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Authentic Confidence with Dr. Aziz

Dr. Aziz Gazipura, Psychologist and Authorwww.socialconfidencecenter.com
Do you worry what other people will think? Does it make you doubt yourself, feel guilty, and ultimately stop you from being fully yourself? This can show up as people-pleasing and difficulty saying no. Or as social anxiety, staying silent in meetings, replaying conversations for hours afterward. Dr. Aziz Gazipura is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of Not Nice. He's helped thousands of people break free from self-doubt and the fear of others' opinions. After 20 years of clinical work, Dr. Aziz discovered one pattern running underneath all of it. He calls it the approval trap: prioritizing approval over being yourself, saying what you mean, and going for what you actually want. This show is for the person who looks confident on the outside and doesn't feel it on the inside. New episodes every Wednesday. Next Steps: 1. Discover your approval type. Take the 2-minute quiz to find out which of the four patterns is running your work, dating, and social life — Diplomat, Avoider, Fixer, or Performer: www.draziz.com 2. Apply for the Unstoppable Confidence Mastermind. Dr. Aziz's flagship year-long program for serious work on confidence, authenticity, and freedom from self-doubt: https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/ucmv3 3. Watch on YouTube. Every podcast episode is also available as a video, plus additional content not on the podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@DrAzizGazipura 4. Read Dr. Aziz's books: - Not Nice - The Art of Extraordinary Confidence - Doubtless - On My Own Side - Less Nice, More You - The Solution to Social Anxiety 5. Connect: Website: www.draziz.com Facebook: facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura Instagram: @drazizconfidencecoach TikTok: @drazizgazipura LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drazizgazipura
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Episodes

Why You Sabotage Yourself...And How To Stop

Liberating Yourself From The Hidden Forces That Hold You Back Are you caught in the web of self-sabotage, feeling stuck and unsure how to break free? Dr. Aziz brings to light the covert workings of self-sabotage, expertly unraveling why we unknowingly create barriers to our success, happiness, and relationships. More importantly, Dr. Aziz doesn't just diagnose the problem; he offers actionable solutions. Dive deep into understanding the 'safety police' in your mind that prioritizes perceived saf...

Nov 21, 202326 min

Who Chooses Your Worth?

How To Feel Worthy Now In the quest for significance, have you ever paused to ask, "Who's holding the pen that writes my worth?" This thought-provoking episode, titled "Who Chooses Your Worth?" delves into our innate desire to feel important and cherished. Unpack with us: => The universal yearning for significance and the quest to feel special in the eyes of others. => The pivotal factors that shape and sometimes shake our sense of self-worth. => Practical strategies to broaden where yo...

Nov 07, 202323 min

The Best Part About Being Disliked

Your Unexpected Confidence Catalyst Let's face it, we all hate being disliked. That's why we hide ourselves, avoid directly speaking up, and generally behave in a nice and pleasing manner. But what if being disliked was actually a profound gift that could boost your confidence more than all the approval in the world? In this illuminating episode, Dr. Aziz will reveal how being disliked is a potent medicine that you can use to free yourself from fear, and become more bold and confident than ever ...

Nov 01, 202323 min

Running Your Pain Away with John Thornton

How To Free Yourself From Anxiety And Pain Ever wondered how our emotions, especially anxiety, play a role in our physical well-being? Dive into this riveting episode where Dr. Aziz engages in an eye-opening conversation with the renowned mind-body pain specialist, John Thornton. You'll discover: => The intricate link between the emotional weight of anxiety and the manifestation of physical pain. => The controversial question: Do knice people experience injuries more frequently? => Empo...

Oct 25, 202355 min

How To Feel Confident No Matter What

Boosting Your Self-Confidence & Self-Esteem To Create Unconditional Confidence Confidence is not a far-off dream; it's a tangible reality waiting for you to grasp. In today's episode, "How To Feel Confident No Matter What," join Dr. Aziz as he demystifies the core of true confidence. At the heart of it? Two paramount secrets: Self-Compassion and Self-Esteem. But what's the real difference between these two? How do they intertwine, and most importantly, how can you enhance both in your life? ...

Oct 18, 202319 min

Confident Public Speaking

Overcome Your Fears and Find Your Voice Have you ever found your heart racing just at the thought of speaking in front of a group? In this episode we're diving deep into the reasons you might be afraid of sharing your voice in public settings. You'll uncover the root causes of that anxiety and, most importantly, navigate the path to confronting and overcoming it. Let's transform that fear into confidence and empower you to speak with poise and assurance. So, are you ready to find your voice? Tun...

Oct 11, 202330 min

Spiritual Habits That Skyrocket Confidence with Eric Zimmer

Transform Yourself One Day At A Time Ready to unlock the spiritual secrets to high confidence? In today's episode, "Spiritual Habits That Skyrocket Confidence," Dr. Aziz sits down with Eric Zimmer, a meditation expert and the voice behind the widely-acclaimed podcast, The One You Feed. Delve deep into transformative spiritual practices that not only elevate your self-esteem but also unleash a world of newfound confidence. Learn how to meditate in a way that truly resonates with you, ensuring you...

Oct 04, 20231 hr 4 min

How To Be Comfortable Talking With Anyone

In this transformative episode, Dr. Aziz explores the daunting challenge of feeling anxious while communicating with certain individuals. Unearth the reasons behind this unease and learn how to tackle it head-on with two pivotal tools: rewriting your self-perceptions and honing your conversation skills. Understand how reshaping your inner narrative around self-worth and desirability, coupled with practical conversational competence, can significantly boost your comfort in any social interaction....

Sep 06, 202328 min

You Are Worthy Of Friendship

In this episode of Dr. Aziz's transformative podcast, "You Are Worthy of Friendship", we dive into the heart of social struggles and isolation. This episode illuminates the reasons behind the lack of fulfilling friendships in your life and provides empowering solutions to overcome these barriers. Explore the psychology of social anxiety, unravel the fear of rejection, and liberate yourself from the chains of self-criticism. Dr. Aziz offers potent tools and insights to help you build the social c...

Aug 23, 202319 min

You Are Not Your Critical Thoughts

Subtitle: Navigating Your Inner Dialogue: Seize Control from Critical Thoughts Description: In this enlightening episode, Dr. Aziz offers a striking visual metaphor: the bus driver. Your critical thoughts are merely passengers, not the one in control. This understanding allows you to take the wheel, defining your direction instead of being driven by the ghostly fears and feelings of yesteryears. Embrace the power and choice that comes with being the bus driver of your own life, distancing yourse...

Aug 16, 202324 min

How To Overcome Your Anxiety Of Approaching People

Are you anxious about approaching people to connect? Given the name of this podcast, probably the answer is "yes"... but did you ever ask yourself why? In this fascinating episode, Dr. Aziz guides you under the hood of your own psychology to see exactly what makes you afraid to approach others... and what you can do to change this now!

Aug 09, 202322 min

How To Stop Fearing Mistakes

Subtitle: Transforming Fear Into Power: Embrace Mistakes to Build Unshakeable Confidence Description: In this riveting episode, Dr. Aziz illuminates the intimidating shadows of mistakes, unpacking why they often incite fear and examining the myriad of strategies we employ to sidestep them. More importantly, he reframes mistakes not as frightful specters to be avoided but as essential stepping stones towards growth. Learn how to adopt a powerful mindset that not only accepts but welcomes mistakes...

Aug 02, 202323 min

Are You Enough?

In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Aziz dives deep into the unspoken question that often plagues our minds – "Am I Enough?" Join us as we uncover the hidden fear that keeps us from taking risks and embracing life's opportunities. With expert insights and powerful anecdotes, we'll explore the secret question beneath this nagging self-doubt and reveal practical strategies to help you break free from the shackles of uncertainty. Tune in and discover how to transform your mindset, unleash your potenti...

Jul 12, 202324 min

Accountability, Confidence, & Becoming The Person You Want To Be with Sam Silverstein

Description: In this thought-provoking episode we dive deep into the power of accountability and its transformative effects on our lives. Join us as we welcome Sam Silverstein, a world-renowned accountability expert, who shares his wisdom on: => The true essence of accountability and its often misunderstood meanings. => How embracing accountability can cultivate confidence, self-esteem, and personal growth. => Practical steps to identify and live by your core values, forging the path to...

Jul 05, 202350 min

Are You Too Trusting? (The Goldilocks Principle)

Join us in this thought-provoking episode as we explore the delicate balance between trust and self-preservation in relationships. In "Are You Too Trusting?", we delve into the spectrum of trust, from complete isolation due to an inability to trust, to being overly trusting and consequently being hurt or taken advantage of. Renowned expert Dr. Aziz guides us through the intricate process of finding the middle ground to foster healthy, fulfilling connections with others. With practical advice, in...

Jun 28, 202329 min

20 Tips From 20 Years Of Confidence (Part 3)

This year Dr. Aziz celebrated his 40th birthday, and 20 years of obsessively studying confidence. He continues to share his top 20 tips that he's gleaned over helping thousands of clients and students over the last two decades Join in for the final installment of these 20 tips! (part 3 of 3)

Jun 21, 202326 min

The Secret To Eliminate Embarrassment Instantly

Do you hate feeling embarrassed? Do you hate it so much that you actually avoid social situations or risks that might lead to being embarrassed? Join Dr. Aziz in this mind-blowing episode where you'll discover exactly where embarrassment comes from, and why fearing it can create an ever-shrinking cage around your life. And then discover the powerful antidote to this fear so you can be free from embarrassment forever! To take your confidence to a new level, go beyond the podcast and join Dr. Aziz...

Jun 13, 202329 min

Choose Door #3 To End Social Anxiety

Did you know that each and every day you're making a choice that either keeps you stuck in social anxiety or sets you free? In today's fun and fasinating episode, Dr. Aziz shares how you're in a room with 3 ways out. Behind door 1 and 2 there is perpetual trap that keeps you stuck. But behind door #3... your freedom awaits! To take your confidence to a new level, go beyond the podcast and join Dr. Aziz for a virtual event! His next one is called The Ultimate Confidence Breakthrough and it's happ...

Jun 06, 202327 min

Why You're Stuck (Reason #3)

In this final episode of the "stuck series" you'll discover the most hidden/sneaky pattern of all. Dr. Aziz playful and honestly illuminates a major pattern that can hinder you from owning your value, feeling confident, and creating the life you want.

May 31, 202319 min

20 Tips From 20 Years Of Confidence (Part 2)

This year Dr. Aziz celebrated his 40th birthday, and 20 years of obsessively studying confidence. He continues to share his top 20 tips that he's gleaned over helping thousands of clients and students over the last two decades This is a followup to part 1, which aired on 4/26/23. Be sure to start with that one if you haven't heard it already!

May 24, 202328 min

The Secret Reasons You Resist Being Social

Do you resist being social? Before that meeting, gathering, or even a visit with a friend, do you feel dread and a desire to not go? If so, you're doomed for life. No! Actually this is extremely common and there's nothing wrong with you. Join Dr. Aziz in this insightful episode to discover the hidden sources of this resistance and how to connect and have fun in all social experiences.

May 17, 202321 min

Why You're Stuck (Reason #2)

If you've been striving to build your confidence, you may have discovered something... it's not easy! It turns out there are many sneaky patterns that keep people stuck. After working with thousands of people over the years, Dr. Aziz has discovered some of the key patterns that keep people stuck. In this episode you'll discover the 2nd major reason you might be feeling stuck in building more confidence and social freedom.

May 10, 202318 min

The End of Scarcity with Kristen Ragusin

Do you feel more confident when you have more money? Does money mean being valuable or special or worthy? Join Dr. Aziz in this fascinating interview with financial expert and author Kristen Ragusin to take a big step back to explore what money really is and why it's so linked with our confidence and sense of self.

May 03, 20231 hr 44 min

20 Tips From 20 Years Of Confidence (Part 1)

This year Dr. Aziz celebrated his 40th birthday, and 20 years of obsessively studying confidence. In this fun and fascinating episode you'll discover key insights and practical tips that Dr. Aziz has learned from studying confidence first in himself, and then with thousands of clients and students over the last two decades.

Apr 26, 202327 min

The Conversation You Don't Want To Have Will Set You Free

What if everything you want in your life is on the other side of a conversation that you don't want to have? Join Dr. Aziz for this inspiring episode the discover exactly why oyu might want to have difficult conversations and what can happen in your life as a result.

Apr 19, 202321 min
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