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Anatomy of Us

Anatomy of Uswww.anatomyofus.com
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Episodes

My Husband Makes Me Feel TERRIBLE When I Deny Him Sex!

Today we answer a listener's question about what to do when your partner punishes you emotionally when you decline intimacy. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Ba...

Mar 31, 202333 min

Love May be Unconditional, but Relationships Certainly Aren't!

Today we talk about the TRUE FACT that relationships are NOT unconditional! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Downlo...

Mar 29, 202357 min

How to Balance Hobbies Without Ruining Your Marriage

Today we answer a listener's question about how to balance new hobbies without ruining your marriage! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind...

Mar 22, 202338 min

My Husband HATES IT When I Express My Feelings

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner HATES your feelings!! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources ...

Mar 15, 202334 min

Hypnotherapy with Salta Jones

Today we talk all about Hypnotherapy with the AMAZING Salta Jones! Salta has been our friend for years and has provided transformative Hypnotherapy services for us, and even did sessions with one of our kiddos! You can learn more about Salta and her hypnotherapy services when you visit hypnotherapy-for-change.com and be sure to tell her that Anatomy of Us sent you!! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-pl...

Mar 09, 20231 hr 32 min

What REALLY Turns Women On!?

Today we discuss what REALLY turns women on! And guys, it's NOT what you think it is! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section...

Mar 03, 202351 min

The Tipi Poles of a Great Marriage

Today we talk about a powerful analogy for marriage: tipi poles! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anato...

Feb 22, 202359 min

Anatomy of Redemption: Ep 5: Back to God!

In the final episode of our mini-series, Anatomy of Redemption, we share where we are now; we explore how we have healed since Mars Hill Church fell apart and talk about what our journey back to church, faith, and most importantly, God has looked like! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? App...

Feb 15, 20231 hr 3 min

Sexy Couples Apps with Dan Purcell!

Today we celebrate Valentine's Day with a special interview with Dan Purcell all about his SEXY COUPLES APPS! Visit getyourmarriageon.com to learn more about Intimately Us and Just Between Us! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join S...

Feb 14, 202356 min

Anatomy of Redemption: Ep 4: What Now?

In the fourth episode of our mini-series, Anatomy of Redemption, we share our experience of the months and years following the dissolution of Mars Hill Church. We talk about unexpected challenges, conflicting feelings about finding another church family, and so much more. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's...

Feb 08, 202346 min

Anatomy of Redemption: Ep 3: What is Going On?

In the third episode of our mini-series, Anatomy of Redemption, we talk about the deep conflict and confusion we felt as Mars Hill began to come apart at the seams. We share the inner turmoil of having to choose to leave our beloved community or stay under a teacher who was clearly unhealthy and unreachable. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.c...

Feb 01, 20231 hr 31 min

I Was a Virgin When We Got Married and I Don't Know if I'm Doing Sex Right!

Today we answer a listener's question about sex and intimacy in marriage when you are starting out as a virgin! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structur...

Jan 27, 202325 min

Anatomy of Redemption: Ep 2: A Community Built on Faith

In the second episode of our mini-series, Anatomy of Redemption, we discuss what our Mars Hill Church community meant to us, what it looked like, and how it functioned in the larger picture of our life and family. Everything from community groups to leading worship on Sundays with Dustin Kensrue. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobas...

Jan 25, 202348 min

Anatomy of Redemption: Ep 1: Discovering Mars Hill

In this first episode of our mini-series, Anatomy of Redemption, we discuss our individual experiences with church, religion, and faith, and share the journey of discovering Mars Hill Church in its early days. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-grou...

Jan 18, 20231 hr 1 min

The Power Couple Planner!

Today, we talk about the Power Couple Planner and how systems and structure in marriage will TRANSFORM your relationship! LINKS: Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download...

Jan 11, 202359 min

God & Alcohol with Ryan Michler

Today we talk with the AMAZING Ryan Michler of The Order Of Man Podcast about his take on God and alcohol. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ H...

Jan 04, 20231 hr

The Appearance of Power with Tanner Guzy

Today we talk with Tanner Guzy, Men's Image and Branding Coach, about what your style choices say about you! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/...

Dec 28, 20221 hr

Money, Money, and FOO with Ramit Sethi

Today we have the honor of speaking with bestselling author, Ramit Sethi, about the impact that your FOO has on your finances! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://ww...

Dec 21, 20221 hr 11 min

The Nurtured Heart Approach with Dan Peterson

Today we talk with Dan Peterson about The Nurtured Heart Approach to Parenting. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ High-Performance Coaching: h...

Dec 14, 20221 hr

This is How Your Marriage Ends with Matthew Fray

Today we talk to the AMAZING Matthew Fray about his relationship-changing book "This is How Your Marriage Ends." LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus....

Dec 07, 20221 hr 5 min

HELP! We've Only Had Sex 3 Times in the Last 4 Years!

Today we answer a listener's question about what to do when you and your spouse have hit a VERY dry season in the bedroom. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.an...

Dec 02, 202241 min

Don't Let Your FOO Define You!

Today we continue FOOvember with an episode about honoring your Family of Origin, but not letting it define you or stop you from growing into the person you want to be. Get 15% off the Back to Basics Bootcamp, November only with code FOO at checkout! https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anat...

Nov 30, 202249 min

You're Crazy, Please Pass the Gravy!

Today we continue FOOvember with an episode about differentiation of self and give five tips for how to manage the crazy at family dinners this holiday season. Get 15% off the Back to Basics Bootcamp, November only with code FOO at checkout! https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.c...

Nov 23, 202248 min

Have You Been Triangulated?

Today we talk about the power of Triangulation. We explain what it is, why it matters, and what to do about it! Get 15% off the Back to Basics Bootcamp, November only with code FOO at checkout! https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husb...

Nov 16, 20221 hr 2 min

What My Family Tree Says About Me

Today we continue FOOvember with an episode all about Genograms and the Family Tree! Make sure to watch this one on Youtube because Seth actually shows you how to create your own Genogram! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download...

Nov 09, 202251 min

Relationships First! with Emily Frisella

Today we talk with the AMAZING Emily Frisella! Remember to share the episode on your Instagram and tag Emily and us for your chance to win a copy of Emily's new book! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structur...

Nov 05, 202254 min

Bringing Back the FOO!

We're bringing back for the second year in a row - FOOvember! FOO stands for Family or Origin, which is the family one grew up in, as opposed to the people one currently lives with. This is where a person learns how to communicate, process emotions, and get needs met. We'll be spending the whole month of November working through different Family of Origin topics to prepare us for the holiday season! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics ...

Nov 02, 202250 min

Loving Your Husband by Sharing Your Body

Today Melanie talks about the love and power that women can offer their husbands by sharing their bodies. . . yeah, she went there! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ Get weekly Anatomy of Sex episodes: https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structu...

Oct 28, 202246 min

My Husband has a Drinking Problem and it Makes me Disgusted!

Today we answer a listener's question about what to do when your spouse's drinking problem is causing you to dislike them! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.an...

Oct 26, 202250 min

How to Be an AMAZING Dad with Bryan Ward

Today we call up Bryan Ward of the Dad Up Podcast and talk about what it takes to show up fully for your kiddos! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus....

Oct 19, 20221 hr 10 min
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