In this week's episode, Shanti shares a Holiday discount code with ATWC listeners, while Antoinette inherits clothing from her boyfriend and doesn't know how she feels about it. For our main topic, we discuss the inevitability of our parents aging and how we can begin to prepare for their decline. We explore the ways in which roles change, responsibilities shift, and the importance of having difficult conversations with our family and parents to be the most prepared. Join us... Use discount code...
Dec 12, 2024•1 hr 10 min
In this week's episode, Shanti regrets a recent hair cut from her mom while Antoinette recalls her 3 day Thanksgiving marathon and baking success. For politics, we share our thoughts about Biden pardoning his son and the recent murder of United Healthcare's CEO. For pop culture, we rate Kendrick Lamar's new album GNX, his coming tour with SZA, and Drake suing Universal Music. Lastly, we comment on the situation between Andrew Schultz's and his controversy with Kendrick Lamar. Join us... Bellesa ...
Dec 09, 2024•2 hr 13 min
In this week's episode, Shanti recalls the magic of mattresses on the floor while Antoinette urges the collective to enjoy the beauty and bounty of broccoli sprouts. For our main topic, we keep it light-hearted and dive into our favorite movies and TV shows. We banter about which TV series we want to see return and what movie/show we think ended perfectly. Join us... Contact Us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive vi...
Dec 05, 2024•1 hr 11 min
Due to the holiday, we didn't record last week, so we will return to current events next week. For now, please enjoy this heartfelt episode in which we explore the concept of community. In this week's conversation, we explore the concept of community. We explore what it means to really seek support within our communities, moving beyond superficial connections to foster deeper relationships based on shared values and mutual aid. We acknowledge our personal challenges of unraveling our own fears o...
Dec 02, 2024•1 hr 1 min
In this episode, Shanti is fearful of the warm weather while Antoinette apologizes for her past biracial blasphemy. Together, we discuss the ever unfolding downfall of Matt Gaetz and share who our nominations would be if we were President. For pop culture, we critique John Stamos' support for Dave Coulier during his cancer battle and the title that GQ gave Katt Williams for his impact on the year. The conversation shifts to the recent engagement between Megan Good and Jonathan Majors and share o...
Nov 25, 2024•1 hr 11 min
In this week's episode, we explore our relationship with fear and anxiety. We ask ourselves "what are we most afraid of?" Together we discuss the crippling nature of anxiety, the importance of rest, and how fear can serve as a tool for growth. We discuss how discomfort can lead to deeper connections and our own personal challenges of maintaining faith amidst suffering and injustice. The dialogue delves into the dynamics of how communities can be shaped by fear and the implications of tribalism i...
Nov 21, 2024•59 min
In this episode, Shanti falls deeper into the new television series 'The Penguin', while Antoinette reminds herself there is no place like home. For politics, we talk about the governments history with aliens, the current political landscape dominated by Republicans, and the controversies surrounding Trump's cabinet nominations. Antoinette tries to share how our personal pockets may be affected by Trump's proposed tariffs and their impact on inflation, as well as the potential consequences of ma...
Nov 18, 2024•1 hr 41 min
For this episode, we keep our updates very brief as we save time to be in conversation with the brilliant Ki of "Kickin It with Ki". In this conversation, we explore the themes of mindfulness, community wellness, and the importance of rest, particularly for Black women. We discuss the challenges of managing emotions and grief in a politically charged environment. Ki offers practical steps for letting go and surrendering and guides us all with a meditation we hope you engage with as you listen. J...
Nov 14, 2024•1 hr 15 min
We reflect on the aftermath of the recent election, discussing the implications of Trump's victory and the emotional turmoil it has caused. We explore the concept of the 'red mirage' in election results, the role of women and the Latino vote in politics, and the feelings of grief and fear that have emerged. The discussion emphasizes the importance of rest and reflection amidst uncertainty, while also analyzing Kamala Harris's campaign and the disconnect between voter concerns and policy. Ultimat...
Nov 07, 2024•43 min
In this week's episode, we discuss our Halloween (or lack thereof) as adults. Shanti reviews Tyler the Creator's new album Chromokopia and Antoinette shares a new documentary to watch. Together we delve into Trump's rally in Madison Square Garden and the implications of media bias. As election day approaches, Antoinette expresses optimism about voter turnout and the potential for change. For pop culture, Shanti is inspired by the recent break up of Zoe Kravitz and Channing Tatum and shares which...
Nov 04, 2024•1 hr 55 min
In this week's episode, Antoinette and Shanti explore the complexities of motherhood, the guilt associated with seeking joy, and the importance of vulnerability in parenting. We share a heartwarming story about a man who found purpose in helping dogs while recovering from addiction, and we discuss the challenges of supporting children through their identity explorations. This week is focused on listener voicemails. The conversation touches on listener feedback regarding political discussions and...
Oct 31, 2024•1 hr
For this week's episode, Shanti returns from her trip to Mexico City, highlighting the vibrant culture and her desire to learn Spanish, while Antoinette opens up about her continued struggles with job searching and burnout. For pop culture, Antoinette feels frustrated by the imbalanced expectations of Kamala Harris versus Donald Trump and we are both delighted by the legal troubles of Rudy Giuliani. We dive into the harrowing case of Gisele Picole and how seemingly 'perfect' men can be involved ...
Oct 28, 2024•1 hr 27 min
In this episode, Antoinette and Shanti explore the complexities of offering care that is masked control. Shanti guides us through three main topics: No one is completely selfless, why we control, & what's at risk if we lose control. The conversation challenges what we know to be care and invites us to reflect on our true intentions and reason for them. Join us. Contact Us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive vide...
Oct 24, 2024•1 hr 1 min
This week, Antoinette updates us on her birthday and thanks the listeners for showing her love while Shanti fills us in on her weekend with Stevie Wonder. We have a check-in on how we're feeling about the upcoming election and discuss the current backlash for President Obama by exploring the nuances of political identity and voter expectations, particularly concerning Kamala Harris and the Democratic party's approach to Black voters. Finally, per a listener's request, we attempt to discuss Safar...
Oct 21, 2024•1 hr 20 min
In this episode, Shanti feels the pressure build as she prepares for high-school selections for her daughter while Antoinette deals with her pet parenthood challenges. Together, we listen to a voicemail that requests a bit more accountability from both of us beyond the "claim of victimhood". For our main topic, we discuss the addictive nature of tumultuous relationships and how childhood experiences shape adult relationships. We discuss the addictive nature of these relationships, the importance...
Oct 17, 2024•1 hr 23 min
In this week's episode, Shanti discovers the world of young professionals at a recent Tech conference while Antoinette finally shares Bae with the world. For politics, we discuss Hurricane Milton's impact, the challenges FEMA and Congress faced in providing adequate funding, and the ethical implications of price gouging during crises. For pop- culture, we dive into J-Cole's recent song "Port Antonio". We discuss Drake's rant on having "fake friends", whether Kendrick's strategy was a money/fame ...
Oct 14, 2024•1 hr 36 min
In today's episode, Shanti shares a deep, dark secret while Antoinette is delighted to be reminded of a song she forgot about. After listening to listener voicemails, we discuss friendship. We are inspired to explore friendships after listening to a thoughtful conversation about friendship between Trevor Noah + Simon Sinek. What does it mean to be a good friend? How do we make new friends as adults? We reflect on our own experiences with friendships, the challenges of maintaining relationships a...
Oct 10, 2024•57 min
In this week's episode, Antoinette feels the heavy weight of life on her shoulders as she does her best to keep her head above water while Shanti pushes through on business projects. Together we discuss the recent Vice Presidential debate, the legacy of John Amos, and the controversial claims made by Jaguar Wright regarding the music industry including allegations against Jay-Z and Beyonce. Join us. Contact Us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/a...
Oct 07, 2024•1 hr 35 min
In this week's episode, Shanti prepares for high school applications while Antoinette masters the art of roasting chicken. After listening to voice mails, we are joined by very special guest, adrienne maree brown. In this conversation, adrienne discusses her new book, 'Loving Corrections. Together we explore themes of offering and receiving loving correction within interpersonal relationships and the greater collective. The discussion touches on the balance between revolutionary and reformist ap...
Oct 03, 2024•1 hr 45 min
In this episode, Shanti connects her recent emotional sensitivity to her fitness journey while Antoinette recounts seeing Jazmine Sullivan and Maxwell at the Serenade Tour. For politics, they briefly touch on Israel's expansion into Lebanon, discuss the murder of Marcellus Khaliifah Williams, and explore the moral dilemmas surrounding the death penalty in the United States. The dialogue shifts to Cardi B & Offset's recent social media crash out, the indictment of New York City Mayor Eric Ada...
Sep 30, 2024•1 hr 36 min
In this episode, Shanti struggles with motherhood and the infamous "I told you so" while Antoinette juggles her love life and dog "motherhood". For the main topic, we revisit the recent controversy surrounding the Shxngigs podcast and attempt to uncover "the perfect apology". We discuss the importance of accountability and authenticity in apologies and the complexities of navigating humor, especially in the context of race and gender, and offer strategies for responding to offensive jokes. Join ...
Sep 26, 2024•1 hr 3 min
In this episode, Shanti finds deep satisfaction in discovering a new cleaning product while Antoinette encourages us to walk more to live longer. For politics, we offer love and light to Amber Thurman who recently died unnecessarily due to abortion laws in GA and we share our thoughts and fears on the recent conflicts between Israel and Hezbollah. We return to the conversation about immigration and how the recent racist tropes about Haitins may reveal a time-old story about race and class in Ame...
Sep 23, 2024•1 hr 34 min
In this week's episode, Shanti plans a trip while Antoinette welcomes back her goddaughter pup, JoI. For our main topic, we reflect on how we lost ourselves in past love relationships. We delve into the importance of self-awareness and how we are conditioned to acquiesce in imbalanced relationship dynamics as women. We offer insight into the importance of maintaining one's identity and the significance of community and self-love to keep us grounded and honest. Join us... Contact Us: Hotline: (21...
Sep 19, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this week's conversation, we welcome back Salaah Muhammad, community organizer, social justice advocate, political strategist and current Organizing Director for the Working Families Party, leading statewide organizing efforts in Pennsylvania. Together we discuss the recent debate between Kamala Harris and Donald Trump. We delve into the performances of both candidates, highlighting Harris's surgical approach and Trump's outrageous statements. The discussion covers the implications of the deb...
Sep 16, 2024•1 hr 40 min
In this episode, Shanti considers starting martial arts classes while Antoinette shares her growing attraction to a popular character on "Breaking Bad". We respond to a voicemail from a listener about feeling dismissed or overwhelmed by well-intentioned encouragement. For our main topic, we discuss being a "people pleaser" and how we each express it differently. We explore the trauma-based causes of betraying ourselves for the benefit of others and how we can begin to notice and change those pat...
Sep 12, 2024•1 hr 12 min
In this episode, Shanti and Antoinette discuss the tragic school shooting in Georgia including trying the 14-year-old shooter as an adult and a continued need for gun measures. The conversation then shifts to the new Netflix film 'The Deliverance' by Lee Daniels where Antoinette basically brings him up on charges. Does Lee Daniels deserve criticism for his continued use of stereotypical tropes lacking depth in the storytelling? Or are we just snobs? Join us... Contact Us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780...
Sep 09, 2024•1 hr 36 min
In this episode, Antoinette shares her recent date night in a questionable neighborhood, while Shanti reconsiders the power of affirmations by watching a television series about successful athletes. For politics, we discuss Trump's recent spiraling behavior and the speeches by the Obamas at the Democratic National Convention. We delve into Vice President Kamala's stance on the border, fracking, and Israel and address the recent division between Black and Arab communities within the pro-Palestini...
Sep 05, 2024•1 hr 20 min
We are back! In this week's episode, we discuss our return to recording after a break, our personal experiences over the summer, and the very important inter-relational work we have been doing with our business coach. We highlight the challenges and growth we have experienced in our friendship and business partnership and the need for open communication and self-correction. We share a breakthrough in learning to provide relief before correction. We explore the dynamics of correction without puni...
Sep 02, 2024•1 hr 13 min
Shanti was busy prepping for The Roots Picnic so Antoinette enlisted the help of POD GAWD, King Crissle West. Together, they chop it up and discuss: SPORTS (NOT SHORTS), public outrage with Target for their recent Pride collection, slaves apparently missing from The Little Mermaid , Orcas conspiring & teaming up to jump boats off the coast of Spain, biracials overcompensating, and problematic pop psychology. Join us Follow Crissle IG: @crissle & @theread Twitter: @crissles Website: https...
Aug 26, 2024•2 hr 12 min
In this week's episode, Shanti mentally spirals as her birthday nears while Antoinette recounts bearing witness to Sir. Marvelous's care and sexual healing at a sex club. For politics as usual, Antoinette explains the New York Survivors Act and the misconceptions around sexual misconduct civil suits. For pop culture, we share our thoughts on Beyonce's Renaissance movie premiere look & the claims that she "wants to be white", Mama TIna's defense of her daughter, and the newly emerged details ...
Aug 22, 2024•1 hr 25 min
