¶ Exploring Our Vulnerability to Lies
I want you to think about a lie that you believed , and why . Maybe it was Santa Claus . Maybe you actually believe that that special someone wasn't texting back because they really were busy at work or , better yet , washing their hair . Or maybe you believed Lance Armstrong was just that good at cycling In all seven of your Tour de France victories .
Did you ever take banned substances or blood dope ? Yes , sometimes I even believe my own misinformation . I am totally going to reduce my screen time starting on Monday .
It's a total fabrication .
Sadly , it can get a lot more sinister than those examples . With organized disinformation networks now firmly embedded in politics , I want to explore what makes people believe things that are clearly not true .
It's Russian and Ukraine war . It's fake . The government actively used seed clouding . I think the earth is flat .
Every day , we encounter headlines , social media posts and viral videos that blur the line between fact and fiction . What we choose to believe often depends on our emotions . Does it speak to our tribal allegiance , our grievances , our hopes ?
If it feels like your team just scored a touchdown , that should be a reason to pause .
We love that feeling that our group is right . From the influence of family and friends to online echo chambers , our desire to belong and connect can sometimes override our critical thinking skills , and , in a world where algorithms are designed to keep us engaged , it's easier than ever to get swept up in a tide of misinformation , often without even realizing it .
This week , on what's Up with the Internet , we're going to talk about this human factor and why so many people believe lies . Why so many people believe lies . I'm your host , Takara Small , and the podcast is brought to you by CIRA , the Canadian Internet Registration Authority , the non-profit building a trusted internet for Canadians . Let's get started .
We have the author , Tim Caulfield , back again . We spoke to Tim on last week's episode's , a professor at the university of Alberta and an expert on myths and disinformation . We asked him to help us with the big
¶ Everyone is Susceptible to Misinformation
question just why are so many of us vulnerable to this stuff ?
yeah , I mean , you could do a whole semester on that topic , right , and I think the the big caveat out of the gate is that we're all susceptible , right , all of us . You know , in the book , and when I give talks in this topic , I always highlight , I keep a list of stuff I've fallen for . Look , I study misinformation .
I'm hypersensitive to the reality that misinformation is out there and I've fallen for it . And I've fallen for it in kind of a cliche , classic way . You know , misinformation that played to my preconceived notions , that played to my rage , that kind of played to my tribe , right , I've fallen for it .
And so I think it's really important to recognize that we all can fall for it , so we can bring a little bit of empathy to the table .
The other thing to recognize and this goes to that the political dimension is that does happen across the ideological spectrum and historically , for most of my career actually , the misinformation came more from the left , not from the right , and most of my hate mail used to come from the left and not the right .
So it's a good mail used to come from the left and not the right , so it's good to remind ourselves of that too . Right , context and timing and history it matters . The other thing to remind ourselves of is that vulnerabilities matter , right .
So there's really interesting research that talks about being , you know , economically insecure might make you more vulnerable to misinformation . Mental health challenges might make you more vulnerable to misinformation . Mental health challenges can make you more vulnerable to misinformation .
And yes , of course you know , education , critical thinking skills those kinds of variables matter a whole bunch , a whole bunch too . So all of those things you know combine , I think , to make us all vulnerable . So all of those things you know combine , I think , to make us all vulnerable .
But one of the most important factors we talked about it right off at the top is just how chaotic our information environment is , and I think that's one of the reasons we're all so incredibly vulnerable , because we just can't process absolutely everything .
So it's easy to fall into misinformation traps , it's easy to fall into echo chambers , and so many of us do it . So try to bring to the table scientific humility . I talk about that in the book . I think that's a really important trait . Recognize that . It's okay to change your mind based on the evolution of evidence .
It's okay to change your mind based on the evolution of evidence . It's okay to change your mind when you learn more about a topic . So often in our society that's sort of demonized . It's flip-flopping . You're not staying true to your values . If you change your mind , you're letting your team down .
If you change your mind , you have to jettison , I think , all those attitudes and really we need to embrace the idea that it should be a badge of honor to change your mind if the facts change or if you learn more on a topic .
And in the book I have a list of things I've changed my mind on based to the evolution of facts , and I think that that's a really healthy , healthy position to be in .
You mentioned emotions like fear and anger . They can leave us open to misinformation . So I have to ask now how do we guard against those emotions pushing us to misinformation and other areas and venues connected to that ?
Yeah , I wrote a piece not that long ago where I argued that we're living in a fear-demic right Because it is such a powerful emotion and , as I said , I wrap up rage and grievance and all those kinds of like emotions in the same bundle .
I think step one is just recognizing the degree to which our information environment is now , you know , wired to play to those emotions , right ? So I think that that's , I think , step one . There was a . I asked one of my colleagues , kate Starbird .
She's a professor who studies misinformation at the University of Washington in Seattle , and I actually asked her you know , as this renowned expert on fighting misinformation , what advice would you give to the public ? And I kind of thought she'd say well , fact checking , and make sure your critical thinking skills are topped up .
And her response was well , I think the best advice is if it feels like your team just scored a touchdown , that should be a reason to pause , that should be a red
¶ Emotions as Misinformation Gateways
flag . Or if it feels like the other team just scored a touchdown and you feel very angry , that should be a red flag .
And , of course , what she means by that is if the information is playing to your emotions , playing to your political ideology playing to your you know , all of those things that should be a red flag , and I love that , that bit of advice .
The other thing that's even more simple and this is researched by people like Gordon Pennycook and David Rand at MIT , gordon's at Cornell he used to be at University of Regina and we've collaborated with him is this idea of pausing , taking , you know , just a beat and I know that sounds ridiculously simple , but there have been , you know , this is work that's been
replicated by other laboratories and they find , if you just take a moment after you see a headline or something , just pause they call it an accuracy nudge you're less likely to believe misinformation and less likely to spread it . And I think what's going on there is there .
It's inviting you to kind of disconnect from your initial emotional response and kind of turn to your more logical critical thinking tools to evaluate that headline on your phone . I love that advice . It's simple , it's straightforward , it's something we can all do and it might be scalable .
You've talked in the past about celebrities and influencers who have had such an impact in how people view the world , and misinformation .
I'm really curious to know how that even happens , just taking into account that people will disregard , perhaps , the views and the support systems and information coming from those they love , those they choose to have in their lives , for sometimes what to me appears to be blatant lies from a celebrity that they don't even know .
And you're right about that . You know some research research backs that up , I think . I think you know let's look at someone like Gwyneth Paltrow , who you know she's an interesting case study , you know . First off , you know used her as a case study in the past , so it's easy for me to turn to her as an example .
But I think she's a good one because , you know , early in her career with Goop , when she became kind of a health influencer , it almost seemed like a noble pursuit . You know Dr Oz too , you know I put him in this same camp . They were , you know , they were inviting us to consider other ways of knowing .
And they were saying look , women have been mistreated by the healthcare system . True , they haven't done enough research on women in the biomedical sphere . Absolutely true . People of colour are disregarded and their problems aren't listened to . Absolutely true .
And so there was almost this entry point for a lot of these influencers that seemed not just benign but almost , as I said , noble . It was a good and that made you the baddie if you were critiquing them . And holy cow , that tolerance for pseudoscience , that tolerance for misinformation , I think has we're unfortunately paying for it now .
Right , and I think that celebrities , and you know , from Dr Oz to Gwyneth Paltrow , to Tom Brady , you know Jessica Alba , I can list , go on and on and on . They help to normalize and legitimize the embrace of misinformation , not just in the health sphere but more broadly right .
So I think that has an anger that an individual is holding on to that can make that voice incredibly powerful in that individual's lives .
Individuals like Joe Rogan have so much sway , or Jordan Peterson , right , they're playing to grievances and we know from research that that can be an incredibly seductive , a very powerful conduit of misinformation and that was tim colfield , who has just published a new book about all the conflicting information we find online , called the certainty illusion what you don't
know and why it matters .
We now go to montreal , where mike cropefield is the executive director of info cult , or infosect . Mike has decades of experience studying cults and exploring why people fall for them and how to get them out . He spoke to us about human vulnerabilities and how to respond .
¶ The Celebrity Influence on Beliefs
The question almost is like what is the needs and what leads people to get involved in kind of groups , subjects , belief systems which people outside them find this like ? Kind of groups , subjects , belief systems which people outside them find this like kind of a disturbing , problematic , erroneous and misinformation , disinformation , you know , conspiracies , etc .
And I think you know , on a simple level , it's because of the response to a need and a belief that people have at that time . And so you're looking at often a transitory period in people's lives where they become more open to certain ideas and subjects where normally they wouldn't , and it also obviously has to do with the times we live in as well .
So , and it's a variety , because for some situations , when you talk about misinformation , uh , the people who may be , you know , pushing out this kind of information obviously don't perceive it as misinformation .
Many of of the groups we deal with , for example , have belief systems or ideas that most people would say is totally erroneous , not factual , not supported by any evidence , but they firmly and truly believe it , which sometimes makes it more easy for them to sell their message to others because they are so sincere and convinced .
Where the reality sometimes , I think , is most people in our society a function between , I would say , the black and whites , with a lot of great uncertainty , not sure ready to question and are open .
And so , when confronted by somebody who appears to seem to know it all and is so sure , often we acquiesce , we , often they well , maybe they're , maybe they're right , maybe I'm wrong , maybe I don't know , and maybe I should like kind of listen more closely to what they're saying .
But , as I said , it kind of falls into where the person or the individual is at in their life kind of situation .
Are there common psychological traits when it comes to individuals that make them more vulnerable to misinformation ?
I kind of look at it and say that people fall into situations at more , let's say , dips or crisis periods in their lives . So , you know , is it meaning , you know , a psychological trait being that they're going through a very stressful , complex and difficult period in their life ?
This , yes , would make them more susceptible and more open to buying into sort of ideas and beliefs that they previously would not have , let's say , accepted
¶ Psychology of Cult Membership
or believed . So that's where I would look at it . More is understanding that when you go through kind of a difficult or crisis period in your life , you're more open to what I almost in a simple way , say is the arm around your shoulder saying you know what , don't worry about it , I'll take care of it , I can explain it to you and don't worry .
And I think so . When people are going through very difficult times , the belief that there's something or someone out there that can help them or make sense of what they're going through and help them to resolve it , I think can be quite appealing .
But when you're not going through that kind of difficult period from the outside , you kind of scratch your head and say you know what's going on here .
You mentioned that people can perhaps fall for misinformation during vulnerable times in their lives or when they're experiencing challenges , and I'm curious is there any relationship to certain demographics or ages that make people that much more vulnerable as well ?
Well , I think if you're kind of an adolescent and you're going , let's say , 18 to 26 year or even younger age group , you're going through a process often of developing your own identity and you know kind of contesting established kind of beliefs and structures , whether it be your family , society etc .
So therefore you're more open and more willing to make a change and look at things differently . And , as I said , you know , I think it basically from our experience here is we've dealt with people from right across the spectrum and it's usually because there's some kind of issue going on .
It could be more of a part of the background or it can be just at one point there's something that happens which has kind of caused a kind of a critical situation where they tend to be much more open to it . There's , I think , the desire to believe that certain people are immune from , you know , problems or difficulties in life , whatever it may be .
I think is a necessary defense , because if you thought everything that happened around you would affect you , you probably wouldn't walk out the door . So I think there's a need to defend , so that you look at situations like what we're discussing today and say , well , this won't happen to me because I'm too bright , I'm educated , I wouldn't fall for it .
I think the reality is you don't know , and I think the kind of studies and examples that we've had through our experience demonstrates that it can happen to anyone . Anyone can be potentially vulnerable that it can happen to anyone . Anyone can potentially vulnerable .
Certain people , because of certain factors in their lives , can make maybe we can say are more susceptible or more open . But generally I think is the reality is it can affect anyone .
I do get a sense sometimes . You know , when I'm interviewing people , when I'm reading up on this subject matter , that there's a sense of belonging associated with it and I'm wondering is there a desire for community at the heart of this ?
A big part , definitely . When I broke it down very simply , the need to believe and the need to belong are very strong components and I think in pretty much everyone to be part of a group to have a kind of a solid base of understanding what's happening around this in the world .
So , yeah , I think that's very important and going through difficult times there's sometimes is often more need to kind of feeling that you belong to something , there is a support system or people who see things the same way as you . Yeah , but those are very strong , I think , emotional components , that needs that people have .
It's very hard , I mean , like anything , you can't generalize and apply it to everyone , but I'd say in a large percentage of the population , the need to believe and belong are very strong emotional pulls that draw you into situations sometimes that are not always , let's say , beneficial for you the hole that's been left by religion in canada and you can argue
overall society .
Has that had an effect at all ? Has that had an impact ?
it has an impact to the degree that you know . Uh , there's a lot . Let's say there's a period . Let's say there's a period where , let's say , I'm in Quebec where the Catholic Church plays a very strong role in social , political and religious spheres of people's lives , and the dramatic change away from that obviously led to kind of a vacuum .
At the same time as a vacuum occurs , it doesn't necessarily mean it's getting filled by necessarily negative kind of movements or negative organizations .
But I think the reality is , when people turn their back on something and have a distrust or lack of faith in what they grew up with or what they believed in , they become more open to looking around them to see what else is there . And unfortunately there are also movements that will capitalize on that need .
So it is a certain reality , definitely , that the lack or the change in belief leads people to become more open to new adventures , new spiritual experiences , but not necessarily just religious .
A lot of people have found that's a you know kind of home , one would say , in different other kinds of communal organizations and groups , that is spring up and one of the things that you know we'll get to is the fact that people also belonging , almost want to say to movements that exist only online and are not getting together in person with people that they
used to , which is also a dramatic change from basically where we started , when everything was face-to-face kind of , and people were communally living together or spending time together in different environments in different environments .
You mentioned how religion can sometimes create fissions or fractures which force people to look for you know , other support or other communities , particularly in Canada , with a decrease in religion playing a major role . I'm curious Can you see something similar happening when there's recessions or financial , global financial setbacks ?
I mean , do you see that same faith shaken to the core and people seeking out some other resource or faith ?
Well , a lot of this is obviously tied to , you know , what's going on in society . In society I mean the rise of different kinds of movements . You know , whether they be kind of positive or problematic . You know , usually come at times when there is a kind of social upheaval , different stressful situations .
Obviously , I think there's hardly anybody that would say that we are not going through a very kind of stressful , complex and difficult times .
You know , over the last number of years , you know previous even to COVID , but since , and the increased polarization that is occurring in different societies as well , all play a factor , makes it more difficult for people to kind of feel , kind of feel excuse me people that feel more grounded and feel more anchored to the society and feel more comfortable with
themselves . So there is that kind of like tendency at times like that to look for a solution . You know why am I having such a hard time ? why , you know , like financially , is it so difficult for me ? I need somebody to explain it , and what people tend to at that those times look for
¶ Crisis and Identity in Belief Systems
is not complexity . They don't want complexity . You're looking for somebody to tell them what's right , what's wrong , how is it , how am I gonna get you out of this mess ? Or by joining this group or getting involved in this , everything will work out .
It's kind of like the the need to believe in kind of almost a miracle solution to difficult times and problems . I mean , I mentioned this and it kind of an example comes to mind . It was somebody who I know years ago who was a very skeptical kind of person about all kind of like different kind of faith , healings et cetera and miracle cures .
But he ended up having heart problems and the doctors were telling me he would require heart surgery and he told me at that time he ended up going to a session being offered here somewhere in Montreal about somebody who could deal with health problems without surgery and he told me about this experience and he said you know what ?
That was the first time I could really really personally relate to the kind of work you're doing , mike , because it was appealing to want to believe that I could actually do something like that and be healed .
Anyway , he ended up doing a surgery and he's okay , but I think it kind of symbolized for me that kind of reality is like when you're going through that kind of difficult time , sometimes you want to believe that there's something out there that will offer you that kind of magical solution or a simple formula or recipe that will take care of what you're going
through .
So there's something called the illusionary truth effect and how that can make certain ideas seem more credible than they are . Can you explain that to me ?
Well , part of it , I think , with that is like it's kind of repeated exposure to the same in quotation mark lie or story . You just hear it often enough . Sometimes you end up doubting yourself .
You know , especially if you're surrounded by people who kind of believe the same thing , you're less likely over time to maybe question or doubt it and say , well , maybe I'm wrong , maybe these people are all right , since you're kind of being bombarded constantly with the same message .
And so that's where it becomes very difficult , you know , for people to step outside and say you know what , make a concentrated effort to seek out other points of view and other kind of positions , which doesn't often happen . That's like what happens these days is most people .
What they do is they end up going on the internet , and once you go on the internet and you start Googling a certain kind of question or concern , you end up going down what people have described as that rabbit hole of constantly finding things that confirm or reinforce what you already kind of believe or what others around you are already been saying is the truth
, which you know , as your question arises , how people end up buying into the lie .
One of the common aspects I'm seeing is the role of emotion in all of this , and so what you know does fear , anger , happiness . How does that impact a person's ability to evaluate the accuracy of what they're seeing , what they're believing ?
And so when you kind of get emotionally involved , as I mentioned , I like kind of using examples , sometimes it kind of reminds me , like you know , if I'm talking to you and I'm your best friend , and you tell me you fell in love with John and I go , john , the guy is just out to get your money .
He's a no good kind of guy and I expect you to say , oh me , mike , you're right , I'm leaving him tomorrow and I'll go look for another boyfriend Never going to happen tomorrow and I'll go look for another boyfriend never gonna happen . Because people kind of get involved , because it responds on an emotional level .
You know , most people from the outside look at and say , well , this is not logical , this doesn't make any sense . But emotionally it appeals to people and it's kind of almost you kind of love becomes blind .
And so you fall into this and you get involved emotionally and obviously in some movements where there's this kind of split between we're the good guys and everybody on the outside is bad and evil and basically out to get you .
That creates the sense of sometimes the fear of the other and the fear of those outside who have a different perspective or point of view . So when you come to a degree you you know of coming to believe , like the example of the love relationship .
You know you're going to defend what you're doing and also be very reluctant , and you know to contain or to maintain or continue , necessarily , a relationship with other people .
At the same time , when you get into certain situations or environments , you know , you come to believe that you have found the truth , example being during the COVID , you had a lot of people , not just during COVID but also today , who bought into different theories and ideas but ended up feeling that they found the truth .
Everyone on the outside was either brainwashed or bought into the system and followed media etc . But they had found the truth and so there's a sense of for sure , a lot of power and also , as one would say , to a certain degree , a certain happiness of having discovered something unique and other people were not aware of .
So gave them a certain sense of power and in certain movements and belief systems .
I think it's important to recognize that that sense of power , for people who don't necessarily feel they have much power in their everyday lives , is something which is very strong and is something that motivates them to continue and also can generate a lot of anger against those who necessarily oppose .
Because the general reaction you know know , when people get involved in certain systems or movements which others don't like is they will react logically or factually or kind of confront the individual , which also generates anger in the individual at the same time , which will also lead to often a breakdown in communications with people who are close around them .
Some systems you know that deal with , especially during the COVID period , pretty simply encourage people just to cut off contact with all people who did not believe or think like them .
I want to ask if there's anything we as a society can do to counteract this . Is there some type of inoculation ?
People always like to say well , education , preventive education I mean , nobody's against education . The question then comes is what kind of education , to who's carrying it out and what's your ultimate goal in doing it ? I definitely agree that
¶ Fighting Misinformation and Helping Others
one of the things that we should be teaching more of is critical thinking and giving people access to how to figure out , how to assess information from various sources , to questions to ask . Those are always things that I would agree with . But fundamentally , the question if you have problems that exist in a society , where are they coming from ?
If the problem is that people feel disaffected or disconnected from mainline structures and societies that exist and that could be political , religious , you know , mental health , medical , etc . Then the question is how do you return ? You know that kind of how do you rebuild confidence for people in the society they live in ? Not easy questions .
I don't have an easy answer how to do that , but I think it's part of is recognizing that if people don't trust , for example , you're more comfortable with hearing . You know this person is going to give you what you want , even though maybe it's never going to happen .
So but ultimately I say , how do you get to the root kind of causes you know that's a much more difficult process , you know . I mean education is helpful . How do you provide services when I think people are running into difficulties and problem ?
Yes , these are all questions I think most people might agree with , but at the same time , is this question is going to be who's going to pay for it and who's going to do it ?
And when it comes down to questions of who's going to pay , there seems to very , very little money around to really kind of deal with this , because some of it as mentioning when you're looking at societal issues are not something that gets resolved bang , bang , bang .
You know , and you know how long is going to take to get people's confidence back in structures and societies that we've built up over . You know , decades and generations ? I don't know . I decades and generations ? I don't know . I don't think it's an easy task .
It's not necessarily a task we shouldn't undertake , but I think it's something that has to be seen as difficult but necessary .
Is there anything in your opinion the government can do better on this subject ?
Is there anything in your opinion the government can do better on this subject ? Well , government , my experience is because one person we talked to in government said what can we do around this issue ? Governments can do . What they can do is they can make laws .
I mean , I'm always hesitant when it comes to questions of making laws , because the question is how much do you really know about the issue you want to make a law about ?
And then , once you have the law , is it really going to be effective in dealing with the problem or is it just kind of , let's say , you know making , you know dressing , you know giving a nice dressing to a subject but really doesn't have much kind of , let's say , beef or meat behind it ?
I think part of it , a minimum , is recognizing , I think as a part of government , that people are harmed by whether you want to call it misinformation , disinformation . You know radicalization , extremist groups . You know extreme religious or high-control movements or organizations in our society .
There are families and individuals that are harmed , that need help , and part of it is at least you don't have to get into a discussion , do you agree , disagree with X or Y perspective on an issue , but recognize and I think most people will is that , no matter what the group or society , some people are harmed in these kind of movements and groups and in some
groups and movements more people are harmed than in others and what they can do is provide more services to people .
When that happens , it's the same time is , of course , trying to address you know how to deal with this kind of an issue in a comprehensive way , Because it means to me bringing together people from different kind of spectrums and different kind of sectors , rather , of society and looking at okay , what is the problem here ?
There's a lot of research going on dealing with radicalization , misinformation , disinformation . The question is how do you develop a policy to effectively deal with these kind of concerns ? And I think you start that process by bringing actors from different sectors together and seeing what you can come up with .
But at the same time , like I say , because of where we work , I would say , at least at the the minimum , recognize people are harmed and that more services should be offered to these people , whether it be former members or families going through , you know , distress at difficult times because of someone they care about . You know .
I think , at the minimum , that that's what can be done , should be done , rather if there are listeners who are tuning in and they have a family member , or maybe even a loved one , who was bought into misinformation to a worrying degree , what advice would you give them ?
Well , without knowing individual histories , simple kind of what to do , what not to do , don't get into logical , practical or factual discussions . If somebody really believes what they believe , all they probably do is look at you and say you don't understand . You're totally conned by the other side .
The issue is trying to , like I mentioned a while ago , is how do you see the world through the eyes of the individual , so that if you have an idea of who they are , where they're coming from , what the needs potentially are for them believing in this , it may be a better approach to look at it and approach it on an emotional level and basically , if you're
concerned , expressing your concern without getting into factual , saying look , I'm really concerned , I don't understand , especially if there's been a dramatic change in their personality and their beliefs . I don't understand the process , what's happened and how you got involved . Can you explain it to me ?
Explaining and wanting to understand does not mean that you buying into it . I am understand because I care about you . You know , ultimately it's not important . Well , excuse me , not a question of how important . It's not whether or not I believe or don't believe what you're saying , because it's not me that's going to be living with your decisions .
I'm trying to understand more what happened and the process that you've gone through , and so you want , you want to . You know , what I'm saying here is you want to keep it more on an emotional level and reconnect . We feel and obviously every person has to make their own decision is maintaining communication and trying to improve .
It is very important Because without any contact or communication , you have no idea what's going on with the person . I say it's up to each individual or family member to decide because you know any advice you get and people often , when they call us , have gotten all kinds of different advice from different people we mentioned .
Look , whatever decision you make in terms of how you want to proceed , recognize that those who give you advice , the same way as the person you care about , who's getting advice or suggestions from others though they're not the ones are going to be living with your decision . So if you want to do something , you have to look at the approach you're taking .
Does it make sense and can you put it into practice ? And some people you know don't want to do this . Yeah , I mean , it's our approaches . I think trying to understand not necessarily , it's not a question approach is , I think trying to understand not necessarily it's not a question , do you agree or disagree ?
But trying to understand what someone's going through and then looking at , how do you maintain that communication and contact with the individual and hopefully , you know , raising questions which may elicit , you know it's kind of a reflection on their part .
I think you also want to recognize that you know better off from a strategy point of view is like what are you hoping to achieve ? Is it feasible ? And if it's feasible , what are the pros and cons of the approaches you're going to take ?
And look more closely at the cons of what you're planning , because if things work out the way you want , you're always happy . If they don't , can you live with the cons of what you're planning ? Because if things work out the way you want , you're always happy . If they don't , can you live with the consequences of having something happen ?
You know , and you know that's why you look at it from that perspective . But part of it is also recognizing that people are different , so what brought them into a situation can vary from individual to individual . There may be a background I need to believe you know .
So these are a lot of factors , but ultimately it's not confronting the individual , because that pretty much doesn't work and often will reinforce their conviction and belief , because if I believe that I have the right information and you're the ones with the false information , well you know I may cut off from you . So that's what you want to kind of avoid .
But , as I said , you have to feel comfortable with that approach and obviously each family you know is different . There's a lot of other factors that I deal with when I get into situations with families , but usually don't attack the individual , don't attack if they're involved in a group . Don't attack the group .
If there's a leader , do not attack the leader of the group either . These are generally situations which will indirectly reinforce their belief and faith and possibly decrease the kind of contact and create walls between you and the person , walls which make it different to communicate and keep in touch .
And that was Mike Kropfeld , the executive director of InfoCult or InfoSect , and if you want to visit their website for resources , the link will be in the podcast description
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Next week on episode four . We want to help you guard against falling for any misinformation yourself .
If we're using AI tools to get information , it's really important to understand what they're good at and what they're bad at .
We'll be providing you with loads of great advice to identify misinformation and do your own fact checking . Keep an eye out for that and if you want to reach out , you can email us at podcast at xeroca . You can also find me at Takara Small on Blue Sky Social and Instagram . Thank you for listening and we'll see you next week .
