Who's the Boss with Keltie Knight

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I got nothing, y'all? Okay, good. I was wondering, okay, because sometimes I get nervous when I come right in and we don't talk first, that you're waiting for like a reaction. I know, you know, I got nothing. Okay, great topics welcome, Oh great? Okay, So I host my in laws? Oh yeah, you want to talk about it?

Sure do?

Okay. So I learned a really valuable lesson when I was postpartum with love that there's a difference between company and help, and in the postpartum period for me specifically, I do not need company, I need help, got it. I do not have castrole toading in laws. Okay. And I'm not here to bust anybody or to be rude. I think it is I'm an adventure to say they don't listen to this podcast.

I'm hoping.

I'm just hoping that nobody that they listen. That it's not that just got me a topic something about that happened. But go ahead continue, Okay, yeah, yeah, I mean pinned, pinned. Don't forget it, though I want the pregnancy amnesia is so real, so it's tricky for me because I feel like I am often not the best version of myself

Keep going.

I'm really getting back on my hormonal pattern here. Anyway, So he works really hard and he's a hustler, so he does work a lot when he's out there. I want to make sure that I'm being clear about that before I get a million messages. Anyways, his parents. I offered his parents a hotel this time, right, I said, we would love to host shoot a hotel. Realizing that our last our guest room has now been taken by

I feel so deeply just Janice saying that just makes me want to push and right now.

I love it. It feels so validating because I'm here's my thing, my thing is not them, and I'm not trying to be passive aggressive and like that it gets back I I just I guess I feel two things. One, I would like to be a better version of myself as I gear up for my own mother visiting on Saturday, I'm hosting the old grandparent meet and greet. That's what's happening here. And I have really successfully boundaried until six

You answer it, and then I have to say something after you.

Well, I just think it's like I'm just trying to think like in in in like my past, like with X in laws or stuff, like, my thing always kind of goes with how they maybe raised and then that's where my internal frustrations with them come up. But I think as I've gotten older, I've just become more annoyed with family and parents in general, because it's like as we do our work and as we uncover more things, it's harder to sometimes maybe be around certain things. Yeah,

Started anyway with a lot of followers. Anyway. A. I never house my in law's parents anything, well, because they live like, because they live here, and I wouldn't. I just absolutely would.

Not if I lived here.

If they did, they would be somewhere else in a hotel. My family knows that, they probably.

Trust it's not happening at your mom she.

Lived there, and she paid her rent. For sure, she did. She paid rent. I'm not and that sounds terrible, but that's just not However, that stuff would not bother me. But what made me no, this is WHATSS made me think of. I'm sure plenty of things would bother me.

Okay, you would be bothered, because I think sometimes I'm just I'm not.

Bothered by that kind of stuff. But that's because I wasn't raised the way you were. But that makes me think of our different personalities real fast. Because New York, we're still asleep. You've cleaned the whole apartment before we leave for the was not that it was like a mess at all, but it's like we're still asleep getting ready to go to the airport. And Christon's like, great, I cleaned the whole place, And I was like, did

I wish my house looked like people didn't live in it sometimes, right, okay.

Right, whereas my house is a mess, you would think it's a mess, you know, that's just how I am. But it also made me think of the time we left David's house. Oh god, and I you know, and I'm pretty bad. I can be pretty bad at it. But I'm like, Carrery, what do we need to do? What do we need to clean up? Just throw the towels in the bathtub. Remember that?

Because I'm so close with him that I think sometimes I take that relationship for granted. But it's like, you know, I'm like, y'all, he's gonna have his maid come over anyway.

And we cleaned and I was like, yeah, towels in the bathtub. So we've thrown the towels in the bathtub. The next day he's like, guys, what do you say, towels in the bathtub?

It was just it just made me.

No, or maybe he.

Did, but he was still kind kind of like, why are the towels in the bathtub? And we both I was like, in, so, I'm not criticizing you, it's just everyone's very different with that.

I just think you were grown up how you were raised. And yeah, I feel like I'm not like Christ's centered enough. Like I feel like every time it's a test until I pass it and I'm never passing it.

I just feel like, maybe you shouldn't put yourself in that position.

I tried so hard not.

To, but did you say no.

Well, this is what's tricky is Preston was afraid that they would maybe be offended.

Well, they'll be offended. My in laws would be offended too.

If we put them in a hotel. He's like, they don't want to do that. And I will say, like the majority of like the fun, like not the majority of the fun, like family talking is happening post bedtime typically, So if they were at a hotel, then there's two sweet older people driving back to a hotel at night, which I don't love personally either.

So then I think maybe if that's the case.

This time, however, bedtime is eight pm because I have to get that first round a sleep or else I'm exhausted.

And that's like that's the whole difference.

Yeah, Like I'm like, it's a newborn, what are we doing? Yeah, I think that piece is hard because it's like hard. As much as I love like having my dad and his wife come, you know, my dad is very like talkative, wanting to make up for like lost time, so by like the end of the night, I'm tired. I'd like to go into my room and like not talk, not talk, And he's like, so you know, I'm like, can we just not speak? You know what I mean? Like, can you just be now?

It's my issue. This is why the stuff it's like, I don't want to talk.

This is why we do so well on the road together though, because when we when we all know it's not time to talk, we're done talking, which is harder for one of us than the other. So that's fine, well, no, because it's just like you you have to be like on and like during the day, it's just like exhausting

But that's that's I think. My point is like either say no to them coming, or if you are okay with them being there, then you have to say I'm done talking, or hey, the baby's screaming, do you mind taking the baby right now? I did do well at that, which I know is hard. I'm not saying it's not no, but I did do that.

This time. I was like, okay, guys, so I need y'all to go upstairs, and y'all like Preston can go up too, and y'all can talk, But like this, I need the lower level to just be shut down for the night.

Don't you just have to?

I almost feel like two last thing, you know, because we've got our amazing guest in the waiting room. But when I think about, like when I have the baby and stuff, I'd rather have my friends come than like a family, because it's just you guys, know, the like, yeah, the drill. I'd rather have you guys stay at the versus like because again it's just the parents. It just feels like I have I have to entertain do everything. But do we feel that way or is that the expectation?

And here's the thing. If it is expected doesn't mean you have to do it.

That's right, that's right. Well I enjoy my life. Well, we're going to take a break and then when we get back, we're going to get kelteen knight on. So she have you guys listened to Lady Gang? No? I love them. Becca is a good friend, but she the Lady Gang. They have like over like one hundred and ninety million downloads. They were on e for a hot minute. They've been doing it since twenty fifteen. All about women's support, right, I think is that the same year? No? Yeah, when

Hello Cassie like a whole trio.

Hi, Honey, Hello, and good hard look at your Emmy's and I know back row, I'm such a douchebag. Listen, Emmy, I'm making a necklace like flavor flav So no, that's amazing. I mean, shoot, I would be if.

Like as a woman in Hollywood right now, especially launching this show, I have so many meetings with like corporate people, and I feel like people are like, who is this girl? And I was like, I just need you to know this. Take me seriously on this zoom. But like normally they live upstairs in my.

Way, it's like a very like humble like way of doing it. Though it's not like it's not don't mess with me. They don't have their own light on them yet. That might be what we gift you. Maybe we send you like a box thing like a glass box with the.

Feels very say, half a half filled out whiteboard, you know, like some self help books.

It's very like it's all the things.

Wait, so the new show not super Fan because that's been on before. Are you doing a brand new There was another one? Then I thought I can't.

Did I did? We did Lady Gang on E and then I don't know?

So super Fan? So it's this is a like a brand new see like brand new new series.

Yeah, we premiere next Wednesday.

Oh how exciting. Okay, where did the idea for super Well? Okay, I'm just too much go for it. How did you we should first talk about super Fan? I mean we can all kind of guess.

Well, first of all, thanks so much for having me on y'all, and I'm so excited to see you, and congratulations on everything too, Danna.

I'm so happy for you and so super fun. Yeah, it's a new show.

It's a music series, and so I created it, I'm executive.

Producing it, and I'm healthy.

Yes, And the reason I'm so excited about it is because literally, I know it looks like I always have the jobs, but nobody offers me jobs, and so I really needed to go and make my own job. So I really have always wanted to host a music show, and my husband's music manager.

I've had sex with many musicians.

I think they're all really great in bed, and so I like music. I was a backup dancer for a couple of musicians back in my dance career, So this is like a very fitting moment. But it's a show where basically, like we take the biggest artist of the world, Ella Cool Jay's our first episode on Wednesday.

Then we have Shania Twain and Pitbull.

Kelsey Ballerini, tons and tons of artists, and then we did a nationwide search for their biggest super fans, and so five of them compete through all these levels of like trivia and knowing the songs, they have to do lip sync, like all these different things, and then one of them is going to be named the number one super fan. But the artist is right there the whole time,

I called X Yeah, it's CAI so stupid.

Why I don't know. I miss the bird.

I miss the bird too, and you tweet?

Then is it?

I have no idea, It still says tweet. I don't know. It's a messy, messy, messy.

So America is going to vote on Twitter using hashtags, and then one of the fans wins, and the prime are like insane Glorias Stefan, who's like the love of my life. Her prize is she's going to fly you and she's crazy fans by the way. She's gonna fly to Miami, put you up at one of the hotels she owns for like a few days, and then on Saturday night you're gonna come to her house on Star Island and she's going to cook you dinner with Amelia and the fam and like a dream.

That is a yeah.

So it's not like, oh, it's like a meet and greet.

It's like it's Kelsey Ballerini, who I love so much, is her prize is I mean, there's a bunch of stuff. But then you get to come to her show vi P and then you get to pick a song from any of her albums and come on stage and sing it with her for the audience.

Good for that's really fun. If she loved it by having you kiss Chase Stokes, I feel like you guys, might that might be even a better you know you know what?

Yeah, Like I feel like then like some of Chase's little a little baggy of Chase's hair is like.

Also a DNA sample.

I didn't get weird at all.

Selene is ever on can can me and Kat be the like at least like audition for the show, because I mean I would give can you imagine like being in like if Selene like offered like a dinner with her, Like I don't even she.

Was the tippity top top top on short list and she's say, you know, she's not doing it right now, and so she's not doing anything. But like I you know, I think with her her illness, she's not able to sing, which is like very heartbreaking. Something about like when she sings and uses those muscles, that's like the problem. So I'm like for season two, Selene, you don't even have to perform, Like you don't have to perform, you don't

That probably wouldn't end well with Selene songs, because you should like do it. We'll send you sample from a car ride.

We've got plenty of videos.

If you'd like to see the second tier Jessica Simpsons every one. I would like you to just send me a little damn Okay, thanks, Okay, this girl is the biggest. The funniest thing is when I was making like a you know, bestie birthday thing, I was like, you know, trying. I was like, Okay, she loves Jessica Simpson, so I'm like, let me try and get a Jessica Simpson song. And it's like with you with none is like I can't do because it's all like she's so I could have my T shirt on it.

Yeah, I can make a knitting zy just before you hit the love Jessica too.

I'm not the problem is that I would probably black out and there would be like some sort of medical emergency that would happen. Yeah, I'm like kind of shaking, sweating thinking about it.

Yeah, you have everything about Jessica Simpson like I love her.

I think she's great, Like are you into the shoes and the fashion and everything about her just the music.

I say supportive because I just feel like that is nicer than like, you know, like a felony or something. So it's just supportive. I did meet her finally and it was I don't remember what I said, but I have a video and I keep saying I love you over and over again. She finally said it back, but I think just because she was like what.

Will end this?

But it's fine.

So I'm like that with a Backstreet Boys. We had back.

Boys on on on the my podcast and and then like our show, and I've interviewed the mazillion times and every time I'm such.

A fucking loser, like god, like I you.

Know, is that your person you're super fan people? Like? Is that your ultimate?

A backstor Boys episode would be the dream for me, but I would have to compete, And like, I want to tell you something. I'm you know, I Jack Vannick and I who's my co host on Lady Gang.

I like this trio versus like another trio.

She She and I got in a deep six month era where all we did was send each other back and forth YouTube links of AJ mcclear doing hip.

Thrusts, like that's it.

That's all we did was like watch him on shit because on stage he was not the same on Dancing with the Stars, but he'll like on stage, he'll just walk to the edge and then just go.

And I was like, damn.

So, speaking of that name is I was in Queen trying to figure out like what to name the baby, right, So it's like first I was like on like A names and then J and then like ours and kind of like staying with those ones, and then so we really liked AJ. But then this one goes, isn't there a Backstreet boy named AJ? Like, and I was like, well, damn it, now that we know he's a hip thruster, I think it takes it off the way.

Oh my god, we're back again.

Yeah, So that that kind of nixed it.

But it's anyway so hard because there's like one shdy like person with the name that you want in every scenario, and you're just like, god, there's no good names left because there's like bad people out there.

I know, and I like, you guys don't know this. Yeah, but like I've kind of gone back to my other name that I really liked. But again, I just think it's too close with his because my fiance's last name is Russell. So I really want Jacks like JACKX was like my like, but it's not so okay. So Jack Russell's a dog but Jack's Russell? Is it too close? Still?

Can't do it.

I can't do it.

No.

I told her she'd have to measure him in like dog ears, like she wouldn't be able to be like he's eighteen months, he'd be like a dog gear or whatever. I call him Jackson, but for his like, no, oh.

My god, I just saw the best idea.

Go for it.

Put my I put my Emmy Award.

Winning brain on and I put that on for a minute. Fore you Okay, what if you do aj like if they're like Alexander Jacks is the name and so they're AJ. You can't have AJ, but then you can call them Jacks.

Well, so still Jax Russell. It's still still. Can't not laugh And I don't want to have an opinion. I named my kids.

I don't.

Your daughter Lion, Yeah I did. My daughter's name is Lyon. I mean I love it. I don't get me wrong that butt you know, love and legend. I mean we just I'm a Kristen Nicole. Somebody had to break the creativity cycle, you know what I mean, Like my family needed to change trajectory. I feel like we need to pull it.

Yeah, like just Jackson, but you want to call him jack Jacks, which is I know where you're going with this.

And my superfan non music thing. But but don't worry.

About it because didn't Amy Schumer name her baby like scrotum or something?

No?

Really, Smer, Yes it is.

I'm sorry, Stop she didn't baby? Can you just google that for us?

It's Jean and his last name is Atlia.

No, sorry, it's not scrotum. It's there.

Jeane Italia and I yeah her.

I wonder if she said she didn't.

She said in interviews she didn't think about it if it.

Was a girl. We were going to name her Alana, so it was going to be like Alana Russell. But then I was like, oh, that sounds like I want to rustle. I don't believe she.

Didn't think about that.

There's no way it's.

A family name. It's a family name.

So here's the thing. I don't like opinionated about names either before they're here. But like, I just have to be honest.

You don't tell people.

I don't tell people exactly. My daughter's name is Lyon. A girl named Ian. Everyone be like, I mean, here's the thing. I do.

Like it with Jolie and Jayce, Jolie Jason Jack's it's cute.

I love.

Can we just do Cramer?

I've asked, what about you baby? Are we baby training anytime? They're soon? Kelty, what's going on?

I'm a I'm a childless wonder okay. Uh, you know I kind of made the decision. You know, listen, there's there's people that are good at making children, like you, and and then there's me and I don't really enjoy a baby, and so like I really start to like children around six or seven, and then like it's just it's you can't birth a seven year old.

So for me, it's just not the right move.

My husband is travels a ton for work, so I'm like, I have no tribe here in La, Like I just I think it would be really bad. And then I also have a brother who has mental illness, and so like I consider to him my like forty five year old baby, like he's my he's my person that's gonna be with me forever, and it's just like my buddy, and so I didn't.

I just wasn't the right thing for me.

I know, I'm like the only one that's what I aspect that though, because you know it, rather than being like I'm gonna have a baby, because I have to, Like, we know someone that is not a I don't even think she wanted a kid, but she had a kid, she's and she's never there for the kid. So it's it's hard to even see because I'm like, she just has a nanny twenty four to seven. And then it's like I think she had one because she thought she

Yeah, I think you got to want it.

And I'm gonna antie to a lot of my friend's kids and it looks exhausting.

But by the way, like you're the crucial piece for all of us. That's why it takes like that's why your souls and hearts are so wildly important. Because I need the people that are fun and mature enough to come in and say, like, I'm gonna love you so hard and then I'm going to go back home because we need you. Yeah, we need I need it.

I roll over and I like, will ruin you and take you for an ice cream and we'll go wash the car, and like I will give I have been. I am that person for my friends. And I'm sure you guys can appreciate this. Like they I'm like, hey, I'm coming over and they're like, no, no, I don't need anything. I was like, no, you need me to hold your baby for two hours so that you can have a shower because you're disgusting, do you know.

What I mean? I feel like, yeah, says it directly to me in this moment, because I can't tell the last time I shampooed. But it's fine.

Not everyone can afford like nanny's and help and stuff, and not everyone has their parents around, So like I just I hold a baby, you shower and put on a fresh set of clothing, and then like come back to the real world and then I leave you.

I think it's such a good balance to like with your lady gang. You know. It's because it's like you got like you are the one that's like I feel kind of like runs the ship, you know, and like you are the like all you know, all the other two girls are amazing obviously as well, like and Becca she's she's a friend, and you know, so I'm like, but you run the ship, I feel like, you know, and you kind of are like you're you're the boss CEO of of it forgive.

Me right or you know one hundred percent.

Yeah, And it's like, you know, Beca, like I can you know that she's you know, she's mom in it, and it's like, yeah, I'm sure they really rely on having you in that position too, you know, one hundred percent.

And it's like it's been so nice even when Becca had her baby. It's like she was able to to just be like I'm I'm not here for like like I'm here, but i'm not here, you know, And and.

I think that's it's really nice and not everyone gets that so and.

To know the ship is still running, like you know, like when I know I'm out, like I know Catherine, like you know, she's holding it down. The ship is gonna still run exactly, and it's so hard.

And and also like I gotta be honest with you, the way that like the Earth treats moms, especially here in the United States, is kind of messed up. Like you guys have such a bad Like everyone's so excited for you, and you have showers and you announce the baby's born and everyone's healthy and we're so excited, and then all we do is shame you for like twenty years about every single thing you do with that baby.

It kind of seems terrible.

Like no, true, yeah, I mean truth, I'm gonna be but I feel like the third this go around though, like I was like shy bringing in the you know, the formula with Jay's like I'm gonna be running in with the formula in my back. I got shamed with you know, not breastfeeding Jolly, and then I tried with Jason it was miserable. So this one I'm like, no, like you're gonna shame me regardless of what I do.

I was like, here's my sports brawls. Bind him up.

Let's go right, bind him up, bind him up.

Yeah, I mean, I just yeah, it's you're right though, it's it's it's a sad thing. But speaking of Lady Gang, is there is there a question that you still think back on and go, oh, my god, I should not have asked that. And I know you guys have done thousands and thousands and thousands of interviews, but is there one that just kind of like sticks out to you that is like I should have just not said that.

There's so many.

Actually, I have one from E News that I just did that is like so terrible. So one of my other jobs is being a chief yea correspondent on news. And I was in Rome for the Tom Cruise premiere, which was amazing.

I saw on the Tom Cruise is like really.

Intense about who he lets interview him, and it's like a whole thing to get approved.

And anyway, so.

We're on the red carpet and like you know, they're doing all these premieres all around the world, and so they're getting asked, like he's getting asked about the stunt jumping off the mountain a hundred times, and I'm like, what am I going to do?

That's like really different and really special?

And I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, and I kind of have my plan of what's going to happen. I've bought my note cards, like I'm ready to go, and he walks up to me, and there's just something about him that is like so overwhelming, and the whole thing.

Well, he's Tom Cruise, you know, He's Maverick.

Yeah, he's Maverick, you know. And I kind of lost my mind. And the question that came out of my mouth was.

Would you rather die.

Doing a stunt on a Mission Impossible movie or just like in your sleep?

Why did I ask that?

I kind of so that's so morbid because he's like gonna die doing one of these stunts. And I was like, I just kind of want to know. And then he would like kind of look at me like wow, the balls on this girl will be inviting her again, and he was like wow, I don't really think about it, but and I was like, oh my god.

And then I.

Followed up with okay, well, you're still so sexy, So like, how do you say this?

Like what am I doing? It was the work.

He's like, I don't think about how I'm gonna die, but I'm glad you do. Reporter, Like, but you're hot when you die.

I was like, and then you're hot. I have a crush on you. And I was like what is like it's just so embarrassing.

And then I had a really bad interview with Jake Jillenhall, like almost almost a decade ago, where I did the same thing he came and it was for a movie, and I was like, you know, while they're getting the Jenny, you'll know like when they kind of like need a second to like get the when you're doing a red carpet, like to get the camera in focus and like the shot set up, so it's like you're kind of spilt

And he walked away.

No, you didn't do the interview.

He walked He just walked away from me, and I was like, well, and I was like, I know it's inappropriate, but like I love if people were like, Kelty, how do you feel this morning?

You're looking dead sexy? I would be like, bring more of this to me.

I here for this, you know.

Oh my god, I can't believe he walked away.

He neither.

Or did he walk No, he walked to the next person, and oh, I'm sure and like and then then the movie companies like, we need coverage for this movie, you know, But I think that my Race Show is pretty high on good, good interview moments. The thing that was the craziest, like for for super Fan that's coming out this week, we had Shanaia and I'm like, I grew up in Canada, like I am Shania.

I could have competed on Shania and.

And like we saw her before the show and I just like squealed at her. And I think she looked at me so funny because I was like, I'm hosting the show and thanks for coming and I created the show and like her Papa is just.

Like it's Kelty, you know. We we zumed with her.

She's British, like she assumed with him about the shed and I was like, I've been interviewing for so long, and there's just.

And I was like, I'm such a loser.

Hey everything normal situations like put me in a room with Tom Cruise and what's gonna happen? You know what I mean? Regardless if you jumped on the couch or not, he's still Tom Cruise. He's always time. So I mean, but yeah, I mean I've definitely said things that I'm like, oh god, and then you just feel like bad. But you know, we're all human. We all say things. You

We die like that?

This is my this is my embarrassing story. So we go. I go to a book signing and I got up there and I got so flustered and I literally sent gave my book to him, and I go, We've spent so many nights in bed together. And then I just turned bright red and I go, I not like I and he was like he got a little like red and he was like, oh, no, I know what you meant. And I was like, but do you know what I meant?

I can't believe Nicholas Sparks that is Nextla.

This was like two thousand Snowking cute. It's cute. I'm here. Dave Ramsey is the other. So I just round it out. Oh Dave Ramsey, Jessica Simpson, Yeah, I like it. I don't want to make out with him, just for some on record and was Selene.

But I don't think I said anything stupid. I don't think I talked. I think I just stood there and stared at her.

That's all she's used to since since you can't get Selene though for Superfan, what is there someone that you're like, you're still aiming, like, I really want to get this person on Superfan for maybe the next season besides just season two.

I feel like I need Taylor or Rihanna.

Oh yeah, and I want the Jonas brothers who were down to do season one. It just didn't work out with the timing. I obviously need Backstreet Boys, and I.

Really Blake Shelton would be fun, like because he's like entertaining.

Yeah, I know, it's so funny. I always like hmm. I also feel like I need a Garth Brooks.

Like I think what makes I mean, Jonah's Brothers is probably not but like I think what makes a great episode is when they have a really big catalog of songs and history, like a lot of perform because you know, all the games are like some of them we're you know, like pictures that are blurry and you have to like

So I feel like.

Those like big catalogs of music will be amazing. But Blake would be great too, although he's oh yeah, and now.

He's not on the voice so he could do it.

Yeah, him or Adam too would be good.

And then like for me, like I tried to get Fallout Boy, like I'm still like a little bit of an emo kid, so I'm like, we need Fallout Boy, and the network was like, whoo, I love Fallout Boys.

See, I don't even go far from Matt. I'm like Beastie Boys because my brother used to like rock Beastie Boys. That's like way back.

Yep, oh yeah, I love it. So we'll see.

We'll see how hopefully season one does amazing and then we'll be able to start working on season.

Two and then Lady Gang wise, I mean, you guys are still obviously rocking because you're doing how many episodes now for Lady Gang are you doing Tuna?

We do two episodes a week, and our third co host, Jack Fani's about to get married and and so we're all heading over this woman is getting married on a I want to know what you.

Guys think about this?

Okay?

I love Jack I was just at her dress fitting with her and so like listen, like she's my person and I love her so much. She's never had a real job in her life because she's an entrepreneur, and she's been an entrepreneur since she went to college. She worked at Old Navy for like a week and then just like went on summer vacation and they were like, no, you have to book time off, and she was like, what, I hate jobs. And so then it's like started her

A Tuesday in France.

Do you know how hard it is for the everyday working woman to get to France on a Tuesday. I'm like Jack, and she's like, well, that's when the chateau was available. And I was like, I got a take off as Saturday to fly to Sunday, and then I gotta be with you on Monday.

The wedding's on a Tuesday day.

After fly but I got to take five PTOs paid time off. I got to take off five of my fifteen vacation days for the year will be spent traveling to in France on a.

Tuesday, chat toe on a Tuesday.

I mean, I'm doing you have to take off that much time anyway, wouldn't you even if it was on a different day.

If she got married on like a Saturday, I could have like hustled a Friday and Thursday, Friday, Monday, Thursday.

That's a fast trip to France.

I think you should just I mean, I hear, I hear what you're saying, and I get it. Remember that, Remember this I'm doing all on a Saturday. Well, so that's in the summer too.

Maybe I laughed if she was getting married on Tuesday, but it's cheaper too.

I got married on Monday.

I know I'm doing it.

Yeah, I hear you.

There's a reason because nobody wants to come it's a Tuesday.

Well maybe that'll that'll, you know what I mean, like narrow it down. So I had someone the other day go, oh, when are you guys getting married? And I was like, oh, blah blah blah of blah blah blah, and they're like, we can't wait. We'll definitely be there, but they're not on the list.

So like, yeah, yeah, well let's talk about this later.

So I'm like, what do I what do I do? Because I'm like, they're like, it's a I mean, it is a small group that we're inviting, but it's like they're they're friends and they're part of a but it's not like and I was like, yeah, no totally. They're like they're like, I mean if we're on the list. I was like, yeah, no, like, well they are now. But what was I supposed to.

Say, I know what you have to now?

As I didn't, you.

Know, you absolutely do not. So when I married my husband. When I married my husband, it was my second wedding. I had been married prior once and we got married in the backyard and I had forty people because I was like no, no, no, I want this to be so small, so tiny, and just like my people. I didn't invite anyone from work. I didn't work like I was just family and like a couple friends and people were but hurt and here's what you do.

You have your tiny thing and then a few weeks.

Later you throw like I'll barbecue or I did like a Gatsby party at a bar, and it was like then I invited all the other Hanger honors, so not hanger honors, but like.

Well I didn't even get that invite Kelsey, So I guess, so we're having a bow renewal for you in Jana's backyard.

Having said that, it's just saying you have to because you said, she said, am I on the list?

And you said no, oh no you couldn't.

That's why I said you have to.

Now, well that's also like, what are you going to say?

That's what I'm saying, because you really shouldn't say. I don't even know what we're talking about.

So I feel bad, but close enough that it would be like on the line.

That's that's tough. I think you just have to let everybody know. Look, it's literally just these people.

Hey, we just hey, we decided to cut back even more. It's just such a crazy time with everything going on.

I mean, if that person listens, now they know sorry, yeah that's true.

If she's close enough to be like really supporting this podcast, you might not matter.

I don't really think anyone else listens, like even the queendom I don't know, and which doesn't bother me. No, Like I don't really listen to. Then we can talk about, yeah, but what works with this marriage that didn't with the last that was gonna be a question because he works a lot.

My first husband was a mother. Were married for eleven months.

Okay, yeah, it was pretty brutal. I laughed, because I've been there shorter.

No, And you know, the thing is, and that that's why I think people really relate to you, is you know, like I think the thing is is that you you get really caught up because you see that you meet this person and you get engaged and you're really excited about them.

And like I I.

Knew it wasn't perfect before we got married, but I was so naive to think that like the marriage would help it.

Like I thought, oh, like.

Well, once we're mary, I worried these things in these concerns and these personality traits that are like we're not getting the best of each other, Like they're gonna go away because we'll be married, you know, And and that

I was pretty young this that my husband.

Now we were actually about to celebrate our ten year wedding anniversary, which is lovely next month. And I think that I just like really enjoy him as a human being. I think he's a good person, and his red flags are things like he doesn't like clean up his plate immediately after he eats dinner, Like he likes to like leave it out and then go watch TV and then clean it up later in the night.

And that's really annoying to me.

So it's like the red flags are manageable red flags instead of the red flags I know we've all had in our relationships where you're like a.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, Like okay, but we'll work on that.

Like I just I didn't want to have to fix anyone, and so I just picked someone that was like very lovely and very respectful and he's like my biggest fan. We're having a huge premiere party in Times Square on Wednesday night for super Fan and he works with the company that is providing the billboard, so he's literally put all of his clients and all of his work on the back burner to like plan this party for me, and he's like, no, no, you got to have your moment, babe.

And he's dead sexy.

He's like six ' six really tall, looks like a little British pop star, but he's not.

And I love that, I really, I really do, because you're such like a again, like you're just you're a boss, and like you make things happen, like again, like how you said, like you don't get the offers, like you make it happen, and I just like, I love that so much about you, and to the fact that you have a man, because for a man that can be very intimidating, and the fact that he's there to lift you up and and be your supporter, like that's that's beautiful.

Think of like the j Lo of it all.

You know, people are like, oh j Lo, like oh, she's getting married again or whatever, and I'm just like, because it's I think it for a man, it's very difficult to be married to j Lo because.

She's doing it all. She's so she doesn't need you.

She does not need you, you know, and so like that's really hard on men. I think, just like not to black and white, but I do believe, you know, finding someone who's really supportive and really understanding of what it takes to be a woman in show business and be chasing their dreams, whether that be in music, in television, in podcasting and whatever like that, it's really hard to find that person. So and and those kinds of people don't always show their colors.

They fool you.

They like I've dated people too where they were like, oh my god, I'm so proud of you. It's so cool that you're so busy and you have your own life, you're so independent, you don't get jealous, like these are

They do in the end, and then they're like I'm like, oh cool, and then you feel bad for being successful. Like I remember one time max Is a cup fun making money, and I'm like, remember that, I was like, what I do I'm to do? I will here making funny. One of us needs to try, I mean fun. Yeah, but all right, Kelsey, promote it all girl, give us everything.

Well listen, First of all, thanks so much for having me on.

I'm so excited for you, and I know how huge your podcast is, all of you, so congratulations on that. I see you on the charts all the time. People love you, which I love, and now hopefully they'll love super Fan. Superfan airs Wednesday, August ninth. We premiere right after Big Brothers, so I know so many people will be watching Big Brothers. So if you just stay up

I love it. Yes, it's fun. Well wait to watch all right, we'll see you soon, honey.

Thank you guys.

God. I love Kelty, Love love her.

She's so so fun.

She's really fun.

It's just like a fun like I don't feel like we just did an interview. I feel like we just like chatted and yeah, I was like, oh wait no.

I kept trying to like go back and be like, oh, I want to ask more questions. And she's always been like that.

I love that.

She's yeah, so cool, and she's also like she helps other people too, Like she'd be like, hey, are you happy? Like you know, I'm not saying this to like, but she reminds me of you in that way.

Uh huh.

Yeah, you're very like, no, you're good at this, and so you're coming with me. I like it.

So I have a question. No, I didn't mean to cut you off. No, the pinnate from earlier.

Oh okay, so that's probably not going to be as big now. But so I was at a gathering for Jolie's for her second grade looping party because she's looping with her teacher that she had in first grade, so all the kids that won from that class to the other class.

I've never heard of that until I have not heard of that until, not until it came up with your teacher.

So she's because she can teach both first and second and so she just loved the class so much and she asked to loop with the class. So does that just mean repeat, yeah, with the same class, not repeat grade, but goes So she's going to second with the same teacher class. I never I know, Okay, which I like the I like it well, first of all, I mean

See, you never know how.

I was like, really do we just think no one listens? I don't think anyone knew who I am like, knows who I am, but I walk around not like thinking people know who I am. That's true, you and they do know you, you know what I mean, because I'm like, why would they know?

You know what I mean?

I don't know. I just don't think. I'm like whatever and so and then I was like, oh crap, and she's like, well, what's funny is one of my friends was listening and was like, is that you usually? And I was like, oh my god. I was like, I've gotten you know, I got in trouble with the other thing.

I don't think you said anything bad this time that time.

Yeah, because the other time I did, I shouldn't. That was that was you know, I misspoke there, but like this time, I'm just like I don't. Yeah.

Literally, it was like you were just teaching her to be right.

But like I just want to say, like the boys of Sweetheart, so I just want to say that I really love laws and you were sticking up.

You were sticking up for the mom because she wasn't speaking, he wasn't speaking nicely to the mom, right.

Sure, yes, but I just want to make sure sure trying to help me. Yes, yes, yes, yes, I'm just also trying to be like, but he's also a sweet kid, like he's in first grade, you know what I mean, like like the heaven, give the guy a break.

They also, I know, right, he hasn't learned yet how to be a complete gentleman.

But I was just like, I am so sorry if I said I just don't remember, like, oh man, that's you know, I've learned my lesson from the last time.

Pretty nice about it.

Oh so, I mean, she's so sweet, like I feel really nervous about today. But then the other mom was just like, well, I had no idea who you were, And I'm like, well, that's how I operate. So well.

There was a group of them because I went to school with one of them.

That was in that photo.

Uh huh. That was at dinner one night when me, you, Mario, all of us went to dinner and there was a group of them that came over to the table.

I don't remember any of this and took pictures. Okay, so very low.

A good bit of them at school have known who you are. Oh, because again I went to school with one of them.

In the photo that I took. The moms, I wonder which one I'll let you know. Okay, she's a sweetheart.

But anyway, she came up that night when y'all were with Mario, when we were with Mario at dinner, and they like took pictures and stuff. So sweet. But I mean, I just don't think I see it doesn't like even you're like, oh hey, it doesn't even register with you that no people might know who you are.

A funny thing too, is when I don't save numbers, like someone's like, oh, I think our daughters are on the same soccer team, and I'm like great, but I like Bernie try to.

Like scroll up like.

Everyone has like a paragraph in the company line, and it is embarrassing when they try to call you and they're like, they're like, oh, you need to find your phone and they call. It's like Janna Kramer, Jolie's mom, met her at the soccer game wearing a pink dress and you're like, my bad. Oh fun for the love Well came in hot today and we ended ended saucy, so saucy.

Everyone living say, I can't wait to watch it.

All right, y'all see you next week.

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