Wait ... my ears DON'T actually stick out ...

I say random , crazy shit , which is why I called this podcast the way that I did , and I really hate long drawn out intros . So let's fucking go . I have done a lot of work on my thoughts , my emotions , my limiting beliefs , and I've helped a lot of women do the same . I think that this is the work .

When you tell yourself it's not good , when you tell yourself you're not good enough , when you tell yourself you're not worthy , when you say I'm such a failure , I'm such a this , this is never going to work , this is not going to . Who the fuck is Sandra Like ?

When we start to shit on ourselves , when we start to tell ourselves this disempowering thought we are never going to manifest from there . So there is going to need to be some work If you want to step into the life that you really desire . You're going to have to do some fucking work . And you know what ?

It's just reprogramming bullshit thoughts that we've collected throughout the years . I'm 53 . I've had 53 years of bullshit thoughts that have been placed on me that I have agreed to .

I mean , I think I've said this before , but if you're here now listening to me daily , you may not have heard this before , but there was a time when I was in I don't know like elementary school that some little fucktard said to me that had said something about my ears sticking out and , holy heck , I got the worst haircut that covered up my ears .

I hated putting my hair back . I and for years and I am not joking , 30 years I convinced myself that my ears were sticking out . I convinced myself that I looked ridiculous with my hair back .

And it wasn't until , I'm not kidding , probably 10 years ago , where I had my hair pulled back and then I was like trying to , you know , pull my hair a little bit so that it was sticking , like it was a little off here around my ears so that I could disguise my ears . And all of a sudden I realized , wait a minute , my ears don't actually stick out .

I had to stare in the mirror for an uncomfortably long time going what just happened to my fucking ears , like , was I sleep ? Okay , Was I just sleeping on both sides of my like ? Why ? Why are my ? What happened to my ears ? Did my head get larger overnight ? I didn't have my ears didn't stick out . I didn't have my ears didn't stick out .

Some jackass told me that they did and I believed it to be true for 30 years .

And the thing is , if , if you read um the four agreements , you will know that in the four agreements , john Miguel Ruiz says that we believe agreements , that , like you know , we , someone says something and we agree that it's a belief at that time , like it's an agreement that we make .

And then , all of a sudden , something comes along to challenge that agreement . And then we get to choose is this good for me or is this not good for me ? Do I believe it still or do I not believe it still ? And there was this moment where I guess I'd never challenged whether my ears stood out .

There was this moment where I guess I'd never challenged whether my ears stood out . You know , like until all of a sudden I was faced with a mirror and went whoa , wait a minute . How did this happen ? What happened ? Something magical , a magical genie came along and made my ears go slip to my head and the job that we need to do .

What we need to do is reprogram . We don't know any better when we're three years old , when we're four years old , when we're eight years old and when we're 15 years old , and sometimes when we're 35 years old , we don't know any better and we make agreements , we believe things that are disempowering .

By the time we get to midlife and menopause , when we just don't give a fuck anymore , we start to realize wait a minute , I've got a whole bunch of thoughts that were given to me that I agreed with .

They were placed on me from some jackass that I don't even talk to , don't even like , or maybe , you know , from people who didn't have my best interest at heart , or maybe from people who just didn't know any better and they didn't know that they were doing something that would be that I would hold onto as something that would hold me back .

The work is really to reprogram . The work is to reprogram what we believe we're capable of , reprogram all of those disempowering thoughts , change them into empowering thoughts and then see where we're going . This week I have been doing the best class . Oh my gosh . Unworthiness and you know worthiness has been something that I have worked on my .

It feels like for years . It feels like for years I have worked on this , and so this is nothing that I haven't embodied . This is nothing that I haven't said . It's nothing that I haven't coached on .

What has been magical is that I never truly have done an entire five days on worthiness , and as I worked through the course and as I created it and as I spoke it , something magical happened . I embodied worthiness to a degree that I never knew was possible .

When I put it all together , when every single aspect of worthiness came together and it came together in this beautiful course , all of a sudden it was like I embodied it on an even deeper level .

I don't know that I've ever experienced that before , even though I've worked so hard , and any of my clients will say that the things , some of the things that I've said in this course , they probably would have heard but little bits and pieces of it .

And now , putting it all together , it has been this magical , beautiful um up level of understanding that I feel most people don't . Yeah , we hold ourselves back from manifesting everything that we are worthy of , everything that , everything that we desire , everything that is meant us .

We close the door on the universe because we think we're not worth it , and I can't see it as any different anymore . You know , if I see someone who is self-sabotaging , someone who is saying they want to lose weight and then eating a sandwich , self-sabotage , okay . Why are we doing this ? Why are we getting caught in the distraction ?

Why are we putting other people first ? Why are we having shitty boundaries ? Why are we not honoring ourselves ? Why are we not having integrity with our word ? Why are we not following through ? Why are we not able to manifest the things that we want ? Because we need to work on the idea that we are worthy of achieving it .

When we step into that moment of surrender , everything changes . But we can't just , you know , say I want to be a multimillionaire , and then surrender looks like go and eat a sandwich and sit with your feet up and watch Netflix , drink a glass of wine , like that's . That's not surrender . Surrender is surrender leaning on faith instead of fear .

Surrender is just allowing yourself to open up to possibilities , this or something greater .

Surrender is I'm going to do everything that I possibly can to build up my worthiness , to step into the person that would achieve the thing that I really , really want to step into the person that would achieve the thing that I really really want and then see what fucking happens this or something better .

Surrender is not I'm going to wish upon a star and surrender it and walk away . Surrender is choosing a goal , choosing a dream , being open to something that or greater , and being worthy of achieving everything that you desire because you're worthy of it now , with or without it .

Worthiness has been such a huge , huge thing for me to work on being okay If someone doesn't like me . Being okay If I don't hit a launch goal . Being okay If someone disagrees with me . Being okay because I am okay with who I am . Being okay If someone openly shits on me . I've worked on this so much .

But there is this next level in this course called Worth it , when everything starts to come together . I love that . The women in this group will forever see worthiness as different than they did before .

It's like you will never be able to unsee it and it will be something that you will be able to take with you , pass down to your kids and really use to create and manifest the life that you want and manifest the life that you want . I'm so in love with this course ? You have no idea .

So today is the last day of it , but I'm going to offer the recordings and , if you want to , you can get into my next course , which is called what the fuck did she just manifest . Those two courses worth it and what the fuck did she just manifest .

They work together because if you are struggling with boundaries , if you're struggling with integrity , if you're struggling with honoring yourself and your word , if you were struggling with , um , feelings not worthy , not good enough , um , you know , those are things . They are going to be cock , blocking the universe from bringing you whatever you want .

So if you are struggling with any of those things , which I think that most people would , I really , really , really suggest you get into worth it right now and watch the replays .

But if you think that you've got the cat by the tail and you've worked on worthiness a lot and there's nothing that you feel resonates with you , then what the fuck does she just manifest is going to be a kick-ass fun time and we will see you again tomorrow for Feng Shui Friday .

Thank you so much for listening . I hope you've had some laughs , maybe some ideas , and that you've been inspired to take some type of action toward the life you've always dreamed of . If you feel so called , I would love it . If you would share with your besties . Leave a review down below .

I look forward to bringing you along on this journey and I will see you in the next episode .