Some men resist leveling up their style. But here is the truth. You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up. This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip. Because style is not about being flashy or fake. It is about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and makes women take notice. In this episode, I bring on my Wing Girl stylist Carol to break this down for you. We talk about why your clothing matters more than you think and how the ri...
Apr 23, 2026•42 min
Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine. This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear. Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done. It is something you have to carry through your life and your relationships. In this conversation, Shawn breaks down how to build that masculine foundation and how to keep it consistent so women feel it when they are around you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, y...
Apr 10, 2026•47 min
🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit 📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention? Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in ve...
Mar 09, 2026•46 min
Become A Man Women Want NOW (Go Here): https://becomeamanwomenwant.com/ Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game. Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of. Once you know this secret, you will be able to attract more women than ever before. You will instantly ...
Feb 26, 2026•17 min
Learn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom with women ;) MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http:/...
Feb 23, 2026•12 min
🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc 📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another? It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach. In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 person...
Feb 23, 2026•28 min
Want to flirt like a pro with women? Get the F Formula NOW: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-flirty-now Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;). In this episode, Marni reveals exactly how to attract women without saying a word using the NATURAL effects of your body language. Body Language is the quickest and easiest thing you can alter to actually change how women see you. MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SEC...
Feb 19, 2026•18 min
The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift. Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week. Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be. Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl. She’s heard it all before and will deliver the best of the best insider information to help you turn women on. New episodes every Monday and T...
Feb 17, 2026•7 min
What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women. They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck including why common advice misses the mark how mixed signals get misread and what women actually respon...
Feb 03, 2026•1 hr 17 min
The friend zone does not get you in the end zone. In this throwback episode we break down what women actually mean when they say they want a bad boy and how to embody those traits without being arrogant cold or disrespectful. We talk about the difference between being nice and being attractive how confidence boundaries and emotional leadership create desire and why trying to please everyone usually kills attraction. Dating and attraction coach Nadine Piat joins us from Australia to share expert ...
Jan 27, 2026•1 hr 22 min
Dun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend zone. We have all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. Once you are in it feels nearly impossible to get out. In this throwback episode we break down why the friend zone happens in the first place what mistakes keep you stuck there and what actually shifts attraction so a woman starts seeing you differently. You will learn how to change the dynamic without awkward conversations pressure or gimmicks. If you have ever been told you ar...
Jan 20, 2026•1 hr 7 min
Most dating advice is generic outdated and honestly pretty cringey. In this episode Marni sits down with Dr Jennifer Berman New York Times bestselling author and renowned urologist to have an honest conversation about attraction emotional connection and what actually turns women on. They talk about why desire starts in the mind how emotional safety impacts sexual chemistry and what men often misunderstand when it comes to intimacy. This episode also dives into real world topics like sexual confi...
Jan 13, 2026•26 min
This episode is a throwback to one of our most powerful conversations on self esteem and it is just as relevant today as ever. Building real self esteem is not something most people are taught how to do. It feels big overwhelming and confusing which is exactly why so many people struggle with it and never fix it. In this episode we break down where self esteem actually comes from and how to start building it in a practical sustainable way. We are joined by a guest who knows a thing or two about ...
Jan 07, 2026•55 min
Most men think attraction is built by being polite, respectful, and safe. But that’s exactly why so many women feel nothing, even when the guy checks all the boxes. In this episode, Marni breaks down the biggest misunderstanding men have about attraction with Kurt who is a listener of the podcast. Why logic, effort, and approval seeking quietly kill chemistry before it ever starts. You’ll learn the difference between emotional attraction and emotional safety, why asking permission drains polarit...
Dec 23, 2025•34 min
Approaching women in public is rarer than ever, which means if you can do it well, you instantly stand out. In this episode, Marni and Kristen break down the real “first impression” stuff that actually matters: your face, your eyes, your smile, your energy, and your tonality. You’ll learn how to fix resting “don’t talk to me” face, how to use subtle push-pull with expressions, and a simple way to practice on camera so women feel safe, curious, and open around you. Then dating coach Patrick James...
Dec 16, 2025•48 min
We are throwing it back to a classic conversation about what it really means to be an alpha man today. Our guest Kevin Aillaud breaks down the qualities that make a man grounded, confident, and in charge of his own life. Kevin lives what he teaches, and you can hear that in every moment of this episode. A true must listen. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating....
Dec 09, 2025•59 min
Enjoy this special throwback episode where Marni sits down with seduction coach Vince Kelvin to talk about dating, attraction, confidence, and how men can naturally get better with women. Vince breaks down actionable insights, useful techniques, and surprising truths about modern dating. Listen now and learn something new. >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating....
Dec 02, 2025•59 min
Today’s throwback episode of the Ask Women Podcast brings on a single mother who pulls zero punches when it comes to dating past 40. She’s direct, she’s no-BS, and she’s not here to sugarcoat anything for your ego — she’s here to tell you exactly how women in her position actually think, choose, and filter men. If you’ve ever wondered what dating looks like through the eyes of a woman balancing kids, time, self-worth, and a second act — this is the episode you listen to. Not feel-good fluff… act...
Nov 18, 2025•41 min
We’re taking it way back to a classic 2016 episode! “The Relationship Doctor” himself, Bob Grant , calls in to share timeless insights on attraction, connection, and what makes relationships actually work . Bob’s a renowned dating expert and author of multiple best-selling relationship books — and in this vintage “How to Get the Girl” episode, he drops the kind of grounded, no-nonsense wisdom that never goes out of style. Whether you’re single, dating, or trying to make sense of modern love, thi...
Nov 12, 2025•1 hr
This week, we’re going primal 🧠🔥 Author and evolutionary psychology expert Tim Ash joins us to talk about his new book Primal Dating, a brutally honest guide to understanding the instincts that secretly drive attraction, love, and relationships. We dig into the psychology beneath the surface: what’s really motivating men and women, why certain dating behaviors feel “automatic,” and how our evolutionary wiring still plays out in the modern world of apps, texting, and situationships. If you’ve e...
Nov 05, 2025•40 min
Most men think women already know how to access that deeply sensual, turned-on version of themselves, but the truth is, a lot of women have never actually been guided into their own bodies before. They’re in their heads, second-guessing, performing, or trying to “do it right”… instead of actually feeling anything. In this episode, we’re joined by Amy Rowan from The Suburban Intimacy Project to break down: Why so many women don’t even know what they’re supposed to feel during intimacy The hidden ...
Oct 28, 2025•44 min
We’re throwing it back to one of our most powerful Ask Women episodes — where we explore why being happy isn’t just good for your soul, it’s magnetic . Studies show that the happier you are, the more attractive you become to the opposite sex. That’s why we brought on happiness coach Robert Mack , a man who had it all - looks, success, intelligence, a great family — but still felt miserable inside. Robert opens up about how he completely turned his life around and discovered that true happiness c...
Oct 21, 2025•46 min
We’re throwing it back to the Ask Women days! Comedian Nick Guerra joins Marni and Kristen for a classic “Over Analyze This” episode where we dive into listener letters and answer your biggest dating questions. From how to handle jealousy to dealing with flakers and c*ck blockers , nothing’s off limits. We also dive into our classic segment, Help Another Brother Out , where we give one listener some direct, no-BS advice to get his dating life back on track. Tune in for some laughs, some raw trut...
Oct 14, 2025•1 hr 2 min
On this week’s How to Get the Girl , we’re joined by Adam Woolard — husband to Bachelorette star Hannah Brown, VP of Business Development at Joi+Blokes, and a guy who knows firsthand what it’s like to feel intimidated by a woman. We dive into two huge areas that can make or break your dating life: • Confidence around women you actually like — why guys hold back, don’t fully express themselves, and how to flip that script so women feel more attraction. • Your health and dating success — how small...
Oct 07, 2025•44 min
Moving to a new city can feel like hitting the reset button—new streets to explore, new friends to make, and a whole new dating scene to figure out. In this throwback episode (originally aired 6.15.16, Ep. 67), Marni and Kristen talk with east-coast transplant PJ about how to rebuild your social life, boost your confidence, and navigate dating when you’re starting from scratch. We also dive into: The challenges of dating in a brand-new city How to create your own social circle from the ground up...
Oct 01, 2025•59 min
This week, we’re bringing you a throwback episode that’s just as valuable today as when it first aired. We sat down with Abby — a hot, young, single twenty-something — to get the unfiltered inside scoop on what dating in your 20s is really like. From the shifts COVID created in the dating landscape to what’s stayed exactly the same, Abby pulls back the curtain on what works, what fails, and how to approach with confidence. She even shares what makes her (and her friends) take notice when a guy w...
Sep 24, 2025•45 min
In this bonus episode of How to Get the Girl , Kristen sits down with Dave Stultz from Limitless Brave to talk about something that can completely shift your dating life: the power of working with a coach in person. We break down why nothing compares to the energy of being in the room, where body language, presence, and confidence can be seen, felt, and fine-tuned in real time. You’ll hear why workshops create an environment where skills stick faster, nerves get rewired into confidence, and acco...
Sep 23, 2025•57 min
This episode is anything but a lecture. In fact, we kick things off with a totally candid 10-minute conversation between me, Kristen, and our guest Dr. Kayte about our own porn patterns - genres, likes, dislikes - proving that yes, we ALL watch porn. From there, Dr. Kayte breaks down what’s actually healthy versus harmful when it comes to porn, plus what’s real and what’s pure camera trickery that should never, ever be tried in real life. We also dive into Dr. Kayte’s own dating life as a woman ...
Sep 16, 2025•1 hr 5 min
Dating at 49 isn’t about playing games — it’s about knowing who you are, what you want, and not being afraid to say it out loud. On this episode of How to Get the Girl , we sit down with Rachel Birch, host of the award-winning podcast Love Before 100 . Freshly divorced and unapologetically back in the dating scene, Rachel opens up about what she’s looking for, what turns her on, and the mindset of a sophisticated, strong woman who’s not settling for less. We dive into attraction, desire, confide...
Sep 09, 2025•55 min
When it comes to men’s health, your penis might be saying more than you think. On this episode of How to Get the Girl , we sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin — physician, innovator, and creator of the world’s first smart penis ring — to talk about not erectile dysfunction, but erectile fitness . Dr. Justin shares why sexual health is more than performance — it’s a vital indicator of your overall well-being. We dig into the critical need for data-driven solutions in medicine, how technology is chang...
Sep 02, 2025•52 min
