Lessons I learned from facebook that relate to life AND business

I say random , crazy shit , which is why I called this podcast the way that I did , and I really hate long drawn out intros . So let's fucking go . When I started this podcast , challenge my initial 30 days of podcasting , which has turned into at least 60 days , and , quite frankly , I think I'm just going to go all the way to December 31st .

So if you are loving this podcast , I will see you . Then I will have some amazing thing to share on December 31st , I promise . Anyway , back up the bus . So when I first decided that I was going to do this 30 days of podcasting , what happened was I stopped posting on my business page , my Facebook business page .

I was trying to post up to four times a day on my business page called the Feng Shui Chick , my business page . I have two business pages actually . I have one called the Feng Shui Chick and then I have another one that's called . What the Fuck Did she Just Say I wasn't posting ever on . What the Fuck Did ?

She Just Say Thank you to the 11 followers that I have . You have stuck with me even though I didn't post anything . I am now posting links to this podcast , so yay , thank you so much . But I did just have that podcast so that people , so that I could attach it on my personal profile .

I don't share business stuff on my personal profile and so I just wanted someone , like I wanted people to be able to look at it and go , hey , what's this ? Click on the link and then be able to go to that page that had the link to the podcast . That was it , anyway .

So when I started doing this challenge , podcasts took priority and I was just focused so much on that and I just fell down with my posts on my Facebook business page . It's okay to do that , like . I feel like this was a whole bunch of lessons wrapped up into one that I'm going to talk about now .

So , like , the first lesson that I want to just say is you know what ? It's okay . It's okay to take on a new challenge and let other things that you were getting used to doing or you always did . It's okay to take on a new challenge and let something slide .

If you decide that you're going to go and you're going to walk for an hour every single day and you start and you're going to do this for 30 days and you start and you know you go for the first two , three days . All of a sudden you come back and you look and you have not done dishes for three days . You know what it's going to be .

Okay , the dishes are going to be there on day four when you decide , yeah , okay , I've got this licked . I can go for a walk for an hour every single day . Now I'm going to pick back up what I did before . Like we got to give ourselves grace here .

When we're going to take on a new challenge , we're going to let some things slide and it's okay , we're going to pick them back up . I promise you you're not going to have to eat off of Royal Chinette for the rest of your walking challenge . So that's like point number one .

But also , when I started back up I started back up posting on my Facebook business page there was a couple things like number one . I hadn't posted for a long time . So the algorithm isn't going to show my stuff a lot . Right , I'm not going to get a lot of views .

But number two I decided that what I wanted to do was share links to my podcast because I love this podcast and I wanted to share links to my podcast so that anyone on my business page could see it . Now I know that if I share links to my podcast , it's probably not going to show up in a lot of people's news feeds . Why ?

Because Facebook wants you to stay on Facebook . So if I post an external link to something , facebook is not going to show it in your feed .

You can go to my page and you're going to see all of my podcasts , like the links to my podcasts and whatever I'm seeing right but it's not going to show up in your news feed and I could make that mean all sorts of things Like what I make it mean is more important than it is . So the facts are .

The facts are I'm posting links and no one has seen them . Links and no one has seen them . But the facts are also I don't care , because I want that . I want to post my links .

So I am absolutely okay if I just have a whole bunch of posts on my page with the links and it shows up , because I know a lot of people will go back and they will look through and it will absolutely be okay . I am choosing to make it mean nothing about me , because it really isn't your Facebook algorithm . Nothing about you , it really isn't .

And then the third thing that I thought was everything just works out . We spend a lot of time just focusing so much on crappy things that happen , but I promise that everything will work out and become better again if you just don't let it crumble . You Do ?

You know how often we spend time with a situation and we just ruminate on it and we focus on it and we make it mean something so awful and we just roll in this pit of despair and this victimhood and all we need to do is just breathe , have faith . What I do is say give it to God and go to sleep , like all the time .

Right , give it to God and go to sleep . Okay , I my husband will say give it to the angels they're bored up there Like , just let them take care of you , let them take care of our situation . If we don't know what we can do , we have nothing , we have no control over something . Just give it to the angels .

They'll happily take it and you know what Just feels lighter . I promise that everything will always work out . Everything is figureoutable and everything will work out no-transcript . The fourth thing was your worth . I mean , I'm on a worthiness kick because I just finished the program worth it , my new worth it program . I am so in love with it .

I'm so in love with it and I feel like I could go all in on worthiness , like for a whole entire business . But for right now , I want you to know that your worth is not tied up in your Facebook reactions , comments , views , shares , engagement of any kind , because that is external to you .

Your worth is not also tied up in someone else's comments , someone else's opinions , someone else's actions , like . Your worth has nothing to do with anything external to you . It is everything to do with who you are at the core of who you are . It's not even some things that you , it's not even your actions , it's who you are . We got to get to that .

That jewel in the middle of your chest , who you are at the core , that , when we can connect to that , that is your worth . I am worthy . Even though no one saw my Facebook posts , you see what I mean . We spend a lot of time , we women in business .

We spend a lot of time worrying about oh no , no one saw my post , no one liked my post , no one commented on them . Your worth has nothing to do with that . We're just going to let anything external to us go . Also , number five fuck it , I'm worth it . I will continue to shine energy . That is powerful .

That is powerful when we can just show up and say whatever we want to say . We can show up and do whatever we want to do . That is powerful . I promise you eventually , when I keep sharing my podcast link , eventually you will see , by the end of 30 days you will see . Actually there will be shares , there will be engagement , there will be .

I'm just going to keep sharing it because I want to and I don't . I'm not focused on that . I'm just not focused on it . I'm just focused on screw it . I'm going to do what I want to do because it's my page and I get to and I'm not worried if people see it or not . It's irrelevant , it is external to my worth .

I know I love this podcast and a story . What's fun about the triad energy is that you could just sit and go . Huh , okay , that wasn't working . Let's see what this does . That wasn't working . Let's see what this does .

So today I posted on my page a picture of my dog , who was laying on my daughter's bed , cozy , sleepy , and I posted a picture of her because , guess what ? Facebook loves dog pictures . People love dog pictures , and so you know what I did .

I posted a dog picture and I talked about how my algorithm tanked since I started posting links , and I talked about how I just want you to go and be your brilliant self , because the world needs your message and the right people will always find you , no matter what the algorithm says , and I believe that to be true .

I believe that to be true to the core of who I am , and you'll never guess .

All of a sudden , my algorithm picked up . Just hang on , wait for a bit , it will all figure itself out . Thank you so much for listening . I hope you've had some laughs , maybe some ideas , and that you've been inspired to take some type of action toward the life you've always dreamed of .

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