[FENG SHUI FRIDAY] Can we use our space to increase self-love?

I say random , crazy shit , which is why I called this podcast the way that I did , and I really hate long drawn out intros , so let's fucking go . Okay , on Tuesday , I promised you that I would tell you something amazing for self-love on Feng Shui Friday . So here we are .

The thing that I talked to the women in the powerhouse membership about this week was about using your space to enhance how you feel about yourself . Here's the trick when you enter your house , you should feel good , you should feel your spirit rise , you should feel this lovely interaction between your home and yourself .

When you walk in the door , you should just take a big , deep sigh and go . I love being home . Too often , we spend so much time thinking that our home is just a container for our shit , and it's not . Our home is like a space , an energetic space that interacts with our bodies . We take care of it and it takes care of us . Like .

I want you to start thinking that you're co-creating your life with your home , because that is what it is . It is not just a container for your shit . Our home is a reflection of ourselves .

It's an expression of our inner life , and so if we want to feel good about ourselves , we got to feel good in our home and we want our home to really reflect how we feel this loving relationship with our home . We want to take care of it and it will take care of us . So walk in the door . How does it feel ?

Does it feel like you're happy to be home ? Do you take a big , deep sigh of relief that you're finally home ? Does it smell nice ? Do you have a place in your home that you can go ? And it just feels so good . Do you treat yourself with new , fresh towels ? Do you add flowers to your space just because they make you smile ?

One of the things that I have in my office , it's a large crystal paperweight . I don't know who needs paperweights these days . I mean , maybe you do in Southern states where the windows are open all the time but , like right now , it's minus 40 with the windchill , so there is no windows open and I am not at risk for papers going flying .

But I have this beautiful crystal paperweight . It's about the size of a softball and I love it , and as soon as the light comes streaming into my office I move that crystal paperweight into the light so I can see it reflect all the prisms on my wall .

It is the thing that I absolutely love and I make sure my office is clear and clean so that I really cherish that crystal ball . I can see all of the prisms all over the walls and those things just make my heart happy . Like all of the prisms all over my walls , they just make my heart happy .

I also have a plant pot that has sort of little reflective sides on it all over the place . It throws off tons of these tiny little prisms all over my walls . Your home should just have beautiful things in them that just make your heart smile , and when you love your home like that , you feel better about yourself .

Down in the show notes you'll see that it says send me a text and let me know what your favorite place in your home is , and if you don't have one , then it's an amazing day to start . Find the place that you just feel like you love or you want to be your favorite space . Declutter it .

Remove absolutely everything that doesn't bring you joy , absolutely everything . Move it all out . I don't care where you put it .

For right now the goal is I mean , ideally we don't want to just move our clutter around but for today , clear all of your clutter out , leave it really really nice and beautiful , add things in that make you smile and spend time there , and then tomorrow you can go and deal with the stuff you just took out . But I just want you to spend time .

I just want you to have one space in your home that just makes you happy . You deserve that . If you want to join us in the powerhouse , the link is in the show notes . See you tomorrow . Thank you so much for listening .

I hope you've had some laughs , maybe some ideas , and that you've been inspired to take some type of action toward the life you've always dreamed of . If you feel so called , I would love it if you would share with your besties and leave a review down below . I look forward to bringing you along on this journey and I will see you in the next episode .