Are you looking for more ways to spice things up in the bedroom? We’ve all heard the usual—lingerie, toys, candlelit date nights, maybe even a threesome. But have you ever wondered if the real magic has been there all along, just waiting for you to try? What if feeling more, instead of doing more, is what really lights the fire? Curious to find out? In this special Language of Love Bite, I dive into something that’s not just my newest obsession—it’s the subject of my brand-new book: Sex Magic. T...
Jun 25, 2025•15 min•Season 1Ep. 303
Have you ever looked across the room at your partner and thought, “When did we become roommates instead of lovers?” Maybe you’re still affectionate, still loving—but the sexual connection? Practically nonexistent. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In fact, nearly 1 in 5 marriages are considered “sexless,” but that doesn’t mean your spark is gone for good. In this Language of Love Bite, we’re diving deep into the real reasons couples stop being intimate—and exactly how to rebuild your se...
Jun 23, 2025•11 min•Season 1Ep. 302
Ever feel emotions that don’t seem to belong to you? Like you're carrying pain that started long before you were born? What if the things you’re struggling with—sexual trauma, shame, fear of being seen—aren’t just yours... but inherited? In this Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Dr. Frank Anderson, a renowned trauma psychiatrist who’s helped countless people heal—but had to take his own journey first. Frank’s new book, To Be Loved: A Story of Truth, Trauma and Transformation, blends...
Jun 18, 2025•57 min•Season 1Ep. 301
So… your partner watches porn. Does that mean they’re cheating? Or is it just harmless fantasy? If you’ve ever asked yourself this—or felt a pit in your stomach after finding out—this episode is for you. In this Language of Love session, I answer a powerful question from a listener named Karen. She just found out her boyfriend watches porn regularly, and she’s not sure how to feel. Hurt? Angry? Insecure? Betrayed? Here’s the thing—this isn’t just about porn. It’s about trust. Boundaries. Feeling...
Jun 11, 2025•12 min•Season 1Ep. 300
They say love is enough—but is it really? What if one simple question could reveal whether your relationship is built for long-term growth… or destined to quietly fall apart? In this Language of Love Bite, we explore the subtle but powerful force that separates short-lived connection from lasting partnership: mutual inspiration. This isn’t about how often you laugh together or whether you share a Spotify playlist. It’s about whether you feel proud of who you’re becoming with this person—and if y...
Jun 08, 2025•9 min•Season 1Ep. 299
What does it mean to wait for love—not out of fear, but from deep, spiritual conviction? In this extraordinary Language of Love Conversation, we meet Sohale—a man who, at 32, has never been physically intimate with another person. Not because he’s afraid of love, but because he reveres it. For Sohale, sex isn't casual—it's sacred. A union of energy, soul, and spirit. And he’s been saving himself for that. But the story doesn’t begin (or end) there. It started in childhood—with a mystical calling...
Jun 04, 2025•49 min•Season 1Ep. 298
Love after trauma isn’t just about passion—it’s about patience. The quiet moments between kisses, the hesitation in a held hand, the unspoken fear that lingers in intimacy… These are the places where love is tested—and where it can be rebuilt. In this Language of Love Session, we return to Brian and Stacey’s raw, unfolding story. If you’ve been with us, you know: this isn’t just about sex. It’s about two hearts trying to find safety in each other—while wrestling with the ghosts of their pasts. (...
May 28, 2025•58 min•Season 1Ep. 297
What if everything you've been told about love...is wrong? That magical moment when you'll meet "The One"—the perfect partner who completes you, understands you effortlessly, and makes love feel easy forever. But what happens when the fairy tale doesn't come true? When the spark fades and you're left wondering: Did I choose wrong? Is my real soulmate still out there? The real question isn't "Have I found my perfect match?"—it's "Am I with someone worth growing with?" Because the most powerful lo...
May 26, 2025•6 min•Season 1Ep. 296
What if the role you’ve played your whole life—the one that made people love you, trust you, applaud you—was actually the thing keeping you from yourself? In this moving Language of Love Conversations, I sit down with Mark Walberg—not the Ted movie star, but the television host known for his charm, wit, and steady presence on hit shows like Antiques Roadshow and Temptation Island. After watching this season of Temptation Island for the first time, I was stunned. Despite having no clinical traini...
May 21, 2025•55 min•Season 1Ep. 295
Do you ever feel like your life no longer fits you? Like you’re walking around in a version of yourself that you’ve outgrown—but you're not sure what the next version looks like? In this powerful Language of Love Conversation, I’m thrilled to welcome back poet, author, and truth-teller Janne Robinson to the show. Together, we explore what happens when you hit that inner wall—when you're stuck, misaligned, or playing house in a life that no longer feels like your own. We dive deep into Janne’s jo...
May 14, 2025•55 min•Season 1Ep. 294
What does it mean to grieve in a world that tells you to move on? How do you find light in the darkest corners of loss, and can grief—often seen as a burden—become a source of connection, creativity, and even transformation? After losing her father at just 21 years old, author Carla Fernandez became a "renegade griever," defying societal norms and creating a space where grief could be shared, honored, and even celebrated. In a culture that often shies away from death and discourages open express...
May 07, 2025•52 min•Season 1Ep. 293
Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck in a loop? The same fights, the same frustrations, the same silent distance—even though you both want things to be better. Here’s the truth: Your partner’s baggage fits yours perfectly. The work isn’t to change them—it’s to unpack your own while holding space for theirs. In this raw and revealing Language of Love session, Brian and Stacey lay bare their struggle—blame, withdrawal, and the aching fear of not being enough. Stacey is fighting to recl...
Apr 30, 2025•59 min•Season 1Ep. 292
Have you ever felt like the spark between you and your partner has… well, fizzled out? Like, maybe you’re sitting on opposite ends of the couch scrolling through your phones instead of actually talking ? Or worse, you’ve started avoiding conversations because they feel too heavy or awkward? Trust me, you’re not alone. What if I told you that fixing this disconnect doesn’t require hours of deep talks, expensive date nights, or some grand romantic gesture? What if all it takes is just five minutes...
Apr 28, 2025•7 min•Season 1Ep. 291
What happens when your world falls apart—and you’re left standing in the wreckage, asking, “Who am I now?” In this moving Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with the wise and radiant Devi Brown to talk about grief, trauma, surrender, and the surprising strength we find in our most broken moments. Devi shares how a series of devastating events—including the death of a dear friend, the end of her marriage, and the unraveling of long-held identities—sent her into a deep spiritual reckoning d...
Apr 23, 2025•58 min•Season 1Ep. 290
How do you move forward when trust shatters in an instant? When the person who vowed to stand by you crosses a line that feels impossible to uncross? Here we are with another Language of Love session as I connect with Chelsea, a listener navigating the aftermath of her husband's infidelity. Chelsea's husband confessed to drunkenly making out with another woman at a bachelor party a year ago. Since then, he's been attending therapy, practicing radical transparency, and working to rebuild trust. Y...
Apr 16, 2025•11 min•Season 1Ep. 289
Are you loving your partner the way they need to be loved? In this Language of Love Bite, we tackle the subtle mistakes that might be undermining your efforts to love your partner well. Whether it's distracted quality time or misunderstood acts of service, these miscommunications can leave both partners feeling frustrated and disconnected. But here's the good news: with a few simple adjustments, you can start loving your partner in ways that truly land. If you're new to love languages, make sure...
Apr 14, 2025•8 min•Season 1Ep. 288
Your loved ones, even after passing, are still with you, guiding you, and sending signs of their presence. In this Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Maureen Hancock, a renowned medium, holistic healer, and comedian. For decades, Maureen has been helping people heal from grief by bridging the gap between this world and the next. After surviving lead paint poisoning, a near-death experience, and a serious car accident, Maureen discovered her unique gift to communicate with the spirit ...
Apr 09, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 287
Can love truly heal the wounds of the past? It’s a question many of us ask ourselves when past traumas creep into our relationships, casting long shadows over the love we’re trying to build. For Brian and Stacey, one of the amazing couples who come on the show to get support, this question isn’t just philosophical—it’s a daily reality. How do you rebuild trust when intimacy feels like a minefield? How do you show affection when touch triggers painful memories? And can love, no matter how strong,...
Apr 02, 2025•50 min•Season 1Ep. 286
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your relationship? Are you caught in a cycle of recurring arguments, wondering why the spark that once brought you together feels like it’s slipping away? The truth is we often blame our partner for the growing distance between us, convinced they’re the one creating tension—when in reality, it might be the subtle, unnoticed mistakes we’re both making. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive deep into the five common mistakes that could be quietly eroding the connecti...
Mar 31, 2025•8 min
Did you know menopause comes with 34 symptoms—yet most women are never told what to expect? Instead, they’re left guessing, struggling, and wondering if it’s all just in their heads. In this episode of The Language of Love Conversations, I sit down with Tamsen Fadal, Emmy Award-winning journalist and menopause advocate, to get real about what’s happening to our bodies and why so many women feel unprepared. Her new book, How to Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life, and Feel Ev...
Mar 26, 2025•43 min
The "work spouse" dilemma – why is this modern trend causing so much tension in relationships? You’ve likely heard the term before… It's that coworker who knows your partner’s schedule better than you do, the one who grabs a meal with your partner before a big meeting, or the person your partner vents to when work gets overwhelming. In this episode of Language of Love Session , I dive into a listener’s question about this emotionally charged topic: the concept of a "work wife" or "work husband."...
Mar 18, 2025•9 min•Season 1Ep. 283
How many times have we overlooked the little moments that make our relationship special? The gentle touches, the inside jokes, the quiet ways our partner shows they care. It’s so easy to focus on what’s missing that we forget to appreciate what’s already there. But here’s the secret: gratitude isn’t just a feel-good idea—it’s a powerful force that can reignite passion, deepen your connection, and completely transform your love life. In this Language of Love Bite, I pull back the curtain on how g...
Mar 17, 2025•6 min•Season 1Ep. 282
Is your hesitation—your fear of being fully seen—actually keeping you from the deep, lasting connection you crave? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Lindsay Jill Roth, award-winning producer and author of Romances and Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) in 250 Questions. Lindsay isn’t afraid to tackle the tough stuff. We dive deep into the role of religion in relationships, the stigma around dating divorced people, and why so many of us shut down love b...
Mar 12, 2025•52 min•Season 1Ep. 281
Are you stuck in the same argument over and over again? It starts with something small—an offhand comment, a last-minute plan, or a simple misunderstanding. Before you know it, you’re in yet another argument, saying things you don’t mean, feeling unheard, and wondering, how did we get here again? In this episode of The Language of Love Session, we check in with Brian and Stacey, a couple who love each other deeply but keep getting stuck in frustrating fights. Their latest? A basketball game invi...
Mar 05, 2025•47 min•Season 1Ep. 280
Did you know that your sexual energy isn’t just about what happens between the sheets? It’s the fuel that powers your confidence, your creativity, and that magnetic glow that attracts others and makes life feel exciting. But here’s the kicker—it’s easy to lose sexual energy, especially when emotions like guilt, shame, or stress build up, they act like roadblocks, keeping that energy stuck. The good news? You can turn it back on. In this Language of Love Bite, I’m sharing how to break free from e...
Mar 03, 2025•7 min•Season 1Ep. 279
There are whispers of a place—an unseen archive where every thought, every decision, every soul’s journey is etched into existence. Some call it the Akashic Records, an infinite library beyond time and space, containing the secrets of the past, present, and even the future. In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m joined by Daniela Gil—an intuitive healer, psychic, and guide known as the “psychic’s psychic” and “healer’s healer.” She works with the Akashic Records, plant medicin...
Feb 26, 2025•55 min•Season 1Ep. 278
For far too long, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) have carried a heavy weight of stigma—whispers behind closed doors, silent fears, and the crushing anxiety of disclosure and the rejection that might follow. Many people would rather avoid dating altogether than face the possibility of judgment. But should a diagnosis really hold that much power over your life? Should it define your worth, your relationships, or your future? In this Language of Love Session, I’m responding to an email from C...
Feb 19, 2025•12 min•Season 1Ep. 277
Are you beginning to feel like your partner’s phone is becoming the third wheel in your relationship? Are you tired of being "phubbed"—that unsettling mix of phone and snubbed? You’re not alone. In this Language of Love Bite, we explore how to reclaim connection in your relationship without starting World War III. In this episode, I delve into the science of disconnection, revealing how our phones trigger dopamine responses similar to addictive substances. But this isn’t just about the tech—it’s...
Feb 17, 2025•7 min•Season 1Ep. 276
What if our worst moments are actually an opportunity to shift into a deeper connection with ourselves and everyone and everything around us? In this episode of Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Jacob Cooper—author, therapist, and someone who’s experienced a life-changing near-death experience (NDE)—to explore how we can maintain this connection beyond the physical. Jacob’s story is incredible. At just three years old, he experienced an NDE due to whooping cough (Pertussis), and it ...
Feb 12, 2025•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 275
Did you know that most arguments in relationships aren’t really about what they seem? That fight about the trash? The dishes? Being late? It’s rarely about the actual issue—it’s about something deeper. Feeling unheard. Feeling unappreciated. Feeling disconnected. In this Language of Love Session, we continue to follow Brian and Stacey as they navigate the challenges of trust, intimacy, and emotional connection. Brian feels like he’s doing everything right—planning dates, showing affection, makin...
Feb 05, 2025•52 min•Season 1Ep. 274
