¶ Podcast Without Music
Well , this is the second day that I have recorded this podcast . I don't have an intro , I don't have an outro , I don't have music and I'm not entirely sure I'm in love with it . I might have to spend some time trying to find the perfect music and I hate that process so much .
Honestly , if you've been listening to the podcast for any length of time , you will know that I spent like months looking for my last podcast music and I couldn't find the perfect one ever . And so I finally asked my husband for advice and he said Crazy Train would be perfect for me for advice . And he said Crazy Train would be perfect for me .
Now I do like the intro to Crazy Train by Ozzy Osbourne , but I just feel like that's not really the vibe . You know currently . Know that because I'm a Libra . Things like podcast music or what should we have for supper or what should we have for supper I'm not a big fan of those decisions . I can weigh them out for days .
So for right now , we're just going with it Messy , no music .
¶ The Bachelor Viewer Experience
Now I have been watching the Bachelorette , the Bachelor , bachelor in Paradise , all of those ones for years now . Like how many years has the Bachelor been on 30 ? I don't even know . It's been a lot of seasons and I've watched almost all of them .
And you know , there's the moment where you're watching with your girlfriends or you're talking about it later and you're watching this show and it gets to the point where , let's say , it's the Bachelorette . And it gets to the point where the Bachelorette is believing in the douchebag .
She's going to pick the complete jackass , the one that everyone hates , the one that we all hate , the loser that causes all the drama and then pretends he's so perfect to her . And we start screaming at her and we start screaming at the TV . No , you can't pick him . You know that , vibe right . Pick him . You know that , vibe right .
So now I heard this on Instagram or TikTok or somewhere
¶ Imagine People Watching Your Life
on social media . This woman suggested that you imagine there is a group of people watching you on TV . It's a movie of your life . They start to scream at you , just like everyone screams on the Bachelor and the Bachelorette . They start to scream for you to do something or for you to not do something . They can see so clearly what your way forward is .
They've been watching this movie for a while , so they know exactly who you are . They know everything about you , they know what your goals are , they know what's troubling you and they also can see so damn clearly what you need to do to get unstuck or to reach that next level .
As you're imagining this picture of all of these women , all of these besties , sitting having wine , having cheese , having water , I don't know , they're yelling , they're screaming at the TV because they know what you need to do , I want you to ask yourself what is it that they are screaming and what do you need to change ?
We all have an idea of what we need to do , but we're so damn close to our own problems and we're so tied to our limiting beliefs that we don't want to listen . But we know . I mean ,
¶ Breaking Free From Limiting Beliefs
let's face it , if you are sitting watching your friend struggle , in some way you know exactly what she needs to do and you're wondering why in the fuck she's not doing it already . It's so easy to see what someone else should do because you are not tied to your friend's fears . But here's the thing you don't need to be tied to yours either .
I love this concept so much , and when I heard it at first , it took me two seconds to imagine a room full of chicks sitting around on the couch screaming at my TV , and I knew exactly what I needed to do . I knew my next step and I knew where I was sitting in resistance . And I could hear them saying get up . What the fuck are you doing ? Just move .
We all know , but we're just too tied to our own damn story . If you can visualize someone outside of yourself viewing in this omnipotent role , what are they saying , then go do more of that , and this is where the outro music would go . I hope you
¶ Taking Your Next Step Forward
have an amazing day and I look forward to seeing your town or city pop up in the back end of this podcast . I love seeing where you are all from . I've been noticing that you have been listening . To see you tomorrow .