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You're Doing It Wrong

Mia Schachter and Risdon Robertsconsentwizardry.com

A twink, Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry), and a whore, Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy), talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no.

Episodes

Kelly talks about the Left Eating Our Own

Kelly comes on to talk about shutting down a social justice project because of Cancel Culture and the ways the Left eat our own. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Consent Wizardry’s Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher- artist, musician , and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group...

Nov 20, 2024

Daddy?

This episode was recorded before our last episode. We published them out of order because Mia wanted to wait to secure the rights to their canceled book, Unsolicited Advice, now available on Substack . We talk with Mischa Byruck about men and all the worst things you've ever done. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster ,...

Sep 24, 2024

We got too high and had sex anyway

We talk about getting high and having sex anyway, regret, blame, and punishment. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack . Risdon Roberts...

Sep 11, 2024

My needs don't change because of your needs

Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substack . Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circl...

May 23, 2024

Brad Stops By

Our friend Brad stops by. He runs @nature.is.not.metal on IG. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry . Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educator, and Restorative Circl...

Apr 19, 2024

The One About Incest

CW: Incest, CSA. We talk about incest, taboo, the moralization of science, and so much more. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry . Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent ...

Mar 29, 2024

Literal Violence

We talk about when your body does stuff that confuses your mind, how being allowed to change your mind also comes with having to stand by the choices you make, and literal violence. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Insta...

Feb 16, 2024

People Pleasing, Regret, and Fingers in Butts

We talk about people pleasing, regret, dry fingers in butts, retroactively being upset, consent not taking place vs being violated, and members of oppressed groups thinking they can oppress others. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work o...

Feb 01, 2024

When Consent Is Not the Priority

We talk about mosquito slaps, cults, facilitating makeouts, boarding school, and when consent is not the top priority. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry . Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consul...

Nov 02, 2023

The Falleability of Memory

We talk about the fallibility of memory, believing women, and whether or not mia can make risdon orgasm on command. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry . Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultan...

Oct 26, 2023

Mia Gets Canceled By Israel

We talk about Gigi Hadid and the Israeli government’s IG account resharing Mia’s post, surveillance, surrogate partner therapy, and cognitive dissonance. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry . Risdon Rober...

Oct 19, 2023

Be/Do, Bisexuals, and RENT

We talk about the queer be/do phenomenon, biphobia, RENT the musical, being shy, and making out. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry . Risdon Roberts (she/they) is an Intimacy Consultant, CW Consent Educa...

Oct 13, 2023

Capacity

Two people who are doing capacity wrong talk about capacity, dishonesty, and the veil between you and yourself. We can’t figure out wtf is wrong with our mics. We are working on it. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @con...

Oct 05, 2023

Repentance

Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry) and Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy) talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no. We talk about Yom Kippur, cycles of harm and repair, mercy, and our own list of murderable offenses. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follo...

Sep 28, 2023

You're Doing It Wrong!

Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry) and Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy) talk about consent, sex, sex work, cancelation, divesting from binaries, and leftist pillow talk. We introduce ourselves, talk about how we got into this work, our approaches, and what consent means to us. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They tea...

Sep 21, 2023