Why is it So Hard?

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Think this is just another sex podcast? Think again. We’re Lizzie and Nash—and we’re here to strip away the filters and get real. The stories you’ll hear? Raw. The feedback? Unfiltered. This isn’t fantasy—it’s the truth about what turns us on, trips us up, and keeps us curious. We’re talking everything: swinging, sexuality, toys, trauma, websites, trends, lube, kinks—you name it. Even the things you haven’t dared to bring up to your partner yet! This space is for the bold, the curious, the quiet cravers. Relax and enjoy the show!

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Episodes

Slippery When Wet — The Sacred Filth and Absolute Necessity of Lube

Click here to send us a message!!! If you’ve ever stopped mid-thrust because someone’s parts started arguing instead of making out… this one’s for you. Lizzie and Nash are breaking down the myth that lube is just a “backup plan” and making it damn clear: lube isn’t optional—it’s a sex essential. From awkward dryness to full-body melt sessions, we’re diving into: Why spit is not a strategy How lube turns fingers into instruments of pleasure Foreplay, toys, menopause, shame, and the art of slick s...

Jun 29, 2025•31 min•Season 1Ep. 10

The Art of Erotic Touch – Skin Hunger, Slow Hands, and the Language of Fingers

Click here to send us a message!!! This week on Why Is It So Hard ... We’re diving into the kind of touch that most people crave but rarely receive—the kind that’s slow, intentional, and unforgettable. It’s not about technique. It’s about presence. It’s about using your hands to build connection, trust, and real turn-on—without rushing to the finish. We’re breaking down how to recognize skin hunger, how to actually touch (not just grab), and how to create the kind of physical intimacy that linge...

Jun 15, 2025•45 min•Season 1Ep. 9

Don’t Rush Me—Warm Me Up First: The Power of Foreplay for Women

Click here to send us a message!!! Foreplay isn’t optional. It’s the damn ignition switch. In this episode of Why Is It So Hard , Lizzie and Nash go all-in on what it really means to warm her up — mentally, physically, emotionally — and why slow, patient, connected buildup changes everything. Real talk. Real heat. Real connection. lizzieandnash@gmail.com Find us on instagram: https://instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast #WhyIsItSoHardPodcast #ForeplayMatters #SexPositive #CoupleGoals #LizzieAndNas...

Jun 07, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 8

The Confident Body in Action – Owning Your Desires Out Loud

Click here to send us a message!!! You spoke your truth. Now it’s time to do the deed like you mean it! This episode is raw, filthy, with no-apology confidence. Leading with desire. Getting loud. Getting rejected. Getting back up. And owning your body like it was built to burn. This isn’t soft empowerment. This is the gritty, soaked-through, moan-between-words kind. Stop shrinking. Start arriving. Send your comments, questions, or problems to us and we will discuss them in future episodes! lizzi...

May 16, 2025•42 min•Season 1Ep. 7

Sexual Confidence Isn’t Just for Extroverts – Building Confidence Through Inner Work and Body Trust

Click here to send us a message!!! Sexual confidence isn’t something you’re born with — it’s something you build. In this episode, Lizzie and Nash strip it down and get real about what it takes to own your desires, trust your body, and walk into the bedroom like you belong there. It’s not about performing — it’s about embodying. Let’s talk about how to make that confidence yours. Send your comments, questions, or problems to us and we will discuss them in future episodes! lizzieandnash@gmail.com...

May 10, 2025•28 min•Season 1Ep. 6

What Happens After the Confession?

Click here to send us a message!!! This is a follow up to episode 2. After you have opened up to your partner, what's next? What happens after you make that confession? This is "Why is it So Hard?" with Lizzie and Nash. Send your comments, questions, or problems to us and we will discuss them in future episodes! lizzieandnash@gmail.com Find us on instagram: https://instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast #sex #love #sexy #relationships #pleasure #men #sensual #women #sexualhealth #kiss #lgbt #bisexua...

May 03, 2025•26 min•Season 1Ep. 5

Rewriting Your Erotic Story

Click here to send us a message!!! Welcome to episode 4. This is "Why is it So Hard?" with Lizzie and Nash. Our episode this week is about "Rewriting Your Erotic Story". Send your comments, questions, or problems to us and we will discuss them in future episodes! lizzieandnash@gmail.com Find us on instagram: https://instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast #sex #love #sexy #relationships #pleasure #men #sensual #women #sexualhealth #kiss #lgbt #bisexual #lifestyle #erotic #romance #couples #sexuality ...

Apr 20, 2025•24 min•Season 1Ep. 4

Unlocking Your Sexual Mind & Breaking Through Your Own Inhibitions

Click here to send us a message!!! Welcome to episode 3. This is "Why is it So Hard?" with Lizzie and Nash. Our episode this week is about Unlocking Your Sexual Mind & Breaking Through Your Own Inhibitions. We hope you enjoy! Send your comments, questions, or problems to us and we will discuss them in future episodes! lizzieandnash@gmail.com Find us on instagram: https://instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast #sex #love #sexy #relationships #pleasure #men #sensual #women #sexualhealth #kiss #lgb...

Apr 13, 2025•31 min•Season 1Ep. 3

Opening Up to Your Partner About What You Really Want

Click here to send us a message!!! Welcome to episode 2. This is "Why is it So Hard?" with Lizzie and Nash. Our episode this week is about opening up to your partner about your sexual desires. We hope you enjoy and we want to hear from you! So, send your comments and questions to lizzieandnash@gmail.com Find us on instagram: https://instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast #sex #love #sexy #relationships #pleasure #men #sensual #women #sexualhealth #kiss #lgbt #bisexual #lifestyle #erotic #romance #co...

Apr 07, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 2

Why Is Sex Still So Taboo?”

Click here to send us a message!!! Welcome to "Why is it So Hard?" with Lizzie and Nash. We are thrilled to be back, bringing you our thoughts on the most taboo subject, sex! Each episode will feature a new topic and we hope you enjoy! We want to hear from you, so send your comments and questions to lizzieandnash@gmail.com Find us on instagram: https://instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcast #sex #love #sexy #relationships #pleasure #men #sensual #women #sexualhealth #kiss #lgbt #bisexual #lifestyle ...

Mar 31, 2025•7 min•Season 1Ep. 1

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