Ep. 12 Crossing Over

thirteen year old and a six year old entertained. Really, there's like a two prime ages that you can't what do you mean? I feel like their world is their oyster. It is, but they're interested in very different things. One months Mexican food, the other once Chi Contenders, one months Starbuck the other one wants, you know, donuts. Do they get along the kids, they get along, They're great. The one thing that unite them is wave jumping in Fortnite.

That sounds amazing, It's no, it was really no. That's good to get along though, because that would be like the scariest thing I think about like blending a family is if knowing if the kids are going to get along, Because if the kids don't get along, it's like, all right, well, how are we going to do this? It just won't work. They wouldn't write. No, there's no way. They fight like simplings though. That's good, which is good, it's really And

she's really sweet with him. Did she like you? Because a girl that a just tough. Yeah, but she's she's not super tough. She's really easy to get along with. Sensitive. That's good, super sweetly, grateful, thankful. I was too. Yeah, I was like hormones, know right, But it was really fun. It was It was nice to get out of the city. Yeah, I forget how you know, how we get I am such a creature of habit. I end up doing the exact same thing. Go to the country store for coffee,

Farmer's market, Sunday, fer Farmer's market. Oh, let's go to the grove. It's like ground hugs day, every single at the grove in the heat, the worst place. Ever, how about you, guys, did you have a good weekend? We had an awesome week Yeah, we had like an amazing weekend. But before the weekend, we potty trained Jolie I love because it was so hot in l A. So we're like,

we don't want to go outside. Right. She's about to start her you know, three day half school preschool days, so to be potty trained, she'd have to be but they encourage it obviously, and she knows she's two and a half. So we're like, okay, the time is now. And he had a lighter work schedule, so he's like, Okay, I'm gonna be able to help because I didn't want to just I didn't want to put it on one of us. Just I wanted us to be able to

help each other. It's a job stressful, it's very very stressful. But I think we did. I mean she was incredible. She was so good. Yeah, and like we just like worked together really well, and like it was it was good, Like she did great. Did you do the three days? We did the three day where she was just butt naked. It's the best way to do it, Yeah, it really isn't. By the third day, she was just like amazing. And girls are a little easier than potty training boys for

some reason. Do you sit the boys down or do they stand up? They sit down and I don't know. He didn't start standing up until he was four using the restroom, actually standing up like a male because you have to push his peep down. Yes, he used to. So it's like that, did they know that they have to push it down? They know? They know, well, you teach them to the Other thing is I did the three day but I used a treasure chest. I went to the dollar store and I bought like a hundred

dollars worth of just whatever. So every time he used the bathroom he got to pick something out of the treasure chest. O cute. So in with I waited until he was three because boys just need the extra They need extra time naturally like all things, like all things, and men need a little bit more time. So just know in the future you are going to want to wait. Yeah, when you have the boy, the little boy in the belly. You know, I didn't tell you this this weekend, honey.

We were out at lunch yesterday with some my family that we were in town, and Jolie's just playing this game now. She's just every five seconds she has to go potty. Right, So it's like you gotta take them because they're saying it because at one time they actually have to go and like it's you know, you want to make sure you take them. And so I took her in the men's room and we tried. She didn't have to go, So then I have to go to the bathroom. I used the urinal and so then she

started pointing the other other urinals. She's like that one, like like she wanted to like she was like starting to mess with her hands. I considered it for a second. I was like, maybe I'll just hold her up, and se I was like, I don't want to start that habit. So she wanted, she wanted to stand up and Pee's so funny she um, she confuses a fart with like poop, so like she every time she's like patty, patty, patty, And then she'll go and she'll be like, uh done.

I'm like, we're like, maybe that's a fart, Okay, so you can you can fart and not have to go to the bathroom, like it's plenty of you. Yeah, Like she doesn't. Yeah. So I was Michael and I were, um, we were coming back from lunch, and I said, when do you trust a fart? Because that's the thing. I'm like intellectual conversation this weekend and then drive back point do you trust a fart? Because I'm like if I was two and a half, Like I'm like, I still

I mean, I'm thirty four years old. I still shouldn't trust a fart sometimes, you know what I mean. And it's like good on her to like not trust it because like I have sharted before, you know what I mean, Like like I didn't. I should have trusted it and I did it. I know. Weekend, Tom, come on, everybody has no Listen, little boys, Rocco's still that's not going to admit she accidents. He you know, because it's hard for them. They just they don't know. They just don't know.

No idea. So there is a new show. I don't know John, if you heard about this, but it is premiering on the TLC network. Premieres on Sunday at eight seven Central on TLC. It's called The Ninety Day Fiance. Have you heard about it? I've heard rumbling rumblings. Okay, well, let me just tell you this. It's the ninety Day Countdown known around the world. TLCS hit show Fiance is taking you on a journey from the very very beginning

and going before the ninety days. These couples fall in love online and now we get to see their first day halfway around the world. They're taking Yeah, they're taking a huge risk and putting their life on the line for love. So there's culture, shock, language barriers, unexpected twists and turns. I mean, and on's relationships survive? Who will get done on one knee? I don't know. Um, some of the couples don't even speak the same language and

they have to use a translator app to communicate. Okay, wait, this second communication is hard enough anyway. Yeah, and I know, Um, so they've only talked online, but I guess anything is possible when they meet in person. Um, when they arrive in a foreign country, will their soul mate be there to meet them? And will they turn out to be who they say they are? I mean, will they return home engaged or heartbroken? You gotta find out once, which

premiers Sunday eight, seven Central. Well, let's check out some of the cast. Did you read this? Rachel and John. She's a single mom from New Mexico. He's from England and has a criminal record. They met on a karaoke app. Oh, and then there's fifty two year old Angela's from Georgia, and or head over is head over heels for thirty year old Nigerian sweetheart Michael, whose friends question why he's dating a grandma. But Martha and I are my favorite.

Though Martha is a Catholic exotic dancer and Dia is a devout Muslim and doesn't speak English. She's flying to Algeria to meet him. Sounds like love at first sight. Talk about the mother in law scary stories. Yeah, well, I'm excited to watch their journey and you guys can to premiere Sunday at eight seven Central on t Elsie. I'm watching it, but I'm really super excited because John Edward. I don't know if you guys know who he is,

but he is incredible. But Amy, go ahead, Amy never talk I never talked besides when not Mayam And this you guys, so, Janna, I want you to tell like your personal how you've been wanting to meet John Edward right now? Yes, but first you guys like, I'm like my hands are sweating because this guy is so real. So here is what happened. This is years ago, like three or four years I'm like sweating he's so real, Like I'm a total naysayer, but this guy is real.

He talks to dead people. Because I had a business call with him for something for Ryan Seacrest or something where it was like a business call wasn't supposed to be, like he was reading me. And at the time, I was going through this like super hard time, like it sucked so bad I can't even explain. So I'm on the phone with him talking work and he like stops the business call and says, hey, like are you all right or something like that, and I just started crying.

He goes, I know there's an issue. The name is blank. Like my heart is pounding, like this is so real. It was the name. I was like, oh my god, Oh my god. And he said there's an issue with a car, which there was a total issue with a car, and he said, you need to get this guy out of your life. He I said, like can we be friends? Like I was trying something. He said, you need to cut this guy out like a cancer. And he was so right, like nothing's ever been so right. And I was,

I mean, I didn't do it at the time. I was just going to ask you that was my next question. Did you do it about let's see July augustly like four or five months later. This guy is so real, So like, if you're listening, I hope he reads Eugenna so bad. He's not going to I think we have a shot at it. Like I'm hoping he's going to come in and like get a vibe. So I'm gonna go get him, okay, because you guys don't understand, like

it's so real. And Michael, my naysayer husband's like, I'm sure there was an email or something that he may be read on your Instagram. Yeah I'm a big skeptic. Yeah, you are a huge skeptic. I just want to ask questions on where does it come from? Like yeah, start, how do you know? Yeah, like all that kind of stuff, like his kids, Like does he does he does he read his kids? Like he's got a family? Does he read his wife? His wife? Like, leave me alone, stop

reading a much? Do you know what thinks? Like start my last like I said to cut you out like a cancer, Mike, And he's still here and still here baby, still fighting. Do you know she told me that, Like when we were at like a wedding, She's like the man you need to cut him out like a cancer. So I'm like, actually really pumped about this spot because since being pregnant, my boobs have turned into like a national monument and none of my bras fit me like at all. Um, and I feel like the bras that

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are you since the last time we talked? I'm like, how do you you talk to thousand? Since people already remember I remember the conversation. Amazing. I'm so happy. Now, don't tell me anything unless you're getting something that like, it's so I'm happy to hear you're good. Okay, guys, that voice that voices John Edward, and you didn't add an S like you actually said it the right way. Yeah, most people, most people add the S. Well, I know you because I've stopped you for years, like stopped and

I'm okay, I'll tell you and my listeners this. So, um, I think it was No, it was before. It was definitely before you. But I was just at a total crossroads in my life and I just needed some guidance and I've just I've always like I've seen him medium before and um, but you know you're John Edward, like you're the biggest one out there. And so I went on your website tried to get like a private thing

and it was like not happening. But but there was an ailing list that you can like you can get on that you can potentially have a reading with you. So I signed up, like a very very long time ago. I'm still waiting. I still get your news letters an over time, Like is it that? No, it's so can

you bump Janna up? So when I when I was doing when I was doing the TV show, I actually had a policy that every the first it was the first Wednesday of the month, between like seven and nine thirty, I would open the phone lines and whoever got in got an appointment for the following month or they got on the list. Well, when the TV part of it started to happen, I just really honestly thought I was gonna do that for like thirteen weeks. I was like, I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna be done. I'm going

back to what I do. And it didn't happen like that, So I didn't. I didn't see the success of what that was going to be. My waiting list became like eight years long. Yeah, and there were there were legitimately people that we're on the list that passed and then their families kept their appointments. Like seriously, I had one woman come through for her son and she must have said to me at least four or five times during

the read this is this is my appointment. So I kept saying, you're here for your mom, and the guys looking at me like like shaking his head. But she said it like more than like one time. And usually when information comes through, if it gets validated, we move on to something else. But this was like a recurring theme. So finally at the end, I'm like, did I just ask your question. I go, did your mom repeat herself a lot like in life? And he goes, no, I

said not. It's just weird because like you validated the fact that yes, you're here to talk to her. But I don't stand why she kept saying, this is my appointment. And he goes because it was her appointment, and I go, what do you mean? He goes, dude, I don't know who you are. He goes, but my mom just died.

He goes, and she had copious notes in her appointment book about this is my this was like the appointment, and I'm assuming she was coming to talk to my dad, but it's like, you know, confirmed the appointment a week before, this is where you know, this is the this is the number to call. So she had all this stuff laid out, so he found it going through her stuff and did it and came and she came through. That's one of my like, yeah, like this is my appointment.

That's incredible. My husband is like, he's You've always been like one of the naysayers. And I'd come home and I had this psychic reading and he was like, I was like, how did they know this? And he's like, they probably do Langlee, I think. I think this is healthy and I love these conversations because if somebody comes to my event, like I like watching their jaws drop in the beginning before I do readings, because I say to them, here's what I'm not going to talk about.

I'm not talking about your hummingbirds, your cardinals, your feathers, your angels, seeing eleven eleven orbs in your photos, jewelries. I like, I go through a laundry list of all of the things that I think are low hanging fruit. When you do this work, like so I said, I want you to be a critical thinker. I want you to come to the subject matter as a critical thinker,

and I want you to explore it. And I want you to think about what I'm saying, because if you're thinking about what I'm saying, it's gonna make my life a lot easier because then you're not just looking to go like, oh my god, this is amazing. I'm gonna cry because odds are I'm not going to make you cry. I'm gonna make you think, because if I could actually do that, then I'm then I'm really leaving you better than I find you. And like nothing irks me more

than I watch a reading performed. Yea, when it's like, oh, that's so true. I mean, although I didn't do it right when you said I should have, but it's so true. I mean you changed my life, Like that's what I just want to say, No, but you did. I didn't do it, you know what I'm saying, Like I got

you to think about choices. And I think one of the things that concerns me about this subject matter is that people will be all too willing to surrender their free will and choice to what somebody else is going to tell them. And I'm like, whoa, I have my own karma, you know what I'm saying, Like, I got my own kids. I gotta worry about Like I got my own family. I don't need your karma. So it's like, here's the information making informed decision based upon your own

free will. But you know, it's really raining out, so maybe take an umbrella. You know what I'm saying. It's it's it's a yeah, what is your because you had some really good questions, like what's your sign? My pisces, you should be totally into this. This This is like your this is like yeah, Usually piscenes are either completely like fearful of it or afraid of what they're gonna hear, or they don't even realize how intuitive they are. Like it's it's one of the more evolved signs when it

comes to spirituality. So what makes you like a name sex um? I think just witnessing it before I feel like they are like John is talking about like the low hanging fruit, where I feel like some like mediums or psychics might like say things to get a reaction and kind of base it off of that, and I don't know, I just I just never have really been drawn to it. And my question is too, is like I love to see that. You know, you have kids,

you have a wife, you have a family. So my question is, all right, how does this affect your daily life? It's it's really just a it's like a philosophy, right. So I'm looking at you. You obviously work out, and you probably eat healthy. Right, you make choices about what you're going to eat or what you're not going to eat. Right, That's like that's like a choice. Correct. So I live

my life in the same way. But when it comes to a spiritual belief, like so energetically, I look at how choices are being made, or how to create boundaries around around areas and protect energy. People think like everywhere I go, I'm like being psychic. I'm not like when I'm not doing readings, I am powered down. And the reason why I'm powered down is because I don't want to open up to someone's energy if they did not

ask me. Like if I'm in a restaurant and they did not ask me, it's no different than me being a creeper in their backyard watching them through the winter. It's really unethical. It's not okay. So my kids look at energy from that standpoint about how do they how do they get an edge? So if they know someone right, if they know their sign, if they know their numerology, well now they have more information about that. I call

it knowing your breed. I wrote a book called Infant Quest, and in the book I talk about knowing your breed. If you have a German shepherd, you immediately now have a visual view of a visual of what a German shepherd is. Now off, I say this person is a German shepherd compared to this person who's a poodle. You now have a completely uh comparative analysis of the two different breeds. Well, you could do that between the pisces

and a leo. You know what I'm saying, Like, you could like look at the two the two different things. So it's amount of looking at things from an energetic standpoint, not from who I'm tuning in and getting readings. So it's using it as a lens. So I used glasses as an as an example. I didn't know I needed

them until I was in high school. And when I realized that I needed glasses the first time I put them on and I walked outside, and I looked up like they weren't just fuzzy, blurry green things like leaves that actual shape, right, but it was like they were always there, but they were just green and fuzzy. Now I was like, oh wow. My mother was like staying in the parking lot, like can can we keep going? But it was the first time that I saw it

with clarity. So I try to get people to look at life through an energetic pair of glasses, not to do readings, but to make better choices. And their sign is like how direct, that's one. That's that's one. That's one aspect, Like I'm not an astrologer, I'm a student of it. Um. I feel like I'm a student of all of this still, you know, after thirty or four years, and I think you need to be. But yeah, it's it's an it's a tool, so astrology, numerology. You know.

I didn't want my um my son to be a virgo, no offense to any of the virgos. I don't like virgo men. I didn't want him to be a virgo. So I said to the this is my favorite. I said, is my wife okay? And he's like, yeah, I go, is the baby okay? And he goes, yeah, could we leave him in there for like another week? And the guy looked at me and he goes, why, I go, because if you have him on this day, he's going to be a virgo. I go. And if we can push it off just to another week, I go, it's

gonna be a libra. I'm a libra. I said, it's gonna be better. She's a Leo. I go, trust me, it's gonna be really bad. And the guy looked at me. I was like, you know, only because you're you like we're even having this conversation. And then he goes to me, but serious question. It happens if she goes into labor and like the baby comes, I'm like, well, then I know that that soul, for whatever reason, wants to be a virgo, and I'll help navigate that as best I can.

I go, but can we schedule this for that? And he that's he's action was scheduled. So like that's a realistic how I used it in my everyday life. But now from a lesson standpoint, I had a really bad relationship with my dad, who was an aquarian, so he was kind of like not part of my life. And when I became a dad, I thought like, okay, so how do I how do I make sure that I changed the pathways and parallels and lessons that I didn't

learn with him there. So I thought I was gonna be not a great dad, But my son and I was awesome. It was like it was like easy. So I thought it was gonna be really really easy. And then when my daughter was on her way and I did the math and figure out what she was going to be, she was an aquarian and I thought, oh crap. So the lesson was the libre child with the aquarian parent now got inverted to the libre parent to the

Aquarian child. And I say this to people because we don't we don't escape our lessons, so it's really important to understand them while we're doing it so we can make those choices interesting. So how do you shut off the dead people? Though? The debt? It's really about listening. So it's like it's it's a matter of protection, opening myself up, meditating and prayer and then allowing stuff to to happen, which I kind of did before I came in here, just because I told me it was okay

for me to do that. So whenever I have the permission that, I feel like it's you know, it's it's okay. But um if I'm like, you know, I just did kt l A, like I was like powered down, lockdown, because I don't have the ability I wish I did. I don't have the ability to go read just here. So if I if I try to read just here, I can read somebody that's out there. I don't. I don't know. I I jokingly say this that when I do readings um or when I open up, I'm kind of like the two year old that you want to

potty train. You want them to hit the bowl. But it's you hit the floor, you hit the wall. Yet like, I can't just do that that. There were some people who can just do that. I can't. I can't do that. All right, when did this start for you? And that's what fascinates me too, is like, because like you said, you have cind of control over you know how to prep yourself yea, Like when were there's years of you just hearing things or feeling things that you didn't know

what it was. So at fifteen I had a reading and that reading put me on this path. But before that, my mom, my uncle, and my grandmother, all my Italian side of the family, they used to have psychist come to the house all the time. I was the obnoxious high school kid who was making fun of all the people coming for the readings, and then I would pull apart They're they're literally pull apart their readings, and my mom would be like, why are you gotta be like that?

You know you're taking away the fun. I'm like, why do you gotta help your paying people to like tell you reason? I'm like, buy a book, it'll be cheaper. So like that's my but that's my personality, right. So my grandmother came down and she was crying. Now my grandmother was like my other mom. And I was like, Grandma, why are you crying? And She's like, I'm not crying because I'm sad. I'm crying because I'm happy. She told

me your grandfather was standing next to me. And I was like, Grandma, Grandpa's dead and she's like, yes, I know. I was there when they put him in the ground. I go, what did this woman say to you to make you cry? Because now I'm like I'm now I'm angered. Now it's like the you know, the Italian male side of me came in. I was like, what did she made my grandma cry? So she said she told me that Tony was standing behind me and that he was

still there. And they started to laugh. And I was like, Grandma, you introduced to her as Mrs Esposito. To say that there's a Tony somewhere in your family is not really really psychic, know what I'm saying, Like there's gonna be Did she ask you if there was in Maria too? You know what I'm saying. Like, so my grandmother was like flipped around really quick. She goes, then how did she know he was buried with a mandolin. I didn't know that my grandfather passed where I was born. So

this is what my brain this. I have O c D, so my brain thinks in a specific way, so you get it. So I I go to the list of the people that went up before my grandmother. I wanted to see who on that list might have known that information to extrapolate it to then deliver it to the old woman in the house. But none of the people on the list were family. They were all friends of family that would not have known my grandfather was better

with the mandolin. So I couldn't figure that out. So long story short, I go for the reading and I said, I am not going to help her. I said, this woman will get absolutely no help from me. And I

literally sat there like this, like nothing. She took my high school ring and she put it like over her forehead, which we considered the third eye chakra, and she starts reading for me, at which point she's told me I had highly evolved beings of white and gold light and they were ready to work with me and put me

on my path. Now, if you tell a fifteen year roll sophomore kid this information, right, and they're not looking at like I remember thinking, like seriously, she could have said, I've got my spaceship in the back yard, I'll take you for a spin, and I was like all right, and then she went on to give me stuff that I have to be honest, it was applicable to me, but I could rationalize it away and say, well, I could have probably the five other guys in high school.

But then the last part of the reading I couldn't explain. I would have had to have been with her. I would have had to personally have confided in her. Nobody, nobody. My mother would have killed me if she knew like what this woman had said to me, and then she gave me the outcome of it. So because I was nervous about getting in trouble, I locked. I did. I lied. I said to our girl, I don't know who that is, and she smiled and went okay, and then told me

what was going to happen. And then within two weeks it happened. So for two weeks I was completely freaked out because I felt like, there's no way possible this woman could have known that. So I said, all right, she's a mind reader. She was able to do something like she got in here and read stuff, which, by the way, freaked me out. And I tell people like, I didn't like it. I felt violated. I would say

my first reading wasn't cool. It was a violation. It's like you came home at your house and somebody was in your you know, somebody's in your stuff, they moved your It's like I didn't like it. I did not like it, not not even a little bit. And when you have that violation, you want to put an alarm system in. So within that moment, I'm now reading about

the subject matter, which back in was the occult. And then two weeks later all this stuff happened, and it literally was my world shifted, because you know what, I'm very skeptical and very analytical, but I'm not a closed minded person. So I had no choice but to go, Okay, what the hell, like, what is this? And then the more I studied, the more I started going, well, this is not psychic, this is normal. I've been doing this

my entire life, exactly my entire life. But I think when you look at movies and TV and like you know, reality shows today, what happens is whenever they depict something psychic, they make it either stereotypical, over the top, right, so it's like everyone has a grandparents they lost, or but it's but it's dramatic and it's it's really not true. I mean it's dramatic, but it's subtle. And that's where I think people miss. I think they missed the subtlety

of something. So like when my son was being born, I meditated like I was going to be at the Staple Center doing a reading for like that many people like I was waiting for all of this information from my mom and my grandparents, like all the stuff to come through. And it wasn't until like my wife looked at me, like, uh, could you focus here like having a baby. So I was looking up and almost missed what was taking place here. Again an example of pay

attention to the lessons we're living here. But in the conversations after my son was born, between the doctors and the nurses and the text in the room, they by name named every single person that I wanted to hear from everyone, But they were just talking, so they weren't like it wasn't psychic. It was just a conversation. So for me, it was that shout out moment, but it was subtle. So it was a matter of like having to pay attention. Some people would say, oh, it was

a coincidence. I don't think it's a coincidence. Not when every person I wanted to hear was brought up in a conversation ten minutes after my son was born. So sometimes we our messages in ways that are not the way that we're looking to hear it. So I've been reading a lot about um like law of attraction and energy and your own energy and kind of making yourself happy and kind of all that. Abraham Hicks, before Abraham

Hicks and before you know whatever the secret was. There was a book like thirty years ago called Creative Visualization by an author named Shock de GWayne. Same premise, it's really what you put out there is what you attract. So right now, you guys think of that. I think it's very accurate. It's it's it's it's real. It's like you create your own future. And that's why I want people to do. I want people to think about what their thoughts are, because your thoughts are going to create

your own reality. I think Richard Bach and another you know guy, kind of made his own James Quick at something along the lines of if you fight for your limitations, you're gonna get a chance to keep them. You know, if you argue a case for the negative, you're gonna win that. So why not argue for the positive? But it's easier to be negative, and it's easier to come from a place of fear because it's the lowest common denominator. It's the lowest common doom. It is. It is the

it's the fast food of thought. It is the easiest, quickest and cheapest place to go fast food of thought. But if you want to eat clean and healthy, you gotta work at that, right. So it's like those thoughts are are the important pots. But if what you put out there, it's important. So if you guys with this show decided I only want to attract, now, you know, moms between the ages of twenty, then everything you talk about are going to be has to be about moms

between the ages. No sixty year old woman is gonna want to listen to that because she's not there in her life. Right, So it's really important to think about what do you want to attract in your life because if you want to actually attract something different, you have to put that out there to pull it in and then be patient. It's really important to be patient. Are you a believer, Mike, Yeah, I do have one more skeptical questions. Skeptical questions are good. I'm on the edge.

But what you just said just now really got me. Because I'm a big believer an optimism. I'm thinking stuff like that. I think that's the way to live for me personally. Um, but have you ever been wrong? A lot? Absolutely, so it's interpretational for me. So sometimes, like I I, sometimes I get it right by being wrong. So if I use an example from this from the show, I read for a woman and I said, somebody was shot in a cab. Why did I say that? I saw

a gun in the New York City TAXI? So I said, somebody was shot in a cab, right, I symbolically put it together and the woman said yes. I said, and this was connected to your husband, and she goes, it was actually my husband's dad is my father in law. I said, this is how he passed and she said, no, he's alive. And I got confused, nobody was shot in a cab and she said, yes, he was shot in the cab of an eighteen wheeler. Now here's the interesting thing. If I would have said was somebody shot in a

car or a taxi, it would have been inaccurate. But they got me to say cab right. In my New York City vernaculator came out cab right. But if I was a taxi would have been wrong. But there are many times where I will interpret something um and a lot of times I want to be wrong. So if I'm reading for someone and I see something that's not positive, I say to them, I go, I'm seeing something that to me would feel cautionist, to be careful. Let's not

let this happen. You know, I was completely wrong about Barack Obama. I lived. I said to know Barack Obama when he was running. I said to my cousin because I host a show online, And I said to my cousin is my co host? I go, if they left him, I'll eat my show. And she looked at me and she goes, why would you say that. She's like, you're so like non political. I go, I am not political.

I go, but I read energy. I said, I just don't think the country is in a place where they're ready for a black man whose name ron Zod Osama, you know, to to be to be the president. And I was not talking about it from any other experience because I knew nothing about him. I knew no platforms um To be quite honest, up until a year ago, I thought the GOP was could have like general order of patriots. You know, I'm saying like I had. I'm

completely clueless, Like I'm not, I'm not that guy. So but I also don't know right when he got elected, and my cousin was like, remember that prediction, and I was like I do, and she's like yeah, and she literally reached down on camera and whipped out her kid and she was like, have at it. So then I sat there and I own it. And for eight years it was a thing that we would go back and forth as we banter, like if I was you know,

I could be wrong. It should be like like the election, I'd be like, seriously, well when where we are now happened? I said, back, yep, I said, I take all that back. I go. I was not wrong. We were not ready and this is the result. And now I was like, but but it's it's it's about it's about energy. So I look at everything through an energetic lens, you know, whether it be you know, it's really a philosophy for me, it really is just you know, people say it's about

being psychic. It's not being a psychic. It's it's being a thinker. You know. Um, I find it interesting that I have a lot of atheists that follow me, and yeah, it's I'm like, I almost want to be like, why are you guys following? But you've asked that though, You're like, it's almost like playing god in a way, not not not in this sense. On some people's places, I would say, yes, yeah, yeah, I agree with what John saying, not in his sense

his philosophy. The problem is is when you literally take somebody who's got an ability and deemed special, and if that ignites their ego, that's dangerous, you know what I'm saying. So I learned from a really young age like this is not about me. So for four decades now I've been doing work and I recognize I am just the phone. I'm not the conversation. You know what I'm saying, And like at this point, like I'm like in iPhone sex, you know what I'm saying, Like what I'm saying, I

still function, but it's still the conversation. It's it's to me, it's it's really important to always make sure that we're upgrading our own energy iOS, that we're always making sure that we're on on point. I love it. Yeah, there's so much codependency out there and so much like people are looking for other people too directly their life. Where that's where I like what John saying, because it's not

about that. He's just laying the stuff out there and it's your decision to what you want to go with. And I feel like other mediums or the one that told me to leave you especially, nobody said that. Somebody said that, Yeah, now look at us, just happy as ever. You know What's here's the problem, Like, even if I saw a situation, even if I saw a situation that might not have been healthy, it was definitely not a

great situation. And in hindsight, and not to cut you off, but in hindsight, like yes, like any person that may have felt that would say run, But I stayed and we worked through it and it's great now, but go ahead, right, But if you look at a snapshot of anybody's relationship, if they're in a rough patch, then somebody could say, somebody could say run, you know what I'm saying, Like, of any relationship, if it's the long term that you're looking at, that's something I think, you know, even if

we talked way back when the ultimate free will and choice has to be in the person's timing, when they're right, based upon what they're seeing and based upon their own experiences. So like, there's a lot of times I know that I can't say something too, let's say a friend, because if I say it to them, it's going to push

the lesson off. So I know that I have to keep my mouth shut and wait until certain things play out so that they can turn around and say to me, how come you didn't say something, And I'll be honest with them, like, well, if I would have said it, would you have listened? And they go, no, I go, that's why I didn't say anything. So I'm actually helping you by not saying something. And it's sped up the reality of where you're at because you don't feel defensive

now of the relationship. You're including me and asking my opinion about what's taking place. Are transpired And by the way, I'm sorry you had to get to this point, but you wouldn't have learned you can't frost the cake until you bake it, so she had to bake her own cake. I love that. Okay, speechless, Usually I'll still keep attacking. Can Mike, do you do any type of public speaking or traveling in public speaking? But it's something that we're

looking into. I almost feel like there's a platform for you that you're looking to kind of launch where it would be you kind of taking people that would be broken and trying to not fix them but give them the tools of understanding what they can do. And I don't know why, but I'm seeing a lot of Asian symbolism around you, like like Asian like like Asian symbols like Japanese, Japanese, and like there's no trip to Japan

or no trip to China. There's nothing that's like you don't have any like you haven't been invited from a corporate standpoint to do something or anything. There might be something that's going to have that kind of outside of the like almost like us like across the Pacific kind of vibe for you. Interesting. No, but we've honestly been talking about that because you know, he's been through a

lot and we've talked about him. Yeah, not saving or whatever, but just offering advice and can I be personal like yeah, okay, did somebody pass from the suicide? Like did somebody cross themselves over? Where someone's actions? Yeah, because I feel like somebody's taking responsibility for how they got there. And I almost feel like it wasn't something that was discussed in other words, like people glossed over in other words like we know what happened. It was discussed, but there's a

twofold story to that. So I don't I don't feel like it's just I don't feel like it's just a suicide. I feel like there's, like you know, it might have been an underlying issue as well as so. I mean, most people when they cross themselves over, there's multiple underlying issues. But for me to say it, I feel like there's two separate things. Is your mom still here and is she in a different state that I'm standing in? Kay um? And are you going to work to bridge bridge that

relationship my mom and I? Yeah, we're good, Okay. I feel like there's going to be some things that need to be discussed, that's all. So maybe being being a mom and some of those some of those things kind of coming coming in. We got into it on fourth of July, kind of our first like fight. Is it your first fight or is the first time you stood

up yourself? So I feel like, what's really really important? No, seriously, what's what's really important is that as you're now moving into your um power as a mom right as a partner, there's a power commodity that has to be looked at regarding who's brokering it. So you don't want to put him in a position of competing with her when it

comes to what's happening in your future. You want to be something that's symbiotic, and I feel like on some level there's a passive aggressive energy that needs to be addressed.

I agree. So if you don't create those boundaries, like if you don't like call it out and like go like this is really uncomfortable and not how I was raised and I want to be respectful and all that that kind of stuff, um, it could create issues for you longer term, especially when you know, I'll say to people like if somebody's having a child and one person's Catholic and one person is Jewish, but neither were really practicing, so they kind of appease their family, and they have

like the rabbi and the priest married them kind of just to kind of keep the peace, but nobody really cares. Five years later when the baby shows up, I always say super Catholic and super jew show up. It's like at that moment, all of a sudden, it's kind of like you know, it's like it's like it's like, you know, it's like now we're ready to We're ready to battle for church over temple. And it's like, WHOA. But I

see it a lot. And the reason why is that we are programmed, right, so we have patterns and pathways that get passed down. So it's a it's an automatic thing that you want to impart to your child what you think and feel and know. So you speak English, you want to teach that child English. My wife speaks Portuguese. They learned Portuguese, right you asked down? You know, I speak energy. They speak that. If there's a conflict on

some level that needs to be addressed way before. So I think that there could there could be that issue. But there is a dad figure who has passed, so there's definitely a vibe of of a dad that's passed. So whoever you would see as being like that paternal like role model, or there's like an our name like Robert Roger, who's the r. Not for you guys, somebody's got a dad that's passed and there's an our name connected to it, and he passed from cancer. No, just

remember that I'm saying that. So for me, it's like, you know, older male uncle, father, grandfather, there's an our name pass from cancer. February is connected in the family birthday anniversary past he did from cancer. Yeah, so for my birthday was in February and my mom's their anniversary Inbruary. So this would be your step dad's way of letting me know that that he's here. He had two different types of cancer too, it wasn't just one. So you either had it twice and then somebody had like a

surgical cochlear implant or somebody had like a hearing. It is somebody going for a hearing anything I do know someone. Yeah, So that's so in the big scheme of things, like that's a current event in your circle of energy that your stepfather would come through talking about to let you know that it's for you. And backing that up and then there's a jay like Jack or James. There's a Jay name that I'm supposed to bring up? Who's the Jay? And he's one of three? Or you're one of three? Yeah?

And then and then connected through your biological dad, is he's still here, but he's off right, he's out there, okay? Because I feel like that's an emotional junkyard for you. It's like there's a lot of stuff you have to walk through when it comes to what that is. And your stepfather was kind of like the guy that played

the role of dad on on on some level. So in some respects, you didn't get a chance to grieve your step dad and set that in the way that you would like to grieve because it was more like your mom's husband and he might have had his own biological children, so you didn't want to step in the way of that, right. And then connected to him, is that where William comes in or the w name is at that side of the family. My sister's husband is William.

Is he still here? Okay? So that's his way of letting me know I need to say hello to William. And then did you just get a parking ticket? Did you just get like a ticket or pulled over. No, I'm seeing talk about the ticket, like be careful with the ticket. But I almost want to say it happens. So maybe somebody like your sister just got pulled over. And it's like his way of bringing this up. And I know that you said he passed in February, but October seems to be important too, so I don't if

there's a birthday in October. His birthday was in February. He passed in August, and he showed me ten. So when I see ten, I think October or the tenth of a month, but there's a ten connection that comes up with him. Is your mom still here? Can you please let her know that he came through. Yes, I think it'll help person know. Ha is he gone in

the last three years? How long has he gone? It's been make people cry John three years ago though somebody else must have just passed because he showed me that we're coming up on the third anniversary of something. So three years ago, so what do we two eighteen? There was a passing because he's letting me know he's he's bringing bringing that up. But he's good. Okay, he's good. Thank you for letting me do that. You do make people cry, not like not attentionally. It's a small byproduct

on occasion. But he would be like, Okay, there's got to be somebody in there that hasn't our. That's what you would like say, And that's I don't know, I believe. But then it's don't change, say exactly the way you are. You know why you're going to get more out of life and experiences by doing what you're doing, which is questioning because it's so much it's so much more important to recognize what you did that because you'll get more,

you'll get more out of it. I agree. Can you tell us what you're doing, UM, you're doing in intensive events on your Facebook? Yeah. So one of the things that UM, I have, Like I took like a ten year absence of being in front of the camera, like I just wanted to focus, like look at you. You're great, You're good, thank you. I appreciate that, thank you. UM. I kind of felt like I did it, Like I

did it. You know, I did four years of crossing over that went inter national, that I did three years of a show called cross Country that went inter national, And I was like okay, like I want to teach, and TV is not gonna let me teach. No way with TV would let me have these conversations. So I went online. So about a decade ago, I one online and you know, created an online forum and people can

find that throw on John Everard dot net. But um, now that that's like up and running, now, I feel like I'd like to kind of go back more to the mainstream. Still not sure if TV would let me do what I wanted to do. But I was approached to do something on Facebook Watch, so I did five episodes for them to call the Psychic. People can find it on Facebook. I'm not really sure how they find

on Facebook. No, It's just really funny because it's like, you know, it's like I have my Facebook page that's which is my private page, like a personal page, but you have to have like a personal page in order to have your professional page. And then off of the professional page, now there's the psychic page. I'm like, why can't just be in one spot? Yeah, I know, like

a supermarket. Um, don't you almost want to go back to TV because there are so many psychics that are getting there on TV shows and you're just kind of don't you just want to hit them over the head with like a book. You know. Somebody said to me about a year and a half ago, um, you know, you're leaving your Harry Potter years. And I was like, what does that mean. He's like, well, you know you started so young and you're like Harry Potter, like you know,

the Wizard. He's like, and now you're moving into your Dumbledore years. And I was like, Okay, this dude just told me old, like right to my face. I was like, well, can I be early dumble? Like I gotta go like full rope and beer. And I have to say that just something about recognizing after four decades and being in this field thirty or four years of doing it, that yeah, I have an opinion. And you know, I've been more open with how I feel about stuff that I see

and and it it. I don't like the gimmicky stuff I don't like. I don't like seeing the subject matter not treated with respect. I think it's okay for it to be deemed entertainment on television, but you know what, I lost my mom. There's nothing entertaining about that, you know what I'm saying, Like, there's nothing entertaining about grief. It could be educational, and education could be entertaining. But I think there's a problem with TV. I think everything

is too reality based. I think that's why they need you then, because you've got to keep it real. But who I don't. I don't know if people would watch, I'll I will debate that with you. Because of the stuff that Michael and I've gone through and all of his our issues, people want real. It's not pretty. It's utterly what we've been through, but it's people relate to that. People want to like be there and sit through that.

And because they feel like they don't want all the rainbows and butterflies, right well, I'm definitely not rainbows and matter of fact, I think it's changing, like people want the realness people. If I have that opportunity, I promise you I will take it. I got pulled. I got pulled it on the radio. Yeah, an intimate connection, it really is. Radio is my first love. Radio is my first love. We can talk right out. Radio. Has your

ability gotten strong? It has it has? Somebody recently said to me, like, why don't you bring Crossing Over back? And I was like, you mean like the reruns? And they were like yeah. I was like no, no, no, no, no, and they was like why. I was like, no, no, I'm way better at doing this today than I was back then. Not that it wasn't good for them, just

so much growth. Yeah, and it's so funny again not to be political, but like when I was listening, I was waiting to pick up my son at school, and they were doing I don't know who the guy's name, but somebody was like one of the s Screme Courts people. They were like talking about what his nomination, talking about

what his views were on certain things. So I immediately identified with that and go, well, you know, if you would ask me today what my views are on something in my field, I'm gonna judge that differently because I've got twenty years more experience than if you ask me that Sammy's that question back then. So I was like interesting. So I always trying to again to real life, to our parallels energetically to get people to think, like, you know, do you feel the same way about something today that

you did five years ago or five years before. Probably not. That's growth, you know. So well, I just cannot thank you enough for coming on the show, and I really hope that you bought me up on the list. I'd like to I'd like to be a two years at least out versus my twenty years out. So but no, I just really thank you. Is refreshing. Thank you, Thank you so much. We talk about sleeping a lot because we like to sleep right, and I always say that you have to have a great mattress, but you need

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That was a pretty cry and Michael had a little Jen cried. I was speechless. You're a little stank and you're got a little onion cut going on. And I did, I did. When you talked about the speaking stuff, Yeah, because we've we've we've discussed that, We've talked about it with a lot of different people, and so he picked up on that was just crazy. Yeah. As soon as he said that, just because I know the backstory of it, I was like, here we go, buffle, your kid got

lost with when he started to like dive into other things. Yeah, and that's just where my skepticism just comes into play. And I just questioned all of that because it's just you know, find a needle in haystack or you know, it's just somebody has somebody you're fishing, you're fishing, you're throwing it out there, you're hoping, you're seeing what sticks, and you're going off of that. Yeah, I just have a hard time. I know, even with like the suicide thing.

It's kind of like I'm sure a lot of people here have you know what i mean, like someone we know, so it's I don't know. So that's where it's like the fishing thing kind of gets a little. Yeah, like I knew a kid in elementary school or committed suicide elementary school. His name was Suicide an elementary school. He was in seventh grade, six or seven grades, six or seventh it might have been six. Wow, yeah he must have. Really it was bad. It was bad, not supported at home. Yeah,

it was really really bad. And his name and his name started with an R and so like that. But but it's like that was however many years ago. You know, I'm in my thirties, Like come on, like, I'm not going that far back. That's not coming up for you right now. Yeah, you know what i mean. Were you even close to them? We're friends right right. It's just one of those where it's like and then I'm like, oh my god, maybe he met my friend Rachel or like or yeah, I was just not not the comment suicide.

But you know I'm saying with the other stuff, right, So it's just crazy. But but either way, regardless of whether that was really obviously there was real connection to you with some of those things. But I love, I do love his energy, and I love that he saesn't is without projecting that kind of energy. I think we can all do that. Yeah, y'all, you know, listen to

your gut and read energy. Yeah. I think that he's the perfect person for any kind of skeptic out there about that, because I'm the one of the world's biggest skeptics when it comes to that stuff. Where his energy, his philosophy just on life and positivity and optimism and

just how to change your mindset. Um, I think that can kind of convert any skeptic into believing to an extent things with because honestly, like you know, people, I hear people and Janna talk about all the time with friends or their kids, like oh, what sign are you or what signing? And to me that means nothing And maybe I should that's something I should look more into and research more about pisces or whatever. But just to me,

I've never really correlated how people are with that. Yeah, I mean, I I agree to extend like some people are so into their signs where it's like, yes, I definitely have Sagittarius traits, but I also, you know, I don't like live and die by it, where I don't like I you know. And obviously he's very strong about to be able to keep his kid and then the womb for longer. But it's like for me, I'm like, is it really like you can still you're not defined by just your trade. But I don't know who knows.

Some people get so crazy to stars and analogies and and that's exactly where my issue is, because I feel like people read their sign like, all right, I'm a Sagittarius. That means I'm supposed to be this, this, this, and this, and so then they act according to what the signs tells them they're supposed to be like. And then it's like you're not making your own personality, You're just going

off of the stars. It's like, come on. And that's when John talked about free will, because I'm sure all of you, all of us in this room, have friends who go to psychics who then say, well, the psychic told me this is going to happen, so I'm just going to wait until this happens. And I always say to them. You what are you doing living your life according to someone else what they've told you? And I'm sorry, baby, you said you're a pisces Okay, I just google the

pisces man in love. Every time this man falls in love, he will think that he found the love of his life. With a certain relative view, this might actually be true for each one of his loves. Every relationship in his life is very different from the previous one, and each one represents an important lesson. My mom, Mom, who says right here though, it says, um pisces man has the heart of a poet and the soul of a mystic. Tell me what that means. I'm just saying, like, that's

not you. Okay, Here's like a slippery fish. The pisces man is hard to pin down. There we go, so the one thing to protect his freedom before he'll commit to anything. This is true, That is very true. You have dating you can be quite the adventure. Um, yes, so I think it's I think you definitely have some right.

But you could probably go through all signs, however many they are, and find certain traits of that have And so I am a Gemini into cancer because I was born than the Yeah, and I do have some Gemini traits, but I also have a ton of cancer traits that are grounding, and you know, like I'm a homebody. I'm not a flake like most Geminis are. You know, some people will say, well, Geminis are like they you know, they're very selfish, right, And I'm not that person, and

I'm more of a cancer. When it's that I'm going to nurture you, I'm going to conture you. I'm like, I'm calling total to this one. A pisces man in love will give his entire self to his partner, sooning in the dance of two souls, merging as one that sounds like I'm just I'm the most intimate man in relationship. Like all staring into Janna's eyes last night, everywhere, all trying to stand staring to Janna's eyes last night, and She's like, stop, you're so uncomfortable, and I was just like, no,

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slash Janna, sugar bear hair dot com slash Jana. Speaking of um relationships, we have a bunch of emails here, do we. Let's read some and this one is this is from Cat. This is a complicated emotional situation that Cat's going through. You want to read it? Yeah, like I can read it. So my boyfriend and I are

living separately. Hi, Janna and Jen my boyfriend and I of ten years And Mike, Sorry, I should have added that Hi, Janna and Jen and my my boyfriend and I have ten years, have recently decided that we want to live apart for a while, meaning I'm moving back into my parents house and he's going to stay in the house that we've rented for the past five years or move into an apartment. The plan is to move back in together eventually. We do have two kids, both boys,

eight and two. My boyfriend is four years younger than me, and we are complete opposites where I'm okay with staying in and he loves to go out and party. He was so quick to agree with us living separately, and even though we said we aren't breaking up and we are all going to be together, it just feels like it's the beginning of the end. What do you guys think and how should I handle the situation? I think your gut just told you the answer. Yeah, trust your intuition,

that inner voice. Never if he ever steers you wrong, ever, And if he's like a partier and was like, of course he wants to live separate, He's like you, I'm gonna be able to do my own thing and I

don't have any rules. Well, do you want that like it's like, you guys have kids, and I mean no judgment, but it's like, I mean, if it works for you, like Carrie and Big have like a separate place, but like, but the kids once they transition and adjust to living back at your parents house and I'm just assuming the kids are going with you. I don't know why, but um, it's going to be it's a really difficult transition to them pull them out and go back. You guys need

to make a decision. You need to go to therapy and make a decision. You do because you're either like you either need to break up or honestly getting get married, because yeah, but this is not sounding lovely to me, Michael, You're getting married is not the answer. Well, obviously break up or get married one of the other. They clearly

need to work through like a ton of issues. Yeah, just my just the only thing I could say is you have to side with the girl's trust your gut, but communicate, have a conversation, be like what is it about the topic of living separately, Like, you know, what is what are you looking to get out of it? Meaning ask him what are you looking at? Yeah? And that's I mean, honestly, that's you know for me. You know,

we've talked about this, like you always crack jokes. I love when you go out of town now and stuff like that. But I tell Jane, I'm like, yeah, it's cool for twenty four hours and I'm like, a, right, this sucks. And yeah, sometimes guys we just need like that free space to like just do yeah whatever it may be, be lazy, beat, dirty, no, not to move out. So this seems a little extreme. Yeah, if you told me you wanted to move out, I'd be like, please

sign here on this piece of paper exactly. And you need to be ready for the answers that you don't want to hear, because he needs to be honest with you and you might not like what he has to say. Yeah, it just doesn't sound like it sounds like he's still in it's like party years, and he doesn't seem like a very grown up, especially if he wants to go out party that much and you got eight and a two year old might come on, dude, come on button it up a little bit. Stop paying out with Scott

de Sect. Okay, time to grow up. Find find a man, Yes, find a man. On the same page, you will say yeah, I mean Grant and Michael is younger than me, but well not just someone who who is wants to live in the same way. Yes, right, yeah, you like go to bed before midnight? Yeah right, I mean anything after ten. I'm like, shoot, I'm like thirty yeah, no, I'm in. We're in bed. We put Jolie down, We're in bed, teeth brush, ready to go, and so romantic at the

cost an household. By the way, we look at this visual too, I was like, okay, maybe I'll like slip into like some launder lingerie and so, like you know, it's like failing myself put some laundry on. But then it was like it was a tubetop basically. But I was I was like it was it was like one of those mid drift tops. I was like, this is not sexy, Like my belly is like poking out. My laundry is like hits the top of my belly button. And I'm like, you time to go to Target and

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like when it lasts forever. When I brought it up to him, as response was to tell me how silly I was. He's really good to me. I just don't think he understands that penetration isn't as enjoyable for me as it is for him. I am taking antidepressants and they seem to be really lowering my sex drive. I want us to both enjoy it, but I just don't know how. I definitely think it's insensitive, and I feel like men do this a lot where they don't they don't get the needs of the woman and they roll

off it. And why why are you smirking on it saying like you like, it's not like I just feel like the ratio is skewed there. Why is it like? Why is it okay that you guys just are like, okay, gonna And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa? Why haven't you finished me? But I think not all men are like that, not all. And my husband's kidding all our nights. So here's here's my bottom bottom line advice. She at it up to him, He pushed it back, projected it back

on to her how silly she is. Yeah, that's that's rude. I would say, bring it up one more time, express your needs and maybe there's some other issues in the relationship in a calm, non accusing way. Guys will be very defensive offensive about that, right, Yeah, because you're that's yeah, that's very vulnerable and that's very very intimate thing for a guy to Yeah, that can kill kill confidence in and a guy. So but you know, it's that's tough for It's like I don't want to quickly, but I

don't want to take too long. Well there, however, is kind of like, yeah, it sucks for us too. We get tired, cramped, hamstring cramps, but starts tightening up. Arms are tired. Well, she's also on antidepressants and they're lowering her sex drive, which could be very frustrating too. I was on Zola for like three years and didn't have one orgasm the entire time, so so I'll get it.

That's just sucks. So maybe try switching presence. Yeah, you can talk to your psychiatrists and maybe try different dosage levels twitching. I'm on lex prow and I love it personally, so all in all, talk to him about it. Validate him, don't say it's about him. Just say, hey, I love having sex with you, I love our sex life. I would just you know, for me, I would really love for my needs to be met a little bit more.

But I just you know, I love you. I just you know, I just wished my needs were met a little bit more. You get it, or add some toys to your game, do something, bring it, bring it all right. So please, we really really really want to answer your emails Janne Kramer at i heeartmedia dot com and we cannot wait to wind down with you again next Monday. Bye bye later New