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You Are Not A Frog

Dr Rachel Morrisyouarenotafrog.com
The podcast for GPs, hospital doctors and other professionals in high-stakes, high-stress jobs who want to thrive rather than just survive. You studied for years, you’re really good at what you do but you’ve noticed that you’re starting to feel overwhelmed, overworked and under-resourced. You may be comparing yourself to a frog in boiling water - the heat has built up so slowly that you haven’t noticed the extra-long days becoming the norm. You may feel on the edge and trapped in the very job that you’ve spent years working towards. Here’s the problem, frogs only have two choices; stay and be boiled alive, or jump out of the pan. The good news is that you are not a frog. You have many more choices than you think you do. You don’t have to quit, and nor should stress and burnout be inevitable. It is possible to be master of your own destiny, to craft your work life and career so that you can thrive even in the most difficult of situations. There are simple changes you can make which will make a huge difference to your stress levels and help you enjoy life again. Your host is Dr Rachel Morris, GP turned Executive Coach and Specialist in Resilience at Work who knows what it’s like to feel like an exhausted frog. In the podcast, she’ll be talking to friends, colleagues and experts all who have an interesting take on resilience for clever people in high-stakes, high-stress jobs so that together you can take back control to beat stress and burnout, survive and thrive.

Episodes

What to Do if Someone Challenges YOUR Behaviour

How to know when you’re reaching your limit, and what to do to prevent you taking it out on someone else. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Get your FREE burnout self-assessment guide Get honest with yourself — discover what’s really going on, and what to do next. The Shapes Academy Work happier, set boundaries around your work, get your time back and support your team - without burning out yourself....

May 26, 202556 minEp. 272

Is All-or-Nothing Thinking Pushing You to Burnout?

Explore the consequences of binary thinking, why it’s damaging, and how we can reframe all-or-nothing statements so we can take care of ourselves and others. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Get your FREE burnout self-assessment guide Get honest with yourself — discover what’s really going on, and what to do next....

May 19, 202523 minEp. 271

The 5 Different Types of Burnout – And How to Prevent Them

Five diagnostic tools you can use to determine whether you’re burning out, and the practical actions you can take to try and prevent it. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get more links and show notes via our website Mentioned in this episode: Get your FREE burnout self-assessment guide Get honest with yourself — discover what’s really going on, and what to do next. The Shapes Academy Work happier, set boundaries around your work, get your time back and support your team - with...

May 12, 202554 minEp. 270

What if Your Job Was Just a Job? (And 4 Other Thought Experiments)

Five questions to help you think differently about your work, in those moments when you find it more frustrating than usual. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get the full list of questions via our website Mentioned in this episode: Get your FREE burnout self-assessment guide Get honest with yourself — discover what’s really going on, and what to do next....

May 05, 202520 minEp. 269

Is the Grass Greener on the Other Side of Medicine?

If you’re contemplating a change within or away from medicine, is starting your own business really all it’s cracked up to be? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: The Shapes Academy Work happier, set boundaries around your work, get your time back and support your team - without burning out yourself. Get your FREE burnout self-assessment guide Get honest with yourself — discover what’s really going on, and what to do next....

Apr 28, 202546 minEp. 268

How to Beat Inbox Overwhelm

The mindset shift – plus the only 6 folders you need – to finally get control over your inbox. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Get your FREE burnout self-assessment guide Get honest with yourself — discover what’s really going on, and what to do next....

Apr 21, 202527 minEp. 267

What to Do BEFORE You Get a Neurodivergence Diagnosis

What should you do if you suspect you might be neurodivergent? What’s the difference between neurodivergence and neurodiversity? And how can we support everyone to play to their strengths without feeling like we’re making allowances? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: The Shapes Academy Work happier, set boundaries around your work, get your time back and support your team - without burning out yourself. The Work Well Programme for Healthcare staff Hel...

Apr 14, 20251 hrEp. 266

How to Protect Yourself from the Guilt of Saying No

Break the cognitive dissonance you feel when enforcing a boundary goes against one of your core values. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Apr 07, 202517 minEp. 265

How to Listen to Your Intuition

When you hear a voice guiding you towards or away from something, how can you tell whether it’s fear or your deepest intuition talking? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham Allcott and Dr Sarah Coope, on 7th May, 2025. Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Mar 31, 202549 minEp. 264

11 Ways to Back Your Wise Self

How to overcome procrastination, follow through on your goals, and stick to the wise decisions you made in the past. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Mar 24, 202519 minEp. 263

Doctors with ADHD

If you struggle to keep on top of certain activities or you find a rigid schedule too constricting, you might be neurodivergent. And there are plenty of places you can turn to for support, and practical systems you can implement to thrive as a doctor. This episode is in partnership with the  Physician Mums Facebook Group (PMGUK) . Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham Allcott and Dr Sarah Coope, on ...

Mar 17, 202555 minEp. 262

The Trouble with Wellbeing

The key to beating burnout is not more wellbeing webinars; it’s giving you agency and autonomy over your time. Here’s how you can start to take back control. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get the Zone of Power handout Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Mar 10, 202527 minEp. 261

How to Be Kind Instead of Nice (and Why it Matters)

Kindness builds trust in teams, and teams that trust each-other work more smoothly. When mistakes happen, they’re addressed from a place of positivity, not blame. Here’s what kindness is, and why it’s not just about being “nice”. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Visit our website for links and show notes Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May. FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join ...

Mar 03, 202556 minEp. 260

How to Make Long-term Behaviour Change Stick

Committing to behaviour change is one thing. Making it stick when life gets in the way or others’ needs conflict with yours is another matter. Alasdair Cant returns to explain how to keep going when change is tough. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham Allcott and Dr Sarah Coope, on 7th May, 2025. Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on ...

Feb 24, 202559 minEp. 259

How to Leave Work on Time

If changing ingrained behaviours was easy, no-one would have unhealthy habits, work too much, or fail to enforce boundaries. Here’s what a behaviour change expert has to say about making positive choices that are aligned with what you really want. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May. FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham ...

Feb 17, 202547 minEp. 258

How to Choose What Kind of Problem You Want

How to make the right decisions in the short-term so you don’t create problems in the long-term… featuring Brian the robot hoover. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Discover your Zone of Power Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Feb 10, 202522 minEp. 257

How to Plan Your Year for Peak Performance

What are your goals for the new year, and how do you plan to meet them? This conversation with former Paralympian Dr Kim Daybell will help you focus on what’s important, so you can have a happier, healthier, and more productive 2025. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Watch this episode’s bonus video Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May. FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel...

Feb 03, 202551 minEp. 256

Are You Amplifying Your Overwhelm? Here’s How to Stop

How to beat perfectionism, people-pleasing, conflict-aversion, and the many other things that amplify your sense of overwhelm. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get links to all our resources via our website Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Jan 27, 202520 minEp. 255

How to Manage Your Energy Instead of Your Time

Focusing on managing your time can lead to overwhelm and a sense that there’s just not enough. But with a few simple exercises, we can think about how we manage our energy, not our time. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham Allcott and Dr Sarah Coope, on 7th May, 2025. Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Jan 20, 202545 minEp. 254

How to Stop a Difficult Conversation Going Bad

When someone asks “Have you got 5 minutes for a call?”, here’s how to set yourself up for success to ensure neither you or nor the other party feels defensive or unfairly treated in a conversation that could involve conflict. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Jan 13, 202520 minEp. 253

How to Overcome the Toxic Effects of Shame on Your Team

Shame has a toxic impact on individuals and teams. But there are practical steps we can take to minimise it and create safer, more open spaces. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May. FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham Allcott and Dr Sarah Coope, on 7th May, 2025....

Jan 06, 202555 minEp. 252

How to be Ridiculously Relaxed

Prioritising relaxation when you’re under stress is easier than it sounds – but it’s possible, and it starts with saying “f**k it”. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May. FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham Allcott and Dr Sarah Coope, on 7th May, 2025....

Dec 30, 20241 hr

How to Survive in a High Stress Job When You’re Neurodivergent

What’s it like to work in a high-stress job with autism, ADHD, or another neurodivergence, and how do we support colleagues whose brains work differently? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham Allcott and Dr Sarah Coope, on 7th May, 2025. Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Dec 23, 202456 min

How to Stop Turning “You” Problems into “Me” Problems

When someone brings a problem to your door, the first thing to ask is “is it mine to solve?” The second question is “What are the consequences if I let them solve it themselves?” Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Dec 16, 202420 minEp. 251

How to Take a Good Long Look at Your Career

How do you build a more sustainable career in an ever-shifting landscape? Is it all about “keeping up”? And what can we learn from the next generation of medical professionals? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May. FrogFest Virtual 2025 Join Rachel along with Graham Allcott and Dr Sarah Coope, on 7th May, 2025....

Dec 09, 202451 minEp. 250

How to Catch Stress Early Before You Spiral into Burnout

Have you found yourself more irritable or tearful than usual? Are you losing sleep, avoiding things you enjoy, or beating yourself up about your own performance? Here’s how to spot stress before it becomes burnout. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Download the Stress Curve PDF Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Dec 02, 202419 minEp. 249

How to Change Your Life One Tiny Step at a Time

How starting with 5 minutes of exercise a day helped a doctor go from liver disease to competing for his country in triathlons – and what small changes you can make now that will compound to improve your long-term quality of life. Get exclusive episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get more links and show notes via our website Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May. FrogFest Virtual 2...

Nov 25, 20241 hr 7 minEp. 248

How to avoid guilt on repeat

We often feel guilty for things out of our control. But why should we feel guilty about things we aren’t responsible for? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group

Nov 19, 202453 min

How to Think Past “Right and Wrong” and Find Choices That Work for You

When we see choices or behaviours as simply “right” or “wrong”, we end up making decisions based on fear and judgement. But there’s an easier approach, and it’s 800 years old. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and energy. Join us in London on the 21st May....

Nov 18, 202418 minEp. 247

How Stories Can Help You Beat Burnout

How novels, poetry, or a gripping film can help us lighten the emotional load, discuss difficult feelings, and allow us to become more resilient. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Bedside Reading  – Tara’s podcast Find more links and resources via our website Mentioned in this episode: Work Well Live Prevent burnout, boost retention and protect your own time and ene...

Nov 11, 202447 minEp. 246
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