New Year on the Pier

Award that we're nominated for. Um, I think it's in a couple of weeks, and we're gonna have a little party after this. So we're we're on location with Floppy Haired Eastern right now, and uh, we're gonna chat and I'm excited. I'm very excited. See what the turnouts like and to celebrate our I hope like two people come. You did see the line outside all around? There's no line? There was not one, Like all, hey, Tori, can you open that bottle of wine for us? Bad? Yes? Because

we are winding down, literally literally winding down. What would you say? I can't hear you gotta get on the mic. Um, should we just have a glass of wine and start gossiping. Girl chat. We have to girl chat? Can we just like, should we talk about it now? The elephant in the room. I didn't want to say anything, Sarah, We're gonna need to bottle each So Michael just did a really deep breath like kind of looked at me. You said you didn't want to talk about it. He's like, I don't

think we should talk about it. That was, but Sarah gave you the green light. She did. So bottom line, if you know my my wind Down podcasters who have been following us from the beginning, you know, I've had my friend Sara Cruise on the show, and um, she basically gave her boyfriend an ultimatum by the end of last year that she you know, you know, they've been married, they've been not even sorry, Sarah, they've been together. That was That was That was a stab in the heart

and she just probably crashed her car. I'm sorry. She has been dating you know, this boy for six years and she basically was like, look like I'm ready, like I'm ready to have a ring. And she talked to him in September and basically gave an ultimatum by the end of last year, like she needs a ring, and so she had plenty of time to get a ring, had plenty of time to plan, and it's two thousand nineteen and she doesn't have a ring. She'll get it. Amy's putting on her headphones right now. I think she

needs to stop wanting the ring. But here's the problem. She asked what she needed and I told I told Sarah, go look, if you don't want me to talk about it, I totally understand. But unfortunately people have been I screenshot at the message that you sent me and I said, let me know what you want me to do, because I respect you, like I love you. You're one of

my best friends. Like you know, we've I understand. But for me, it's like it's embarras saying she's put this out on a public platform and now all these people are She had to turn off her Instagram comments on her Instagram page because people are like, where's their ring? And it's like, that's so Embarra flooded with emails not where's the ring, but they are desperate for an update.

The update is there's no ring and like that, And honestly, I'm pissed, like because because she asked for what she needed. She asked for what she wanted and what she needed, and ultimately she gave an ultimatum like hey, I'm out if But I don't think he believed that she'd be out because clearly he didn't set the ring and she's still there. You know how I've told you I'm obsessed with Abraham Hicks. Yes, I'm obsessed. Who's that. I'm going

to send you all the YouTube videos. It'll change your life. So she would she it whatever, it's sort of an alien whatever. She would say that Sarah cannot rely on whatever the dude's name is. I forgot to make her happy and to like fulfill her in that way. She needs to be happy, be So that's why I'm saying, is there a way where she can feel fully content

without the ring? Yes? But yes, and is a therapy therapy and but I'm sorry, there's a button this, there's no like Michael, like, when we asked for what we need to ask for what we want, like that's did he not think that she was going to follow through with the ultimatum because obviously she's not going to leave, right, I think, I mean, I get what Amy saying, but She probably feels that they've been dating this long. She's in her getting into late twenties, it's that time to

start doing something for her to be happy. She wants to move on with her life, you know, so and to her that means getting married and started a family. So it's like she's waited around. And she's from Texas, so it's like, you know, people they're still get married young and have kids and like that's what they do. So is the issue just to refresh everyone's memory. She doesn't want to have kids without being engaged or married

like she wants to. She you know, she's old school like that, and I respect her and I love her for that, Like she and he would have kids like yesterday. But no, she wants the ring. She's been together for six years. She wants the wedding. She wants to you know. And here's the thing that bothers me is she would have loved it to be with her friends and families, Like, well, I don't want to take away from the holidays. What are you talking about your it's the best time to

do it, Like you're with your family and friends. That's what she wanted. Like if you actually like I'm sorry, I'm gonna get I've been really frustrated. I've been trying not to like because I'm you know, obviously she's got her family and all our friends and then the Instagram and the podcasts, everyone like barking at her. But it's like it's just frustrates me. And then I asked Michael

this the other day. I said, you know, there's certain certain times where I've said to him, if you do this again, I'm out, and just like just like she said to him, and you don't know, I don't know, but listen, because I said, just like she said to him, if you don't give me the ring, I'm out. But it's like you guys don't because you've done it. He didn't do it, like you kept doing the things even though I said, I'm out if you keep doing this.

But it's like you guys don't trust our ultimatums. It's not that we don't trust him, it's just what is it like you think we're just like week and we wouldn't leave you. No, I don't think he has anything to do with that. I think it's I think it's literally just we're so simple sometimes we're so simple minded that we don't really think that fore ahead of okay, she's really gonna leave. I don't do this like I love Joanna's face because Janna's face is every girl. I'm like,

I don't understand Michaels every guy. And I think there's something to what he's saying in that if she almost surrenders it to the universe. And you know, I'm big in the she's like forty five, fifty and still not married with kids, I think that's wrong with it. Amy. I'm just saying, like, you know what, I was like, let's say keep I was gonna say forty, but let's let's just keep going, like unless she's sixty and still ask you know, the question is if we were to

ask her, she probably never talked to us again. But if she ever talks us again. Now, I asked, on the list of priorities, is it marriage then kids, because it's okay, but she wants kids. She wants kids, next to she wants to get married. Next she's like, is she willing to change her order? And no, no this time. And that's why I love her because she's like, this is what I freak, and that's what that's why I literally want to Just remember Dr said, she's supposed to

move out. I know, but she's not going to when that's the thing? Is he and I told him, I go every time he's you know, made a mistake. I said, if you do this again, I'm gonna leave. And you do it again, I wouldn't leave, and then he and I'm like and then finally it's like, I'm leaving and then they go, oh wait, you know. Just remember Dr Wendy Welsh said she has to now leave and then she'll get the ring in a month. But but they're saying that it's going to come in the next couple

of months, is what opposed? Apparently like he's saying to other people, then she should just chill out. No, because here's the thing, is it? This is what I said in two months? While are you conning January? So is it going to be March? Is it going to be February? That's what she needs, a surrender to the universe, be happy, trust that everything's gonna be okay in her mind, give herself another six months or no, because she wants to get married next like late next year. She can get

and get married in three days later. That doesn't Amy, don't play the wedding like out like you don't unders know. Sarah would never allow like she wants like the Kim Kardashian wedding, like with like massive flowers, you know, like this is her moment. She's the it's like it's Princess Sarah getting married, you know what I mean? Yeah, I mean she is like it is the queen getting married. Michael has to answer because he's the dude. Yeah, on what is going on in Gretzky's head. He's not the

great one. Let me tell you that right now. See, I'm not gonna get on her. I think they're to a level of degree there is maybe a little too much comfortability there where there they've been together so long, he's so comfortable with their relationship. He's so they're so setting their ways where he probably didn't take her serious. You know, he probably was like a yeah, I know you say this, but we're gonna get married, like I know we're gonna be together, like it's gonna come basically

deal with it. Um. I just think, to to Janna's point, like women will say that and until are the men's feet is are really held to the fire. We might not act on it. So I think this whole scenario probably held his feet to the fire enough where maybe hopefully he's realizing kind of the backlash and how much attention there is around this, if he even pays attention to it. And because my thing is like I haven't talked to him or anything, but I would say, dude,

she did ask for what she needed. She's I mean, she's like begging you, like she's telling you if you want to spend your life with her, just do it. In a guy's head, please be a guy, I need to know this. Is there any chance he's not doing it yet because of the weird ultimatum, So now he's going to do it when because it's not ultimate? Absolutely no, I totally disagree. I'm not the dude, I know you got.

I'm not saying no, I'm not saying that he's purposely doing that, but that could absolutely because that's something I would do. Really, I was in I was in a similar situation to this. Really your wife ultimatum, do not not like I'm going to leave. But she said, uh, how we were We were friends for like a decade and then we had been dating for like a year and a half. Two years, and she said, do you think we will get married? And I I'm like, I

don't know wherever the wind takes us. Classic I'm like, I want to wait till I'm making like five or six million dollars a year before I do this. I want you to have the perfect and she's like, I want to get married to have kids. If that's not going to happen, we should end this. And I'm like okay, and then we like I got a ring like a month later. Because that that really the fear of her. I was like, I need It was like fire to your exactly, which is what Janna did to me too.

But it's tricky because to Amy's point, like initially with Janna, there was some I held some kind of resentment towards that because it wasn't I felt. Granted, they've been together, so he can't really feel rushed, but it doesn't feel like maybe it's on his time or at least he has no control, so he's just kind of giving in, like Okay, I'm giving you whatever you need here, and

then there's no spark in it. There's no I think she's getting the ring within the next six months, and she needs to not speak of it for the next six months. I think there's so much on it because maybe he also wants it to be a surprise. I don't know. Yeah, he did say that to the want.

He's like, well, you knew what was going to happen, Well, yeah, because I asked for it, though, But like, like, that's what she wants, Like that's what we always say, asked for what you want, asked for what you need it or whether it came when she asked for it, So I have feels disrespectful to me? Is that sorry? It does it? He didn't respect her enough to do what she wanted. And I'm going down the wormhole and I'd love to hear Jana versus Michael on this. Here we go,

bring it. Okay, let's say he did it. Let's say he gave the ring on her timeline. Amazing, Her family and friends would have been there to be in this huge celebration. They had something to bring into the new year. Is she going to wonder? Because what I'm learning is we get what we want, we want something more. When we get what we want, we want something more. So would she have always wondered did he only do it because of the ultimatum? Is this a better way to

start their marriage? Okay? Your question though? Do women even care that they do it based on an ultimatum? Janna, I'm sorry, repeat the question, Michael, do if if women okay, are you yourself? If you if your species okay, gives the male species an ultimatum and we act on that, then what was your what you say? An? You don't even know? So it's let's say he did the ring on Christmas right right before the deadline, which was amazing

in March. Is she going to think to herself? Did he only propose because I gave him that ultimatum and he doesn't really want this? And then she goes down the spiral? Is it better if it comes in the next six months? Yeah? I don't think. I don't think she would. I think she would. If a woman asked gets what she needs, what she asked for, I think

they're completely content no matter what. I think that would be unfair if if you ask her something, if you ask for something and then we do it, and then you hold it against us because like, wells, did you do you really love me? Do you really want to marry me? You asked for it? I'm giving it to you. Um, I never did that though, when I told you basically, I don't want to play house with you. Whether it was two months or six months, you know what I mean. You didn't do what I didn't say. I didn't I

didn't say, well, did you just marry me? Because I gave an ultimatum, I got what I wanted and I was happy. That's my point. Yeah, but that's fine, that's wrong. I'm just wondering for poor poor Sarah if the universe is just giving her what I ultimately does want, which is she wants to feel that he did it because he wants to show that, so give it another I

think he's just he's California bread. I think he's just you know, just kicking the sand with his feet, like you know what I mean, Like just he loves Sarah. I have no doubt in my mind. But I think, you know, he's just of like you know, she's not going to leave. Do you think there's any fear around it? Where like Amy saying the ring might not be enough. So maybe he gets to the ring right and then she's like, okay, we got a planner wedding. Okay, when

we should we start having kids. Okay, we're already planning the wedding, so like he doesn't have to worry about anything. But I'm saying, but it's not about him having to do the planning. It's about like boom boom boom boom boom. It's like no, no, because he wants a kid. So anyways, moving on. Bottom line, I love you Sarah, and you know what, she's supposed to be going to San Antonio. That was her ultimatum. She's I don't think she is.

But it's all good. Now what is she bummed? That's the thing that sucks the most if she's bummed, and it's not why it's not doing anything. Why we were talking on her behalf right now, which again I said, I I will, I don't have to talk, but I said with Sarah gave us the okay. So anyways, that's the update from our wind down listeners. Um, so we are kicking off two does by planning out which rolls our business needs to hie air. Do you know what else?

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E T q U I P dot com slash Janna. Okay, so I'm super excited because on location with us at this at the Santa Monica here is Mariah k Lions. Okay, so oh yeah, there's your there's your headphones. Um, obviously you have a lot going on. I mean your resume here is like for for like days. All I saw is the crystals and I'm like the biggest Oh those are so cy weight. She's showing me her shoes. Can you pronounce how they're spelled? Astara? Oh those are really cool. Yes,

those are beautiful. Can you tell our listeners about them? Yeah? It's also grounding and healing crystalline shoe line so each shoe has a different crystal on, it has a different intentionality, and then there's actually a grounding component in the soul of the shoe that resonates at the same frequency of the earth. So it's like walking bare fut Oh that sounds really cool. Okay, So I just have to say please, like I'm not trying to be like disrespectful at all

at all. I just don't understand the crystal thing because my girlfriend Julie is like really big into crystals and she's like she brings me over and she's like doing these like tarot cards and having she's like this crystals for healing, this, crystals for like this, and I'm like, it's a rock. Don't know what I mean, Like, what is it? I get that all the time, Like I'm not trying to talk to because he's like, oh my god, Julius,

so thing crazy. I think my husband thought that very early on in our relationship and now he's just like embracing it and there's stones and rocks everywhere. Um, I have a bunch that I will show you and you will feel and I'll walk you through the different frequency. So everything. I'm sorry, I'm just like, no, I mean there are. Here's the thing, science and research has not been able to prove it. Right. Tesla worked with crystals

for a very long time. He has quotes saying that we can't scientifically prove crystals are alive, but we also can't prove that they're not. Um. I liken it to plants and animals in that they each have their own frequency and they each have their own information. Right. Um, everything is frequency in vibration. Colors are frequency, Uh, musical tones, everything has a tonality. Everything has a frequency. Our bodies are frequency. Our bodies are vibration their energy that's condensed

and to matter, rocks are the same way. So I know you you're looking at me and you're like lost. Um, So I liken it to colors or musical tones and that there's high pitch ones, there's low pitch ones. Um. Okay, we need to show us an example. Yeah, okay, let okay, what do I have hair that's a true lay saget that's falling on the floor. Okay, so like that's a like you know what I mean, Like it looks like something did this rock just choose me? Because it fell up?

It's actually dead. So if you want to go on a christal reading with that means you just spend a little bit more time in nature, spend a little bit more time getting grounded. Um all right, can I do a little like experiment on you guys? Yes please, I'm so excited. Close your eyes, okay, put out your hand. Put out your hand. Are you giving me the skeptic rock? So basically what's happening right now is they're both of our eyes are closed. She's going through her bag of crystal.

She just puts something in my hand, Baby, is something in yours? So close your hand. Okay, we're closing your hands and just weekend to like deep in your breath. So crystals work on frequency and energy that I'm drinking wine totally. I mean I wanted to alter my state and just start to feel what that stone feels like in your hand. Obviously your brain is going to go too. It's a rock in my hand. I have no idea what you're talking about. And this chick is crazy, right,

So it's okay. Just tune into how you're feeling. Just tune into what that rock actually makes you feel. Just turned into what your subtle body is doing right now, start to tune into how your energy is feeling. Maybe your mind is racing, maybe there's some emotions coming up, maybe there's googles coming up, whatever it is, just start to tune into how you're feeling and just take one more deep breath with that. Okay, cool, and then open your eyes. Okay, can we look at it rock? Yeah,

it's one big black rock. How did you How did you feel centered? It felt like all my focus was on the rock is at the point, So this is black germinin black Germlin is very grounding. So that's like exactly how you would feel at that stone, right, So it's very grounding and rooting. If you're working with the chakra, the energy systems of the body, it's your root chakra, it's your base chakra. It's very earthy and very grounding. So it's if you're thinking about um musical tones is

like a low, very low tone. It literally grounds you into the earth. So being focused or feeling calm or centered is exactly what that stone does. So question, Yeah, a lot of people just have crystals like around their house. So if I'm not holding it, then how is it connecting to me to feel grounded? Because it's radiating that vibration. So crystal store. Okay, so we have crystals, we have we have clear courts in our cell phones, we have them in our TVs, we have them. The first radio

frequency was programmed by clear courts. It literally emits frequency and information out. It's like you know all the sci fi movies, any cartoons, like the Laser Man, It like shoots out like that's real, Like that's actually like legit, legit rail um. And that's how the first radio frequency

was program was by clear courts. So if you think that there is a piece right that is emitting information out, then it's holding onto a specific vibration and it's emitting that out regardless if you're holding it or if it's in the room. So that stone, it's emitting out the information that is stored in that is is radiating out in the room. So it's radiating out this this grounded focused It's an actual, like tangible physical presence of it.

It's not just like a belief. That's what you're saying. Yes, that's how I work with it. Like I said, science can't prove that, um, but there has been science that has shown that clear courts particles can hold on to

ormation for up to three hundred million years. So I always say it's like the O G thumb drive, Like it's literally like storing on information and frequency um, which is why people set intentions with crystals right there, like setting intention with the crystal because it literally stores it like a thumb drive or like a it stores it and then if you put it somewhere in your house, it's radiating that information, that intention that you set in

the house. So it's a it's a yes, it's a visible it's a visible reminder of like this is the intention that I set, but it's also radiating that frequency out. So what crystal should we have in our house then? To be happy and positive? And you know, I don't know what kind of I don't know what kind of crystals move went around because ually has all these crystals in our house? And yeah, I mean there's so many

different ones. I brought you an angelite and I brought you a rose quarts um And what do those do? That is like really good for a baby round um because they're really fine light angelic celestial vibration, really great for sleeping, and really great for just kind of like cozy at um and then there's different things. You know, in a family room, if you wanted a celestite or something that's a little bit more communal, that's going to

UM have people having conversations together. I always have black turmaline and smoky courts around our computers and our TVs because they emit electromnetic gradation UM and the black turmale in the smoky courts helps to protect against EMF. So it helps almost like counterbalance those waves and those harmful um frequencies that are that are electronics in met What got you into being being such an advocate or a believer in using crystals. I was like a secret crystal

nerd for such a long time. Yeah, totally. Um. I grew up in Utah. I grew up like the mountains in my backyard. I grew up running around my husband's from midtown of Manhattan, so like we're very different. Um. But yeah, I mean we used to go out in the desert and cut geo's open and I've always just

been around it. Um. I noticed such a difference in my life with working with them, um, Like in what sense in a sense of you know, I would bring them to work if I had an important meeting years ago when I was in the corporate space of it that was either courage building or that was super grounding

that would help me speak clearly. Um, and yes, like maybe it was just the idea of it or almost like a placebo effect, but truthfully, like I don't really think it matters, Like if it works for you, even the placebo effect, like that's great, you know, I think it's really just kind of getting you to that that next space that you're trying to move into and whatever form.

Hopefully you know, it's like its own spiritual belief right, like there's no evidence of a certain higher power being more prominent or truthful than another, but you believe in it. It just is so I can understand why someone could be into something. And yeah, we don't see it that way. But if you believe in it, and that's all that matters, and then it helps you, then you know, like helps your day and your dreams and encouragement and yeah, it's

like one tool in the toolbox, you know. I mean it's not like, um, it's not like the crystal is gonna make all your dreams come true. Absolutely not. And I would never say that, you know what I mean? Um, I think it's more of like it becomes almost a question of mind of a matter, right, becomes a question of of a tuning your mind and your focus and your intention to what it is that you want. And then obviously you have to take that actionable steps towards that.

You can't just sit in bed and rub a crystal and think that like everything's Yeah, where where can our listeners find you? Like? Where? Like are you? What else are you doing? Um? What else am I doing? I'm working on the book this year. Yeah, I'm still working on the line. The line has been amazing. I'm working our listeners find the line stuff. The line is a star so online, it's a star a collective a T A R A UM and on social and then I'm Maria k lions dot com. Yeah I love it. Well,

thank you so much. I'm like, I think we should try it. I want to give it a try. I really do. Can we do? What can we do? One word? Closing eyes? You try it to mm hmm, just giving me the whole bag. I'll just it all over my body. And yes, like there are certain prescriptions that you can do for crystals, but it's so individual. Okay, close your end, close your eyes, and then just begin to tune in again. So let your breath deepen, Just begin to tune back in.

You start to notice, like the subtle sensations in your hands, a subtle sensations in your body. Just notice how you're feeling, if any emotions come up, any sensations, and then you can open your eyes. Did you notice the difference between these ones and all? This one felt like warm and active? Does that make sense? What about you? Beb I felt like energy, like going out apposed to like feeling like towards my feet. I felt it like Amy. What did

you feel close to him right there? Peace? Calm and sex. I mean, I think you need to take that one home with That sounds like the best you have ever? Yeah? Why did it do that? So it's holding that vibration like we talked about, right, So it's holding that frequency. I often liken it to like plants. How let's say you're lavender. You wouldn't use lavender to wake up in the morning. You're gonna use lavender to like calm down or to take a bath and just like to really

get calm. You wouldn't eat chili peppers if you want to go to sleep right away. It's a similar thing. So minerals are the same thing. Like they each have their own personality, their own vibe, their own thing going on. So if you wanna, you know, have a fun night, maybe started working with some rose Courts. You have a Rose Courts as well, and then you have a pink Opal and so Rose Courts like like you were feeling that, like, um, the energy moving out Rose Courts is great for for

your heart. Um, it is a love stone predominantly, Yes, absolutely, I mean that's literally piece harmony and one thousand percent was at stone. And if you think about your heart, you're like you're red eating out from your heart. So it's this energy, this frequency, this vibration that is red eating out from your heart. So we should keep that like in our master bedroom. Rose Courts is great for the Rose Courts, wreaking it down Rose Courts for the master bedroom the new house. Okay, I got it. I

love it, Aust And well, thank you so much. I really thank you so much. So I think Michael should do this next spot because I think, no, I think you really like, I mean, you have so much hair, I really think you should. I mean, you have such a bald head that you know, I think it's important, but you're frustrated. I get though with my um oh my gosh, that's amazing, Amy, I'm sorry to yeah, hello, um,

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developing their vocabulary as they're going to sleep. So if that interest, do you try for free tonight To redeem your exclusive code, download the Moy Twilight app go to settings, register your account and redeem the code. Janna sleep. Okay, so we're talking about the Moy Twilight app. Okay, so I kind of want to talk about Well, first of all, can I just ask you, did you really feel anything

with the crystals? I mean, it's one of those things where it's all believing, so maybe, but you don't even know the right answer. I'll never become an advocate. I'll never use them, but I mean still like, no disrespect to because I think she's so sweet. But like, I'm also like holding the crystal and I'm like, I think it's I'm double guessing. Wait into what my feeling that's from? I feel like that. Okay, I I don't even know what the hell I'm feeling. Our minds aren't training to

do that. So for me, it's like it's almost like if I would put a pen in my hand, close my eyes, and I breathe deep, well, I'll feel the pen. That would distracted me. So maybe I'm feeling something now. I'm feeling centered because we're taking a deep breath and we're holding something. Amy. I think it's all hullabaloo, except that who cares, you know what I mean? Like who cares? Like what, Like it's all kind of I don't want to swear um b s except maybe it's not, do

you know what I mean? Like I've always like that's how I am about all that kind of stuff. Again, it's all your belief system. I'm always like, maybe this is cuckoo crazy, but like it kind of makes me feel good, so why not like if like if someone I always wish I really had a crystal ball, like does that work? Does this work? But we don't know it's every time, which, by the way, we're getting a magic eight ball for our house. So basically what Michael

and I've decided. So there's been a few times the past couple of weeks where Michael is a little more leading with TV. I'm more of a strickler, and so Jolie will be like Mommy like CFI and I'm like, no, sweetheart, like go play with some of your games at Santa just got you, like no, And then she was daddy Mini, and I was like, oh my god, because she knows that like Michael is going to put like a Mini and Mickey like the club Mickey's Clubhouse on or whatever.

It's not necessarily true at all. Every morning I come out and like, Nicky's on when how dare you? How dare you know? It's just because Janna anytime she wants to someone's about to watch Jolie or I have Jolie. She's the way she delivers it is so mean and aggressive. Oh my god, time out makes your no TV? Like what she can't she has all she can watch TV. She can't watch TV. I'm just saying people that are that aren't us should be playing with our child. I'm like,

worre fantastic parents and if decide, okay, we'll get to that. Okay. But anyways, Jolie said, you know, Daddy's e V and I'm like, oh my god, and he's like, well, I don't know, Like okay, I mean, Janna, you're being a little hard, and I'm like, so, I think if it's something that we agree, like we're not that strong on, we should get a magic eight ball, like asked the magic eight ball. Yeah, so Julie, if you if you want, yeah, exactly, Mom,

do you really care? And I don't really care that much, but like we could talk each other into the other side, but you say, let's let the magic ball be for Jolie to be not on you. Yeah, and it's kind of if you sort of stalls where you're like absolutely not exactly. And we said what we said would be great is if we had someone may make us a magic a ball, and it was all like no, it was all like the negative responses. So anytime the kids go and use it, it's always no. But they don't

know that not a chance. Didn't know. Do you guys believe in signs? Like what kind like signs from the universe like everything. Let's say I'm like, I don't know. You get in the car and certain songs on and you're like, oh my god, it's a sign the queen of that sign. Yeah, I like the queen of signs. Can we just go back to the fact that you just called me mean the other day because it wasn't about being mean. Can I just like rewind this really

fast for the past months. No, I'm sorry for the past six weeks because Jason six weeks old, we've had someone in town in our house, so Amy like, that's you know, we have a very small house. It's family, but it's still it's family and friends, but it's still hard and so at the end of it, like nothing against I love your brother more than anything. He's awesome.

But unfortunately, like I was getting kind of it's not the brunt of it, but it was just like we were you know, I just didn't want the TV on because it's just it wasn't even about the TV. It was just the fact that I just wanted to I just wanted our house to ourselves. And it was just I guess I said, and you know, Jolie shouldn't be watching any TV. And He's like, you said that very passive, and I was like, no, I didn't, And all of a sudden, I was like, I just want our house

to ourselves. And I knew there was so much more behind it, but it's like after a baby, I'm like, I just like I need, like I just I'm so happy that we now have our like our home to ourselves, and like every visit from everybody where, those friends and fame, they were fantastic, but it's just the fact that we've

had six weeks of someone in our house. Well I get it because sometimes I don't even know how you have it with each other because sometimes I need a loan time, Like actually I don't I don't understand that you and Mike are the same. Because I could be with him seven and it could be with me every second, every day until the day we die and become fine. I think it's great. And He's like, like Mike, Mike's

dream days to spend the entire day without me. In my dream days, that spend the entire day with him. So I'm like, that's hurtful, hurtful. It's what I personally enjoyed. That sucks. Really, I know, like that you enjoy spending the day without me, like that hurts me days I spend with you, So if I get, but your dream day is not spent like my dream day is to sit at the beach, have a glass of wine, toes in the sand. And you hate sand, you hate like

being with me. I think my dream day would be to be toes in the sand beach with like the guy. I like, that would be awesome. But then right like twenty days later of that, I kind of need like a little time with my own laptop and the TV shows I want and just no one in my no one chirping at me, no one doing anything. See, I need that from the kids. Like today, I'm like I need a minute, I need twenty minutes on the treadmill. Like, but I would have loved for youth to gone out

there with me and like work out with me. I'd have been fine with that, but you couldn't because I had had to take care of Jase. But still, like, you know what I mean, I offered to take care of so you can go do that because well, thank you. And then he spent two hours at the barbershop, which then he like shaved off. I was like, how are you still at the barbershop? Like you're bald? Like what

are they doing? Anyways, So there's an email going around that we need to read because apparently it's pretty juicy. Here you go East, Okay, sorry forgot It's okay, you can you can leave those on. Uh. I'm really proud to be the one to deliver this to you. Do I have it? No? A habit says I want a habit. You do not have it. So this will be theater of the mind. You just have to close your eyes and visual Crystal, my boyfriend of six months and I are very happy and I've been on cloud nine six months.

Boyfriend found I need to write now six months six months, boyfriend, Okay, we're never gonna get through them. I'm sorry, Okay, I just have to get all my facts. Here's your next bullet point. I found something on his phone that worried me. Phone worried Okay. We used his phone to take pictures on New Year's Eve, and the next day I grabbed his phone and told him I was going to send myself the pictures, while doing so with his full knowledge,

I might add, not snooping. I saw a naked picture he had taken in the mirror that morning, immediately taken a bad I kind of kept it to myself, not wanting to embarrass him, but my mind kept racing, why did he take that? Did he send it to someone? So eventually just asked in. His response was that he basically was trying to get back his self confidence f F fire after the season of eating and drinking like crap.

He's also a personal trainer and has said he's been considering training for physique competitions this new year, so he wanted the picture as a starting point. I don't know why below the waist would have to be included, but whatever, I don't have it sounds like it, okay, I don't have any reason not to believe him, but I don't want to be naive. He's such a great boyfriend and I have completely trusted him up until now. Am I just being paranoid? Or would you be worried too? I'm

worried and he's lying. I'm sorry, that's just the six months and even if it wasn't your husband for five years, so that even so, come on, right there, you just said, all right, six months, let me just defend him. You know, I sudn't tell proven guilty. Okay, give the guy a chance. Because he is a physical trainer. Okay, he is in that world that you're laughing while you're saying this. Right now, I'm smiling because it's KNT ridiculous what I'm saying, but

at the same time could be factual. But because his body is his business and he is considering he's the trainer, then she should already be proud of his body, considering entering physique competitions, like they study their bodies like crazy. Yeah, okay, but they don't take naked pictures themselves. Maybe he's studying his pain too, No, that's no, sorry, no, But maybe he's getting his legs maybe it's just all in one.

He could have put underwear on. But I would just say, go through his text messages and then if not, go to his phone bill. Crazy crazy alert. I went with, here's my thought on it. Don't worry about it until there's more to worry about. Like, don't you think she'd have a gut feeling if there was something to worry about? So feeling she's emailing us, that's a gut feeling. I'm hoping for the best. Like I'm not worried about it

or like whatever, it's fine. Maybe he was going to send it to her at some point you would have said that though true. Good point, Michael, I'm still not worried about it. Shoot, yeah, yeah he probably, but still ye, Hey, what's up. I'm Stephanie Pratt. You may know me from the Hills, and I'm wells Adams from like Batchroom Paradise, and I don't know I dated someone that's famous. Okay, you guys, he's he's wells Adam, Sarah Highland's boyfriend. Can that not be, my moniker? It's no, it should be.

So when we start the show, you're just gonna be like, hey about you and Sarah Highland's boyfriend. We're going for it. Enough about Wells, this is actually the Pratt Cast and it's going to be about the Hills and we'll be talking about things you can't hear anywhere else. Having castmates come on talking about Wells his dating life with Sarah. I was looking at you. My bad. They've locked us in this freaking studio together and they won't let us

out until we have your new favorite obsession. So please subscribe to Pratt Cast after you finished this episode, or just do it right now because you're probably bored of this episode and literally we want to get out. It's lunchtime. Yes, it's home sweating right now? Can we turn on the air most all right on three one two three? You won't regret it. I do want to say something though, speaking of guys, why is it that you can't do

two things at once? I really really want to know that, for example, because it's better to do one thing great than multiple things. Okay, like when you want to pick up your brother, one of the reasons where you going there was to talk to the baggage claim person. You didn't even talk to the baggage claim person, like the reason that you were going to pick up your brother, and I'm like, Michael, He's like, oh, I forgot. I'm like that was the whole damn reason why you It

wouldn't even matter because they couldn't have done it. But I'm just saying, like why, Like it's the principle and the pull up the other day, why couldn't you? I literally texted you know, and I don't remember every single thing,

texted you it and I forgot Jesus. I just feel like guys, like I could be acting the dishwasher, responding to a text, doing a social media thing like putting on makeup, holding Jay's giving him a bottle, and still like you're like ironing and cooking, Yeah, ironing and cooking, and he doesn't okay, But I'm just I just don't understand why you can't, Like why guys physically can't do more than one thing at once. Our listeners email in an example of this, I have like millions in general.

I don't want to be generalizer, but guys cannot do more than one thing at the same time, and girls can do that's right, single minded focused, which I think is a better way to say it. They're focused on the one thing they're gonna do it. They're gonna do it right, they're going to finish it onto the next whereas we do not do that. We're doing four and twelve things at the same time, maybe not all perfectly,

but we're getting it done. Maybe not all perfectly. Yeah. See, when we get something done, it's through and through, it's efficient and there's no mistakes. Okay, next email, alrighty soon, give your take. I mean, my wife asked me to do something, and I'll be doing it, and then she asked me to do uh, the next thing, and she's thinking about a million things at the same time, and so she's just you know, expecting me to do that too, And I'm like, well, do you want me to stop

right now? And why can't she like, why can't you just like bookmark it in your head, Like, Okay, I'm gonna do that after this. But you guys get so like like squirrel dog bone exactly why I don't understand to biologically things in my brain afterwards. It makes me very so, but it makes me very anxious too, because I hate that. I told her, told her I hate when I get overloaded. They asked me to do one thing and don't be like, hey, can you do this and then do this and then do that and do this.

I'm like, whoa hold the phone? But how do you think about me? I have like fifty things in my brain. That's your fault. No it's not. I'm a woman and I ruled the world, so it's like, you know what I mean, like I'd like to unload some of this baggage in my brain. I will say, it's actually, uh not even borderline impressive. It's extremely impressive. How if I just get out of her way, how much she can accomplish,

It's astronomical. I left with my brother. My brother and I went and my brother and I went and saw Aquaman last weekend when he was in town. Good flick and uh Eastern. We can rap about that later. We come and we had talked about taking down the Christmas decorations that last this past weekend. I come home. You would have thought that Christmas was last year, that was six months ago, because there wasn't a single thing except

for the exterior lights because that was my job. Nothing in the house ever resembled like not even like a speck of glitter. Everything gone, The entire Christmas tree, all the ornaments down, the tree was packed, putting the box and put in the garage, and she had both kids and Andy. And let me tell you, I did it before Joey's nap, so it took me forty six minutes to She didn't even do it when Jolie was nappy,

and which I figured she would do. She did all before that, and I walked I walked in, and I was like, you know what, even you still impress me. So maybe I've seen to leave more often and just get out of your way. YEP, sounds about right. I live like Jane everybody, that's what w w J d uh. This is from Caitlin. I'm a single mom of a two and a half year old girl and her father has never met her from lack on his part. When I was four months pregnant, I found out he was

married and has been since before we met. I tried to keep him involved, but he wants nothing to do with her. So my question for you is how do I get back into dating. I'd like to find out who I am again and find her a father figure in the process. She's calling every male she sees daddy because she thinks that that's what males are called. It breaks my heart and she doesn't even know what a daddy is. Advice Please, that breaks my heart? Oh that hurts?

Where to end on a downer? Do you want to start? Oh? I will say this, I think the first of all, I'm really sorry, but I don't like the that you're

trying to find someone to be her father figure. Why. Well, because I think she just needs to focus on like herself and like being a mom and like not not because when I actively search for a relationship, that's when it's like I'm messing I had a child, Like I would be like, okay, like this guy is gonna be her father, like, but if it's not the right one, then you're going to have like all these multiple men that aren't going to be the right person. And then

she's calling everybody like her dad. Right. But I understand the assumption behind that. But maybe she is, Maybe she is like just focused on herself. But I think she probably wants to do enough for her but for her daughter, so her daughter can have a male presence. Her daughter deserves the father. It's got to be the right person. Though, I just focus on like you, right, But I I get her her drive to to find she can still actively find somebody and try to find the right person.

She wouldn't just have to find the next guy she sees, but find the right person, do the work to find that that that mail that can be your father figure for her daughter. I can see why she would really want that. But this is I'm really sad. Yeah, that makes me sad. Oh we have a birthday shout out? Okay, um, this is from Kelly. I was hoping that I could get a birthday shout out on our on your podcast. I'm training twenty four on January three. Happy birthday. Um,

it was yesterday. I'm an avid listener to the podcast each week. I also would love to know how has life been different for you too now that you have two kids? How do you divide and conquer all of your responsibilities that you have? I just do everything all right? Well, thank you and um, this was a great winding down. First of all, happy birthday, Kelly, Happy birthday. Second of all, we communicate everything all right, that's great. Everybody have a

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