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Anatomy of Us

Anatomy of Uswww.anatomyofus.com
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Episodes

How to Be an Amazing Dad with Bryan Ward

Today we call up Bryan Ward of the Dad Up Podcast and talk about what it takes to show up fully for your kiddos! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband...

Aug 02, 20231 hr 9 min

Own Your Past Change Your Future with Dr. John Delony

Today we called up our friend Dr. John Delony and talked about his brand new book Own Your Past Change Your Future. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husb...

Jul 26, 20231 hr

Marriage and the Enneagram with Beth and Jeff McCord

Today we explore the Enneagram with the awesome Beth and Jeff McCord of Your Enneagram Coach. We talk about the impact that understanding the Enneagram has on your relationships, and how it is a tool for building compassion and empathy. Seth also shares his journey with discovering his own 9-ness and what that means in our marriage. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anato...

Jul 20, 202350 min

Seth Comes Clean!

Today Seth shares the ways that he hasn't been stepping up to the plate in marriage in hopes that it will help husbands become stronger leaders and men. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-g...

Jul 12, 20231 hr 8 min

Narcissistic Behavior And Emotional Abuse in Marriage with Dr. David Hawkins

Today we talk with Dr. David Hawkins of Marriage Recover Center about all things Narcissism & Emotional Abuse! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husba...

Jul 05, 202353 min

Spiritual Warfare and Marriage Continued!

Seth and Melanie talk in more detail about the impact of Spiritual Warfare in marriage, and they share tools to fight against it! Download the Power Couple List: https://anatomyofus.com/resources LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? ...

Jun 28, 20231 hr 8 min

How Can We Bring Back the Spark? (Patreon-Exclusive Teaser)

Today we answer a listener's question about how to rekindle the sexual flame in marriage! To listen to the full episode, subscribe on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: http...

Jun 23, 20237 min

Trauma Rewired with Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof

Today Melanie discusses all things Nervous System with Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof of the Trauma Rewired Podcast! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Ba...

Jun 21, 20231 hr 16 min

HELP! My Husband Has Stopped Touching Me! (Patreon-Exclusive Teaser)

Today we answer a listener's question about what to do when your partner stops touching you as much as they used to. To listen to the full episode, subscribe on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Grou...

Jun 16, 20236 min

Fierce Empathy with David Waldy

Today we talk with David Waldy about the power of Fierce Empathy and the transformation that can take place in your life when you lean into growth and discomfort for the sake of health. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now:...

Jun 14, 20231 hr 15 min

HELP! Our kids are KILLING our Sex Life! (Patreon-Exclusive Teaser)

Today we help listeners find ways to reconnect sexually after kids enter the picture! To listen to the full episode, subscribe on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://...

Jun 09, 20237 min

A Slob Comes Clean with Dana K White

Today Melanie talks with Dana K White of "A Slob Comes Clean" about her amazing declutter concepts and tools. LINKS: A Slob Comes Clean: https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/book/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyof...

Jun 07, 20231 hr 3 min

Sex and the Nervous System (Patreon-Exclusive Teaser)

Today we talk about the impact of the nervous system on sexual intimacy and the ability to be physically close to your partner. To listen to the full episode, subscribe on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in W...

Jun 02, 20236 min

Spiritual Warfare and Marriage

Melanie shares why she is so passionate about understanding the impact of spiritual warfare on marriage, and what she and Seth are doing to protect their relationship and family from harm. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply N...

May 31, 202351 min

Vision Casting Your Dream Sex Life! (Patreon-Exclusive Teaser)

Today we talk about how to create a beautiful and healthy vision of your dream sex life with your partner. To listen to the full episode, subscribe on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching...

May 26, 20236 min

Movement, Motion, and Marriage!

Today we talk with Rafe Kelley of evolvemoveplay.com about the power of movement and motion in our lives and marriages. LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? App...

May 24, 20231 hr 31 min

Secrets of Sex & Marriage with Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Sytsma

Today we talk with Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Sytsma about their new book, Secrets of Sex & Marriage. LINKS: https://secretsofsexandmarriage.com/ Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women'...

May 19, 20231 hr 6 min

How to Fight and WIN in Your Marriage!

Do you want to have an AMAZING MARRIAGE? Well, today we share what it takes to fight and win in your marriage! LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: h...

May 17, 20231 hr 11 min

Enneagram Savvy with Kay Davis

In our VERY FIRST Women's Group Coaching bonus episode, Kaylena Davis shares her passion and knowledge of the Enneagram! Watch the full session when you join Women's Group Coaching! womensgroupcoaching.com LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp ...

May 14, 202323 min

Can Play Save Your Sex Life? (Patreon-Exclusive Teaser)

Today Seth and Melanie talk about the power of play to rekindle an amazing sex life! To listen to the full episode, subscribe on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://a...

May 12, 20235 min

You Don't Have to Do That! with Author Marc Scott

Today we interview Marc Scott, author of the book "You Don't Have to do That! Moving past what is wrong with religion to embrace what is right with Jesus." He shares what he learned as both a former Pastor and now an educator in the school systems to help people understand the complexity of religion and the power of a deeper walk with Christ. LINKS: Marc Scott's book: https://outskirtspress.com/youdonthavetodothat Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://a...

May 10, 202358 min

How Do I Ask My Wife to Help Me Masturbate? (Patreon Exclusive)

Today we answer a listener's question about how to ask your partner to help you satisfy your needs. To listen to the full episode, subscribe on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply...

May 05, 20237 min

Implant and Explant Listener Q&A

Today we answer YOUR questions about breast implants and explants! LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching...

May 03, 202343 min

Implants, Explants, and Marriage

Today Seth and Melanie discuss the details of breast implants, explants, and how they can impact a marriage. They also discuss Breast Implant Illness, of BII, and what that looked like for Melanie. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching...

Apr 28, 202358 min

My Breast Implant and Explant Journey!

Today Melanie shares her full breast implant and explant journey! Did she like them when she had them? Does she regret getting them? What was the explant surgery like? Did she get a lift? Listen to find out! LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcam...

Apr 26, 202359 min

The Destruction of Sexual Othering (Patreon Exclusive)

Today Melanie talks about the destructive pattern of "sexual othering" that couples do in marriage. To listen to the full episode, subscribe on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply...

Apr 21, 20236 min

How to Win Back Your Wife!

Today we answer a listener's question that we receive from husbands on the daily. . . how do I win back my wife?! LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now...

Apr 19, 20231 hr 15 min

The Power of Co-Regulation

Today we talk about how to help you, your partner, and your family through the powerful idea of co-regulation! LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: h...

Apr 12, 202358 min

Easter, Jesus, Marriage, and You Can do ANYTHING!

Seth talks about a really powerful experience at church 10 years ago with Melanie, how they both cried on stage, what it takes to change your marriage, and a powerful pep talk that will get you going! LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Cours...

Apr 09, 202335 min

Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner!

Today we talk with Larry Hagner of the Dad Edge Podcast about our upcoming Power Couple Summit in Orlando Florida July 28th and 29th. LINKS: Power Couple Summit with Larry Hagner: https://powercouplesummit2023.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group...

Apr 05, 20231 hr
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