I had the opportunity to speak with Melissa Speer. Melissa is a woman of God, wife, mother of three daughters, athlete, coach and mentor. In this episode we talk about women in sports. We delve into the sacrifices, benefits, and adversity on the road to the next level. You will hear topics like: faith, team, grit, resilience, perseverance, effort, competition, IDENTITY, failure, and much more. Follow to listen to the followup episode to this one.
Oct 15, 2024•53 min
In this episode I have a conversation with Lyle Skillman. Lyle talks about his early years of growing up in a fatherless environment, abuse, abandonment, and extreme poverty. Drugs, thieving, and fighting became a big part of Lyle’s life, and led him to a stay at all of the prisons in Washington. Lyle’s struggle with addiction followed him through his first 20 yrs walking with the Lord, but eventually opened up a Jesus centered rehab facility, “Mission House”. Lyle goes on to address some of the...
Jul 22, 2024•1 hr 32 min
Have you ever felt pain? Have you ever had to suffer? My guest today is Todd Stabelfeldt. Todd suffered a traumatic gun accident at the age of 8, and has been a quadriplegic for more than 35 yrs. Todd was emancipated and began living on his own at the age of 16. Todd had his Associates degree by the age of 17. He has learned to systematize quadriplegia and maximize his ROI for Christ. Hold on to your hats, grab a box of tissues; whether you are sad or laughing, you will need them. Enjoy! To lear...
Jul 01, 2024•1 hr 47 min
My guest today is Jared Haley. Jared is a man of God, husband, father of 4, pastor of 20+ years, co-host of Strong By Design Podcast, part of the production team for Critical Bench, and a public speaker. In todays episode, Jared and I delve into many topics: -What is a man of God? -Being a father -Raising children with Christ at the center -Leadership -Discipleship -Submission -Relationships -Much more To listen to more of Jared go to: https://open.spotify.com/show/37JGBDEEJpXmudAv2p2Hwl...
May 29, 2024•1 hr 12 min
In this episode I have a conversation with Scott Walker. Scott is a: man of God, husband, father, firefighter, real estate agent, and an ordained Anglican Priest. A bicep tendon tear led Scott to seek struggle and doing hard things to find hope and gain resilience. We talk about: Being comfortable being uncomfortable Getting outside The brutality of the cross The masculinity of Jesus What it means to be a man Individual vs. collective relationship with Christ Our King is a warrior Brotherhood Ch...
Mar 26, 2024•2 hr 2 min
I am honored to share this episode with you. Paul McArthur has been a friend since Pee Wee basketball. Paul is a man of God, a pastor, husband, father and gym owner. Paul shares his struggles with insecurities, which kept him from participating early on, and the journey he has been on to find out; who God has created him to be, how to be the best version of that, and ultimately live out God's purpose for his life. From feeling like an outsider, to gaining confidence, becoming a youth pastor, cat...
Jan 16, 2024•46 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Lt. Col. Dave Grossman is a former US Army Ranger, a paratrooper, and a former West Point Psychology Professor. He has published many novels, non-fiction, and children’s’ books, including a bestseller On Killing (with over half a million copies sold), On Combat, and Sheepdogs children’s book. Col. Grossman’s has testified before the U.S. Senate, the U.S. Congress, and numerous state legislatures. He has served as an expert witness and consultant in state and Federal courts. Lt. Grossman is one o...
Nov 14, 2023•1 hr 21 min•Season 2Ep. 4
DJ Vanas is a member of the Odawa tribe of Michigan, served in the U.S. Air Force where he received his B.S. and was a boxer. DJ is an internationally acclaimed speaker for Fortune 500 companies, has written a few books, including “The Warrior Within: Own your power to serve, fight, protect, and heal”. DJ is a true ogichidaa (warrior). In this episode we talk about: Fighter vs Warrior Struggle Changing your trajectory Choosing friends Fear, Courage, Setbacks, and Trials Keeping the Fires lit Dis...
Oct 31, 2023•1 hr 20 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Mike Balwin is a man of God, a devoted husband and father, and now handles the day to day operations of Grossman on Truth. Prior to that, Mike served Arizona as a law enforcement officer in areas of patrol, Field Training Officer, SWAT Operator, Sergeant, and Lead Detective in the Major Felons Unit, where Mike was given the nickname, "The Legend", by those he worked with. Today we discuss topics such as - 5:56 faith - 9:19 being the light amidst the darkness - 12:27 commonalities in criminals an...
Oct 17, 2023•59 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Today's guest is Tim Wright. Tim is an author, pastor, husband, father, and co-host of The Wonder of Parenting Podcast with Dr. Michael Gurian. We talk about brain science, education, faith, rites of passage and more. To find out more about Tim Wright follow the links below: Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-barbie-movie-girls-and-boys/id1436262138?i=1000625923393 Books: https://www.timwrightbooks.com/ Rites of Passage Material: https://www.timwrightministries.org/rites-of-passa...
Oct 03, 2023•1 hr 4 min
In this episode Dr. Cheryl Hart talks about normalizing emotions for boys. She dives into: lizard brain vs. logic brain, families stigmatizing emotions, emotional management, changing the culture around talking about emotions, naming our feelings, introduces the Anger Iceberg, creating safety in the home, de-escalation, and resiliency. #1016man #Shepherd #Warrior #King #emotionalcontrol #strongmen #strongboys #suicideawareness #mentalhealth #stressmanagement #firefighter #lawenforcement #militar...
Jun 16, 2023•1 hr 16 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Shane is a US military veteran whose personal and professional mission is to serve veterans and their families. Shane is a husband, father, and dedicated man of God who you can find serving his church and community. He has started a group called the Cadre Concept which is a group of “like-minded high achievers who choose to lead abundant lives in service to others.” My conversation with Shane covers his early life where abuse, neglect, drugs and death were a part of his story. Shane’s mom packed...
May 30, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Today you get to hear from my friend Philip Flatau. You will get to follow along with a story that spans from Wild young Philip turning off Friday night lights at a local football game, to Husband, Father, Dr, Lt. Colonal serving in the United States Airforce , and devoted Man of God. Philip is the son of my mentor and first podcast guest, Mark Flatau. As you will hear, the apple didn’t fall too far from the proverbial tree. Philip's wisdom builds a foundation hewn from his faith in Jesus Christ...
May 16, 2023•1 hr 25 min•Season 1Ep. 8
My guest today is Laura Smith. Laura is a teacher, administrator, wife, mom, and educational consultant. Her aim is to build connection and community through behavioral neuroscience. She brings up topics like neurodivergence, the formative years from 0-3, attuned parenthood, coregulation, intentionality, intergenerational growth through repair, yelling neuroplasticity, and how we are wired for two things, connection and protection. You can follow her on Instagram: https://instagram.com/lauralees...
May 02, 2023•55 min•Season 1Ep. 7
In this episode Mike Washington shares his experiences from 0-18; foster home, abandonment, homelessness, alcoholism, domestic violence, molestation, and the impacts they had on his life. Mike talks about his time in the marines and the fire service, as well as the loss of his son, PTSD, and suicidal ideations. He goes on to express the negative impacts of boys just shoving down their stress and emotions, and ends by teaching us four things we need to teach our boys; emotions are ok, learn how t...
Apr 18, 2023•1 hr 39 min•Season 1Ep. 6
My guest today is; Author, Evangelist, Educator, Church Planter, and Social Entrepreneur. James Owolabi is an evangelist, church planter and christian educator who currently lives in Nigeria. He is passionate about training next generation leaders. James was born and raised in Africa and spent the first twenty years of his adult life in full time ministry in the United States. He served in youth ministry for over two decades in North America before relocating to Africa. Owolabi is on the teachin...
Mar 21, 2023•1 hr 24 min•Season 1Ep. 5
This episode is a tough one. Andrew Douglas and I talk about his struggle with PTSD, and how suicidal ideations almost ended his life. This is an uncensored, very raw, face to face account with a man who was on his way to end it all. This may be hard to listen to if you have lost someone to suicide, are suicidal, or have someone in your life who is. Andrew identifies where the struggle began, where it went, his journey towards healing, and the skills necessary for boys to deal with stresses and ...
Mar 07, 2023•1 hr 23 min•Season 1Ep. 4
In this episode I had the pleasure of speaking with Dr Cheryl Hart. Dr. Hart is a mental health therapist who spends her time walking alongside firefighters dealing predominantly with PTSD and L&I claims. Dr. Hart has walked along side of many of my brothers and sisters, adding life and longevity to them, their careers and their families. Today we discuss the importance of men acknowledging and being aware of their emotions, the increased propensity of suicide and depression in firefighters,...
Feb 21, 2023•53 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Having a man in your corner is invaluable. They are aware of your strengths and your weaknesses, and are willing to walk along side of you. I cover the traits of a good cornerman, as well as the importance of seeking wise counsel.
Feb 14, 2023•22 min•Season 1Ep. 2
In this episode I interview a man who I can call, "wise counsel", Mark Flatau. Mark is a son of God, husband, father, and has served as a; teacher, coach, athletic director, principal, and superintendent. Mark holds a special place. in my heart. Mark was a major factor in me coming to Christ, and has served as my mentor for over 20 years. Today Mark and I talk about his early years, the importance of God in our lives, breaking the chains of family circumstances, discipline, boundaries/structure,...
Feb 07, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Podcast coming soon! This world needs honorable men. Are you raising the next generation of men? Do you have a son? A younger brother? A boy in the neighborhood that needs guidance? Are you a coach? A mentor? Wise counsel? Join me in discovering and putting into action what it takes to raise up and train the next generation of men. This world needs 10:16 men. As rates of suicide, depression, and other mental health issues rise, and responsibility, accountability, masculinity and purpose decline,...
Jan 12, 2023•1 min0
