Rachel is in a pretty philosophical headspace and talks (and talks and talks) about pop psychology/social media therapy and explores how it is helpful, and how it can be damaging. Then she switches gears in the interview with Natalie Dean, founder of Wellness and Desire. The two of them discuss sex toys, shame, and pleasure for all.
Jul 14, 2023•1 hr 1 min
Rachel breezes through this week’s intro because she is jetsetting to Seattle for a wedding (Congrats to Bet and Jason)! Which is convenient because weddings are the topic for this week’s episode! Join Rachel and wedding planner Valerie as they chat about all that go through all is required to plan a wedding. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
Jun 30, 2023•1 hr 5 min
Rachel talks about orgasms and orgasm research in this week’s introduction before jumping into her conversation with Kristen O’Guin. Kristen is a sexual empowerment coach and talks with Rachel about all the different facets that make up authentic sexuality.
Jun 16, 2023•58 min
Rachel touches on imposter syndrome and provides a new email and a link to her breakup toolkit in this intro, before jumping into a chat with Latanza Warren. Latanza is a survivor of narcissistic abuse and talks to Rachel about how to spot a narcissist, how to extricate yourself from the situation, and how to find your value again.
Jun 02, 2023•54 min
Rachel follows up on some previously discussed sex techniques and enhancers in this week’s intro before jumping into a conversation about cannabis and sex with her guest, Amanda. Amanda has studied the relationship between weed and sexual functioning/pleasure and shares all of her findings.
May 19, 2023•1 hr 8 min
Rachel talks about the evolution of the self in the intro before jumping into today’s interview with Thomas Gagliano. Rachel and Tom discuss healing from childhood, how to be an impactful parent, and loving your inner child.
May 05, 2023•1 hr 3 min
Rachel talks about growth and learning (of all kinds) in this week’s intro before jumping into her chat with this week’s guest, Eleni Economides. Eleni is a sex and relationship coach and she talks with Rachel about the relationship between stress, self-confidence, and sex.
Apr 21, 2023•1 hr 5 min
Rachel talks about spontaneous desire vs responsive desire in this week’s intro before jumping into her conversation with guest Marla Green. Marla and Rachel discuss how Marla rediscovered self love after an accident that left her disabled, pain in medicine, and so much more.
Apr 08, 2023•53 min
Rachel talks about personal growth and two things relevant to the conversation she has with her guest today - the greek play Lysistrata and a Canadian current event. Joslyn is a sex educator, intimacy coach, and sex worker in Canada who shares firsthand experience and a HUGE number of resources on the topics of surrogate partner therapy, the misconceptions about sex work, and sex worker’s rights.
Mar 24, 2023•1 hr 15 min
Rachel talks about the shooting at MSU in this week’s intro before introducing her guest - fellow Michagander, Abby. Abby and Rachel talk about perfectionism, philosophy, literature, self growth, spirituality, and writing as therapy.
Mar 10, 2023•1 hr 15 min
Rachel gets real in this week’s intro before talking to Jeff Bennett, the CEO and Founder of Morari Medical. The two of them discuss sexual “dysfunction”, sex statistics, and the pressure society puts on men. Jeff tells Rachel about the Mor patch, how it works, and what it accomplishes for men and couples everywhere.
Feb 24, 2023•1 hr 1 min
Rachel talks COVID, mice, work stress, and the Spicer app before jumping into the conversation with today’s guest. Mireille Nicole works with women seeking love after divorce and she and Rachel talk about processing healthily, getting back out there, working to sustain a healthy relationship, and the nuances between self love, self worth, and self care.
Feb 15, 2023•59 min
Rachel chats about 2023 so far, asks where on earth would you revisit after you die, and talks about We Should Try It/Spicer. She is then joined by her guest, Deaf Queen Boss Kellina Powell. Kellina shares some of her stories about dating with her disability, talks about how we can be more supportive of those who have disabilities, and gives some tips for self love.
Jan 27, 2023•1 hr
Rachel keeps this week’s intro short and sweet before jumping into the interview with the first guest of 2023. Jenny Lee talks about the importance of taking intentional time for yourself in the morning, the science behind changing habits, and she also provides some tricks to help you make the most of your mornings.
Jan 17, 2023•1 hr 2 min
Rachel talks about all things 2023: Resolutions, and things to look forward to, including the show that both she and this week’s guest appear in, Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley. Then she and her guest and friend, Sam, jump into a conversation about reflection, introspection, and being intentional going into the new year.
Dec 30, 2022•1 hr 12 min
Rachel talks about personal growth and progress before introducing this week’s guest, Jenni Rochelle. The two of them then talk about how to reclaim your life after betrayal.
Dec 16, 2022•1 hr 11 min
Rachel pontificates about the nuances of values before jumping into a conversation with this week’s guest. Rachel and Dr. Colleen Stack discuss the brain and how it relates to all things sex, love, anxiety, and more!
Dec 02, 2022•1 hr 13 min
It’s episode 69! So this week, Rachel is in the hot seat and Layla London takes over the interview role in an interview recorded last year. Before that, though, Rachel talks about blowjobs and the dentist and also follows up on the idea of archetypes that we began exploring last episode.
Nov 18, 2022•1 hr 3 min
Rachel geeks out about sexual archetypes before jumping into her interview with this week’s guest, Roy Biancalana. Roy and Rachel discuss personal work, relationship muscles, what you should be focusing on when dating, keeping relationships healthy, and so much more!
Nov 04, 2022•1 hr 15 min
Rachel divulges recent happenings, then dives into discussing quiet quitting relationships and the four horsemen that end relationships. She is then joined by Anna Gonowan and the two explore the topic of demisexuality in depth.
Oct 21, 2022•1 hr 13 min
Rachel shares some “bad first date” listener submissions and does a deep dive into a place of both wonder and horror: the r/sex subreddit. She is then joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton, relationship coach “for couples who color outside the lines!” They discuss ethical non-monogamy, questioning norms, and so much more!
Sep 23, 2022•1 hr 15 min
Rachel has a very pressing question about dating as a podcaster. Then she is joined by Taylor Sparks, founder of Organic Loven. They discuss vaginal health, organic sex toys, adult cruises, ethical non-monogomy, and more!
Sep 09, 2022•1 hr 5 min
It’s that kind of week! Rachel recaps vacation and shares some TEDx Talks she’s been watching. Then she is joined by Elizabeth Bowman, author of Sitting in the Sadness. The two of them the stages of grief, healing through creating, and Elizabeth shares some of her poems.
Aug 26, 2022•1 hr 5 min
Rachel is on VACATIONNNNN so today’s intro is just going over some housekeeping things before we jump into the special two-year anniversary special featuring…Rachel’s mom. Rachel and Dawn talk about childhood, dating, Roe v. Wade, writing, mortality, and…yes. They do talk about sex.
Aug 12, 2022•1 hr 27 min
Rachel talks about toxic positivity, The Good Place, and gushes over her guest before getting to today’s conversation. Dr. Alexandra Stockwell is a physician and intimate marriage expert with a plethora of knowledge to share. The two of them discuss the philosophy and nuance of relationships, sex in a long term relationship, the “point of connection”, and oh so much more.
Jul 29, 2022•1 hr 11 min
Rachel talks about current events, vulnerability, and gratitude in this week’s intro. Then she jumps into a conversation with Ben Wallis - co-founder of the All Ports Open Network and creator of the new TTRPG, “Broken: A Tragic Romance Game”. They talk heartbreak, creativity, healing through gaming, and more!
Jul 15, 2022•1 hr 11 min
*CW: The Roe decision is discussed in this week’s intro. See the time stamp in the episode notes if you’d rather not engage at the present moment.* This week, Rachel gets a bit vulnerable and talks about Roe v. Wade, how tough the last few years have been, and how it’s important to stay present because of how quickly things change. Then, after an awkward transition, she jumps into a conversation with fellow actor and the founder of the Guided by Glow app, Sayra Player. What is mindful sexual aur...
Jul 01, 2022•59 min
Rachel talks new digs and follows up on last week’s intro before jumping into today’s interview with the beautiful couple, Denis and Jessie, founders of Fantastic Escapades! They talk keeping marriages healthy, prioritizing sex, and creating their own CBD bassed lube and massage oil.
Jun 18, 2022•1 hr 13 min
Rachel talks Roe v. Wade, gun violence, resources, and healing before jumping into her conversation with this week’s guest, Lizzi Cutler. Rachel and Lizzi discuss releasing sexual shame, reclaiming sex, and getting in touch with your body. Please note that this episode contains some themes that may be sensitive for some listeners.
Jun 03, 2022•1 hr 8 min
Rachel touches on Roe v Wade before introducing her guest, Jenna, and they talk about intuition, tarot, love advice, and more in this special episode! Jenna Matlin, M.S., has been a full-time tarot practitioner since 2012 and was awarded Best of Philly, ‘Spiritual Guru’ by Philadelphia Magazine in 2019. She has also been featured in various online spaces such as Buzzfeed and Bustle. Also, Jenna authored two books: Have Tarot Will Party and Have Tarot Will Travel, and presents at tarot conference...
May 20, 2022•1 hr 6 min