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the one thing you need to know when setting a goal

Dec 15, 20246 minSeason 2Ep. 80
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Episode description

There's one thing you gotta know when setting a goal:  your brain is gonna try to STOP you from hitting it.

That's for EVERYONE, not just you, not just me ... EVERYONE.

And the people who achieve their goals, have done "the work" to override that safety valve ...

In this episode I give you a sneak peek into what it takes to override it.

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Transcript

Speaker 1

I'm so glad that you're here . You are listening to what the fuck did she just say with your host ? That's me , sandra Priestly . I'm all about living our best life and finding our zone of brilliance and then removing the resistance so that we can go all in .

I say random , crazy shit , which is why I called this podcast the way that I did , and I really hate long drawn out intros . So let's fucking go . There's one thing that you need to know when you set a goal that as soon as you set it and as soon as you get over that dopamine hit that high of , I'm excited I can do this . Let's fucking go .

As soon as you sort of move over , you ride that wave . What happens is the negative stuff creeps in . The limiting beliefs creep in and those shitty thoughts start to take over . And you are not special . You do not have the patent on this . It is not only you who has these negative thoughts . It's every single one of us , no matter who we are .

You are Sarah Blakely . You have shitty thoughts . The only thing , the only difference between you and Sarah Blakely , developer of sneaks and spanks , is that she has worked on her mindset since the time she was a teen when she started listening to Wayne Dyer cassette tapes in her car .

There's one thing you need to know when you're setting a goal is that as soon as you set it , you'll have this sort of immediate dopamine rush , this sort of high of setting a new goal , the excitement of something new . And there will be a moment when that is going to start to wane and that's when your subconscious mind starts to kick in .

That's when the limiting beliefs start to kick in . I have heard it called so many things . I have heard it called your mean girl . I have heard it called the adversary . I have heard it called your dick brain . I have heard it called little Dickie . Sometimes it's the devil on your shoulder .

I know you're sitting there thinking that every single time you try to go all in , something happens . You don't believe that it's possible . Timing is not perfect . You know you're waiting for a different time , a better time .

You're making sure that you have all your ducks in a row and all your shit together before you start so that you have a really , really , really good shot at achieving the goal . But what happens is all you're really doing is the action part . You're not adjusting your mindset , and it's the mindset . That's the biggest problem right there .

It's the mindset that is holding you back the most , because it's your mindset that is telling you in the background you can't do this . Fuck , you deserve a break . You've had two really good days . Why don't you eat this chocolate bar ? I'm hungry . I deserve something . I've had a rough day . I should just start again tomorrow .

I mean , I have had all of these thoughts and $375 trillion more , and I know you have too trillion more and I know you have too . The only thing that you need to do in order to achieve your goal is focus on mindset , energy and action . When you don't achieve what you want , it's because you're not focusing on all three .

And I used to think that all that I needed for weight loss , for business , for clients , for personal development all I really needed was to work on my mindset , because I kind of had the action down down pat . And then I realized wait a minute .

I started learning about feng shui and I started learning about the energy and the energy that I'm putting out , the energy in my space , how that was affecting me , how that was affecting how I thought , how it was affecting how I felt , how it was affecting the actions that I took and I started realizing whoa energy is a huge part of this too .

I will say this till I'm blue in the face mindset , energy and action . You must do all three , and you must do all three in reference to your goal Every single day . You want to achieve your goal .

That's what you need to do Focus on your mindset , focus on your energetic imprint , focus on your mindset with respect to your goal , focus on how you feel and the energy that you have with respect to your goal . And focus on how you feel and the energy that you have with respect to your goal .

And focus on the actions that you take every single day with respect to your goal . If you can do that every single day consistently , there is no other option but for you to reach your goal Because , as I said yesterday , if you have a dream , you have been placed on this earth with the capacity to achieve it .

The only thing that you are doing is stopping yourself from achieving it . The work is mindset , energy , action . Every fucking day , let's go . Thank you so much for listening . I hope you've had some laughs , maybe some ideas , and that you've been inspired to take some type of action toward the life you've always dreamed of .

If you feel so called , I would love it if you would share with your besties . Leave a review down below . I look forward to bringing you along on this journey and I will see you in the next episode .

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