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What God is Not

Father Michael O'Loughlin and Mother Nataliawhatgodisnot.com
A Byzantine Catholic Podcast about Divine Mystery [email protected]

Episodes

Check Yes or No

This week we're joined by special guest Rachel Schmitt who is our Operations Manager. Rachel and Mother Natalia talk about saying yes in generosity and no in prudence when we're asked to do something. They talk about aligning your will with the Father's so you can know if your yes or no is the right decision, and they give some practical examples of this in action. Bonus, Rachel's infant daughter joins us on this episode too! References: PDF Link - How to Discern the Elements of Your Vocation by...

Sep 20, 202358 min

You Should Know Ephrem

This week Fr. Michael talks about St. Ephrem, or St. Ephraim depending on your spelling preference. He highlights some key facts that we should all know about this great saint. References: Cereal and the Prayer of St. Ephraim Serial (2 of 2) and the Prayer of St. Ephraim Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

Sep 13, 20231 hr 7 min

Tenderness

This week Mother Natalia talks about tenderness and ways we experience the tender heart of the Father and Our Lady. She talks about the ways she's experienced tenderness from Fr. Michael and Fr. Boniface, tenderness in spiritual direction, and tenderness in interactions with others. References: Our Lady of Tenderness Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofi...

Sep 06, 202354 min

Fear of the Lord

This week Fr. Michael continues his topic from last week on fear of the Lord. We talk about what the fear of the Lord is, what it is not, and how it's misunderstood. References: Episode 1 - Be Not Afraid Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

Aug 30, 202344 min

Be Not Afraid

This week's episode is part one of two on Fear of the Lord. Fr. Michael talks about self-reliance, relying on God, and not being afraid to ask for help. Tune in next week for part two! References: Lord of the Spirits Podcast Bridegroom's Banquet Our Lady of Perpetual Help Pilgrimage Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

Aug 24, 202346 min

The Light of His Eyes with Mother Iliana

This week we're joined by Mother Iliana who has released a new book, The Light of His Eyes. We talk about how the book came to be, some concepts from the book, and ways Mother Iliana has seen the Lord working in her life. References: The Light of His Eyes by Mother Iliana Taare Zameen Par (Every Child is Special movie) The Soul of Shame by Dr. Curt Thompson Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Brid...

Aug 16, 20231 hr 4 min

Invitations to Chaste Leadership

This week Fr. Michael talks about Alive in Christ, an aesthetical boot camp for Byzantine Catholic young men. He talks about the idea for the camp, the structure, and the ways that he sees the boys grow as leaders. Fr. Michael also gives an overview of the chastity talk he gave to the dads, and Fr. Michael and Mother Natalia talk about invitations to chastity and unchastity. Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitt...

Aug 09, 20231 hr 4 min

Extravagant, Prodigal, Reckless Love

This week Mother Natalia reflects on God's extravagance with us, our extravagance with Him, and our extravagance with each other. She gives examples of extravagance from Scripture and we have a mini-topic at the end of the episode. Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

Aug 02, 202357 min

Marian Apparitions and Miracles

This week Fr. Michael and Mother Natalia talk about Marian apparitions, the Catholic belief surrounding Mary, and their interactions and experiences with the Mother of God. Thank you to our patrons on Patreon for suggesting the topic! References: Prelest For Little Eyes by Rebecca O'Loughlin Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support t...

Jul 26, 20231 hr

Scruples and the Sacraments

This week Mother Natalia talks about her recent poustinia camping experience with Sister Onuphria. We hear about the general humanness of the experience, but then Mother Natalia is able to relate it to the spiritual life and scrupulosity. References: The Spiritual Life and How to be Attuned to it by St. Theophan the Recluse Beyond Checking Boxes The Reed of God by Caryll Houselander Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael...

Jul 19, 20231 hr 8 min

God's-Will Sized Family with Sean and Rebecca O'

This week we're joined by Sean and Rebecca O'Loughlin, brother and sister-in-law of Father Michael. We talk about their early friendship and dating, realizing love for each other, and family life. We also talk about pregnancies and births, both easier and difficult, miscarriages, fostering, and adoption. Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a t...

Jul 12, 20231 hr 7 min

Love Cuts Deep

This week Mother Natalia reflects on her recent retreat which used some of the steps from AA as inspiration. She talks about discovering ways in which she bargains with God on giving up certain sins, and talks about the hurt and healing that comes in the process of giving up sins. References: Eustace Scrubb by Sarah Sparks Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our No...

Jul 05, 202359 min

Our Beautiful Faith

On today's episode, Fr. Michael reflects on his recent trip to the Holy Land. He talks about community found in our faith and seeking the truth. Fr. Michael talks about the different ways we can be led to the faith, and how God uses those different ways to help us see the good, true, and beautiful. If you're in the Colorado area, don't skip the banter! Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroo...

Jun 28, 20231 hr 2 min

Untwisting Intentions

On today's episode Fr. Michael talks about seeing good in the midst of negative interactions with people. He talks about how God created everything good and how when we sin we're still seeking the good. Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

Jun 21, 202343 min

Always Seeking What is Good

Today Mother Natalia reflects on Pentecost, the return of praying the Heavenly King prayer, and kneeling and penance that is reintroduced after the celebration of Pentecost. Plus we’ve got a mini-topic on angels! Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

Jun 14, 20231 hr 3 min

How Do You Talk to Jesus?

This week Fr. Michael and Mother Natalia talk about prayer. Mother Natalia talks a little bit about what the term "spousal prayer" means at her monastery. We talk about the "outcome" of prayer and advancing in prayer. References: Beginning to Pray by Metropolitan Anthony Bloom Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

Jun 07, 202341 min

Be Yourself. Be Present. Be Healed.

This week Mother Natalia talks about healing, living in the present moment, and allowing Our Lord to work in the present reality. Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

May 31, 20231 hr 1 min

Multiplication and Metanoia

This week Father Michael links the story of the loaves and the fishes to the story of the Samaritan woman. He talks about how we can see God working in our lives and differentiating that from the "work that we're doing." We've also got a special announcement for our Photina patrons! Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

May 24, 20231 hr 7 min

Faith and a Crisis with Barry Alvord

Today we're joined by special guest, Barry Alvord, father of Beth from our media team. Barry talks about a time in his life when he experienced three big crises, how he realized he was struggling with negative thoughts, and how he sought to counteract them. References: Our Thoughts Determine Our Lives by Elder Thaddeus The Monks of Tibhirine by John W. Kiser Wounded by Love by Elder Porphyrius Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group ...

May 17, 20231 hr 3 min

Fellowship and Foot Washing

Today's episode was inspired by a talk on Fellowship that Fr. Michael and Mother Natalia gave for God with Us Online. Fr. Michael uses today's episode to talk about all the stuff they didn't have time for in that talk. Fr. Michael and Mother Natalia talk about the importance of fellowship, serving others, and foot washing. References: Fellowship, the talk for God With Us Online Setting the Table by Danny Meyer Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our...

May 11, 20231 hr 6 min

God Promises, God Fulfills

Today's episode is a recording of the talk Mother Natalia gave at the SoCal Byzantine Retreat Day in March. Mother Natalia talks about the promises God makes to us and that He fulfills His promises. She uses the scripture of the day for the feast of the Annunciation to link the promises in the Annunciation to the promises made in the Old Testament, and then talks about ways we can see God's promises to us in our lives. References: Luke 1:26-38 The Year of Grace of the Lord Follow and Contact Us!...

May 03, 20231 hr 3 min

Preventing Shame

Today Fr. Michael talks about shame, the causes of it and what we can do to prevent it. We talk about how Jesus approaches us in our sin, looking to cover our shame but not hide our sin, and how we can use that same approach with ourselves and others we encounter. We have practical discussion about "shaming" others, and how that can be problematic when we do not know the entire story. References: How to Profit From Your Faults by Joseph Tissot Talk by Fr. Stephen Freeman Follow and Contact Us! F...

Apr 26, 20231 hr

Beyond Checking Boxes

This week Fr. Michael talks about how we're all called to live authentic Catholic lives, striving for salvation of souls and not necessarily "checking the Catholic boxes". He specifically talks about how parish priests and monastics can help the laity in this regard, and how the needs of parishes differ from one parish to the next. Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Websi...

Apr 19, 20231 hr 8 min

Sharing Graces Live

Father Michael and Mother Natalia recorded this episode live in California! On today’s episode they talk about the longing Israel had for God to fulfill His promises, and how we also have desires God longs to fulfill. Our aches and His promises are gifts. References: Watch it Live! Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Website Our Nonprofit Send us a text Support the show...

Apr 12, 20231 hr 12 min

Letting Gifts be Gifts

This week Mother Natalia continues with her topic of goodness from her last episode, and uses a homily as a jumping off point to talk about gifts. The homily followed the reading about Noah and the flood, and talked about how Noah and the people in the Ark were waiting for the gift of land to be able to live. Mother Natalia also talks about the difference between gifts and the giver, and how we can have attachments to the gifts instead of the giver. We also have a listener suggested mini topic a...

Apr 05, 202359 min

Homily Writing with Fr. Nathan Symeon

This week Fr. Michael is joined by special guest, Fr. Nathan Symeon. Fr. Nathan and Fr. Michael walk through the readings for that Sunday and talk about the themes they're hearing in the readings which they use for a homily. References: Married Priesthood Leaning In (episode on fasting) Hebrews 11: 24-26, 32-40, 12:1-2 John 1: 43-51 Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitter Christ the Bridegroom Monastery Our Webs...

Mar 29, 20231 hr 6 min

Word from a Poustinik: Goodness

This week Mother Natalia reflects on goodness and our inherit goodness given to us from God. She talks about the ways in which we are less than human when we do not choose the good and the ways that our free will is supposed to help us choose the good. References: Therapy of Spiritual Illnesses by Dr. Jean-Claude Larchet Eyes to See The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis Christy by Catherine Marshall Live Recording Details: When: March 26th, 4 PM PST Where: Proto-Cathedral of St. Mary Byzantine Catholic C...

Mar 22, 20231 hr

Children in Church

Today we're joined by special guest Pauline Meert. Pauline is the co-founder of Sophia Montessori Academy in Denver, Colorado. Pauline gives some practical suggestions of engaging kids in church, how our expectations should change for the children based on their age, and why we should bring our kids to church. References: Mass Chaos - previous episode on Catholic Stuff You Should Know The Giver by Lois Lowry Contact Pauline: [email protected] Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram...

Mar 15, 20231 hr 12 min

Immortal Combat

This week Mother Natalia talks about ways she's encountered God and His joy, despite going through a very hard time in her life. She talks about her grandmother's funeral and how that impacted her and her family, and she vulnerably talks about her prayer life and her candid prayers. References: SoCal Byzantine Catholic Day Retreat Natalia - Movie about Mother Natalia's Life Profession Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Micha...

Mar 08, 20231 hr 13 min

Word From a Homilist: Looking at God

In today's episode Father Michael reflects on homilies for our pre-Lenten gospels, Zacchaeus Sunday and the Sunday of the Publican and the Pharisee. The homilies are ones he's given as well as homilies given by other priests. References: Byzantine Gospel Reflections Searching for the Searcher - previous episode on Zacchaeus Fr. John Kachuba's Last Homily for Meatfare Sunday Follow and Contact Us! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook We're on YouTube ! Join our Goodreads Group Fr. Michael's Twitte...

Mar 01, 20231 hr 13 min
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