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Anatomy of Us

Anatomy of Uswww.anatomyofus.com
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Episodes

MARRIAGE: Newlyweds: Who Owns What?

Today we tackle the saying, "What's yours is mine and what's mine is yours." LINKS https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 27, 202124 min

MARRIAGE: What Divorce Teaches Us About Marriage

Today we explore what we can learn about Marriage from exploring the most common Divorce Statistics. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 20, 202137 min

MARRIAGE: 5 Marriage Myths that need to DIE!

Today we explore 5 marriage myths that are ruining relationships all over the world! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 13, 202132 min

MARRIAGE: Do Husbands Really Needs to Lead?

We live in a modern age, does our martial leadership need to change with the times? See what we think about men and leadership in marriage! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 06, 202147 min

MARRIAGE: The Genius Zone

Today we ask the AMAZING Dr. Gay Hendricks all about his new book, The Genius Zone! LINKS https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 29, 202149 min

SEX: Grow Your Sexual Vocabulary

Today we talk about the importance of expanding the way that you talk about sex and intimacy in order to have BETTER sex and intimacy! When we can improve our conversations around pleasure we can have a lot more of it! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS https://anatomyofus.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://anatomyofus.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.c...

Sep 24, 202132 min

MARRIAGE: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner seems non-committal. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 22, 202127 min

MARRIAGE: The Power Of Positivity

Today we explore the power of positivity in marriage with Hope & Kadero Watson of Everyday With H&K. We talk about faith in God, H&K's fertility journey, the impact of prayer, and of course, how a positive attitude can transform even the toughest situations. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about ...

Sep 15, 20211 hr 15 min

MARRIAGE: Midlife Crisis or Midlife Glow Up?

Today we are blasting past the stupid thinking around having a Midlife Crisis and instead we are focusing on a positive twist with a Midlife Glow Up! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 08, 202130 min

MARRIAGE: Grit, Growth, and Changing Your Game

Today we talk about grit, growth, and changing your game, with former NFL player and America Ninja Warrior turned life coach and entrepreneur Anthony Trucks! LINKS Pre-order Anthony's new book: https://identityshiftbook.com/ and use code AOM at checkout https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ...

Sep 01, 202158 min

SEX: How You Do Sex Is How You Do Life

Today we dive into the saying "How you do sex is how you do life," and we uncover the many truths that statement can reveal about our relationship. You'd better hold on because Dr. Corey Allan won't hold your hand! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithf...

Aug 27, 202156 min

MARRIAGE: Men, Mental Health, & Money Part 1

Seth sits down with Rich Jones of Paychecks and Balances and they dive right into the conversation about the importance of having a message that you can't stop shouting and showing people what's possible. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 25, 202145 min

FAMILY: Back to School

Today we talk about practical ways to make this school year easier for BOTH parents, more effective and helpful for kids, and more fun all around! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 18, 202130 min

SEX: 6 Pillars of Intimacy

Today we are talking with the amazing Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of "One Extraordinary Marriage" about the 6 Pillars of Intimacy. Every couple needs to know what they are, and how these pillars can transform your marriage! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://get...

Aug 11, 20211 hr 2 min

MARRIAGE: Invest in Your Marriage

Today we explore what it means to invest in your marriage, how it impacts your daily life, and what happens if you don't invest. Plus we share the many ways that we have invested in our own marriage over the years. LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual c...

Aug 05, 202147 min

MARRIAGE: What to do When Both of You Have Trust Issues

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when BOTH partners have trust issues from past relationships. LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit mega...

Jul 28, 202130 min

MARRIAGE: My Husband's Great at Taking Care of Himself

Today we tackle a listener question about a husband who never seems to think about his wife and kids! LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High-Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adch...

Jul 21, 202131 min

SEX: Sexual Energy with Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt

In today's episode, we discuss what it looks like to lean into and explore sexual energy. Sign up on Patreon for part 2 of this interview titled "Sacred Sex"! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.th...

Jul 16, 202134 min

FAMILY: The Yes Brain and The Power of Showing Up

Our interview with author, psychotherapist, and educator Dr. Tina Payne Bryson offers us a much-needed perspective on how to discipline more effectively by recognizing the difference between discipline and punishment. She also helped us look at our kiddos' bad behavior in a whole new way! LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Per...

Jul 14, 20211 hr

MARRIAGE: Building Self-Confidence as a Husband and Man

I'm going solo today talking to the men and husbands about how we can show up for our wives and children in a way that makes them feel protected, safe, and secure in all aspects, which in turn builds our own self-confidence. Know that you ARE capable of doing hard things, fixing yourself, and fixing your marriage. Let's do this! LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https...

Jul 07, 202129 min

MARRIAGE: My Husband Drinks Too Much

Today we explore the impact of alcohol addiction on marriage, we share ways to identify an addiction, look for underlying causes, and offer helpful ideas for healing. LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofm...

Jun 30, 202127 min

SEX: Your Arousal is NOT My Responsibility (Pt 1)

Seth and I hash out our sex & intimacy issues in REAL-TIME! We cover Family Of Origin, Unspoken Expectations, and the Invisible Rulebook in the in-depth two-part podcast! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching...

Jun 25, 202133 min

Our FAVORITE Personal Growth Resources!

We get requests all the time about our favorite personal growth resources, and today's the day that we share them all (almost)! LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choice...

Jun 23, 202129 min

MARRIAGE: Why Am I Pushing My Wife Away?

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when trust issues are causing you to push your partner away. LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp on Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megap...

Jun 16, 202125 min

MARRIAGE: Shana James of the Man Alive Podcast

Today we are talking about the world of men and emotions with coach, counselor, and TEDx speaker, Shana James, of the Man Alive Podcast. LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad ...

Jun 09, 202154 min

MARRIAGE: Egalitarianism with Camden Morgante

We explore Egalitarianism with Dr. Camden Morgante and talk about the positive impact that it can have on marriage and relationships. LINKS Join us at the Back to Basics Bootcamp Aug 6, 2021! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/back-to-basics-bootcamp-tickets-156933888485 https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad cho...

Jun 02, 202135 min

SEX: Foreplay: 5 Myths We Need to Talk About

Seth and Melanie debunk some of the dumbest foreplay myths out there and help bring you some helpful tips to improve your foreplay game! For more Anatomy of Sex episodes, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/...

May 28, 202131 min

MARRIAGE: The Order of Man with Ryan and Trish Michler

We catch up with Ryan Michler of the Order Of Man Podcast and his wife Trish to tackle what it means to be a man in marriage, how to work to your strengths as a couple, and how healthy masculinity can help relationships thrive. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoic...

May 26, 202157 min

FAMILY: Shameless Parenting with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers

Our guest today, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, joins to talk through her new book Shameless Parenting: Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free, Confident Kids and Heal Your Shame Too! Listen to the end for a teaser announcement for an upcoming Anatomy event! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Order Dr. Tina Schermer Seller's...

May 20, 202152 min

MARRIAGE: I Like It When You. . .

Today we explore the magical concept of simply telling your partner what they do that you enjoy. It sounds simple enough, but so many couples don't do this at all and their marriage suffers for it. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 10, 202128 min
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