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You Are Not Broken

Kelly Casperson, MDkellycaspersonmd.com
Welcome to the podcast that rewrites everything you thought you knew about sex, hormones, and midlife. I help women—and the people who love them—reconnect with their bodies, their minds, and their partners through science, mindset, and a whole lot of humor. Whether you’re navigating perimenopause, rediscovering desire, or just curious what’s possible, this show will remind you: you are not broken. (No medical advice here, just truth bombs and good conversation.)
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Episodes

#60 - Post-partum Challenges with Dr. Charles

Featured in this week’s episode of You Are Not Broken host Kelly Casperson, MD interviews OBGYN Dr. Meedlen Charles. Dr. Charles will discuss the effects of Postpartum Depression and how women can be embarrassed talking about the issues they have after giving birth. Dr. Meedlen talks about the importance knowing that women with previous conditions of anxiety and depression are more likely to be affected by Postpartum. However, most women will have effects after birth, and this is a normal part o...

Feb 21, 202128 minSeason 1Ep. 60

Neurologic Disorders and Sexuality - A brain expert weighs in - Dr. Mary Rensel

Mary R. Rensel, MD, is a Staff Neurologist in Neuroimmunology at Cleveland Clinic's Mellen Center for Multiple Sclerosis Treatment and Research. She is also Board Certified in Integrative Holistic Medicine. She directs the Pediatric MS and the Wellness programming at the Mellen Center. She is an Assistant Professor at the Cleveland Clinic Learner College of Medicine where she serves as an instructor for the medical students. www.Instagram.com/MRenselMD www.linkedin.com/in/mary-rensel-94844b1a Yo...

Feb 14, 202126 minSeason 1Ep. 59

The Male Perspective! Episode #58 Dr. Stephen Snyder

Episode 58 - Stephen Snyder, MD A sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist — Dr. Snyder has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. Over 30+ years, he’s helped over 1,500 individuals and couples regain closeness and satisfaction in their relationships. I heard him on a podcast “sexology” and needed to read his book and get him on my podcast. I loved the male perspective, and he offered ways for women to under...

Feb 07, 20211 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 58

Wisdom From Master Sex Coach Danielle Savory

I am SO excited to release this interview! In this episode, I talk to Master Sex Coach Danielle Savory. You can connect with Danielle on Instagram @thesexcoachforwomen or via her web site daniellesavory.com/group 01:10 – How Danielle got into being a Life/Sex coach 11:22 – Desire 13:05 – Talking about the role of “Should” 15:37 – Talking about self-compassion 18:53 – Talking about orgasms 19:49 – Finding yourself in a sexless marriage – How do we get there? 25:24 – Stop living in your head… 26:4...

Jan 31, 202153 minSeason 1Ep. 57

Arousal 101 and tips and tricks and products

Welcome to episode 56! We are going to hit 20k listens with this one!! I know it! Thanks for being one of them and sharing the love! Today I riff about: Arousal and vaginal physiology Side effects of waxing What is normal in regards to vaginal discharge Moisture and arousal "Premature penetration" - don't do it! Correlation with erectile dysfunction Why good blood flow is good, and things that decrease and increase blood flow When to go get your pelvis checked out Arousal desire discrepancy/mism...

Jan 24, 202116 minSeason 1Ep. 56

Desire, Medications, and Shame - BIGLOVEFIERCEJUJU #2

PART 2 - Today I am so excited to chat with BIGLOVEFIERCEJUJU!!! https://www.tribecalledv.com/ Or in her day job Dr. Shieva Ghofrany. https://www.instagram.com/biglovefiercejuju She is a medical doctor, who is an OB/GYN practicing in Connecticut. 01:17 – New injectable medications - HSDD 11:23 – Topical Testosterone 15:00 – Shame 17:45 – New company. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.co...

Jan 17, 202123 minSeason 1Ep. 55

Meet BIGLOVEFIERCEJUJU - an OB/GYN with her own cancer story

PART 1 - Today I am so excited to chat with BIGLOVEFIERCEJUJU!!! Or in her day job Dr. Shieva Ghofrany. She is a medical doctor, who is an OB/GYN practicing in Connecticut. You can find her at biglovefiercejuju.com On IG at biglovefiercejuju -she as 23k followers! Through the BIG LOVE FIERCE JUJU Foundation, Dr. Shieva Ghofrany plans to help people engage in their mindset and "lose the fear" of VERY common, everyday, but admittedly anxiety-provoking issues. 01:19 – Origin of the name Big Love Fi...

Jan 10, 202129 minSeason 1Ep. 54

Happy New Year 2021! Tips for impossible goals!

Happy New year! I reflect on the past year. How I got started by listening to the voice in my head. Yeah, kinda like Frozen 2 (which my kids are currently watching). - You have to deal with your limiting beliefs that aren’t moving you forward Impossible goal for 2021 – how about intimacy? It is the journey, not the destination – a journey of 1,000 miles starts with a single step. It is not the YOU when you get there – but the journey What is your reason for your goal? If it is so you feel better...

Jan 03, 202116 minSeason 1Ep. 53

LUBE! An Overview. Interview with Jenn Mason

Jenn Mason, owner of the sex shop Wink Wink Boutique in Washtington state joins us today! www.winkwinkboutique.com IG: www.instagram.com/winkwinkboutique Lubrication - why people are resistant to the idea of lubrication How to have a conversation with your partner about sex Water based lube Silicone based lube Hybrid lube Flavored Lube Desire Arousal mismatch Lube doesn’t replace the need for preparing the body for sex CBD Lube --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show...

Dec 27, 202021 minSeason 1Ep. 52

2/2 - Dr. Rashmi Kudesia - part two - hormone replacement 101 and hormone healthy bodies

Taking it up right where we left off! Dr. Rashmi Kudesia - part two - hormone replacement 101 and hormone healthy bodies. 1) Who is a good candidate for hormone replacement therapy? 2) Who is NOT a good candidate for hormone replacement therapy? 3) Androgens in polycystic ovarian syndrome 4) Where do androgens come from in the female 5) It is so popular now to read about “balancing your hormones” – help us out with that – are people talking about lifestyle habits or what are your thoughts about ...

Dec 20, 202018 minSeason 1Ep. 51

EPISODE 50!!! Dr. Rashmi Kudesia - part one - hormones throughout life

Hormones throughout our life. Today I am so excited to interview Dr. Rashmi Kudesia. She is a practicing infertility specialist at CCRM Fertility in Houston, Texas. https://www.ccrmivf.com/houston/rashmi-kudesia/ www.instagram.com/RKudesia www.facebook.com/RKudesia She did medical school at Duke, then a OB/Gyn Residency at Cornell. She then did additional fellowship training in Reproductive endocrinology and Infertility, as well as a Masters in Clinical Research, at Albert Einstein, and now prac...

Dec 13, 202021 minSeason 1Ep. 50

The Spice of Life - Toys!

I am interviewing Jenn Mason again! So Good! www.winkwinkboutique.com IG: www.instagram.com/winkwinkboutique The Stigma of sex toys Sex toys can level the orgasmic inequality in a partnership – level the playing field Types of toys How toys can help people with disabilities Options in the toy department --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...

Dec 06, 202025 minSeason 1Ep. 49

Money and Sex! An interview with Latifat Alli-Akintade, MD

Today I am so excited to talk with Dr. Latifat! She is a GI doctor working in Sacramento, California She is a graduate of the Life Coach School and coaches women on Money Mindset. You can find her on FB at MoneyfitMD and at www.moneyfitmd.com She helps women go from financially overwhelmed to financially confident. It all starts with transforming your relationships with money. Why talk about money on a podcast about sex? When She coaches women about money, They spend a lot of time on the relatio...

Nov 29, 202033 minSeason 1Ep. 48

#47 - Your Partner Is Not Broken

This one is for the dudes! And the women who love the dudes! Truthfully, it works for same sex couples too. Let's talk about changing your partner - ha! You can't!!! Starting from a place of appreciation. Avoid assumptions. Erectile Dysfunction Loving what is. Intimacy avoidance. Avoiding being critical. Discover what makes your partner feel loved. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/...

Nov 22, 202021 minSeason 1Ep. 47

Dr. Ashley Winter - Penis Doctor

Dr. Winter is a urologist. She grew up in New Jersey and went to Rutgers for undergrad. She did her urology residency at Cornell in NYC. She did her fellowship with Dr. Irwin Goldstein in San Diego – the only fellowship for women’s sexual health that exists! She currently works at Kaiser in Portland. She is active on twitter at @AshleyGWinter She is on FB at @ashleywintermd Her podcast is called “the Full Release” which she co-hosts with her husband Mo Mandel. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podca...

Nov 15, 202055 minSeason 1Ep. 46

Episode 45! Meet a Sex Coach and a Sex Store Owner! Jenn Mason!

Jenn Mason, owner of the sex shop Wink Wink Boutique in Washington state joins us today! www.winkwinkboutique.com IG: www.instagram.com/winkwinkboutique How Jenn got to the point of owning a sex store. How do you get to that place in life? Learn how Jenn and Dr. Casperson met. Learn what has been the most rewarding thing for her in opening her store. We live in a shame-based culture about sex. How I get people to be open to exploring the tools and resources available in the store. What is sex po...

Nov 08, 202032 minSeason 1Ep. 45

2/2 Dr. Becky Lynn - Sexual Health and Menopause Physician

Dr. Becky Kaufman Lynn is the Director of the Evora Center for Menopause and Sexual Health. She is a board-certified gynecologist, and a trained Sexual Counselor and Menopause Provider. She is also an Adjunct Associate Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Saint Louis University School of Medicine. Dr. Lynn is a world-renowned expert in sexual medicine and menopause. She is a frequent invited speaker on women’s sexual health and appears regularly on numerous podcasts, television shows, radio...

Nov 01, 202015 minSeason 1Ep. 44

Dr. Becky Lynn, Sexual Health and Menopause Physician. First of Two Episode Interview

Dr. Becky Kaufman Lynn is the Director of the Evora Center for Menopause and Sexual Health. She is a board-certified gynecologist, and a trained Sexual Counselor and Menopause Provider. She is also an Adjunct Associate Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Saint Louis University School of Medicine. Dr. Lynn is a world-renowned expert in sexual medicine and menopause. She is a frequent invited speaker on women’s sexual health and appears regularly on numerous podcasts, television shows, radio...

Oct 25, 202019 minSeason 1Ep. 43

Get Out the Vote!! - Sex Education on the Ballot and a Sex Therapist Weighs in.

Today I am here with sex educator and sex therapist Tracy Dalhstead-Rienstra. She wanted me to talk about this important piece of legislation coming out on the November ballot for people who live in Washington state. As an expert in the field of sexuality, she talks about the current standard of education that she sees in adults in her practice and what adults who didn’t get a good sex education look like in their struggles in intimate relationships. BACKGROUND Senate Bill 5395 (SB 5395), passed...

Oct 18, 202032 minSeason 1Ep. 42

The Clitoris - Your welcome!

The Clitoris has one job, one job only – pleasure. But what about the penis? Take a listen to find out. The glans of the clitoris is the part we “think about” – but there is way more. You can also see the clitoral shaft/body. The anatomy issues that can come along with owning a clitoris. We are designed perfectly!! Darn it! What does your brain say to you when we talk about the clitoris? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about yo...

Oct 11, 20209 minSeason 1Ep. 41

#40 - A Woman Shares Her Story - Jessica Pin, Anatomy Advocate

Jessica Pin is an author and advocate, publishes frequently on her IG @Jessica_ann_pin and is passionate about education equality in regards to genital anatomy between the sexes. Her Goal: equitable coverage of the clitoris in medical literature & curricula to prevent harm. She has even published her own study! 3 top OB/GYN textbooks changed. Listen to her story about when and how she decided to get a surgery on her labia and what has happened since then. All labias are normal. All sizes are...

Oct 04, 202036 minSeason 1Ep. 40

Responsive Desire

This is audio shared from my facebook live video talking about Responsive Desire. Feeling broken in a male-centric world. Feeling broken in a sex-shaming society. Some people think that sex and desire aren't "drives" at all. Want to improve your sex life? Emily Nagoski says change your context. Women are way more "context driven" in regards to sexual activity. Men tend to be more visual. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about yo...

Sep 27, 20209 minSeason 1Ep. 39

#38 - Psychological Erectile Dysfunction

One day away from my course launch! Go to www.kellycaspersonmd.com Today we learn about how the penis can have trouble when the mind is being tricky. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 20, 202012 minSeason 1Ep. 38

Erectile Dysfunction, does the intimacy have to stop after prostate cancer?

Sign up for my sex education class starting September 21st! www.kellycaspersonmd.com First, we need to hear the importance of erections from the male perspective. Okay, now that we did that, what should we do when couples stop having sex after erectile dysfunction. In this episode we will specifically talk about prostate cancer as an example. We learn why erections can falter after treatment for cancer. We learn how relationships change. We learn that the embarrassment in talking about this actu...

Sep 13, 202017 minSeason 1Ep. 37

Thoughts about sex

The MASTER CLASS is starting soon! From boring to mind blowing! Sex education and coaching! www.kellycaspersonmd.com Thoughts about sex Let’s hear about a “typical” woman who comes to me for sexual issues. KY Jelly is the Betty Crocker of lube – it is everywhere, but not always great. Figure out what your sexual goals are. Your thoughts about sex influence your sexual satisfaction. Your thoughts are not facts. If your goal is to be a happy sexual person but your thoughts tell you otherwise, we a...

Sep 10, 20209 minSeason 1Ep. 36

#35 - Endometriosis and pelvic pain - Talk to a pelvic pain Physiatrist Dr. Ahmed

After spending the last five years honing her skills in outpatient care, Dr. Ahmed is ready to focus on her passion for treating pelvic pain. Dr. Ahmed has chosen a focused practice, because she believes concentrating on a specific field creates the greatest expertise. Chasing that greatness has been her consistent driving force. https://www.pelvicrehabilitation.com/ www.instagram.com/drtayahmed Learn how she found her calling in pelvic pain after doing her residency training in New York. She tr...

Sep 06, 202035 minSeason 1Ep. 35

#34 - Inventor of leak proof underwear ONDRwear.com founder and urologist - Dr. Lubahn

Meet Dr. Lubahn – Mom, entrepreneur, urologist and creator of https://ondrwear.com/ Learn about both of our crazy stories about becoming urologists. Incontinence is very common. 50% of women!!! There are common reasons that people leak. Stress incontinence – increase in abdominal pressure – leaking with cough, sneeze, laugh. It is a pelvic support problem. Urge incontinence – “I gotta go now!!” It is a bladder problem. Overflow incontinence – the bladder can’t empty well, so it overflows with ur...

Aug 30, 202032 minSeason 1Ep. 34

#33 - Let's talk about diet, exercise, mindset (oh and how this affects your sex life)

Today we will meet an emergency department physician who has started a company to help women take control of their health, weight, and mindset. How we think about our bodies affects our sex life! So we can't neglect the whole body in our discussions! https://www.wholisthealth.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/curate-your-health/id1478410990 Join us as she shares how she created a space for helping women use food and exercise as medicine to prevent and reverse disease. The side effect of...

Aug 23, 202022 minSeason 1Ep. 33

A Urologist interviews a Urologist - and Dr. Casperson is in the interview seat!

Urologist interview king Dr. John Lin interviews Dr. Casperson! Today’s episode is sponsored by KGOAL. Use the code NOTBROKEN for a 20% discount on your purchase! www.kgoal.com Topics discussed today: Orgasmic Inequality Why PIV sex doesn’t always work It takes a female longer to reach climax than a man Clitoral anatomy – knowing anatomy helps people realize they are normal. www.OMGyes.com – a great resource for sex education What do sex therapists do? – they are therapists comfortable talking a...

Aug 16, 202039 minSeason 1Ep. 32

#31 - The Software - Desire and Orgasm

The WEBSITE IS UP!!! www.kellycaspersonmd.com Announcement! Sept 21st course registration is open! www.instagram.com/kellycaspersonmd The Software - Desire and Orgasm Do I actually need a loading dose of estrogen cream? What is vaginal DHEA for? What to do if estrogen cream burns? Desire and orgasm. My why - why did I learn about this stuff. Desire in long term relationships. Reactive and spontaneous desire I can’t make you like something that is painful. The theory behind why women can have mul...

Aug 09, 202035 minSeason 1Ep. 31
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