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Asking for a Friend

Kara-Kae Jameskarakaejames.com
For the woman who has questions about herself, the Church, and the world, Asking for a Friend provides a safe space to engage in tough topics. Each week Kara-Kae James confronts topics we all have questions about . . . but are too afraid to ask. Join us as we break free from the status quo and engage in conversations that matter.
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78: What is a woman's role?

Many women are struggling to find their place in the church today. From misguided teachings to dangerous theology, women have been told to sit down, be quiet...or even go home. So, what is a woman's role? In this episode, I'm having a raw and honest conversation with Meghan Tschanz about women in the church and how the church has come to look very similar to the sex industry. Meghan shares her powerful story of working with exploited women, and what that means for the church. *Trigger warning --...

Apr 15, 202135 minEp. 78

77: How do I talk to my kids about hard things?

It's no secret that kids are facing grief, trauma and mental health. We don't want to shelter our kids from the hard things happening -- so how do we talk to them about hard things? In this episode, I'm chatting with Drs David & Donna Lane about how to have hard conversations with our kids about the things happening in our world and around them. They give great advice on walking through grief and trauma with our kids, and how to help kids through mental health struggles. LINKS My Dog Can't J...

Apr 08, 202128 minEp. 77

76: How do I navigate sexuality as a Christian woman?

As Christian women, the conversation around sex, singleness, and desire is a struggle. Even in marriage, it can be difficult to separate truth from the lies of purity culture. How do we navigate sexuality in a way that honors God? Kat Harris and I are chatting today on the podcast about what it looks like to live with sexual integrity as a Christian woman. Kat gives challenging advice for the woman who desires to honor God with her body – and shares powerful truth about what Jesus really had to ...

Apr 01, 202130 minEp. 76

75: How can people of mixed ethnicity find belonging?

“What are you?” Many of us will never know what it’s like to get that question. For those with multiethnic and multicultural backgrounds, finding their place can be painful, but it can also provide unique opportunities to connect with Jesus and the world around us. How can people of mixed ethnicity find belonging? Today I’m answering that question with Chandra Crane! With a Thai birth father, a European American mother, and an African American father who adopted her when she was five, Chandra’s ...

Mar 25, 202143 minEp. 75

74: How can women speak up when silenced?

If you have ever felt your voice silenced, this episode is for you. For so many women -- this is part of your story. In this episode, I'm chatting with Tiffany Bluhm, author of the book "Prey Tell: Why We Silence Women Who Tell the Truth and How Everyone Can Speak Up". We discuss how women can speak up when they feel silenced and the power of your voice in this #metoo age. In this episode, you will hear: → Why women stay silent instead of speaking out against injustice. → How to be an advocate f...

Mar 18, 202127 minEp. 74

73: How can we find purpose in pain?

When tragedy strikes, it’s easy to feel hopeless. But what if the very thing that hurts us is the thing that God wants to use? What if we allowed Him to use our pain to mold us into who He wants us to be? If you’re struggling to find the purpose in your pain, this episode is for you! I’m chatting with author Andrea Bourgeois about seeking God in the midst of the struggles we experience. Andrea shares the lessons she has learned through her own trials and powerful encouragement for using your pai...

Mar 11, 202125 minEp. 73

72: Can God use rejection for good?

We all know what it’s like to feel the sting of rejection. Whether it happened when you were a child or it happened last week, it can be difficult to put your heart back out there. Where is God in the midst of our heartache and can He really use rejection for good? Today I’m answering these hard questions with Kait Warness. Join us as Kait gives practical advice for bouncing back from rejection and reminds us that heartbreak is what makes us into who we are. LINKS Kait’s Instagram Thank You for ...

Mar 04, 202131 minEp. 72

71: What is it like as a Black woman and bridge builder?

As Black History Month comes to a close, we still have work to do. How can we continue to elevate the voices of people of color? What does it look like to authentically come alongside one another as bridge builders? This week I’m rounding out my February series with Patricia Taylor, as she shares her experience as a Black woman and bridge builder! We chat through what it looks like to be authentically yourself as a woman of color and how white people can continue to elevate the voices of BIPOC l...

Feb 25, 202130 min

70: What is it like to be a Black woman in publishing?

One of the first steps towards anti-racism is learning from the everyday experiences of people of color. This Black History Month, I’m speaking with Black women of different backgrounds and life stages, listening to their stories, and elevating their voices. Dorena Williamson and I are chatting today about her experience as a best-selling children’s author! Dorena shares the inspiration behind her writing and gives powerful encouragement for women of color aspiring to be published. We’ll also ta...

Feb 18, 202128 min

69: What is it like as a Black woman in the marketplace?

One of the first steps towards anti-racism is learning from the everyday experiences of people of color. This Black History Month, I’m speaking with Black women of different backgrounds and life stages, listening to their stories, and elevating their voices. This week, I’m chatting with Jena Holliday of a Spoonful of Faith. Jena shares her journey to becoming an illustrator (including her most recent partnership with Target!) and using her gifts to champion women from all walks of life. LINKS Sp...

Feb 11, 202126 minEp. 69

68: What is it like to be a Black woman in education?

One of the first steps towards anti-racism is learning from the everyday experiences of people of color. This Black History Month, I’m speaking with Black women of different backgrounds and life stages, listening to their stories, and elevating their voices. If you love to learn and want to feel supported on your anti-racism journey, today’s episode is for you! Join me in hearing from Lucretia Berry as she shares her experience as a Black woman in education. LINKS Stony the Road Book Brownicity ...

Feb 04, 202127 min

67: How can I study the Bible as a busy woman?

Work, family, school, church… In the midst of a busy world, making the Bible a priority can seem like one more thing on a never-ending to-do list. If you’re struggling to consistently enjoy time in God’s word, you’re not alone, and this episode is for you. Today I’m chatting with Brittany Ann about what it looks like to fall in love with God’s word. Brittany gives great encouragement for the woman who feels like she can’t get it all done, and practical advice for making a daily habit of studying...

Jan 28, 202129 min

66: Where can I find hope when I feel stuck in life?

As Christ followers, we know that Jesus is coming back to make things right. We know He’s going to restore all things. But until then, it’s easy to feel stuck, as we deal with the reality of life in a broken world. Where can we find hope? Today I’m answering that question with Kat Armstrong as she shares encouragement for all of us who find ourselves in in-between places. LINKS The In-Between Place Book Kat’s Website Kat’s Instagram Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTER Subsc...

Jan 21, 202127 min

65: How do we redeem purity culture?

If you’ve been around church for a while, you’ve likely been impacted by the messages of purity culture. Rachel Joy Welcher believes it’s time to talk back. If you are struggling with untangling God’s desire for sex, dating, and marriage from the lies of purity culture -- this episode is for you. In this episode, Rachel gives great encouragement for those who have been wounded by the Church’s definition of sexual purity, and practical advice for changing the conversation. LINKS Talking Back to P...

Jan 14, 202125 minEp. 65

64: How do I fight back against fear and anxiety?

As we kick off a new year, how do we move forward and fight back against fear and anxiety? How do we continue to show up on our darkest days? Whether you consider yourself “Queen of the New Year” or the glamour is already wearing off, this episode is for you! Today I’m chatting with Hannah Brencher, author of “Fighting Forward”, about how to establish rhythms, practice discipline, and show up for yourself January 1st and beyond. LINKS FROM THE EPISODE: Fighting Forward Book Follow me on social m...

Jan 07, 202124 minEp. 64

63: What the 2020?

Well, we did it. We made it to the end of 2020, the longest year of our lives. But it’s not all bad — there were some great things that came from 2020! In this final episode of the year, Brook and I are sitting down to chat through all the major things that impacted women, culture and the church. Plus, if you are looking for a book or twelve to read, we’ve got you covered! LINKS FROM THE EPISODE: There are tons of links this week! Head over to see the full show notes here ! Follow me on social m...

Dec 17, 202044 minEp. 63

62: How can I find comfort in suffering?

We all face seasons of suffering and hardship. In these times, we often find ourselves feeling isolated and alone in our pain. How can we find comfort and companionship when life gets dark? Today, I’m chatting with Wendy Alsup as she reintroduces us to the companions in suffering that God has given us in His word. Wendy also gives practical advice for walking alongside friends who are suffering, and encouragement for those who are currently in the thick of it. Companions in Suffering: Comfort fo...

Dec 10, 202026 minEp. 62

61: How can I calm down about parenting?

There is so much pressure on parents to do everything and be everything for their kids. How calm down and lighten up about parenting? If you feel the need to let go a bit, this episode is for you! Melanie Dale and I are chatting about how to calm down about parenting. You will be encouraged by Melanie’s joy and walk away with some great tools to calm the h*ck down! Episode 27: Can my parenting survive the apocalypse? with Melanie Dale Calm the H*ck Down Book Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM ...

Dec 03, 202029 minEp. 61

60: How should the church handle racism?

The American church still remains one of the most segregated places in the world. How should the church approach this struggle? Is there a place in the church to talk about politics? Today I’m answering these hard questions with Trillia Newbell. Join us as we approach this tough topic and give practical ways to step into this space. Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTER Subscribe to my newsletter and check out the free resources I offer! *******...

Nov 26, 202030 minEp. 60

59: Can I find joy in the holidays in 2020?

The holidays can be hard enough for many people but then throw in the chaos of 2020…yikes. Is it possible to find joy in the holidays of 2020? I’m chatting with Mary Carver about how to find joy in the holidays when it’s a struggle. We chat about holiday movies, difficult family members, and practical ways to give back. Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTER Subscribe to my newsletter and check out the free resources I offer! *******...

Nov 19, 202030 minEp. 59

58: How can I find peace in a noisy world?

The world is noisy. It’s filled with criticism, rejection, and pushback. And when you already struggle with anxiety and/or an inner critic, it feels like a road to failure. Is it possible to find peace in a noisy world? I’m answering that question with Jamie Grace as we give some really practical ways to find peace in the noise. Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTER Subscribe to my newsletter and check out the free resources I offer! *******...

Nov 12, 202034 minEp. 58

57: How can I love people I don't agree with?

When we find ourselves on the other side of an election, how can we continue to love people we don’t agree with? If you are struggling with seeing others through a lens of love this season, this episode is for you! Today I am chatting with Sarah Anderson and giving you some ways to find your place in this conversation and give grace to others. LINKS FROM THE SHOW The Single Story Narrative The Righteous Mind Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTER Subscribe to my newsletter and...

Nov 05, 202035 minEp. 57

56: Why should Christians care about politics?

The political season can be CRAZY, but can Christians find their place in politics? Should we even care? If you are struggling with all the pressure and struggles around politics, this episode is for you! Today I’m chatting with Kaitlyn Schiess, author of “The Liturgy of Politics” about how Christians can find their place in this conversation. LINKS FROM THE SHOW The Liturgy of Politics The Color of Compromise Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTER Subscribe to my newsletter a...

Oct 29, 202036 minEp. 56

55: What does it mean to be pro-life?

If you are struggling with the pull of being pro-life, but wanting to honor God, women, and culture -- this episode is for you. In this episode I'm sharing a bit of what it means for me to be pro-life, talking through the nuances of the topic, and answering a few of your hard questions. LINKS Pantsuit Politics Must Pro-Life Mean Pro-Trump? What about Abortion by Holy Post EP 30: How should the church handle abortion? Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTER Subscribe to my newsl...

Oct 22, 202022 minEp. 55

54: How is the foster system impacting youth?

If you are interested in foster care, but want to hear more about what growing up in the foster system is like, this episode is for you! In week two of our series of diving into what the foster system looks like, I’m talking with Tori Petersen. As a former foster youth, foster parent and advocate - Tori’s story will impact you deeply. LINKS FROM THE SHOW CASA Live in Grace, Walk in Love by Bob Goff Tori’s cute baby :) Follow me on social media: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTER Subscribe to my news...

Oct 15, 202038 minEp. 54

53: Can you help me understand the foster system?

Kicking off a two week series as we look deeper into foster care. This week, my dear friend Ruthie Hart who is a biological parent, adoptive parent, and foster parent is helping us understand all things surrounding foster care. We chat through what the foster system looks like for children, how you can get involved in foster care, and what the process looks like. LINKS IN THE EPISODE: Listener Survey CASA Foster Care Information (You can google for your state!) Follow me on social media: INSTAGR...

Oct 08, 202048 minEp. 53

52: What did I miss? (Part 2)

It's time for another episode of What Did I Miss? with Kara-Kae and Elizabeth! We discuss books, movies, tv shows, another things that have impacted us over the past couple of months. If you are looking for resources to help you reframe your thinking about the world, this is the perfect episode for you! LINKS FROM THE SHOW: You’ve Been Volunteered To the End of June Reconstructing the Gospel Rediscipling the White Church PURE The Liturgy of the Ordinary Honey Boy Cuties Unorthodox One of Us The ...

Oct 01, 202033 minEp. 52

51: Is justice biblical?

While justice definitely isn’t a new concept, it’s something we are seeing brought to our attention lately in the news and all around us. There has been a lot of focus on the word justice, but is it biblical? In this episode, I'm chatting with Donna Barber - Executive Director of The Voices Project and author of Bread for the Resistance. If you struggle with wondering if this conversation of justice is for you, this is a must listen! LINKS FOR THE EPISODE: Perfectly Imperfect Event The Voices Pr...

Sep 24, 202040 minEp. 51

50: What is the best way to serve those in need?

There is poverty and homelessness all around us. How can we step into the margins and what are the best ways to serve those in need? Terence Lester is joining me to discuss this incredibly important topic. He gives us some great practical advice for what it looks like to help others. Let's go serve well!

Sep 17, 202033 minEp. 50

49: How can we fight racial systems that divide us?

Is white supremacy at work in our churches? Unfortunately, YES. When we are ready to face this hard truth, then what? Today I’m chatting with Daniel Hill and how to fight the racial systems that divide us by better understanding the lies we face. Daniel shares his own path of racial awakening and how that changed his life and ministry. We break down a few of the lies we face and how to bridge the divide. LINKS FROM THE SHOW Why do all the Black kids sit together in the Cafeteria? by Dr. Beverly ...

Sep 10, 202031 minEp. 49
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