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Change Your Story, Change Your Life

Louis Di Biancochangeyourstorypodcast.com
Humans are storytelling machines. You and I are constantly creating, destroying, elevating, and diminishing ourselves with our inner narratives that appear and disappear in our minds 24/7. Most people are not aware of this process. As a result, they believe that life is happening to them. This feels random, chaotic, and scary. Why do people tolerate it? Because they tell themselves, "That's the way it is. That is reality." Those seven words could not be farther from the truth. This podcast will explore the storytelling process that is responsible for every facet of your life. It will discuss and encourage ways to take control of your personal narrative so that you can begin directing your destiny with an empowering story.
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Episodes

The Boring Exercise

This episode offers you the exciting challenge to breakthrough limiting beliefs through a "boring" exercise. You will learn the exercise in three parts. 00:25 - Discover Part 1 00:58 - Discover Part 2 01:42 - Goal of Part 2 01:52 - Discover Part 3 02:30 - Why Exercise is Powerful 03:24 - Discover a New Story 03:39 - Ask the Powerful Question 04:08 - Get Unstuck 04:35 - Experience a New Sense of Living 04:48 - Your Main Story Barrier 05:15 - The Lie of "I Am" Statements 05:51 - Quicksand Stories ...

Aug 20, 20238 minEp. 232

What's A Story?

Do you really know what a story is? Seems like a silly question, right? Actually, it's the most import question you ever ask? This episode reveals: Why stories are not just entertainment An empowering definition of story The role of religious stories The power of personal stories Why you must fully own your inner stories You'll also discover: Why you are an actor The true nature of your identity How to rewrite your personal story How to gain new personal power and freedom...

Aug 08, 20238 minEp. 231

The Exponential Story

The most important story for you to understand, right now in 2023, and moving forward, is THE EXPONENTIAL STORY. The meaning of that statement has everything to do with dinosaurs. The dinosaur was king of the Cretaceous Period of planet Earth. That was few years ago. 66 million years to be exact. It was a very hot humid world; most land was submerged under massive oceans. Can you guess how many years the dinos dominated the earth? If you guessed 100 million years, you are BINGO, correct! With th...

Aug 05, 20236 minEp. 230

YOU ARE YOUR STORY

YOU ARE YOUR STORY Episode Details The dictionary defines story as "an account of imaginary or real people and events told for entertainment." Wow! The problem phrase in that definition is "told for entertainment." If all stories are told for entertainment, then they don't have much to do with our happiness, relationships, and income. They are just forms of distraction. That's a dangerous view of stories. Why? Because every action you take, the place you decide to live, the people you spend time...

Aug 03, 20233 minEp. 229

The Soaring Entrepreneur

The biggest challenge that most entrepreneurs face is how to scale their business. Scaling is the rocket fuel that propels a business into exponential success. It overcomes all obstacles to massive growth, explodes a business's income potential, and allows entrepreneurs to create enormous wealth while making a global impact on people's lives. If you want to scale your business, you must be willing to embrace your biggest fears and transform yourself from a caterpillar to a butterfly. Today's gue...

Aug 28, 20221 hr 11 minEp. 228

227: The Most Powerful Story

WHAT YOU SAY TO YOURSELF This episode reveals the two most powerful words that determine the quality of your life. Discover how you are creating the reality you live into every day by using two simple ordinary words. Then, learn how to remove the limits you put on your thinking and your accomplishments by changing the way you talk to yourself. BOOK IN THIS PODCAST Limitless: Upgrade Your Brain, Learn Anything Faster, and Unlock Your Exceptional Life by Jim Kwik QUOTE “Our eyes only see and our e...

Jul 28, 202017 minEp. 227

226: Professional Victims

ARE THERE PROFESSIONAL VICTIMS? I wish I could answer no, but I can't. Unfortunately, the truth is that there are many professional victims, and their club is growing exponentially in today's world. This episode explores the victim mindset that I have labelled Rearden Syndrome. The name refers to a principal character, Hank Rearden, in Ayn Rand's 1957 novel, Atlas Shrugged . The book quickly became an entrepreneur's manifesto, and it still is today. Our podcast guest is Randy Gage, a mega-succes...

Apr 02, 20201 hr 15 min

225: Coronavirus Story

WHAT'S MORE DEADLY THAN CORONAVIRUS? This episode presents a fascinating view of COVID 19 that can empower you and give you the strength and hope to face down this dangerous viral threat. Here are some of the empowering highlights in this podcast: You will learn a simple party game called the Telephone Game that will let you experience firsthand the awesome power of storytelling in your life. Then, you will see the link between this game and the information that you choose to accept about Corona...

Mar 18, 202021 minEp. 225

224: Fly High

Will You Dare to Fly Too High? This episode explores the powerful social story that controls many of our lives today. It is a story that demands our obedience, our conformity, our silence, and our willingness to destroy our dreams that challenge the status quo. It is a story that made the industrial age and corporate culture dominant for many decades. It is a story that is disintegrating. But, it still hold son to us and stops us from creating, growing, and standing out. In 2020, we are living i...

Mar 06, 202016 min

223: All Beliefs Are Stories

This episode is a continuation of our exploration about you beliefs as made up stories. It takes you on a fascinating, sometimes scary ride, into your unconscious mind and reveals it's power to create reality. Some things you will discover in this episode: The answer to the question, "Would you confess to a crime you did not commit?" Any thought that you focus on long enough can become your reality. A documented shocking case of false confession. What a play about the Salem witch trials of 1692 ...

Feb 29, 202026 min

222: Your Beliefs Are Stories

Humans are hardwired to feel that their beliefs are real. We filter all that we see and hear through our beliefs and think that the world we perceive is objective reality. There is so much evidence to prove that all beliefs are just made up stories. Why do we make them up? In order to feel that our lives are on solid ground. There is an upside to that. There is also a major downside. Our beliefs often clash with the beliefs of others. If we hold on to our narratives tightly we will experience di...

Feb 17, 202010 min

221: Change Your Story Reinvented

This is the first episode of 2020. I'm introducing a new lean format that will feature many solo episodes. Each new episode will explore another way that stories create our reality.

Feb 13, 20207 minSeason 1Ep. 221

220: Fitness Rocks

FITNESS ROCKS Today, it’s easy for everyone to be physically fit. It’s also easy not to. Which choice will you make? It all depends on your story. This episode has the potential to change your life. It can inspire you to become the best version of yourself, physically, emotionally, and financially. Our guest is Russ Yeager, a man who transformed himself from a chubby kid who didn’t like his body to a man who won an international physical transformation contest. Now, he helps people experience op...

Oct 19, 201958 min

219: Sweet Spot

SWEET SPOT A sweet spot in golf is the perfect place to hit the ball. You know you’ve hit the sweet spot when you hear that addictive “crack” sound the driver makes as it connects and sends the ball on a victorious flight toward the green. That kind of golf shot is addictive because you, your club, and your ball become one, and you feel the thrill of excellence in your body. Today’s podcast guest is a golf pro, Cindy Miller. She understands how golf is a perfect metaphor for life. She not only t...

Sep 14, 201945 min

218: Darkness Into Light

DARKNESS INTO LIGHT Marianne Williamson, author of A Return to Love:Reflections on the Principles of “A Course in Miracles,” said, “It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.” Today’s guest is a woman whose life supports Williamson’s words. Her name is Kerri Hummingbird, and her story is an inspiring example of a person’s journey from darkness into light. She is the author of two books, a spiritual guide, and a healer. She is also the host of the Soul Nectar podcast. Our intervie...

Sep 07, 20191 hr 6 min

217: Flip To Win

FLIP TO WIN This episode is about flipping houses. Actually, it’s about much more than that. It’s about learning how to flip to win. Flip what? Your life, of course. Today’s guest, Mike Green, is an expert on flipping houses to create financial freedom. The thing is that Mike would have never achieved success and freedom if he didn’t first flip his life from the losing side to the winning side. You’re in for a rich experience as you listen to Mike. He will teach you how to flip to win. Here’s a ...

Aug 31, 201946 min

216: Friday Story

FRIDAY STORY What is the Friday story? It’s the universal freedom cry of people who trade their time for money each week from Monday to Friday. The expression TGIF makes people smile and celebrate time away from responsibility and, often, boredom. But, is the Friday story something to smile about? It can be. And, it can also be a trap that keeps people stuck in unfulfilling work and mediocrity. This episode explores the TGIF mindset. It aims to raise your awareness about the story you tell yours...

Aug 17, 201919 min

215: Your Worst Enemy

YOUR WORST ENEMY Have you ever heard the expression, you are your worst enemy? You’ve heard it and probably have said it. This episode explores that expression that many of us regard as innocent. We take a close look at how those words impact our lives, and, often, steal our happiness. We also look at how “You are your worst enemy” is a narrative built on other narratives. The goal of this episode is to raise your awareness about the stories that are all too familiar to us that we tell ourselves...

Aug 14, 201913 min

214: Power of Story

STORY POWER Never underestimate story power. A work of pure fiction has the power to enrich your life or to end it. Today, we live in a world where powerful narratives of division and hate are leading to death and destruction. One of the most powerful contemporary stories is the myth of white supremacy. Do you understand and acknowledge story power in your life?

Aug 10, 201914 min

213: Fired Up

FIRED UP Today’s episode is an interview with Cody Byrns, a man with a jaw dropping inspiring story about overcoming horrific obstacles and achieving success and happiness. Cody’s story is a journey from hope, through darkness and pain, to growth and enrichment. Today, he is an internationally recognized speaker and #1 best selling author of the book, Scar Release: Breaking Free of yesterday’s Troubles . As you listen, these are some fascinating discoveries you’ll make along the way: The influen...

Jul 06, 201952 min

212: Crazy Stories

CRAZY STORIES You’re probably familiar with the idea of self talk. Maybe, you’re too familiar with it. You just assume you know what it is, so you take it for granted. You understand self talk in your head. But, you don’t pay close attention to it in your daily life. Don’t worry. You are not alone. This episode looks closely at the real power of self talk to enrich your life, or to destroy it. When self talk happens automatically and is not monitored it can create crazy stories. Crazy stories ar...

Jun 29, 201925 min

211: Who Writes Your Story?

WHO WRITES YOUR STORY? Is your life based on lies, made-up stories, or noble beliefs? What if they are all the same thing? Then, the important question becomes, “Who writes your story?” This episode explore the idea that we all need stories to motivate and inspire our lives, and that all our beliefs serve to keep us in the game of living. But, make no mistake about it; all beliefs are constructs. They are made up. Most of us grew up with strong beliefs about the importance of formal education. T...

Jun 26, 201922 min

210: Zero Limits

ZERO LIMITS This episode takes a deeper dive into the premise of my podcast; it explores the idea that every thought you have, every word you speak, is a story or part of a story. That means that you are making up reality; you are making up and creating your life. You have the potential to create a life with zero limits. Will you do it? I found the inspiration for today’s show in the work of Joe Vitale, one of the teachers in the famous movie, “The Secret.” Vitale co-authored, with Dr. Hew Len, ...

Jun 22, 201919 min

209: Thoughts Are Things

THOUGHTS ARE THINGS Today’s episode is truly a game changing, story changing thing. You will learn why and how your thoughts are things; they are thought things. Thoughts are things is not just an analogy. It is literal. A thought is as much a thing as a hot burning coal, a shard of glass, or a soft pillow. And, like things, thoughts affect your physical body. You’ll be amazed at what science is revealing about the power of your thoughts to create any reality you desire. Enjoy this adventurous e...

Jun 19, 201938 min

208: Story Loops

STORY LOOPS We all get caught in story loops, but often we don’t know it. In fact, we may not even know what a story loop is. A story loop is a recurring thought or series of thoughts that play in our heads over and over. It’s like listening to a broken record that’s stuck in one spot. We experience three different kinds of story loops: Obsession – We are preoccupied with something or someone that we have made very important in our minds. Resistance – We have recurring unpleasant thoughts that m...

Jun 15, 201914 min

207: Name Game

NAME GAME This episode explores the question, “What’s in a name?” Listen and play the name game while you learn some fascinating things about your name and your persona. We all have a name. Most of us take our names for granted. We don’t think about the stories our names tell to the world. Robert tells a different story than Bobby. In my case, Louis tells a different story than Louie. Here’s my story about that. I play a lot of mobsters in movies. I used to go by the name of Louie. And, on many ...

Jun 12, 201916 min

206: Good Hood

GOOD HOOD This episode will empower you to triumph over any of life’s circumstances. You will hear the true inspiring story of a man who was born into extreme adversity and chose to create an extraordinary life in spite of it. The man is Johnny Wimbrey. He was raised in a battered women’s shelter. He learned to survive on the street as a fourteen year old drug dealer. He had a rap sheet before he was twenty. Today, he is an internationally acclaimed speaker, author, coach and team builder to pro...

Jun 08, 20191 hr 19 min

205: FOMO

FOMO It must be pretty widespread to have its own acronym. I’m talking about FOMO, the fear of missing out. Missing out on what? Anything. You name it. Not having the latest smartphone, tablet, or other mobile device. Not getting in on the prelaunch of a marketing guru’s latest course or product. Missing the deadline for that VIP membership site; hey, who knows when or if it will open again? We’ve all experienced the fear of missing out to some degree in our lives. After all, this is the digital...

Jun 05, 201926 min

204: Stages of Truth

STAGES OF TRUTH The philosopher, Arthur Schopenhauer, gave us the concept of the three stages of truth. There’s a debate about whether or not it was Schopenhauer. That’s not what this podcast is about. This episode explores the brilliant observation that any new truth must pass through three stages before it is fully accepted and embraced by society. The three stages of truth are: Ridicule Violent Opposition Self Evident It’s fascinating that people will accept something as self evident, and, at...

Jun 01, 201921 min

203: Scary Story

SCARY STORY This episode is about a scary story that isn’t scary at all. In fact, it’s an exciting story if you choose to see what it’s really about. First, an important reminder. Tyrion Lannister, at the finale of Game of Thrones, says that people are not united by armies, gold, or flags. They are united by stories, and that there is nothing more powerful than a good story. The people who laugh at that statement don’t get how profound it is. Tyrion is saying that all of life is a magnificent st...

May 29, 201924 min
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