Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her. Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…” She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to hi...
Jul 12, 2024•6 min•Transcript available on Metacast >>> Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com >>> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com...
Jul 11, 2024•48 min•Transcript available on Metacast “How and when should I have the conversation that I want marriage and kids?” Good question! And definitely a tricky subject for most people. We are told to be honest about what we want, but we also worry about scaring someone off if we bring it up too soon. In today’s episode, I give you 6 practical steps to help you determine if someone shares your goals and timeline, figure out exactly what you want (and come up with a plan for each possibility), and approach these conversations in a natural a...
Jul 08, 2024•29 min•Transcript available on Metacast Do you find yourself always falling for a guy too fast? You go on a few dates, maybe you end up sleeping with him, and then… you’re totally hooked. Suddenly, he’s the #1 topic of conversation with you and your friends. You find yourself constantly wanting to text him. You sit at home wondering what he’s up to. You’re tempted to rush things forward. Wait. Stop. Relax. There’s nothing wrong with being a romantic, but you have to be so careful here to make the right decisions going forward. If you ...
Jul 05, 2024•13 min•Transcript available on Metacast When you've made progress getting over someone, then they send you a text, how should you react? Or maybe they still like your instagram posts, respond to your stories, or you see glimpses of their life with a new partner and it triggers you... In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to deal with triggers that derail your progress and what to do when you're trying to move on for good and want to TRULY get over your ex. >>> Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn ...
Jul 03, 2024•36 min•Transcript available on Metacast Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attract and keep someone (even when we don’t really know them yet). Thankfully, this kind of “anxious dating” is something you can actually solve. In today’s episode, I dive into where this obsession comes from, and give you 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly and self-sabotaging in early dating . >>> Transform Your Relationship...
Jul 01, 2024•22 min•Transcript available on Metacast Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people? It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want. In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. At the end of this video, I give you a practical “min...
Jun 28, 2024•6 min•Transcript available on Metacast When is the best time to ask the person you’re dating if they’re still dating other people? Is there a “sweet spot” during the dating process to have the exclusivity conversation? In today’s podcast, you’ll learn how to balance emotional intuition with practical strategy . . . plus avoid emotional manipulators and love bombers in the process. You’ll also learn how important connection is (and when feeling it in the early days of dating can lead you down the wrong path, especially when chemistry ...
Jun 26, 2024•48 min•Transcript available on Metacast In today’s new episode, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share them with you). From a painful childhood to a 10-year relationship with a narcissist, she wanted to figure out how to release shame, heal, and find her true self. No matter what your story is, you don’t have to carry this baggage forever. After listening to Cara’s story, you might start to look at your life, your history, and your future differently. ...
Jun 24, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we're afraid we will "make waves" in the relationship. We come from a place of fear and anxiety. "What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?" we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer. But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on. If this is you, this episode is for you. >> Sign up N...
Jun 21, 2024•5 min•Transcript available on Metacast ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com...
Jun 19, 2024•35 min•Transcript available on Metacast Have you ever wondered how you can move on from someone you never dated? Perhaps you’ve been pining for them for months (or even years) . . . hoping they’ll finally notice you and see your value. This great question is one of 7 I answer in today’s new episode, based on the comments you left me last week. I also dig into topics like: • What’s the best way to start a long-distance relationship? • What’s your dating advice for people over 40? • Why did they change their mind about being ready for a...
Jun 17, 2024•24 min•Transcript available on Metacast What do you do when you’re a giving person but you feel like your kindness gets taken advantage of in relationships? Maybe you feel like you’re always the one trying and then your resentment builds up until one day you explode in anger. In this video, I show you why we get trapped in the curse of people pleasing, how to set appropriate boundaries, and how to ask for what you need from someone you’re dating. --- ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://w...
Jun 14, 2024•8 min•Transcript available on Metacast The concept of "love languages" has been incredibly popular in recent years. But is there really only 5 ways to give and receive love? And how useful is the idea of love languages when trying to find a compatible partner for a relationship? Join Matt, Stephen and Audrey for an explanation of the science around love languages, criticisms and challenges of the theory, and how you can apply them when dating. ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The...
Jun 12, 2024•31 min•Transcript available on Metacast "How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?" This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today's rapid-fire Q&A episode, which also includes answers to: "What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?" "When Did You Last Cry?" "How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?" "Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?" ... and much more. It was super fun to read and answer all your questions. Be su...
Jun 10, 2024•20 min•Transcript available on Metacast If you’ve ever wondered, “do they actually like me?" then you don’t want to miss this episode… How do you know if someone genuinely has eyes for you, or if they're just like that with everyone they meet? Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on. You need to know when you have the green light. You need to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters. In this clip then, I'll show you the 7 obvio...
Jun 07, 2024•4 min•Transcript available on Metacast Have you ever gotten intimate with someone who seemed to show ALL the signs of wanting more with you, only for them to go cold afterwards? Why does this happen? And is there anything you can do to protect yourself from this happening again? In this episode, Matt and Audrey discuss why men can disappear after sex, how to judge whether to sleep with someone or not, and how not to get seduced by the wrong people. ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://ww...
Jun 05, 2024•39 min•Transcript available on Metacast Is love enough to keep a relationship going? You may have asked yourself this question when you’ve faced a difficult breakup. In today’s episode, I go deep on this question, and talk about 7 compatibility tests that can help determine whether your relationship will last. These are some of the most underrated qualities in a partner, and after watching, you’ll never look at compatibility the same way again . . . ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Yo...
Jun 03, 2024•17 min•Transcript available on Metacast Perhaps you've felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect date… Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most ... Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego. Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life,...
May 31, 2024•9 min•Transcript available on Metacast We answered YOUR dating questions! Join me and my wife Audrey as we dive into fears of cheating, red flags on dating apps, confusing post-break up texts and more! ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http:/...
May 29, 2024•23 min•Transcript available on Metacast When we’re stuck in a situationship with someone who doesn’t know what they want, it’s incredibly frustrating. As soon as we like someone and hear the words “I’m not ready for a relationship right now,” it feels like we’re suddenly back to square one! If you’re tired of not knowing where you stand, you’ve come to the right place. In this episode, I share 5 signs that can reveal if someone is ready for a relationship, plus a key question you can ask yourself and use anytime you feel stuck or conf...
May 27, 2024•19 min•Transcript available on Metacast Have you been with someone who wants attention, connection, spends time with you...but they'll never commit? And when you ask them why they keep in touch they say something like "I just can't let you go". If you've been in this situation, listen to this message. It's ESSENTIAL listening to help you take back your life and make the most important decision you could make right now. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → ht...
May 24, 2024•6 min•Transcript available on Metacast Have you ever felt like you lost "The One" because of bad timing? They moved country, they weren't ready to commit, or they hadn't matured enough yet? It's common to tell ourselves this is a case of "right person, wrong time". But that can make the pain of loss even worse. We despair that we've lost a great love and it's down to pure bad luck. If you're struggling to get over someone like this, make sure to listen to this episode. Matt and Audrey talk about the myth of "right person wrong time" ...
May 22, 2024•39 min•Transcript available on Metacast Most people want to avoid players in dating . . . yet why do so many end up in relationships (or situationships) with them? Sadly, it’s all too common to get seduced into a roller coaster romance where we feel amazing chemistry but never know where we stand with someone. Today I’m giving you the best advice I’ve given on this topic through 7 clips that will help you avoid players and find the right person. If you’re ready to rewire your brain and start attracting someone who says “yes” to a rela...
May 20, 2024•21 min•Transcript available on Metacast It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people. It can be hard to read someone’s intentions in the early stages. I can’t make you a foolproof lie detector, and I can’t guarantee you’ll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent “detector of intentions” so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with yo...
May 17, 2024•9 min•Transcript available on Metacast Matthew sits down to talk with Sabrina Zohar ( sabrina.zohar ) on unrealistic expectations in dating, healing old wounds, setting boundaries, choosing a happy relationship, and how insecurities affect who we date. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►►Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → http://www.The3Relationships.com...
May 15, 2024•55 min•Transcript available on Metacast So you just realized you actually like someone? Hold up a second . . . When we fall for someone in the early stages of dating, it’s very easy to drop our standards and lose sight of our boundaries. We check our texts constantly. We cancel other plans for them. We agree to live on their schedule. This situation is especially dangerous for people who have a more anxious attachment style and tend to respond to relationship uncertainty by bending over backwards to keep someone happy. In today’s new ...
May 13, 2024•13 min•Transcript available on Metacast There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s nothing bigger, is there?” That’s often true in attraction too. So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results. As you’ll hear in this episode, turning someone’s head doesn’t have to be complicated. --- ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLU...
May 10, 2024•7 min•Transcript available on Metacast Over the past week, so many of you have expressed how much Angela’s story in my new book, Love Life, touched you deeply (in the chapter titled “Have Hard Conversations”). So this week I thought I’d share the actual interview with her from my Live Retreat. I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Our looks, our age, our past, even the fact that we have kids—the fear of rejection for who we are can ...
May 06, 2024•28 min•Transcript available on Metacast Labels sometimes take longer to come than the feelings themselves, and our fear of getting hurt can make us all reluctant to be vulnerable and express what we feel. As a result, so many people come to me asking . . . “Are we living in a time when people just don’t want to commit anymore?” “How do you know if someone is ready?” These two questions pop up A LOT, and that got me thinking about my own thoughts on the subject . . . In this rewind episode, I give you 11 specific signs to look for to d...
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