In this episode we explore a couple of reasons women, a lot of times, miss out on a good partner or a great romance experience. The mindset that keeps you away from attracting your person and the attitude that makes you repel them as well. Women tend to speak out more about their struggles in that department, which is why I dedicate this whole episode to them. Hope this adds value to y’all. Like share and subscribe for more juicy content.
Apr 29, 2025•27 min•Season 2Ep. 21
Send us a text Ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of arguments with your partner, each time hoping for victory that never really comes? Join me as I unravel the art of effective communication in relationships, drawing from personal experiences with my wife. We'll explore why the urge to "win" every disagreement can be more damaging than we realize and how establishing principles like calm tones and clear emotional expression can foster a thriving relationship. This episode promises to equip yo...
Dec 09, 2024•13 min
Send us a text Ever found yourself wondering why relationships, so full of promise at the start, can sometimes crumble despite the best intentions? Welcome to our latest heart-to-heart chat, where we unlock the secrets to enduring partnerships. This episode is a treasure trove of insights, from my personal journey and those of close companions, revealing the pivotal roles that self-awareness, relationship skills, and a collaborative mindset play in love's complex dance. Forget the notion of batt...
May 18, 2024•29 min
Send us a text Have you ever been intrigued by the elusive concept of a 'high-value' partner? Join us as we navigate the intricate landscape of relationships, scrutinizing beyond the traditional expectations of financial and physical attributes. In a society that often underscores wealth and aesthetics, we peel back the layers to reveal the essence of a genuinely high-value individual, integrating emotional intelligence and a shared life vision. Our candid conversation not only challenges norms ...
May 17, 2024•39 min
Send us a text Have you ever felt pigeonholed by the societal labels of 'masculine' and 'feminine'? Join me, Mael, as we unwrap the intricate layers of energy dynamics within ourselves that transcend gender stereotypes. In an enlightening discussion, we tear down the misconceptions tying certain energies to gender roles and examine how acknowledging and harnessing both masculine and feminine traits can lead to a more fulfilling connection with our partners. We're challenging the status quo and s...
May 04, 2024•36 min
Send us a text Have you ever stood in the eye of an emotional hurricane with your partner, wondering how to calm the storm? As your guide on the You Plus Me Boulevard show, I'm here to equip you with the compass and map to navigate out of conflict and into smoother waters. You'll walk away with the understanding that sometimes, being happy together is more important than proving a point. We'll explore the transformative power of humility in relationships and how recognizing and speaking your par...
Feb 01, 2024•27 min
Send us a text Ever found yourself picking at the wrong tree for the fruit you desire? That's the heartache shared by a listener and the starting point of our soul-searching journey through the landscape of love and relationships. Together, we peel back the layers on why entering the dating scene with expectations set in stone may not bring the love we seek. Self-love emerges as a cornerstone of discussion; it's the wellspring from which genuine connections flow. This episode is an invitation to...
Jan 22, 2024•49 min
Send us a text In this episode of your podcast, we explore the intricacies of dating and provide three valuable tips to ease the pressure associated with it. We delve into the importance of self-awareness and understanding one's own needs and desires, as well as emphasizing the significance of maintaining a positive mindset throughout the dating journey. Additionally, we offer practical advice on effective communication and setting realistic expectations in order to foster healthier and more ful...
Dec 20, 2023•46 min
Send us a text Ever wondered why some marriages flourish while others flounder? Join us, your hosts, as we unpack the realities of marriage and relationships, going beyond the rose-tinted glasses. We get real about what it takes to keep a marriage healthy, dynamic, and strong through personal anecdotes, insights and some home truths about compromise, financial management, and the importance of choice in picking the right life partner. Don't be left in the lurch when it comes to managing insecuri...
Dec 09, 2023•46 min
Send us a text In this episode, I explain how I’ve gained strength by becoming aware of my lack of vulnerability to my partner and how I believe you can give strength to your partner as well once you’ve gained it yourself. Do not let people talk you into their messed up blueprint of life because they’re suffering from identity foreclosure. Get in tune with yourself and find people who align with who you are to guide you properly towards growth and greatness. --- hope you enjoy!...
Nov 05, 2023•36 min
Send us a text In this episode we explore dating apps, the approach for men, systematic mistakes men make when trying to start a conversation and how you can improve your chances of actually having results you expect. I gave you 5 things to practice on once you match with a potential crush and you want to get her attention and transition into meeting her in person. If you have any questions, comments, or suggestions for future episodes, please don't hesitate to reach out to me. You can find me o...
Apr 28, 2023•22 min
Send us a text This episode take a feedback from a listener as an opportunity to discuss the reasons it’s best to show your personality than to be a performer. Performers are often pretenders and in relationships pretenders are soon found out and dumped. Don’t be that person…for any suggestions, comments, etc, please reach out to me directly on IG @th3luvdud3 or you can also email us at silverslp@icloud.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/message...
Apr 19, 2023•19 min
Send us a text This episode is a zoom-in on popular expression “equally yoked” and a closer look at how relationship are developed and nurtured. Relationships aren’t canned food you microwave, they’re the meal you cook from ingredients you acquire through observation, awareness, clarity and open mindedness. Often we get lost in concept we were told about. Ultiwe must give ourselves the chance to see things for what they are, rather than what we were told they are. --- Send in a voice message: ht...
Apr 07, 2023•16 min
Send us a text What’s compatibility for you, how does that translate in your relationships? As you ask yourself those questions, we identify the main types of relationships compatibility wise and what we see from outside versus what they see inside and how it translate for each person. How must you approach those and what to avoid. Listen in, like, share, support and Feel free to book your free coaching session for 30 days here 👉 https://linktr.ee/YOUplusMEBLVD?fbclid=IwAR0yggIdPE9uqcXb__sGmQOk...
Mar 11, 2023•22 min
Send us a text Imposter syndrome, what it is, what it makes you do and think, how it influences your relationships and your connections to others and on your life in general. How to combat it in your social life and improvise the way you approach connecting with others. Dating coaching services is live, book your dating strategy call today here 👉 https://linktr.ee/YOUplusMEBLVD?fbclid=IwAR0yggIdPE9uqcXb__sGmQOk-dQv3W43E6f66Yv_SOHO7acl2OkNKZK7rfk--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.sp...
Feb 08, 2023•52 min
Send us a text Today we have a conversation artist, entrepreneur, day trader, multicultural single dad August D. who has graciously agreed to share with us his perspective on the use of dating apps. This man has a very extensive experience and I dare say expertise on using dating apps. So he gets to explain that experience and his own values based of the experience of online dating. Like and share if you find value in this episode at all. Leave a review as well to help us grow and bring more and...
Jul 24, 2022•43 min
Send us a text Today we talk about the concept of ideal partner, and how to get yours. We all want the best in our lives and the best means very a different thing for each of us. But also the best is often right in front of us but we don’t always pay attention because we have a different perception of it. What you want is not always what you need and we are diving into identifying it to identify ourselves better. Tune in and hope you enjoy. As always the IG page for this podcast show is at https...
Jul 19, 2022•54 min
Send us a text This episode has me sharing more on my own internal struggles, the trauma over the years from childhood to now. And how I deal with it currently. Feel free to reach out on our new Instagram page, @you+meblvd , share with me your struggle if you want, and your process to work it out. Let’s talk fam. I love you all. https://www.instagram.com/youplusmeblvd/--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters...
Jul 07, 2022•38 min
Send us a text Coming at you with some learning of the past few months and perhaps couple of years. It takes some healthy self image to love on thyself and to develop the right attitude to love on someone else be it a friend or a lover. Here we lay down 5 things I picked up along my growth journey to better self-image. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
May 08, 2022•39 min
Send us a text A conversation on mindset and approach to break ups and what to nourish, build from and build on when those things occur. Today’s guest is Writer, Entrepreneur, investor Eurenice who i have the privilege to exchange with. Hope you enjoy!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
Mar 07, 2022•1 hr 23 min
Send us a text We’re diving into Simone’s life today listening to her story, learning more about releasing control or keeping control. Manifesting the right people or vibrating to the wrong ones and attracting them. Hope you enjoy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
Dec 08, 2021•1 hr 21 min
Send us a text Authenticity in relationships is a commodity that can be scarce these days. Relationships with the wrong foundations will not last so today we discuss authenticity to build true real and long lasting foundations for a long lasting relationship --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
Nov 25, 2021•26 min
Send us a text In this episode I’m giving my take on some people’s bad habit of breaching a potential partners privacy before they even build any sort of bond with them. Enjoy!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
Sep 06, 2021•24 min
Send us a text Relationships challenge our thinking, so we tend to question both ourself and our partner. Which in a sense gives us anxiety. What are the signs you’re having anxiety in your relationship, what’s causing them and how can you improve. Listen and enjoy!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
Aug 24, 2021•27 min
Send us a text What’s the law receptivity, how does it apply to relationships, how do we find in ourselves first what we are so quick to look for in people?! We discuss those questions today in this episode. Enjoy!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
Aug 02, 2021•44 min
Send us a text This episodes discusses how we get attached to others and why we do it. What is an attachment style and what is yours?! Listen to this episode and find out!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
Jul 06, 2021•38 min
Send us a text How do you like to be apologized to?! just like the 5 love languages, there are the 5 apology languages. they constitute language of the ways you like people to apologize to you. Something I myself learnt about recently and decided to share in this episode. hope you enjoy!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
May 23, 2021•50 min
Send us a text This episode is a look at why we feel hurt after a break up, separation or we lose a loved one and how we can avoid it or at least alleviate the pain somewhat. Hope you enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/support...
Apr 26, 2021•57 min
Send us a text In this episode, I illustrates a number of reasons one should not be dating or be committing to a partner because of the many requirements of commitment and how taxing a relationship is. Sometimes we forget that in a relationship we are dealing with a whole other persons whose feelings matter as much as ours do. Hope you enjoy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael-houndys/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mael...
Apr 01, 2021•1 hr 15 min
Send us a text In this episode I’m giving my 2 cents on whether one should and/or can be beat friend with one or all of their exes while dating someone else, more so on the dynamics on that particular scenario and what that entails as far as your new relationship is concerned. For now? Feel free to send any questions? Concern, clarification request, topic suggestion, feedback or even just come say hi to me. Listen, share, subscribe, support, comment if you can depending on the platform you’re li...
Mar 23, 2021•37 min