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Anatomy of Us

Anatomy of Uswww.anatomyofus.com
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Episodes

Leadership in the Studley Home

Today we discuss some recent revelations and changes we've implemented into how our own household functions and shifts in leadership roles! LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section ...

Oct 12, 202242 min

How NOT to be a Zombie Dad with Larry Hagner

Today we talk with Larry Hagner, founder, and host of Dad Edge, about how to be an amazing dad! LINKS: https://thedadedge.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anato...

Oct 05, 20221 hr 1 min

What No Sex in a Marriage Means

Today we talk about the many MANY things that can lead to a sexless marriage. We also explore ways to get unstuck and heal from the pattern. LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ Get weekly Anatomy of Sex episodes: https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearin...

Sep 30, 20221 hr 6 min

Healing a Traumatic Brain Injury with Errol Doebler

Today we talk with the AMAZING Errol Doebler about healing from his traumatic brain injury as well as how cold exposure and meditation literally saved his life! Get 20% off the Leader 193 Online Academy using code LEADER193 at https://leader193.com/online-academy/ LINKS: https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-grou...

Sep 28, 20221 hr 19 min

Women's Group Coaching!

Today Seth and I talk about the very first Women's Group Coaching retreat and why you NEED to join! LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Per...

Sep 21, 202238 min

The Masculine in Relationship with GS Youngblood

Today we talk with author GS Youngblood about his book The Masculine in Relationship. LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coach...

Sep 14, 20221 hr 18 min

Re-learning What I Already Knew!

Today I (Seth) go solo revisiting an episode I have had to re-learn recently about adult attachment disorder and more! LINKS: Listen to the o.g. attachment disorder episode: https://anatomyofmarriage.libsyn.com/adult-attachment-disorder Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structur...

Sep 07, 202239 min

Connected to Goodness with David Meltzer

Today we talk with the AMAZING David Meltzer about his personal journey into deeper self-knowing, and he shares about his awesome book Connected to Goodness. LINKS: Email David Meltzer: david@davidmeltzer.com Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section a...

Aug 31, 202226 min

How Can I Forgive My Husband for Past Hookups and Porn Addiction?

Today we answer a listener's question about how to heal from the wounds of past hookups and porn addiction. LINKS: Get more Anatomy of Sex: https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ ...

Aug 26, 202232 min

My Husband Had TWO Cyber Affairs. How do we Move Forward?

Today we answer a listener's question about what to do when a spouse has been unfaithful online. LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Perfor...

Aug 24, 202239 min

I Want a Partnership NOT a Dictatorship!

Today we answer a listener's question about what to do when your partner doesn't want to work together. LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High...

Aug 17, 202255 min

I Need to Make Her Orgasm Every Time!

Today we discuss an issue that came up at the Men's Badass Husband Mastermind retreat - men wanting their wives to orgasm every time. LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www....

Aug 12, 202233 min

Help! I'm Afraid of my Wife!

Today we talk about what to do if you are afraid of your wife! And wives. . . we tell you how NOT to be scary anymore! LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/a...

Aug 10, 202244 min

Weaponizing Family of Origin

Today we share how we were both unintentionally weaponizing elements of our Family of Origin. LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performan...

Aug 03, 20221 hr

What the Hell are we Fighting About?!

In today's episode, we experience an Anatomy of Us first: Seth stopped our podcast mid-recording because he was upset, but as you guessed, we turned it around and didn't waste this opportunity to figure out what the hell was going on! LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Str...

Jul 27, 202247 min

Admired, Trusted, Accepted, Respected: What Men Desire From Women

Today we dive deeper into what men desire from women and how women can step up their game to get more of what they want from their men! LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://ww...

Jul 06, 202251 min

Dirty Talk with Dan Purcell

Today we are sharing a conversation between Melanie and Dan Purcell all about Sexy Stories aka dirty talk! LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus H...

Jun 29, 202247 min

Manifesting in Marriage

Today we discuss the idea of manifesting in your marriage! What does it look like, how do you do it, why do we make Vision Boards, and so much more! LINKS: Get the new Back to Basics Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtobasics Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.co...

Jun 22, 20221 hr 23 min

We Have a New Course!

We have launched a new course called the Back to Basics Bootcamp available now! This is a crash course on resolving the most common issues marriages run into and getting to the core of where that conflict comes from. Hint! Hint! It's most likely from your Family of Origin differences and Unspoken Expectations! Grab the workbook and work through these to clarify these differences to heal and grow your relationship. Get Back to the Basics in our new Bootcamp Course: https://anatomyofus.com/backtob...

Jun 17, 20226 min

What We Get Wrong About the Needs of Men

Today we take a deep and emotional dive into how women get it wrong when it comes to the needs of men. We also explore how we can change this as women and as a society. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coa...

Jun 15, 20221 hr 11 min

How Your Friends Impact Your Marriage

Today we talk about the impact that friends have on your relationships. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/u...

Jun 08, 202249 min

What Men are Longing For

Today we take a deep dive into what men are longing for in relationships. WARNING: Explicit language and subject matter. Do not listen with young kids! Join Patreon for last week's episode! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/...

Jun 03, 202252 min

How to Talk to Your Wife (Part 2)

Today we continue the conversation about how to talk to your wife. We share things that get in the way and what to do about them. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching...

Jun 01, 202224 min

How to Talk to Your Wife (Part 1)

Today we answer a listener's question about how to talk to your wife. We share things that get in the way and what to do about them. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coach...

May 25, 202251 min

Men and Leadership

Today we dive into what it means to be a leader as a man and a husband, as well as what you can do to be a better leader to yourself your wife, and your family. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: h...

May 18, 202254 min

Men, Marriage, and Mating, Oh My!

This month, we're flipping the script and asking the men what are their hold-ups when it comes to sex and intimacy! On today's episode, we answer a few questions about what to do with a menopausal wife who may not be that interested right now, among others! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus...

May 11, 202251 min

Men And Purpose

Seth goes solo today talking about Men's PURPOSE and explains how if we have no overall purpose in our lives and marriages then we will ALWAYS be in the struggle. It's the PURPOSE that moves us, drives us forward, and keeps us on track. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomy...

May 04, 202233 min

Foreplay Saves Your Vag!

Today we help a listener understand the vag-saving beauty of foreplay! We also talk about the fact that foreplay is NOT about touching and kissing. You (and your vag) are gonna love it! WARNING: Explicit language and subject matter. Do not listen with young kids! Join Patreon for last week's episode! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com D...

Apr 29, 202254 min

What's Wrong with Me? I Cheated on my Husband Twice!

Today we answer a listener's question about her pattern of infidelity, and y'all. . . we get SERIOUS! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor...

Apr 27, 202244 min

My Husband Cheated, but I want to Make it Work!

Today we answer a listener's question about her husband has cheated, but she wants to make it work. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor v...

Apr 20, 202238 min
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