other people will think? Does it make you doubt yourself, feel guilty, and ultimately stop you from being fully yourself? This can show up as people-pleasing and difficulty saying no. Or as social anxiety, staying silent in meetings, replaying conversations for hours afterward. Dr. Aziz Gazipura is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of Not Nice. He's helped thousands of people break free from self-doubt and the fear of others' opinions. After 20 years of clinical work, Dr. Aziz discovered one pattern running underneath all of it. He calls it the approval trap: prioritizing approval over being yourself, saying what you mean, and going for what you actually want. This show is for the person who looks confident on the outside and doesn't feel it on the inside. New episodes every Wednesday. Next Steps: 1. Discover your approval type. Take the 2-minute quiz to find out which of the four patterns is running your work, dating, and social life — Diplomat, Avoider, Fixer, or Performer: www.draziz.com 2. Apply for the Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind. Dr. Aziz's flagship year-long program for serious work on confidence, authenticity, and freedom from self-doubt: https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/ucmv3 3. Watch on YouTube. Every podcast episode is also available as a video, plus additional content not on the podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@DrAzizGazipura 4. Read Dr. Aziz's books: - Not Nice - The Art of Extraordinary Confidence - Doubtless - On My Own Side - Less Nice, More You - The Solution to Social Anxiety 5. Connect: Website: www.draziz.com Facebook: facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura Instagram: @drazizconfidencecoach TikTok: @drazizgazipura LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drazizgazipura
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Episodes

What If Their Thoughts About You Don't Matter?

Hey, welcome to today's episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy! It's Dr. Aziz and I'm excited to be with you. How are you doing today? Are you feeling free? Self-confident? On your own side? Capable? Inherently worthy? Or maybe not? Wherever you are today, that's okay. Sometimes people think that if they've been listening to this show, reading my books, or practicing these concepts for a while, they’re supposed to feel confident all the time. And if they don’t, it feels like a personal failing. Let’s...

Jun 19, 202425 min

Confidence Traps: From The Nursery To Endless 10x with Dr. Robert Glover

In this episode, Dr. Aziz sits down with Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy . They dive deep into the traps that hold men back, from the comfort of the nursery to the relentless drive of 10x culture. Learn about the pitfalls of striving for perfection and how to break free from the patterns of self-doubt and fear. Dr. Glover shares insights on the importance of masculine initiation, overcoming isolation, and the power of connecting with good men to enhance personal growth. Discove...

Jun 12, 202457 min

This Is Always The Path To Confidence

Welcome to Shrink for the Shy Guy ! Are fear, self-doubt, and social anxiety stopping you from being your true self? In this episode, Dr. Aziz shares the ultimate path to confidence: doing what scares you. Drawing from thousands of personal experiences and clinical cases, Dr. Aziz explains why facing your fears is the key to unlocking confidence. You'll learn how to move from merely understanding this concept to actually living it. Dr. Aziz shares his own journey from deep social anxiety to extr...

Jun 05, 202425 min

The Nice Person's Endless Quests

In today's episode, we're diving into The Nice Person's Endless Quests. Have you ever found yourself on a never-ending mission to be liked by everyone? Do you constantly seek approval or feel the need to be seen in a certain light by others? These exhausting and often invisible quests can hold you back from living authentically and fully. We'll explore the various quests that nice people undertake, such as the quest to be liked by everyone, the need for constant approval, and the compulsion to e...

May 29, 202422 min

Discomfort When??

In today's episode, we're diving into one crucial question: Discomfort When? We'll explore why embracing discomfort is essential for meaningful growth and how most people shy away from it, resulting in minimal changes in their lives. Do you know that edge where you hesitate because of fear or uncertainty? Today, you'll learn why leaning into that discomfort is the key to radical transformation. It's not just about knowing the theory; it's about living it. You'll hear why small, consistent steps ...

May 22, 202422 min

Self-Confidence: How To Believe In Yourself

In today’s enlightening episode, titled "Self-Confidence: How To Believe In Yourself," Dr. Aziz delves into the foundational aspects of self-confidence, revealing practical insights into what it means to truly believe in yourself. The episode explores why despite our desires to trust in our capabilities, many of us wrestle with pervasive self-doubt that diminishes our sense of self-worth and potential. Dr. Aziz tackles the common misconceptions and self-imposed barriers that hinder self-belief, ...

May 15, 202427 min

What If I Don't Feel Lovable?

Welcome to today's transformative episode, where we tackle a profound yet often unspoken question: What if I don't feel lovable? If this question resonates with you, or if you're curious about the deeper nuances of self-love and worthiness, this episode is tailored for you. In our journey through life, we all face moments where we doubt our lovability, whether in professional environments or personal relationships. Dr. Aziz takes us through the complex layers of these feelings, exploring how our...

May 08, 202427 min

How To Be More Interesting

Are you tired of feeling unnoticed in conversations? Do you ever worry that you might not be interesting enough to keep people engaged? Dive into this transformative episode with Dr. Aziz, where he tackles the common fear of being perceived as boring or uninteresting. This isn't just a discussion—it's a journey to shatter the limiting beliefs that hold you back from being your most captivating self. In "How To Be More Interesting," Dr. Aziz explores the deep-seated stories we tell ourselves abou...

May 01, 202425 min

The True Foundation of Unshakeable Confidence

In this empowering episode, Dr. Aziz takes you on a transformative journey to the heart of true confidence. It's not the fleeting, conditional type that ebbs and flows with life's unpredictable tides but a profound, unshakeable confidence that stands firm regardless of external circumstances. Discover Unconditional Confidence Unpack the concept of unconditional confidence with Dr. Aziz as he guides you away from the exhausting rollercoaster of conditional self-worth. Learn how to cultivate a dee...

Apr 24, 202422 min

Your Recipe For Anxiety

In this deeply insightful episode, Dr. Aziz takes you on a transformative journey into the heart of insecurity. Whether it manifests at work, in relationships, or in social settings, the feeling of being 'less than' or 'not enough' is a common thread that weaves through the tapestry of our lives. Dr. Aziz shares a powerful clip from a recent mastermind call, offering a raw and intimate look into the dynamics of overcoming insecurity. Discover Your Insecurity Recipe: Dr. Aziz challenges the notio...

Apr 16, 202426 min

Stop Feeling Embarrassed

Are you tired of the nagging sensation of embarrassment holding you back in life? In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Aziz delves deep into the world of embarrassment, unraveling its complexities and revealing how it can dictate our actions and shape our lives. From the classroom embarrassments of childhood to the adult fears of speaking up, Dr. Aziz shares his personal journey and insights, illustrating how these moments of discomfort can have long-lasting effects. Embarrassment isn't just about f...

Apr 10, 202425 min

5 Channels To Confidence And Freedom

Welcome to a groundbreaking episode of "Shrink for the Shy Guy" with your host, Dr. Aziz. Today, we're diving into a transformative guided process that Dr. Aziz has perfected through his extensive work with individual clients, mastermind programs, and virtual events. Now, he's bringing this powerful practice directly to you. Introducing the Five Channels to Confidence and Freedom. This episode is more than just a listening experience; it's an interactive guide designed to be integrated into your...

Apr 03, 202428 min

Discomfort = Progress

Click Here To Get Your Ticket For Liberate Yourself! Welcome to a transformative journey where we challenge the norms and embrace discomfort as a catalyst for growth. In this episode, "Discomfort = Progress," Dr. Aziz invites you to explore the unconventional wisdom that discomfort is not just a part of life to be avoided but a powerful tool for personal development. Are you tired of staying in your comfort zone, only to find that growth and opportunities pass you by? Dr. Aziz delves into why we...

Mar 27, 202425 min

The Demon Of Doubt

Click Here To Get Your Ticket For Liberate Yourself! Are you ready to confront the hidden force that's been holding you back? Dive into this transformative episode of "The Demon of Doubt," where Dr. Aziz peels back the layers of a pervasive yet often overlooked barrier to our growth: doubt. Whether it's that nagging voice telling you you're not good enough, the fear of making mistakes, or the hesitation to step into the unknown, doubt can be a formidable adversary on your path to self-discovery ...

Mar 20, 202422 min

End Insecurity Now

Welcome to a transformative journey in our latest episode, "End Insecurity Now," where we delve deep into the roots of insecurity and how it affects every facet of our lives - from work and relationships to our social interactions. In this episode, our host shares an insightful and engaging clip from a recent mastermind call, focusing on a powerful discussion about overcoming insecurity. This is not your average talk; it’s a dive into real, raw experiences and the profound impact of understandin...

Mar 12, 202423 min

The Ease And Freedom Of Authentic Relating

In this deeply insightful episode, Dr. Aziz takes you on a transformative journey into the heart of insecurity. Whether it manifests at work, in relationships, or in social settings, the feeling of being 'less than' or 'not enough' is a common thread that weaves through the tapestry of our lives. Dr. Aziz shares a powerful clip from a recent mastermind call, offering a raw and intimate look into the dynamics of overcoming insecurity. Discover Your Insecurity Recipe: Dr. Aziz challenges the notio...

Mar 05, 202422 min

The Secret To Caring Less What They Will Think

Welcome to a transformative journey with Dr. Aziz, where he delves into the heart of social anxiety and the art of truly not caring what others think. Have you ever found yourself paralyzed by the fear of others' opinions, or trapped in a cycle of overthinking every action and word? If so, this episode is a must-listen for you. Dr. Aziz starts by challenging the age-old adage, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." He asks us to consider something deeper: what if t...

Feb 27, 202427 min

You'll Never Feel Like Enough Until...

Are you constantly chasing the feeling of being 'enough'? Do you find yourself comparing your achievements, looks, or abilities to others and always coming up short? If these questions resonate with you, then you're not alone. Dr. Aziz, an expert in psychology, takes you on a profound journey in today's episode, addressing these deeply ingrained feelings of inadequacy that many of us struggle with. In "You'll Never Feel Like Enough Until...", Dr. Aziz explores why so many of us feel insufficient...

Feb 20, 202435 min

The End Of Over-Responsibility

Podcast Description for "The End Of Over-Responsibility" Welcome to a transformative episode of "Shrink for the Shy Guy," titled "The End Of Over-Responsibility." This episode is a deep dive into understanding and overcoming the burden of over-responsibility, a common yet often unrecognized challenge many of us face. If you're someone who feels excessively responsible for others' emotions and wellbeing, often at the cost of your own peace and happiness, then this episode is particularly relevant...

Feb 13, 202423 min

Give Up To Get Confidence And Freedom Now

Hey there, and welcome to a transformative journey in today's episode of the show, "Give to Get Confidence and Freedom Now." I'm Dr. Aziz, and I'm about to challenge some of your deepest-held beliefs about goals, dreams, and how we chase after what we want in life. If you've ever felt like pushing and striving only leads you further away from true confidence and freedom, then this episode is for you. In our time together, I'll explore the somewhat radical idea of giving up on your goals and drea...

Feb 06, 202428 min

How To Finally Stop Fearing Rejection

Hello and welcome to an empowering episode of our show, titled "How To Finally Stop Fearing Rejection." If you've ever found yourself shying away from opportunities, relationships, or experiences due to a deep-seated fear of rejection, this is the episode for you. Today, I'll be diving into the roots of this fear, understanding why it holds such power over us and, more importantly, how we can break free from its grip. We're not just going to talk about overcoming the fear of rejection in theory;...

Jan 30, 202425 min

Why Nice Ruins Relationships (And How To Change It)

Have you ever wondered why being 'too nice' can sometimes backfire, especially in your closest relationships? It might seem counterintuitive, but excessive niceness can actually harm your connections with friends, romantic partners, and even colleagues. In this episode, Dr. Aziz uncovers the ironic truth about our attempts to foster better relationships through being overly accommodating. He explains why this strategy might seem effective on the surface but fails to bring genuine intimacy or und...

Jan 23, 202424 min

The Only 2 Things That Stop You

Do you ever feel like countless barriers are holding you back from being the confident, connected individual you aspire to be? Dr. Aziz brings his profound insights to challenge this perception. In this episode, he reveals that, contrary to popular belief, there are essentially only two fundamental obstacles that impede our growth and self-realization. This simplification of complex life challenges offers a refreshing perspective, making personal development more manageable and actionable. Dr. A...

Jan 16, 202424 min

The Secret To Staying Motivated In Building Confidence

Join us in this enlightening episode where we delve into the art of maintaining momentum in 2024 to become your most confident self. This journey isn't just a New Year's resolution, sparked by inspiration from a book or a fleeting moment of motivation. It's about continuous growth and overcoming the natural ebb and flow of enthusiasm. We explore the concept of "social fitness" and "emotional fitness" - key components in building a confident, authentic self, free from the constraints of inner cri...

Jan 08, 202426 min

Yes Lives In The Land Of No

🌟 Join us in this invigorating episode of "Yes Lives In The Land Of No," where we embark on the 2024 journey of self-empowerment and confidence-building. As we step into the new year, it's time to evolve into the most confident version of yourself. This episode isn't just about gaining confidence; it's about transcending limits and expanding your potential. Discover how to grow beyond basic self-assurance, aiming to impact others and solve greater problems. We delve deep into the concept that "...

Jan 04, 202426 min

3 Reasons You Feel (Pretty Much) The Same

How To Make This New Year Radically Different Than Any Before As we're waving goodbye to the old and welcoming the new, are you feeling like you're stuck in the same old patterns? In this eye-opening episode, "3 Reasons You Feel (Pretty Much) The Same," Dr. Aziz is here to shake things up. Get ready to discover: => Why the story you tell yourself might be the very thing keeping you in place. => The importance of consistent action and how sporadic efforts can lead to stagnation. => How a...

Dec 27, 202327 min

Your Confidence Revolution

Break Free From The Inner Tyranny Do you ever feel like there's an inner oppressor limiting your true potential? In this not-to-be-missed episode, "Your Confidence Revolution," Dr. Aziz brings to light the ultimate metaphor for your personal growth and liberation. This is about breaking free from the internal chains holding you back. Get ready to: => Uncover how your own mind might be your biggest obstacle. => Learn powerful strategies to shatter these mental barriers and embrace a life of...

Dec 20, 202324 min

How To Be Less Nice & More You (Book Release!)

Stop Hiding and Become The Most Bold, Authentic Version Of You Now In this enlightening episode, Dr. Aziz unveils his new book, "Less Nice, More You," and dives deep into transformative strategies for becoming your most authentic self. => Discover how to shed layers of excessive niceness, social anxiety, and people-pleasing. => Learn the art of assertive communication and setting clear personal boundaries in a skillful, loving, and clear way. => Gain insights into overcoming internal ba...

Dec 13, 202329 min

The Social Confidence Secret That Makes You Way More Attractive

Unlocking Magnetism: The Power of Authentic Social Confidence Are you yearning to unlock a magnetic presence that draws people towards you? In this enlightening episode, Dr. Aziz guides you through a transformative experience that transcends physical appearance, revealing the true essence of social attractiveness. He'll help you identify and overcome the barriers created by social anxiety, fear of rejection, and habitual people-pleasing. Dr. Aziz shares enlightening insights and practical exerci...

Nov 28, 202317 min
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