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10 MINUTES TO LESS SUFFERING

Allison Carmenwww.allisoncarmen.com
Allison Carmen, Self-improvement author and Life strategist, presents different techniques in this 10 minute podcast to reduce your stress, worry and anxiety. It's amazing how much you can get done in 10 minutes!
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Episodes

You Can Find Your Way

After experiencing heartbreak, job loss, or significant disappointment, we're often encouraged to "move on." While well-intentioned, this advice often overlooks the truth that healing is a journey—one that takes time to transform wounds into wisdom. The encouraging news is that as we heal, each moment offers fresh opportunities to move forward, grow, and create new beginnings. This previously aired episode feels especially timely for the moment—tune in for an inspiring take on finding hope and r...

Nov 19, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 269

When You Try To Control Something, It Often Controls You

Most of us don’t realize that the decisions we make each day aren’t guarantees; they’re more about probability or possibility than certainty. While this might initially make us feel stressed, this realization is actually the key to our freedom. If we truly accept that we can’t control everything, then neither people nor situations can control us either. Listen to this podcast to discover how letting go of our need for control—and the control others have over us—can open us up to embracing uncert...

Nov 12, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 268

How We Can All Move Forward

In this episode, I share my latest article, "What Happens If Your Candidate Doesn't Win? How We Can All Move Forward," featured in Maria Shriver's Sunday Paper . I explore the six principles of uncertainty and why not knowing the future is actually a good thing. Uncertainty is always our ally if we want our lives to change or to improve the lives of our community and the world. Listen to this podcast to hear the article and discover why the Maybe Mindset is a tool for everyone in the United Stat...

Nov 07, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 267

The Past and The Moment: Letting Go, Accepting and Choosing Gratitude

Letting go of the past can be incredibly tough, especially when we’re faced with moments we wish hadn’t happened or find hard to accept. This hit home for me just last week when my almost 92-year-old dad took a fall on cement. During those first few hours in the hospital, I found myself caught in a cycle of resistance, replaying it all in my mind, wondering what we could have done to prevent it—essentially arguing with reality. My lack of presence wasn’t helping my dad or the situation. In this ...

Nov 01, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 266

If You Slow It Down You Will Find Success

The world often makes us feel that the key to solving our problems and getting ahead is to speed up and push forward. However, we rarely take enough time to be fully present with our challenges. We often act in haste, driven by fear or discomfort with uncertainty, reacting without a clear plan. But when we can slow down and allow ourselves to be in the moment, we open up to where the situation is leading us, bringing greater clarity of thought and opening the door to new possibilities and opport...

Oct 22, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 265

Finding Hope When Life Feels Unfair

Life frequently confronts us with circumstances that might appear unfair. We may encounter letdowns, such as not securing a job we were well-suited for, enduring heartbreak from a breakup, or feeling helpless in the face of societal issues we passionately believe need change. Nevertheless, amid these challenging moments, hope and resilience can be discovered. This podcast aims to provide inspiration, encouraging us to persevere and pursue what truly holds significance in our lives, even when fac...

Oct 15, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 264

The Magic Of Going Within

When life takes unexpected turns and leaves us heartbroken or shaken, it can feel challenging to move forward. But once we’ve processed those emotions, the real magic begins—finding a way to step into new possibilities. In this episode, discover powerful and gentle techniques to let go of the past, embrace the present, and create a future brimming with opportunities. Tune in for a journey that will inspire and empower you to take that next step! If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consid...

Oct 09, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 263

Allowing Uncertainty To Show Us The Way

I’ve had an incredible few months—delivering a TEDx talk, launching my book, and publishing articles in a major online outlet. But then, everything slowed down last week. Book sales dipped, no interviews were scheduled for that week, and I grappled with the emptiness in front of me. Instead of embracing the stillness, I resisted it—until I remembered that everything happens in this empty space, uncertainty is my greatest ally, and endless possibilities are born from it. Tune in for the full stor...

Oct 01, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 262

Everything Changes, Thank Goodness!

We all know we can't predict the future, yet we often act like we can—especially when negativity creeps in. When challenges arise, it's easy to believe things won't get better. But remember, uncertainty isn't just about the unknowns we fear; it also holds the potential for growth, opportunity, and even miracles. Curious about how to embrace this mindset? Tune in to my podcast for a fresh perspective on a more positive side of change and uncertainty, because for all you know, MAYBE the best is ye...

Sep 24, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 261

Never Give Up On A Good Thing: Remember What Makes You Happy!

After nearly nine years of rejections and closed doors, my dream is finally becoming a reality. On September 17, 2024, my audiobook "Maybe Everything Is Okay: A Parent's Guide to Less Stress and Worry" will be released by Tantor Audio. In this episode, I share the journey that led me here and how embracing uncertainty as a friend full of potential kept me moving forward. If you've ever felt like giving up on your dreams, this episode is for you. Join me as we explore the strength of perseverance...

Sep 15, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 260

Overcoming Fear

Even when pursuing our goals and passions, our need for certainty can limit us, causing unnecessary stress and suffering. We often become so focused on how things need to happen that we lose sight of being open to all possibilities, sacrificing our presence for a future that may never come. As a translation of a Rumi quote says, "What is fear? A non-acceptance of uncertainty." In this podcast, learn how to set your intentions, create actionable steps, and release the need for certainty and speci...

Sep 05, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 259

When Do We Get To Be Happy?

As I prepare for my first TEDx talk this Saturday, I’ve been revisiting some of my podcast episodes for inspiration. Yes, I listen to my podcast too! One episode from last year really resonated with me, where I explored a powerful quote by Jenifer Lewis: “We need to be happy on the way to happy. You carry yourself wherever you go.” Jenifer reminds us that true joy and peace can’t be sustained if we rely solely on the external world to hold us together. Instead, we must cultivate happiness and gr...

Aug 29, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 258

Is The Moment Leading Us In A New Direction?

When we resist life's challenges, we often find ourselves stuck, internally suffering, and unable to see the possibilities ahead. This week's podcast delves into how embracing the present moment, rather than resisting it, can unlock the door to peace, joy, and prosperity. Often, the moment is guiding us toward new beginnings or teaching us valuable wisdom for the path ahead. Don't miss this powerful conversation—your journey to a more fulfilling life begins here! If you found this podcast enjoya...

Aug 21, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 257

Who We Are Has Always Been Enough

Ever find yourself thinking that if you could just change one thing about yourself, everything would fall into place—your dream job, the perfect relationship, or that big opportunity? It’s easy to forget that you’re already enough, just as you are. In this episode, we dive into the powerful reminder that you are inherently valuable, lovable, and capable of creating the life you desire. By embracing your worth, you'll find the strength to navigate any path. This message is a slightly modified ver...

Aug 13, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 256

Do Our Expectations Steal Our Joy?

Many of us don’t realize that as we look forward to the day ahead, we often have set expectations and judgments about how things should go. These expectations can rob us of our daily joy and close us off to new opportunities. Tune into this podcast to learn how releasing these expectations can help you be more present, joyful, and successful! It's a gold medal strategy! If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate i...

Aug 06, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 255

How Do We Manifest Things In Our Lives?

Many manifesting techniques focus on maintaining positive thinking and high emotional states to attract what we desire. But what do we do when fear of the unknown creeps in or unexpected events make it hard to stay positive? Tune in to this podcast episode to learn about the "Maybe Mindset," a unique manifesting technique that helps you process your feelings, embrace the unknown, and gently transition into a powerful state of manifestation. Listen now and start your journey to a more fulfilled a...

Jul 31, 202410 min

Three Daily Decisions That Lead To Your Happiness

Expect the unexpected - that's life! But did you know that three crucial daily decisions can transform how you face challenges and problems, bringing more ease, joy, and success? In this podcast, we'll uncover these essential choices that pave the way to a happier, more fulfilling life! If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me ...

Jul 23, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 253

How To Build Confidence

Confidence is an amazing trait we all have, but sometimes we channel it into the wrong things. If you believe you can't do something, you're confident in that belief. But what if you could flip the script and use that same confidence to focus on achieving your dreams instead of dwelling on the negative? Join me in this exciting podcast episode to uncover practical insights and powerful techniques to boost your confidence, aim for desired results, and create a brighter, more fulfilling future. If...

Jul 16, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 252

Do You Have Enough Boundaries To Be Happy?

Struggling with setting boundaries? You're not alone. Many of us feel guilty, obligated, or worried about upsetting others, leading us to say yes when we really want to say no. In this episode, we dive into the discomfort of self-reflection and the importance of honoring our true desires. Learn how to navigate these challenges, avoid resentment, and prevent burnout. Discover how setting healthy boundaries can lead to a more balanced life, benefiting both yourself and those around you. If you fou...

Jul 10, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 251

Self Love Is The Greatest Certainty

Do you ever feel that if you just understood your past better, knew more about what happened between people and events, and had all the facts, your life would be better? While knowledge can be empowering, there comes a time when self-love and acceptance must take the lead. This podcast explores how to let go of the incessant need to know and be right, and instead, embrace the present and the future with open arms. Tune in to discover a path of self-love that transcends understanding, leading to ...

Jul 02, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 250

Stressed or Blessed?

We all know that our lives are filled with blessings. Yet, when we face challenges or feel upset, the pain or suffering can overshadow everything else. Tune into this podcast to discover how to maintain an awareness of our blessings, even in tough times. By remembering our blessings, we can often find a glimmer of hope on our darkest days. I recorded this podcast over five years ago, and it's remarkable how it continues to resonate and hold even more meaning today. If you found this podcast enjo...

Jun 27, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 249

Are You Experiencing All Of Your Joy?

Most of us fear the unknown so deeply that we don't allow ourselves to pursue our dreams and passions, preventing us from achieving our greatest joys in life. At other times, we guard our hearts to avoid the deep pain of getting hurt, not realizing that this also prevents us from experiencing the profound joy of life. Listen to this podcast to start embracing the unknown and trusting that you will survive the potential pain of living deeply and find the pure joy of truly living! If you found thi...

Jun 18, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 248

The Sweetness Of The Moment

Even when life is challenging, there are often moments of sweetness—a simple laugh, a new relationship, or a fresh opportunity. Listen to this podcast to discover how to recognize and embrace these moments, building on them to navigate life's changes and access all the possibilities that lie ahead. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can als...

Jun 13, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 247

Embrace Emptiness: The Secret to Success

We often clutter our lives to stay busy and fend off loneliness, mistaking activity for meaning and fulfillment. But what if embracing emptiness could actually bring us closer to our dreams? Listen to this podcast to understand why emptiness is not just the absence of something, but the beginning of everything! If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love...

Jun 04, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 246

Resistance Leads To Negativity

It's natural to want special events or important moments to go well. However, our vision of what should happen sometimes doesn't align with reality. Instead of pivoting and making the most of the moment, we often let disappointment and discomfort sink in, causing us to miss out on the joy and opportunities still available. Listen to this podcast to discover a path to staying aware of what is important to you, making the best decisions in the moment, and finding joy, blessings, and possibilities ...

May 29, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 245

Why Do We Leave So Many Things Unsaid?

Are you missing out on important moments with your loved ones because of unspoken words? In our busy lives, it's easy to assume there will always be more time or that people already know how we feel. However, leaving things unsaid can lead to regret and pain, not just for us but those we care about. Let this podcast serve as a reminder to voice your love and appreciation to those who matter most. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Add...

May 16, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 244

Karma: Should We Have Known Better?

Many of us perceive Karma as the principle of "what goes around comes around." We often invoke it when someone wrongs us personally or in business, expecting them to face repercussions for their actions. However, sometimes we cling to this notion more than we focus on our own healing, neglecting our personal growth and the pursuit of our passions. After all, even if that person does face Karma, it doesn't pay our bills, ignite love in our lives, or contribute significantly to our journey of self...

May 07, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 243

What Do You Do When The Bottom Falls Out?

At times, the unforeseen disrupts our plans. Whether it's losing a job, the end of a relationship, or facing health issues, it can completely upend our lives. How do we navigate these turbulent times with hope and not despair? How do we cultivate resilience and ease our anxieties and stress about the future? Listen to this podcast for a path to see uncertainty as a gateway to new beginnings, opportunities, and hope on the horizon. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing ...

Apr 30, 202411 minSeason 7Ep. 242

Frustration To Fulfillment: Your Dreams Are Still Possible!

Feeling frustrated because your dreams or goals haven't materialized yet? Tune in to this podcast for a fresh perspective on your current life situation and discover all that's still possible for the future. Though this episode aired years ago, its relevance endures, especially for those feeling exhausted and in need of encouragement to continue pursuing their dreams! Who knows? Maybe the best is yet to come! If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating o...

Apr 23, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 241

Often Life Chooses For Us

When we welcome all that life offers and choose acceptance, we can direct our energy toward cultivating more of what brings us ease, joy, and a broader perspective on life. Tune into this podcast for guidance on accepting the unexpected turns in life, redirecting our focus, and fostering new opportunities. A powerful mantra could be: "I did not expect this, but I accept it. What is still possible in my life?" If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating o...

Apr 16, 202410 minSeason 7Ep. 240
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