Hey, what's up guys. It's Marsh Buice and I want to just give you a quick thought for the day. And it's about. Confrontation. Most people say they avoid confrontation, but let's be real. It's not the confrontation that you're avoiding. It's the emotions that come with it. See, you're not afraid to address the issue. You're afraid on how it'll make you feel. or how the other person might react. But here's the deal. Confrontation. Doesn't have to be a conflict.
It's about addressing the situation, not attacking the person. So when you handle it productively, It becomes a tool. For your personal growth. I mean, think about it every time that you avoid confrontation. It's getting worse. You're letting the problem grow. It's not going to go away. And dude, I speak from experience. I have had so many times. Where I just felt like if I could just keep the peace. Everything will be fine. But the problem with that is. It just continues to get worse. And so.
This thing kind of mounts up. Procrastination never shrinks the issue. It only builds pressure. Until it explodes. And when it explodes. It explodes in a big, big way. So this is why I say, if you keep the minors minor, they'll never become major. So if you take the smallest steps, Addressing the minor things easily. You're going to build the skills. And the confidence. To handle bigger challenges down the road. See it's it's confrontation is a lot like life.
You can't handle more until you handle now. And so as you began to handle a little bit more and you just wade to the waters. Yes. The natural tendency is to avoid conflict, to avoid confrontation. But if you see it for what it is, it's a resolution. And you're confronting the situation. Not attacking the person. So, if you begin to do this, You're going to get better at it. And you're going to develop, these are life skills. You are always going to have conflict and think about this.
You want to be rich, powerful, and famous. You think that you're going to get to there? And not have conflict. It's going to come to you in a big way. So while you're broke and overweight. And things aren't going well for you right now. Learn to handle the conflict. This is what's going to set. The road is set the table. For bigger things for you down the line. You got to remember this confrontation. Is a key part of leveling up in your life. It is a true sign that you're growing.
And the people or the situations. They try to pull you down. It's just another part of the challenge. It's your next step up. So today don't avoid it. Face it. Whatever it is that you feel don't come around to it later. It's like a bandaid dude. Just rip it off. Face it handle it with intention. And then keep it moving. Keep things simple. I don't add a big, big narrative to it. And a lot of times, man, you're going to find that the confrontation is imagined. The result of it.
How it's gonna play out. You don't know. You don't know. And so you just wait until the waters, you're going to get better at it, but I'm going to dive deeper into this later on. I'm real excited about sharing it. I did post a blog on it today, but I'm going to riff it even more in a future episode, but I just want to give you a primer for today because this is what I do. And this is for my listeners at what's your problem, the podcast. Thanks so much for. Being a part of what's your problem?
The podcast. Hope you guys have an amazing day. Keep it simple. Keep it moving. Never settle. Stay tough peace.