Some of the best decisions you’ll see, that you’ve ever made one day, were the ones when you had to fight against yourself to LET GO. Understand that the BEST doesn’t mean the EASIEST. It’s usually the opposite, which normally is what makes them the greatest, in the end. When you know dealing with her if you stay will hurt more than help, so you make the decision to leave, EVEN WHEN your heart is still with them. When you know you are in need of jumping out of your comfort zones but your FEELING...
Mar 13, 2021•8 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Are you with that someone, and happy with them BECAUSE of them? Or because of how convenient they’ve made YOUR live? Whether it’s romantically or on a level of solely friendship, you have to come to a place where you’re able to tell yourself the TRUTH! What is your, W H Y with being with them? Where does your happiness and/or contentment lie? #SomethingToThinkAbout !
Feb 22, 2021•15 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Hey Family! Jay here again just wanting to touch on how I feel and view relationships, (whether intimate or platonic), and the level of happiness we are in them AND EVEN if we are happy at all! We need to sometimes step back and reassess, simply WHY we are with who we are... It’s vital that you have mental checkpoints and check ins with those whom you invest yourself into and see where you both are! It’s how we can nip some things at the bud, before they blossom into something a lot more tedious...
Feb 05, 2021•40 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Family! Sisters! Brothers! — Yeah brothers lol Let’s have a talk man, cause I have the utmost respect for you and how you’re built, (however you’re built), and I just wanna express our LACK of expression amongst each other. We have to do a lot of work, to fix the damage that WE cause which we continue to allow our ego to control. VULNERABILITY isn’t a curse or demonic! We have to grow out of thinking a wolf stands well on their own; wolves succeed and dwell in packs and it’s not until we find th...
Jan 22, 2021•19 min
What’s up, family! *Flash back post*‼️. Guess what time it is... ⏰ it’s time, to GROW. Backbone! It’s time to stand tall, (even if that requires you to stand alone). God got you, so don’t you fret for toooo long! Some things you will ONLY find out, by going through a season, or a trial or dilemma, on your own. It does NOT MEAN that you will always be that, or that loneliness in your life is your portion NO, but it’s simply exercising your faith and stretching your spirit (wo)man out and mature! ...
Jan 19, 2021•4 min
AyeYooYouuu! What’s up family 👋🏾 I just wanted to touch and expound a bit on Potential and how it can, (and has been a TRAP 🪤) for so many of us! *Ladies Especially* There’s only so much we can do with it, as the one who sees it within someone else— I’m a stop here though! ☝🏾Take A Listen!!!
Jan 17, 2021•11 min
Hey Family! 👋🏾 Jay here back again, simply wanting to share my thoughts and express to you how we, (who lead or mentor or counsel), should NOT be one(s) who give you your final answer. We can suggest, we can weigh your options, we can let you know how we feel about a subject matter but ultimately it’s Y O U who has to make the final decision. You have to make the choice(s) that is best for what you believe is going to work out; in spite of our disgruntled face (lol) or our smiles. We can only ...
Jan 17, 2021•4 min
Hey family! 👋🏾 Jay here just wanting to touch on how Sex can not be and should not be the answered to our problems in relationships. It may suppress the inevitable sure, but it doesn’t negate the giant elephant that we can only play around and dodge for so long.. We MUST learn and be willing to deal with what’s in front of us? And between us, outright before it ruins more than just a single day and/or night.. So Let’s Talk About It!
Jan 17, 2021•5 min
Wisdom! Is a beautiful woman and she can be innocent... until you two become acquainted. She will lead you where you need, and will hold you accountable when your wants don’t meet what your needs demand. She can have a sense of humor, yet smack you with the truth. She’s a rude girl, but she’s royal and wouldn’t want anything more, than to be by your very side...
Aug 29, 2019•7 min
Take a moment to acknowledge the person that you are. WHO, are YOU? Are you, YOU? Or are you, THEM? Don’t become indebted to yourself, because you spend everything you have, on everyone else... something to think about.
Aug 23, 2018•12 min
You’ll be amazed by how much you are passing by, that you could actually USE, to steer you in the right direction.. This soliloquy I’m about to share, all started from passing a man by, heading home... hope you enjoy.
Aug 23, 2018•14 min
This episode was inspired by anpost I've seen on social media, and the Question was directed to us as men: "FELLAS, what are a few of the MOST IMPORTANT things ladies need for you to want to settle with her.." And I was AMAZED at how bland and minimal we guys were with our answers! One, two words and that was it.. How do we expect our ladies to understand us, if we refuse to EXPOUND and ELABORATE how we truly feel and what we know that we need? I will never understand, and I decided to explain M...
Jun 08, 2018•20 min
Hey this me in my car, (lol) with no real intro and just me feeling impressed to pour out on some things that I believe are relevant and what are necessary for ALL OF US to reflect on and to be honest with ourselves about! I hope this piece can be a blessing..
Apr 23, 2018•13 min
Happen to receive a lovely shoutout from a close friend of mine that just started her own podcast here on Anchor.fm! B.LaTrice!!! Support and please Follow her!!!
Feb 08, 2018•3 min
There’s more than just the finish! There’s the start and what transpires in-between that we overlook, but why??? We tend to miss so much, only seeing the goal! We MUST open our eyes to see MORE!
Feb 08, 2018•5 min
MY BIRTHDAY IS HERE! But also came the snow; so unfortunate, but what I’ve learned is that even though I was able to celebrate a new chapter arising, that I simply can’t take the next 364 days of my life for granted. Someone last night had intentions on being here this morning, and did not wake up.. Someone had plans to fulfill and meetings and weddings and a future to build and now won’t be able to make any of those things manifest.. so all I’m saying is, be GRATEFUL for where you happen to be,...
Dec 09, 2017•5 min
This is the perfect time to see who you’re running this Race for.. Are you trying to keep up with the history of your last name, or make a new lane in essence of your FIRST? Something to think about. Run YOUR Race. It’s only right and it’s fair. You can’t live for your family and you can’t live for love. You must live, and run for YOU. / Your first Name is who you are. Wear it well.
Nov 27, 2017•5 min
Just a quick piece on dealing with how WE ALL can use a little push.. and sometimes the only one we can get that from... is ourselves!
Nov 17, 2017•3 min
Calls in and shout outs In return from a couple friends of mine I’ve met on here Anchor! Dope people, and you know me, always having a Wandering mind thinking of fresh thoughts to share.. What we learn from life, and Calculated pressure.. hope you enjoy ❗️
Nov 16, 2017•13 min
We gotta get passed the “Oh you’re so sweet and oh so nice” phase and get to the understanding on someone and what position do they hold in our lives.. that’s what matters most; The pros are one thing, but can you live with their cons? THAT is what matters most.. #SomethingToThinkAbout
Nov 14, 2017•5 min
No Music + No Intro = Your undivided attention. Just had to get this off my chest: I. WILL. NEVER. understand someone showing a poker face and expecting someone else to show their hand.. Doesn’t make sense. LET ME SEE THE REAL YOU, if you want to get to know the real me. It’s only RIGHT and it’s only FAIR. No more of this elementary questionnaire and lame jokes; let’s get to the meat of conversation and see just how far we’re able to go. I see you, you see me and let the chips fall as they may..
Nov 09, 2017•5 min
Believe it or not, you aren’t limited by what you go through, because as you’ve noticed, you’ve gotten through everything you said you COULDN’T get through at some point! You MADE IT THROUGH!
Nov 09, 2017•4 min
Hey hey! Just getting off work and just had a few thoughts to share with you are for a second about How your self-esteem is mishandled, simply because we forget the operative word is SELF. NOBODY should be able to knock us off of a foundation that we’ve built by ourselves. If you allow others words and affirmations to build you up? They have the same power to knock you back down.. that and a note or two about being single and how you masturdating isn’t always going to cut it! You can’t learn EVE...
Nov 08, 2017•5 min
Shout Out to a friend (Sentient Future) for the support and respect so far! and a simple Check in to each and every one of you who are willing to listen and to share! There’s nothing like being a friend, then offering friendship first. We all could use more of them..
Nov 08, 2017•3 min
Hey! Wanted to share a quick story of survival with you all that I had this time last year! Drunk driver happened to hit me and got me pretty good, BUT God kept me and allowed me to see another year ! Oh So Thankful
Nov 08, 2017•5 min
Level of your work ethic = level of success | Bring back the balance! Just like in school, if you want success you must sacrifice; in order to bring a balance for a healthy lifestyle and success you MUST put YOU as one of the biggest priorities that you have. Learn how to be selfless, by giving yourSELF, AWAY to YOURSELF. YOU NEED YOU JUST AS MUCH!
Nov 07, 2017•5 min
Whats the most important thing in a relationship? Is it love? Sex? Companionship? I️ think I️ have an answer that may change your mind..
Nov 06, 2017•4 min
Just the intro!! (Part 2) Shout Out to Anchor
Nov 06, 2017•2 min
Just the Intro!!
Nov 06, 2017•2 min
