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Welcome to xoxo, Godly Girls — a faith-filled podcast with your hosts Abbi and Tori, best friends for over a decade, figuring out life, love, and God one honest conversation at a time. We grew up in church, but now we’re learning how to follow Jesus for ourselves — outside of family traditions, outside of perfection, and deep in the real stuff: doubts, joy, heartbreak, healing, and growth. Nothing is off-limits here. Each week (new episodes every Friday!), we open up about our struggles, ask the hard questions, and invite you into a space where faith and authenticity meet. We also bring on guests to share their journeys and wisdom too! Whether you’re questioning, reconnecting with your faith, or just need a place to feel seen — you’re welcome here. This is a safe space. Let’s laugh, cry, and grow together, one convo at a time. and with that being said... xoxo, Godly Girls
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Episodes

Questions YOU Want to Ask Your Mom, But Won't

Ever wanted to ask your parents the hard questions… but didn’t know how? This week, we do it for you. In this heartfelt (and hilarious) episode, we sit down with our moms and ask everything —from the things we’ve always wondered to the conversations we were too nervous to start. Laughter is shared, tears are shed, and yes… a few surprising confessions come out. This is one episode you—and maybe even your mom—won’t want to miss.

Aug 15, 202543 minEp. 40

Questions GUYS Want To Know, But Don't Ask

Last week, we got a glimpse inside the mind of a guy —but this week, the tables have turned. Abbi and I are in the hot seat as her husband, Colton Motsinger, returns to ask the questions guys want to ask... but usually don’t. Buckle up—because the mind of a girl is a wild, beautiful, and very confusing place. Let’s dive in.

Aug 08, 202543 minEp. 39

Questions GIRLS Want To Know, But Don't Ask

This week: we are asking a guy all the questions girls want to know. Huge shoutout to all the girls who sent in questions — we love hearing from you! And for everyone else... trust us, you’re going to want to tune in. We’re bringing back a familiar face — our very first recurring guest — but for the first time ever, he’s joining the show as Abbi’s husband ! 👀 Get ready for honest answers, unexpected insight, some solid relationship advice, and of course... plenty of laughter. Let’s take a look ...

Aug 01, 202544 minEp. 38

The Forgotten God: Rediscovering the Holy Spirit

We talk about God the Father. We talk about Jesus the Son. But too often, we skip over the Holy Spirit—the very presence of God living in us. In this episode, we dive into the mystery and beauty of the Trinity, focusing on the Holy Spirit’s role in our everyday lives. What does it actually mean to walk with Him? To hear His voice? To live empowered, not just informed? If you've ever felt like your faith was missing something, this might be the conversation you didn’t know you needed.

Jul 25, 202549 minEp. 37

Are You Ready For War?

If you’ve been feeling spiritually attacked, drained, or distant from God — this is your wake-up call. It’s time to suit up, stand firm, and remember who you’re fighting with. This isn’t just a battle. It’s a victory waiting to happen.

Jul 18, 202545 minEp. 36

Spiritual Realm: What You Can't See Could Save You

The war of good and evil... Angels, demons, trials and temptations, this week we discuss it all. There’s more happening than what our eyes can see. Let's dive into the spiritual realm—the invisible world where battles are fought, prayers are heard, and God is always moving. If you’ve ever wondered what’s going on behind the scenes of your life, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.

Jul 11, 202551 minEp. 35

Where is God, Is He Ignoring Me? (James 5)

What do you do when you’ve prayed, pleaded, and waited… and nothing changes? When healing doesn’t come, doors stay closed, and God feels silent? In this episode, we ask the hard questions and look at what Scripture really says about God’s presence in the middle of pain. This is a conversation for anyone who’s ever felt forgotten, and it's full of honesty, hope, and reminders that even in the silence, God is still working. XOXO, Godly Girls

Jul 04, 202544 minEp. 34

Surrender Your Soul Or Sell It. (James 4)

God is the ruler of ALL but evil has free reign on the Earth. Are you willing to surrender your soul to Jesus, or would you find more comfort in selling it to the Devil? There is a cost for fame and fortune... are you willing to pay it? There is also a cost for your sin... are you willing to accept it? In the end we ALL face judgment. Where do you stand before God? Dive into James Chapter 4 with us as we near the end of our Bible Study!! XOXO, Godly Girls...

Jun 27, 202540 minEp. 33

Heavenly Wisdom vs Human Nature. (James 3)

This week, we tackle one of the most convicting chapters in James—Chapter 3. It’s all about the power of words and wisdom. If you’ve ever struggled with gossip, anger, or living for your own personal gain (so basically, if you’re human), this one’s for you. XOXO, Godly Girls

Jun 20, 202539 minEp. 32

Is Your Faith Alive? (James 2)

In this week’s episode, we continue our journey through the book of James, diving into Chapter 2—a powerful and challenging section that confronts the relationship between faith and works. Building on the foundation of Chapter 1, we explore James’s call to live out authentic faith through action, his warnings against favoritism, and his bold claim that “faith without works is dead.” Join us as we unpack what it means to have a faith that truly transforms the way we treat others and how we live e...

Jun 13, 202540 minEp. 31

Don't just hear this, DO IT (James 1)

In this episode, we dive deep into James Chapter 1—a powerful call to move from passively hearing God’s Word to actively living it out. We read the full chapter and break it down piece by piece, sharing both commentary insights and our own personal reflections. This conversation explores the process of thinking through truth, doing what it says, and ultimately becoming who God designed us to be. From trials to temptation, from listening to living—it’s a challenge that hits home. So don’t just li...

Jun 06, 202544 minEp. 30

This Is The Biggest Reason People Stop Believing

Too often, the love of Jesus is distorted by those meant to reflect it. If you've experienced church hurt or felt like you were caught in something more like a cult than a community — we’re so sorry. On behalf of every believer who never said it: we apologize. You are deeply loved, fully seen, and inherently valued. You don’t have to keep pretending. God sees through the façade — and still, He draws near. Faith isn’t about perfection, performance, or a checklist of impossible standards. It's abo...

May 30, 202551 minEp. 29

Becoming Her: Godly Girls in a Modern World

Everybody wants to be THAT girl... but who is she? It takes a lot to be a godly girl in a modern world. It's about so much more than just measuring up to some unattainable list. This week, join us as we dive into the importance of women in the Bible and what it looks like in today's culture. Topics covered: Beauty Modesty Wisdom and more... Work on becoming HER so you can glorify Him.

May 23, 202546 minEp. 28

Is Money The Root Of All Evil... Or Am I?

Faith and Finances: a topic some churches talk about too much, and others completely avoid. Why does God care about our money... does He care? If I work hard for everything I own, why would I freely give to those who don't work as hard? Should I? Listen in to this weeks episode to hear some personal stories and scriptural insights. We uncover the deeper issues of the heart that influence our financial decisions. Money does not change a person, it only magnifies who they are....

May 16, 202546 minEp. 27

Know Who You Are — But Remember Whose You Are

Insecurity does not equal Humility Confidence does not equal Pride In this episode we dive into what each of these terms mean and who you were made to be. Whether you're struggling with low self-esteem or battling ego, here is a reminder: you are fearfully and wonderfully made—but it’s not about you, it’s about Him.

May 09, 202549 minEp. 26

From The Heart The Mouth Speaks

Gossip may seem harmless or even entertaining, but Scripture shows us just how damaging it can be to others, ourselves, and our relationship with God. Let's unpack what gossip really is, why it’s considered sin, and how Jesus calls us to something higher. How can you become a godly girl in a world full of gossip, listen to find out! Let the power of the Holy Spirit helps us speak life, not lies.

May 02, 202543 minEp. 25

If This Doesn't Change Your Mind... Let It Change Your Heart. (w/ Roger Sherrer)

In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most unexpected spiritual journeys you’ll ever hear. Roger Sherrer didn’t just question faith—he rejected it entirely, and even lead former Christians astray. How did he become lead Pastor of a church? What caused such a deep and radical change? Whether you’re a skeptic, a seeker, or deeply religious, this conversation will leave you asking: What if the thing I’ve been running from is the very thing I need to explore? Hear a story that bridges the di...

Apr 25, 202557 minEp. 24

Did Jesus ACTUALLY raise from the dead?

Today we celebrate Good Friday, but the darkest day in History. Take sometime to pause and reflect. This week we will talk about the history & theology behind the sacrifice of Jesus and how it all roots back to Gods promise from the very beginning of time. We hope this episode give you a new insight into the purpose of Easter, and the foundation of our faith: THE RESURRECTION! We know Jesus was a real person, and that He died on a criminals cross, but did He REALLY rise again? It sounds unbe...

Apr 18, 202558 minEp. 23

The Christian God is the Only God

What sets Christianity apart from every other religion? In this episode we dive into the basics of our faith, and address some heavy topics that hold people back from experiencing the fullness of God. What do we believe? How should we live? How can you grow in your faith/become a new believer? Let's make it simple... but dive into the complex. Jesus leaves the 99 for the 1. Could it be you this week? Let's find out. XoXo, Godly Girls

Apr 11, 202557 minEp. 22

We Need To Be Real With You...

Season 2 has officially begun, and we are so ready for a fresh start. Why did we take a break from the pod? Listen to find out! Do you struggle with perfectionism? Are you always waiting for the RIGHT time? Are you wanting to be authentic and live out in the call God has for you, but don't know how? These are some recent struggles in our lives, and we will be discussing all of them in this weeks episode. We cannot thank you enough for all of the love and support as we figure out how to navigate ...

Apr 04, 202554 minEp. 21

Taking Some Time

We will miss Godly Girl Fridays with you all, but are going to take this month to revamp and come back better than ever! Thank you so much to everyone following along with us on this journey. Take this month to catch up on our previous episodes! What do you want to hear about in season 2?? Reach out and let us know!

Mar 07, 202557 secEp. 20

You are Who You Attract (w/ Kelsey Winfrey)

All the single ladies, put your hands up! This episode is for (bot not limited to) the singles out there. Today we talk about the difficulties of modern dating, the truth of heartbreak, and what it looks like to find your worth and live according to that. Listen in to hear about how Kelsey Winfrey found herself, and discovered contentment in Christ after ending a 6 year relationship.

Feb 28, 202557 minEp. 18

Girls Struggle with Lust Too.

Can you regain purity if you've already messed up? What if your purity was taken, not given? Why shouldn't you have sex until marriage anyways? Is Masturbation a sin? This week: laugh and cry with us as we open up with some personal stories because let's be real... Lust is not just a temptation for guys. If you are a struggling, you are not alone. We get it. Let's see dive into the word of God and see what He says about it. Time to heal together....

Feb 21, 20251 hr 10 minEp. 19

Why are you even dating?

Why are you with Him?? Do you really think you'll get married, or are you just lonely? Don't date someone just because you're bored, only to get your heartbroken in the end. It's not fair to either of you. "Above all else, guard your heart"- words from the author of love. Take it from two girls who let their guards down and reaped the consequences later on, trust the instruction of God. This week we talk about relationships and the importance of who you end up with.

Feb 14, 202553 minEp. 16

Bad Company Corrupts Good Character (w/ Sadie Chisim)

Who better to join us for an episode on friendship than one of our very best friends Sadie Chisim!! This week we talk about the importance of friendship, and how to know who to let close. Making new friends can be scary, and maintaining them in different seasons can be hard, but we weren't made to do this life alone. Send this episode to some of your close friends as a reminder you love them!

Feb 07, 202555 minEp. 15

Hey. Slow Down

There is a reason God commands us to rest. Your soul needs recharge. Don't feel guilty for taking a moment to breathe. Rest and Laziness are NOT the same thing. Rest it a way to prepare you for what's up ahead. Laziness is what prevents you from getting anywhere. Slow down. breathe. It'll be okay.

Jan 31, 202551 minEp. 14

Mental Health is a Sickness Not a Sin.

Depression, OCD, Anxiety Whatever it is, where is God in it? How do you overcome a brokenness others don't see? Does your mental health have to be a struggle? Could there be purpose to the struggle?

Jan 24, 202549 minEp. 13

Mind/Body/Spirit (w/Jayden & Haley Ivey)

Mind/Body/Spirit These things are all intertwined, and learning how to take care of each of them is crucial in living a life to the fullest of what God has for you. This week we talk with two of our closest friends about how they got where they are, and their advice to others who are ready to make a change in their lifestyle choices. Let's learn how to take care of our temples.

Jan 17, 202556 minEp. 12

I Messed Up Again... (when last time wasn't the last time)

Stop saying "This is the last time." Start saying "last time was the last time." Let's learn how to move forward, keep our eyes on Jesus and turn away from the things that are holding us back. Temporary satisfaction and quick hits of dopamine aren't enough anymore. It's time to find true fulfillment and freedom in Jesus.

Jan 10, 202542 minEp. 11
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