017 The best gift in the world

Do you want to give the best gift in the world? Then grant your undivided attention. Nothing beats your complete, total and absolute attention. No gift is better than that. Listen with everything you have, with all your senses, paying attention to every word, gesture, emotion and movement of that person. Truly, it’s the best gift you can give to someone. I offer an apology for all those times when you wanted to tell me something and I immediately said, Oh! The same happened to me, I was... And with that, I moved the spotlight, took the microphone from you and I was very rude. Because at that moment you were the most important person and you chose me to entrust me with something important to you, something that made you happy, or simply, you wanted to talk to someone. And you know what? The worst is, that I didn't even know what it was, because I interrupted you. I made you feel so bad that you no longer had enough strength to tell me even a little about anything. It’s logical, I stole your special moment and put on top of your priorities, mine. I'm really sorry, and do you know why I am able to see it now? Because they just did it to me. I tried to tell two different friends what I felt and both began to give me explanations of their experiences, of what I should do or not do and an endless number of things to do. They advised me in everything, but not what I really needed, I mean, zero empathy for my feelings at that moment. I felt very unhappy... Although it helped increase my awareness and offer an apology because my biggest wish is to improve for you and me. Sometimes, to remember our essence, we do things to others, as we wish to experience the same thing that we made them feel. They or someone else, at some point, will make us feel it, so that the perfect circle of giving and receiving remains. If you allow me to make amends, I promise to listen carefully, without judging, trying to fix or solve anything in your life because surely, the answer is in your own words and expressions, and by listening to you I will help you in that process because I will be only a small connection between you and your soul. And most importantly because I know that all solutions lie within you. If you like this information that I share and you want to support my work, please choose the option that best suits you. Thank you in advance! Buy me a coffee: https://mpago.la/29ZvH88 Make a donation: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/best104