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When Integrity Guides Your Journey

Oct 16, 202410 minSeason 2Ep. 20
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Episode description

Ever felt like skipping a commitment because you're just too exhausted?

THIS is that episode.  I got NO sleep the night before I recorded this and I was dragging my ass all day long.

When a longtime friend suggested I take a break, it was tempting, but realizing the impact of integrity on our goals motivated me to push through.

This episode uncovers the raw struggle and unexpected revelations that come with staying true to your word, even when no one is watching.

This episode is a testament to the fact that sometimes the biggest obstacles are the ones in our own minds.

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Transcript

Speaker 1

I'm so glad that you're here . You are listening to . What the fuck did she just say with your host ? That's me , sandra Priestly . I'm all about living our best life and finding our zone of brilliance and then removing the resistance so that we can go all in .

I say random , crazy shit , which is why I called this podcast the way that I did , and I really hate long drawn out intros , so let's fucking go . Okay , for those of you chicks who are taking note , this is officially the 21st podcast episode that I've released in a row , and I only said I was going to do 30 in a row .

That's what I initially committed to . So the fact that we are at 21 so fast is shocking to me , because it feels really , really effortless , or it , for the most part , it has almost every day , and going back about 25 days , I was really dragging my heels . I was trying to do my podcast perfectly .

I was , I was avoiding them like the plague , and so the fact that I am now at day 21 in a row is pretty shocking to me . Here's the other reason why it's shocking . So you know that , um , that you know that saying about it takes 21 days to make a habit . Well , here's the thing I was trying to avoid doing day 21 .

Like you would not believe , I'm so tired as I'm recording this and I am . I was procrastinating all damn day long . My friend called me and so and I've known her for friend called me and so and I've known her for get this , I think 35 years .

So she phones me and I'm saying , holy shit , like I don't know if it's menopause or you know the dementia , like symptoms that come with menopause . I think it's just , I'm super tired because I am barely rubbing two brain cells together at this point and I have to do a podcast .

And she said well , why don't you just skip recording the podcast tonight and just release it later tomorrow ? Like later in the day , you're still going to meet your everyday podcast , everyday podcast .

Now here's what's interesting Just today I did a social media post officially announcing that I release podcasts every morning at 5 am , and that was not a coincidence . That was like setting me up for me to have this moment where , right now , I'm going to prove that I'm going to show up .

When she , when she gave me this excuse , when she said well , you know , no one's going to notice and the majority of people wouldn't . The majority of people will not notice if I release at 5 am or at 7 am , right , but here's the thing Daily podcast releases was not necessarily about showing up for you every single day , even though that was part of it .

What it was was a challenge for me to stay in integrity with my word . It is impossible to hit all of your goals if you are stalling on some , if you make a commitment to yourself and you fall down on it .

And when I noticed , when I was talking to her and I noticed wait a minute , this podcast episode that I am avoiding or I was avoiding recording was day 21 . That is also not a mistake .

It was this huge , huge extra message from above to say do your fucking podcast , I don't care , I don't care , do what messy , get in that like fucking energy that is massively powerful and just hit record and go . Too often we do this in all areas , or even one area of our life , and then we wonder why we can't hit goals in other areas .

Right now , I want you to look at how many areas of your life . What is one goal that you have ? And are you back at the bus ? Okay , choose the goal . Look at the goal that you have and look at the steps that you have to achieve those goals . Now tell me , look back and go . Am I in integrity with this goal ? Am I committed to this goal ?

Am I integrity ? Am I in integrity with my word ? If I am not in integrity with my word , how in heck can I anticipate changing my life ? So if I look at and like how we do , one thing is how we do all things right or most .

So if I look at , I want to come through and I want to lose X amount of weight and I know what I need to do in order to do that , and I set my goal , how much I want to lose and by when , these are the steps , these are the like , the daily tasks that I'm going to do in order to do that , and then I don't follow them and I avoid and I

procrastinate and I don't move my body . I'm not going to get to my goal number one , but number two I'm letting myself down . So if I let myself down in that area of my life , I'm also likely to let myself down in the area of my life , of my business . I am likely to let myself down in every area of my life . So today the whole message is well .

Number one this is day 21 . Awesome . It takes 21 days to make a habit , so I'm pretty sure I'm going to show up for day 22 . But number two is I am committed to this podcast release . I am showing the fuck up podcast release . I am showing the fuck up .

Even when it's not perfect , I'm going to come through and this will translate to other areas of my life . It already has . Choose a goal , one goal that is really fucking important to you . Choose the steps that you have to make that are a little stretchy , but not too stretchy . You know , like doing this podcast was a little stretchy . I got to tell you .

But if I had to do this podcast and make sure that the audio was perfect and make sure that the editing was perfect and make sure that I did a soundbite on everything and I advertise everything I like , I mean I wouldn't come through on that .

Choose your goal and choose your path or your steps that you know you can do , that that are a tiny bit stretchy , and go all in and do not allow yourself to hold yourself back , because you will want to . I do and I have all of the excuses that I am coding as reasons right now . Right , I had all of the excuses .

I'm tired , I'm struggling with fatigue because of no sleep . It's seven o'clock at night . I can do it tomorrow . My best friend is saying I can do it tomorrow . Anyone would say that life is busy . I can show up in that energy . I can totally show up and say life is busy and you know what it's okay .

Show up and say life is busy and you know what it's okay . But no , because I wouldn't be in integrity with my word and that is not what I want to model for you here . We can do hard things . Fuck it . Energy is great . Good enough is better than not done at all . So show up today in whatever goal that you've got .

Show up in those steps , stay in integrity with yourself and watch how the rest of your life starts to fall together . Watch how the rest of your life starts to fall together . Thank you so much for listening . I hope you've had some laughs , maybe some ideas , and that you've been inspired to take some type of action toward the life you've always dreamed of .

If you feel so called , I would love it if you would share with your besties and leave a review down below . I look forward to bringing you along on this journey and I will see you in the next episode .

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