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Anatomy of Us

Anatomy of Uswww.anatomyofus.com
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Episodes

How do I get my Cheating Husband to be Honest?

Today we answer a listener's question about how to get your husband to be honest after he has cheated, and y'all, we have a LOT TO SAY! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/co...

Apr 13, 202243 min

I Think My Fiancé is Cheating!

We kick off "April is For Fools" month with a listener question asking what she should do if her fiance is acting sus and has a history of emotional affairs. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: http...

Apr 06, 202232 min

Why Women Become Uncomfortable with Intimacy

WARNING: Explicit language and subject matter. Do not listen with young kids! Today we cover a crowd-sourced question. We asked YOU all, what makes you (specifically women) uncomfortable with sex and intimacy. We'll continue this conversation in Patreon next week! Join Patreon for Part 2! https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the ...

Apr 01, 20221 hr 6 min

My Husband Doesn't Know How to be a Husband

Today we answer a listener question about a husband that expressed that he doesn't know what it means to be a husband and his jobs, duties, and roles. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://ana...

Mar 30, 202236 min

Kill Your Mood Killers!

Today we talk about mood killers, those pesky thoughts that take away that 'old-fashioned feeling.' But we do more than just talk, we also give you a FREE downloadable PDF to help you Kill Your Mood Killers! Download Here: https://anatomyofus.com/killyourmoodkillers LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.an...

Mar 25, 202233 min

My Husband Doesn't Listen to Me!

Today we answer a listener question about a husband that openly admits that he DOESN'T LISTEN! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's Badass Husband Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit ...

Mar 23, 202227 min

Own Your Past Change Your Future with John Delony!

Today we called up our friend Dr. John Delony and talked about his brand new book Own Your Past Change Your Future. LINKS: johndelony.com Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a...

Mar 16, 20221 hr 1 min

Encanto Pt. 2: Melanie Was Wrong!

Today we continue exploring the concepts portrayed in Encanto after our producer, Reva, called out Melanie for being wrong about her self-analysis! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/c...

Mar 09, 202245 min

Encanto Through the Lens of a Family Therapy

Today we explore the concepts and ideas found in the new hit movie Encanto through the eyes of a Family Therapist! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counsel...

Mar 02, 20221 hr 8 min

Oral Sex: What we get wrong, what we get right, and why it Matters!

WARNING: Explicit language and subject matter. Do not listen with young kids! Today we talk about the power of Oral Sex within a marriage relationship. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.c...

Feb 25, 202251 min

Finding Your Inner Goddess

Today we explore what it means for women to find their inner goddess, and how that inner work can transform their entire community! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find ...

Feb 23, 20221 hr 1 min

The Crisis of Devaluing a Woman's Work

Today we dig into the enormous negative impact it has on families and society when we devalue the work of women. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor...

Feb 16, 202247 min

Seth Wants You to Join Women's Group Coaching

Seth sends a special message calling all women to join Melanie's new Women's Group Coaching community! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit htt...

Feb 10, 202213 min

Women's Intuition

Today we explore the often untalked-about intuition women have and how ignoring it might be destroying our marriages and families! LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a...

Feb 09, 202256 min

Explant Surgery, Another Boob Job. . . What do we Do?!

Bonus Episode! We've mentioned this story before but decided to do a whole episode on the issue we had in December with Melanie's breast augmentation rupturing. This, along with us reading "12 Rules for Life" led to us realizing we need to have these real conversations in real-time to avoid future problems. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Download the Clearing Structure in the Reso...

Feb 05, 202240 min

Where to Start with Lifestyle Design

Today we answer a listener question about how to start the Lifestyle Design journey. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com...

Feb 03, 202232 min

My Husband has Blue Balls and I Hate Myself for It!

Today we answer a listener's question about low self-esteem and differences in stamina having effects on their love life. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Apply Now: https://anatomyofus.com/womens-group-coaching Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual ...

Feb 02, 202227 min

Why Don't We Say What We Really Mean?

Today we take a deep dive into the complexities of communication and ask ourselves why most people don't voice their thoughts as much as they think they do. LINKS: Interested in Women's Group Coaching? Sign Up Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visi...

Jan 27, 202257 min

Lifestyle Design: Creating a Life You Love!

Today we talk about the practical elements of lifestyle design; everything from discovering what you actually want to do, to figuring out the steps to get you there! LINKS: Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us Learn more...

Jan 19, 20221 hr 22 min

Marriage, Humanity, Manipulation, Concept of Self, and More!

Today Seth and Melanie talk about the marital impact of diving deeper into concepts such as self-understanding, manipulation, humanity and so much more! Hold onto your butts! LINKS: Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us L...

Jan 14, 202235 min

Studley Family 2022 Update

Seth and Melanie talk about all the crazy things they are going through right now from a death in Melanie's family to everyone and their mother getting freaking COVID! LINKS: Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us Learn mo...

Jan 07, 202255 min

Brooke & Jerry Rosell: From Good to Great

Today we talk with our clients Brooke and Jerry Rosell about their decision to do coaching when their marriage wasn't bad, but they knew it could be better. A year later, they're making more money than ever and have the life they dreamed they would have in ten years, today! LINKS: Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coa...

Dec 22, 202154 min

Justin & Lindy Pardee: Coaching Through COVID

Today we talk with our clients Justin and Lindy Pardee about the impact coaching had on their lives through the hardest time in recent history, when the kids are home, and everyone is in survival mode. LINKS: Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Join before December 15th for our special Charter Member pricing! https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: ...

Dec 15, 20211 hr

Paul & Robin Vedder: Saving a Marriage on the Edge

Today we talk with our dear friends Paul and Robin Vedder about how coaching transformed their marriage, their family, and their lives. WARNING! There is an F-Bomb or two in this episode 🤣 LINKS: Download the Clearing Structure in the Resources section at https://www.anatomyofus.com/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Join before December 15th for our special Charter Member pricing! https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anat...

Dec 09, 202154 min

Welcome to Coaching Month!

Welcome to Coaching Month! We will be sharing real stories from real clients about how working with us has impacted lives, saved marriages, increased income, and more! LINKS: Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Join before December 15th for our special Charter Member pricing! https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us Learn more about your ad choice...

Dec 06, 202128 min

Creating a New FOO

Today we explore ways to create the Family Of Origin that you WANT for your family unit and your own children! LINKS: Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Join before December 15th for our special Charter Member pricing! https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 24, 202140 min

Healing FOO Wounds and Setting Boundaries with Monica Tanner

Today we talk with Monica Tanner of the Brighter Side Of Marriage Podcast to explore what it means to identify and heal old Family Of Origin wounds, and how on earth to set new boundaries around challenging relationships! LINKS Brighter Side of Marriage Podcast: https://onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/optin-463980401612305061614 Follow Monica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ Join Seth's new Mastermind: badasshusband.com Join before December 15th for our special Charter Member...

Nov 17, 202151 min

Hidden FOO!

Today we explore how Family Of Origin sneaks its way into EVERYTHING from what we eat to how we talk to our spouse! LINKS https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 10, 202131 min

Intro to FOOvember (Family of Origin) with Steven Murphy of The Nook Podcast

Today marks the start of FOOvember! We're kicking it off by sharing our amazing interview with Steven Murphy of The Nook Podcast, where we talk all about Family of Origin and the Holidays! LINKS https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/anatomyofus High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://betterhelp.com/us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 03, 20211 hr 1 min

SEX: Can Solo Masturbation Help Your Marriage?

Today we tackle a very frequently asked question around the idea that solo masturbation might actually enhance your sex life! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Oct 29, 202132 min
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