The headlines are buzzing, and let’s face it, Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater’s story feels like a drama we didn’t ask for. Relationships in the spotlight are hard enough, but throw an affair into the mix, and it’s like watching a reality show unfold in real time. And then there’s Ethan’s wife—cue her powerful essay in The Cut, where, as a therapist, she lays bare the raw pain of betrayal and the chaos of their breakup. But let’s step back for a moment. This isn’t just celebrity gossip. Infidelit...
Feb 03, 2025•8 min•Season 1Ep. 273
What if grief isn’t just about loss, but about staying connected to those who’ve passed on? Have you ever wondered if your loved ones are still with you after they’ve gone? What if there’s a way to feel their presence and find healing through that connection? Grief can be a painful, overwhelming journey, but it’s also one that can offer profound moments of connection across the divide between this world and the next. So, how do we bridge that gap and keep the bond alive? In this heart-to-heart c...
Jan 29, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 272
What do you do when your child accidentally walks in on you and your spouse during an intimate moment? It’s one of those unexpected situations that can leave you feeling flustered and unsure of how to respond. In this Language of Love session, a listener, Kim, reaches out to me after experiencing one of those “mortifying parenting moments” when her 8-year-old son walked in on her and her husband during an intimate moment. Kim’s reaction? Shock, followed by a quick hug for her son and an attempt ...
Jan 22, 2025•15 min•Season 1Ep. 271
Let’s be honest—everyone wants to last longer in bed, right? So, what’s the secret to going the distance and keeping your partner satisfied? Can you really improve your stamina, or is it all just wishful thinking? The truth is, there are some simple tips and tricks you can apply to not just last longer, but also make sure your partner is definitely getting the pleasure she’s looking for. Ready to level up in the bedroom? In this Language of Love Bite, we're tackling a topic that’s on the mind of...
Jan 20, 2025•13 min•Season 1Ep. 270
Losing a child is an unimaginable pain—one that breaks you open in ways you never thought possible. When I lost my son Sammy, my world shifted in an instant. Sammy was my light, my joy, and his absence left a void that words can’t capture. Yet, in the depths of that sorrow, I began to uncover something profound: a path not just to survive the loss but to carry his love forward. Sammy’s spirit guides me, teaching me that even through the greatest heartbreak, there’s room for connection, growth, a...
Jan 15, 2025•47 min•Season 1Ep. 269
In this episode of The Language of Love Session, I continue to guide Bryan and Stacey through the ups and downs of their relationship, tackling key issues like communication, trust, and appreciation. If you haven’t tuned into their journey yet, be sure to catch up on our previous sessions—it’s a story you won’t want to miss. This week, things got a little bumpy. Both Bryan and Stacey found themselves in a tug-of-war, each trying to be "right," which only created more distance between them. As we...
Jan 08, 2025•41 min•Season 1Ep. 268
When was the last time you had a kiss that truly took your breath away? Not just a peck on the cheek or a quick smooch in passing, but a kiss so meaningful it sparked something deep inside? If it’s been a while, you’re not alone. For many couples, kissing tends to fade into the background of a long-term relationship. But here’s the good news—it doesn’t have to. In this Language of Love Bite, I’ll show you how to bring the magic back with eight key tips that will make you a better kisser. And yes...
Jan 06, 2025•9 min•Season 1Ep. 267
In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Martha Beck—bestselling author, life coach, and one of the smartest women Oprah Winfrey knows (I agree!). Martha holds three Harvard degrees and her latest book, Beyond Anxiety: Curiosity, Creativity, and Finding Your Life’s Purpose, is a powerful guide to moving past anxiety. In this episode, Martha and I dive into what she has discovered is the key to resolving anxiety. She explains how shifting from the “anxiety spiral” to ...
Jan 01, 2025•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 266
What do you do when your relationship feels stuck in a cycle of disconnection? Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you and your partner just can’t sync up? Perhaps past trauma is creating invisible walls, or the pressures of daily life are slowly pulling you apart. How can you break through and rebuild trust and intimacy when life keeps throwing curveballs? In this Language of Love session, I’m thrilled to welcome back Stacey and Brian. It’s been about a month since we last checked...
Dec 25, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 265
Did you know only 30% of women reach orgasm through intercourse alone? For women over 40, changes in nerve function, sensation and arousal sexual aids and devices are even more valuable for enhancing pleasure and connection. Have you ever felt unsure about how to introduce the idea of using a sex toy in your relationship? Or maybe you're curious about how they can bring more excitement and deeper connection for both of you? If so, you're in good company! In this Language of Love Bite, I’m sharin...
Dec 23, 2024•10 min•Season 1Ep. 264
In this powerful episode, I sit down with best-selling author, Pam Grout, to explore the profound journey of healing, love, and loss—and to discuss how, even in the darkest times, we can discover light and meaning. Pam and I share a bond beyond our love for quantum physics and a belief in manifestation. We've both faced unimaginable losses: We both lost both our parents as well as a child. I lost my son Sammy, while Pam lost her daughter to a sudden aneurysm. We’ve walked through the pain of the...
Dec 18, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 263
They swept you off your feet, showered you with affection, and made you feel like the center of their world—until they didn’t. Now, just when you thought you were done, they’re back, promising that they’ve changed and insisting that this time will be different. But can someone who left you feeling confused and used really transform that quickly? That’s exactly what Sarah, one of our listeners, is dealing with in this Language of Love Session. She broke up with her toxic ex, only for him to retur...
Dec 11, 2024•11 min•Season 1Ep. 262
Why, in a world full of endless choices, do so many of us search for that one person to share a life with? Is it loyalty, comfort, a desire for deep connection—or maybe the thrill of choosing one person out of billions, saying, “You’re my person,” and truly meaning it? But here’s the real question: can one person meet all your needs? Or maybe you've wondered why monogamy can feel so challenging at times, even when it’s deeply fulfilling? In this episode of The Language of Love Bite, we’re diving...
Dec 09, 2024•13 min•Season 1Ep. 261
Talking about the end of life isn’t exactly everyone’s favorite topic, but it’s one of the most important conversations we can have. Not only does it give our loved ones clarity and peace, but it also creates a pathway to stay connected—even after they’ve crossed over. Caregivers know this better than anyone; they lean into these talks because they understand how much they matter. So, maybe it’s time we stop avoiding the tough stuff and start having the conversations that truly count. In this La...
Dec 04, 2024•49 min•Season 1Ep. 260
So, what do you do when your sexual energy levels just don’t match up? One partner might be feeling a bit neglected or even a little angry, which can create some serious tension in the relationship. In this episode of The Language of Love Session, I’m bringing you an intimate counseling session with a brave duo, Brian and Stacey. They’re tackling some tough intimacy challenges, and their story is one that many of you might find relatable. Stacy has faced some significant sexual trauma, which und...
Nov 27, 2024•49 min•Season 1Ep. 259
Did you grow up feeling like sex was a taboo topic to discuss—something mysterious, maybe even a little forbidden? Most of us did, which can make it easy to see sex as a "guilty pleasure" rather than what it really can be—a natural, healthy and beautiful part of life. But here’s where things get interesting: turns out, a satisfying sex life does a whole lot more than bring pleasure. In this Language of Love Bite, I am breaking down all the juicy, science-backed reasons why sex is a win for your ...
Nov 25, 2024•6 min•Season 1Ep. 258
Is your inner critic throwing a party, and you’re not invited? We’ve all been there! It’s easy to get caught in a loop of limiting beliefs that keep you from living your best life. But what if I told you that the key to breaking free is simply a mindset shift away? In this Language of Love Conversation, I have an amazing conversation with Craig Siegel—renowned motivational speaker, performance coach, and bestselling author of The Reinvention Formula, a Wall Street Journal and USA Today bestselle...
Nov 20, 2024•58 min•Season 1Ep. 257
That’s one of the questions we explore in this Language of Love Session, as I dive into a letter from a listener, Veera, who’s grappling with some common and tricky troubles with intimacy, body image, and self-worth. Veera’s been feeling discomfort and even bleeding during sex with her new partner. She’s wondering, “Is this just because I’m getting older, or are we not a good match?” Veera’s partner suggests she should “relax” through intoxication, which is definitely not the best approach. If y...
Nov 13, 2024•12 min•Season 1Ep. 256
Long-term relationships can feel a bit routine at one point, and a craving for an extra spark often arises in most couples. In this episode of Language of Love Bite, I’m thrilled to take you on a journey into the captivating realm of tantric sex. This practice is all about harmonizing body, mind, and spirit to forge a sacred bond with your partner that not only intensifies physical pleasure but also enriches your emotional connection. Tantric sex offers a wonderful opportunity to deepen intimacy...
Nov 11, 2024•11 min•Season 1Ep. 255
Losing someone we love is a heartbreak like no other. When I lost my son Sammy, it felt like a piece of me went missing, but that wasn’t the end of our connection. In fact, since he crossed over, I’ve felt his presence in the most unexpected ways. Turns out, love has a way of sticking around—even when we are no longer here in physical form. In this deeply moving Language of Love Conversation, I’m thrilled to chat with Suzanne Giesemann, a spiritual teacher, evidentiary medium, and author. After ...
Nov 06, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 254
Even when we love our in laws, we all also love our space, right? But what do you do when your mother-in-law starts showing up unannounced like she’s got her own set of keys? In this Language of Love session, I dive into a challenge so many couples face: how to set healthy boundaries with in-laws. Shannon, one of my listeners, writes in to share her frustrations about her mother-in-law's frequent, unannounced visits since moving close to her husband’s hometown. While she appreciates her mother-i...
Oct 30, 2024•9 min•Season 1Ep. 253
Have you ever wondered why something meant to be pleasurable can sometimes feel uncomfortable or even painful? In this Language of Love Bite, I tackle an important issue we don’t discuss nearly enough—pain during sex. This common experience affects up to 75% of women at some point in their lives, but the good news is that you don’t have to just live with it. There are real reasons behind it, and more importantly, real solutions! I walk you through the top causes of painful sex, from dryness and ...
Oct 28, 2024•15 min•Season 1Ep. 252
Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection, like you’ve known them forever? Isn’t it amazing how some people seem to resonate with your very soul? That magical feeling isn’t just coincidence; it’s what we call a “soul friend,” and trust me, it’s more enchanting than you might think! In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m excited to sit down with the incredible Sah D'Simone—meditation teacher, artist, and bestselling author of Spiritually Sassy. Together, we’re di...
Oct 23, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 251
Postpartum sexuality—how often do we actually talk about it? Probably not enough. You’re healing, emotions are high, and intimacy might feel like a distant thought. Meanwhile, your partner might be quietly wondering how to approach it too. So, how do you bring up such a sensitive topic without making it feel like walking on eggshells? And how do you open up when you’re still figuring things out yourself? In this episode of The Language of Love Sessions, I tackle a heartfelt question from a liste...
Oct 16, 2024•10 min•Season 1Ep. 250
We’ve all been there—life throws us a curveball, and we’re left dealing with trauma. And as much as we’d love just to hit the "ignore" button, trauma has this sneaky way of creeping into our relationships. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into the deep end of trauma. We're talking all kinds here—sexual, physical, emotional, rejection, humiliation, abandonment, and betrayal trauma. It's a lot, I know, but recognizing these traumas is the first step to healing. Here is what we explore: A deep...
Oct 14, 2024•16 min•Season 1Ep. 249
A lot of people, especially women, still freak out about a few gray hairs or a new wrinkle. So, why not flip the script? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with the "Midlife Muse," clinical psychologist, speaker, and author Dr. Amanda Hanson, to dive into the tricky subject of aging—especially for women. Society pushes us to stay forever youthful, but Amanda’s here to remind us that aging can be a beautiful spiritual journey filled with wisdom. Why should our looks ...
Oct 09, 2024•51 min•Season 1Ep. 248
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you’re unsure how to come clean with your partner about something from your past? It’s uncomfortable, right? In this episode of The Language of Love Sessions, one of my listeners, Sasha, finds herself in a tough spot—she’s not sure how to come clean to her partner after being less than honest about her sexual history. We’ve all had moments where telling the truth feels scary, right? How do you face that kind of conversation? I help Sasha navigate...
Oct 02, 2024•12 min•Season 1Ep. 247
Trust issues are the sneaky villains behind many relationship troubles. Those past betrayals and broken promises make it hard to open up again. But here’s the bright side: rebuilding trust isn’t just about fixing what’s broken; it’s about turning old wounds into a fresh start. In this Language of Love Bite, I give my advice on how to build trust in relationships, especially for those dealing with past betrayals or trust issues from their upbringing. Remember to visit my website where you can exp...
Sep 30, 2024•8 min•Season 1Ep. 246
Are you grappling with the profound weight of grief and wondering if you'll ever find your way through? Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the idea that healing from loss should follow a straightforward path, only to be met with the unpredictable twists and turns of your emotions? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m chatting with the incredible David Kessler—one of the world’s top experts on grief and loss. With his decades of experience and six impactful books under his bel...
Sep 25, 2024•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 245
Many parents feel uneasy when it comes to talking to their kids about sex—it’s a tricky subject, and you’re not alone if it makes you uncomfortable. But the question is: when’s the right time to start? Should you bring it up before they hit adolescence or wait until they’re teenagers? In this Language of Love Session, I’m chatting with Linda, a listener who recently found herself knowing she needs to have the long-overdue “talk” with her 16-year-old daughter, but she’s torn. How do you start tha...
Sep 18, 2024•18 min•Season 1Ep. 244
