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You Are Not A Frog

Dr Rachel Morrisyouarenotafrog.com
The podcast for GPs, hospital doctors and other professionals in high-stakes, high-stress jobs who want to thrive rather than just survive. You studied for years, you’re really good at what you do but you’ve noticed that you’re starting to feel overwhelmed, overworked and under-resourced. You may be comparing yourself to a frog in boiling water - the heat has built up so slowly that you haven’t noticed the extra-long days becoming the norm. You may feel on the edge and trapped in the very job that you’ve spent years working towards. Here’s the problem, frogs only have two choices; stay and be boiled alive, or jump out of the pan. The good news is that you are not a frog. You have many more choices than you think you do. You don’t have to quit, and nor should stress and burnout be inevitable. It is possible to be master of your own destiny, to craft your work life and career so that you can thrive even in the most difficult of situations. There are simple changes you can make which will make a huge difference to your stress levels and help you enjoy life again. Your host is Dr Rachel Morris, GP turned Executive Coach and Specialist in Resilience at Work who knows what it’s like to feel like an exhausted frog. In the podcast, she’ll be talking to friends, colleagues and experts all who have an interesting take on resilience for clever people in high-stakes, high-stress jobs so that together you can take back control to beat stress and burnout, survive and thrive.
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Episodes

What to Do When Your Career Map No Longer Fits

You know something needs to change, but you just have no idea what, how, or where to begin, and your lack of a plan may be starting to feel like failure. In this Quick Dip, Rachel unpacks why the belief that you need everything mapped out before you're allowed to move is the very thing keeping you stuck, and introduces the AB-Z method: a simple framework that replaces the impossible task of knowing your whole future with a far more manageable one. This episode is about how to craft your work, no...

May 11, 202632 minEp. 320

How to Break the People-Pleasing Cycle That's Burning You Out

If you have ever ended a clinical day exhausted not from the medicine itself but from the weight of everybody else's feelings, this episode might hit home. Josh Connolly, resilience coach and author of ‘It's Them Not You’, joins me to explore why many healthcare professionals take on so much of the emotional load for everyone - and how that pattern almost always began long before medical school. Key Takeaways People-pleasing at work usually has roots in family roles from childhood. The 'high ach...

May 04, 20261 hr 9 minEp. 319

How to Stop Doing Everything

If you’ve ever thought to yourself ‘if I don’t do it, no one will’ this episode is for you. You tell yourself something important will go wrong if you don't do it all - but what if that's not what's actually driving your decisions? In this Quick Dip, Rachel suggests something uncomfortable: that the decisions running your workload might less to do with patient safety than they are to do with who you believe yourself to be. Because the question 'if I don't do it, who else will?' is often not abou...

Apr 27, 202626 minEp. 318

5 Reasons Your Ideas Keep Getting Overlooked (And How to Fix It)

You're working hard, doing excellent clinical work, and genuinely trying to make things better for your patients - so why does it feel like no one's listening? So many healthcare professionals hit a wall where their ideas get talked over, their proposals stall, and their careers plateau, even when their track record is strong. In this episode, Rachel is joined by Sam Pearce and Sally Powell, co-founders of Impactful Women, to talk about political intelligence - what it actually is, why it feels ...

Apr 20, 202657 minEp. 317

How to Stop Feeling Guilty When It's Impossible to Do Your Job.

Every day in healthcare, a meeting ends, and a problem that was never formally handed to anyone lands on the person who cares most - you. If you've ever walked out of a room carrying something that somehow became yours without anyone asking, this Quick Dip Episode gives that experience a name, explains exactly why it keeps happening to people like you, and gives you the language to start pushing back on it. Listen to other episodes in the Over-Responsibility Trap series: Part 1: Why Responsibili...

Apr 13, 202616 minEp. 316

Why ‘I Have To’ Is Keeping You Stuck (And What To Say Instead)

How many times this week have you thought, "I just don't have a choice"? About your rota, your inbox, the extra patient squeezed in at the end of clinic? That thought feels true, and it can feel like a fact... But what if it’s actually a story, and that story is costing you your peace of mind? In this episode, Rachel sits down with Robbie Swale, coach, author of ‘The Power to Choose’, and creator of the 12 Minute Method, to dig into why reclaiming a sense of agency and choice matters so deeply f...

Apr 06, 202652 minEp. 315

When 'Can You Help' Doesn't Feel Like a Question (Part 2 of The Over-Responsibility Trap)

Have you ever had someone ask for “a quick bit of help”… and somehow ended up owning the entire task? In caring professions, requests for help can feel less like requests and more like responsibilities landing on us. We’re trained to notice problems, fix things and support colleagues - which means it can feel incredibly uncomfortable to say no. In this Quick Dip episode, Rachel explores the moment when a simple request triggers our helping reflex , and why so many capable professionals end up ca...

Mar 30, 202616 minEp. 314

Freelance vs Employed - On Which Side is the Grass Greener?

The founder of the National Association of Sessional GPs on whether the grass is always greener, and the changes you can make in your career without feeling like a frog forced to jump out of the pan. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Mar 23, 20261 hr 3 minEp. 313

Why Responsibility Keeps Landing on You (Part 1 of The Over-Responsibility Trap)

Have you ever looked at a task on your plate and wondered when it became your responsibility? Nobody asked you to do it. Nobody assigned it to you. But somehow it landed on you, and now you're carrying it. In this Quick Dip, Rachel explores the responsibility trap - the pattern where capable and conscientious professionals automatically pick up unclaimed problems. Over time, these responsibilities accumulate, increasing your workload, emotional labour, and ultimately contributing to burnout. Thi...

Mar 16, 202614 minEp. 312

How to Use Clean Language to Stop Rescuing and Really Feel Your Feelings

Mindset shifts to help you explore difficult feelings and find solutions without falling into rescuer mode or getting overwhelmed. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Mar 09, 202647 minEp. 311

You Can’t Meditate Yourself Out of a 60-Hour Work Week

There’s more on your plate than you realise, and most likely you’re trying to cram 25 hours of work into a 24 hour day, not counting sleep and time away from work. Here’s some practical advice to help you see what’s on your plate, and what you need to sacrifice. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Download the Overwhelm SOS Toolkit Download the Thrive Week Planner Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Mar 02, 202626 minEp. 310

When Speaking Up is Stressful – A Psychology Researcher Tells Us What to Do Instead

What happens when we need to raise a serious concern that could affect patient safety? And what happens if someone raises a concern to you? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Feb 23, 20261 hr 3 minEp. 309

You Do Not Have to Be Good

What does it mean for a doctor to be “good”? Can you be “good” and still take care of yourself? And how can we rescue ourselves from the trap of thinking that asking for support is somehow a moral failing? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Feb 16, 202618 minEp. 308

How to Tell if Your Workplace is Toxic or Just Misaligned to You

Practical questions from a clinical psychologist to help you assess whether you’re in a harmful work environment, or one that doesn’t align with your values or strengths. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get more links and show notes via our website Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Feb 09, 202646 minEp. 307

The Dangerous Programming That Influences Over-responsible Doctors

Practical techniques to help you respond when someone makes demands on your time, from an expert in mediation and team coaching. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Jan 26, 202648 minEp. 305

How to Confront Someone Without Creating Conflict (According to a Conflict Expert)

How to recognise and avoid “chronic niceness”, regulate your nervous system, and confront people in a way that deepens – and doesn’t damage – relationships. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Jan 12, 20261 hr 16 minEp. 303

Why You Keep Missing the Stress That’s Draining You

Stress doesn’t always come from work, or from things we traditionally think of ass stressful. As 2026 begins, here are three questinos you can ask yourself to see what it’s time to stop doing. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Jan 05, 202623 minEp. 302

The Hidden Shame Spiral That Keeps Us Stuck (Our Most-Watched Episode Ever)

When shame becomes toxic, we can end up in a spiral that’s difficult to escape. This quick dip offers a chance to break free of that spiral, remember that we’re human, and remind ourselves we’re doing our best. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Dec 29, 202526 min

The Midlife Career Trap: Why So Many Doctors Feel Stuck After 20 Years — According to a Consultant Surgeon & Decision-Making Scientist

When it comes to work, what we seek can often shift in mid-life, from recognition and status towards meaningful contribution and purpose. What do you do if you’r at that crossroads in your career? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Dec 22, 202547 min

Why Women in Healthcare are Exhausted (According to a Burnout Specialist)

Women are conditioned to be the emotional shock absorbers for men, and to carry the emotional load of a relationship or a family, on top of their duties at work. As Tamu Thomas explains, this isn’t about apportioning blame or guilt, but recognising what’s needed to create systems that allow both parties in a relationship to thrive. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Download the THRIVE Week Planner Find more links and resources via our show notes Mentioned in this episode: Downl...

Dec 15, 20251 hr 8 minEp. 301

Why You Won’t Feel Better Until You Give Yourself These 3 Permissions

Small, actionable steps you can take to reframe self-care as necessary care, and equip yourself to avoid burnout rather than waiting for someone else to tell you it’s OK. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Permission to Pause – Join Dr Rachel Morris and Dr Caroline Walker for a free 60 minute event for doctors on Wednesday, 10th December at 8pm UK time. Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm yo...

Dec 01, 20251 hrEp. 299

The Real (Toxic) Reason You’re a People Pleaser

Here’s what to say when someone asks you to overextend yourself, but you’re afraid of what they’ll think if you say no. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Nov 24, 202513 minEp. 298

How to FINALLY Get on Top of Your Emails

Practical strategies to help you spend less time sorting and sifting through emails, and more time in deep work. Plus, how to set clear boundaries around what comes into your inbox. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Visit our website for more links and show notes Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out ...

Nov 17, 202552 minEp. 297

“It’s OK Not to Be OK” – And Other Thought Limiting Clichés

Normal responses to abnormal working conditions don’t mean you’re broken – they mean you’re human, and you’re dealing with a lot. Here’s some useful, actionable coping strategies that go above and beyond acknowledging when it’s OK to not be OK. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Nov 10, 202520 minEp. 296

The Sources of Power That Create Real Change

How to navigate organisational change when you feel like you don't have the power or resources to make a difference. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Nov 03, 20251 hr 7 minEp. 295

How to Stop Conflict from Turning Ugly

When we’re in conflict, our inner Rottweiler can surface – a protective mechanism that can escalate tensions rather than soothe them. But this quick dip offers a simple framework to keep that dog on a lead so you can survive disagreement or criticism without lashing out. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Visit our website for links and show notes Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Oct 27, 202529 minEp. 294

The Hidden Tax on Neurodivergent Professionals

How to recognise when you're masking your needs as a neurodivergent person, and how to honour them before you reach burnout. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Oct 20, 20251 hr 10 minEp. 293
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