This episode is philosophizing, listener! Chelsea Cutler is a singer, songwriter, producer, and one of your favorite queer musicians with over 3 billion global streams and worldwide tours, but today she’s in the apartment to take a tour through your BODY. In addition, we have the incredible comedian Emily Wilson filling in as co-host! We discuss queer identity, when one can claim that they’re gay, the power of music, and how queerness is, like, totally a dope space. Ashley found romance through ...
Apr 13, 2026•1 hr 8 min
This episode is going all in, listener! Andrea Allan is an unfathomably funny podcaster, comedian, and co-host of “Respectfully” alongside Lizzy Cassidy, but today she’s in the apartment to “respectfully” pipe you down! We discuss exploring your bisexuality in the Burning Man orgy tent, the dynamics of using a strap on, embracing the chaos of coming out, and getting diseases from butt-munching. Ashley needs sex therapy. Lizzy gets strapped down (poorly). FOLLOW ANDREA ALLAN: Listen to “Respectfu...
Apr 06, 2026•1 hr 8 min
This episode is BI, listener! Franchesca Ramsey is an actor, comedian, writer, and producer known for her hyper-viral content and award-winning series “MTV Decoded”, but today she’s in the apartment to taste the sexual rainbow! We discuss bisexuality, polyamory, dating a man and a woman at the SAME time, coming out late in life, and encountering genital piercings so crazy that it stops sex. Ashley combats gay shame. Lizzy only dates long distance. FOLLOW FRANCHESCA RAMSEY: Listen to “Lemme Fix I...
Mar 30, 2026•1 hr 12 min
This episode is POETIC, listener! Eileen Myles (they/them) is a celebrated poet, novelist, and journalist best known for “Chelsea Girls” and poems that queers everywhere tattoo onto their arms, but today they’re in the apartment to SEDUCE! We break format this episode to interview Eileen and learn about their career, history, and legendary love life. In-between, we discuss art, coming out, New York in the 70s, and how camp is the best place to have queer sex. Oh - and Ashley might even read one ...
Mar 23, 2026•1 hr 9 min
This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you can absolutely positively FUMBLE the one opportunity to break said dry spell. Ashley gets called ugly...
Mar 16, 2026•1 hr 9 min
This episode is historic, listener! Jenny Zigrino (Conan, JFL, Don’t Tell) is a hilarious stand up comedian, writer, and performer that breaks boundaries, but today she’s in the apartment to thrust DEEP… into history. We discuss queer history in Colonial America, attraction to masculinity regardless of gender, drag, burlesque, and how bisexuals are pretty dang cool. Ashley has sex on a timer. Lizzy queens out with a taxi driver. FOLLOW JENNY ZIGRINO: Get tix to her show in Denver, 3/12: https://...
Mar 09, 2026•1 hr 10 min
If you have the funds, Donate to Kylie’s GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kylie-kick-brain-lesion-ass (TW \\ SA; skip 42:44 - 49:33 to avoid) This episode is SICK, listener! Kylie Vincent is a stand up comedian, writer, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she’s phoning into the apartment fresh out of the hospital. Kylie got a freaking BRAIN LESION, so we take some time to check in on how she’s doing alongside Ashley’s girlfriend, Jen Davis. We discuss her trials and tribulations in t...
Mar 02, 2026•1 hr 5 min
This episode is a POWER BOTTOM, listener! Chrissy Chlapecka is an enchanting musician, content creator, and activist that’s about to kick off a nation-wide tour, but today she’s returning to the apartment for some verse activity as an out-and-proud LESBIAN! We discuss topping as a high-femme lesbian, methods to approach that with your butch GF, overcoming comphet, and the best queer scenes across the US. Ashley power bottoms for the first time. Lizzy gets spat on. FOLLOW CHRISSY CHLAPECKA: She’s...
Feb 23, 2026•1 hr 7 min
This episode is HORRIFIC, listener! Roz Hernandez is a mind-blowing stand up comedian, podcaster, actor, and paranormal export that has been sending people to the afterlife with laughter, but today she’s in the apartment to investigate the most GHASTLY ick she has ever encountered on a date! We discuss purposely being given the ick by people you’re trying to date, only dating queer people, identity, labels, and cruises. People try to make Ashley trans. Lizzy hooks up with a semi-famous celebrity...
Feb 16, 2026•1 hr 1 min
Go watch Kate’s NEW stand up special RIGHT NOW: http://Of.tv/lmaof130 or https://bio.site/KateSisk . Kate Sisk is a beloved comedian, writer, and the former co-host / “cancel coach” of WHGS! But today, he’s BACK in the apartment to make a movie…and it’s RATED X! We discuss watching queer adult content, bizarre videos, seeing your friends in said videos, & suckin’ self. Oh yeah, and the set may or may not completely fall apart. Ashley got too high. Lizzy’s queer vices get exposed. FOLLOW KATE...
Feb 09, 2026•53 min
This episode has been years in the making, listener! It’s a DUO episode today as we are joined by Alayna Joy, an incredible queer therapist, content creator, and co-host on Ashley’s other podcast, Chosen Family. However today she’s coming into the WHGS apartment, because Ashley banged her doppelganger?! In-between the details of this epic story, we discuss getting married after coming out 6 years ago, compulsory heterosexuality, discovering bisexuality on YouTube, and melatonin. Enjoy! FOLLOW AL...
Feb 02, 2026•1 hr 8 min
This episode is trying new things, listener! Sarah Keyworth (they/them) is an award-winning stand up comedian & podcaster that’s been taking the UK by storm, but today they're in the apartment from across the pond to teach us naughty students a lesson! We discuss your friends taking dominatrix lessons in their 30s, coping with bad times, biking, gaming, and how 3D printing is a massive turn off. Ashley beefs with a homophobic troll while gaming. Bre can’t pee. FOLLOW SARAH KEYWORTH: See them...
Jan 26, 2026•1 hr 5 min
This episode is running experiments, listener! Carson Olshansky (they/them) is a fantastic stand-up comedian, writer, and creator that you’ve seen blowing up your social media feeds, but today they’re in the apartment to fingerblast you so accurately you’ll scream “Eureka!” We discuss a/b testing the best finger for bangin’, finding sexual compatibility, dating mascs with a complicated identity, and having LEGITIMATE trauma from Jimmy Buffet’s “Margaritaville.” Ashley gets boob-honked HARD. Lizz...
Jan 19, 2026•1 hr 8 min
This episode is breaking new ground, listener! Vico Ortiz (HBO Max, Adventure Time) is an enchanting Puerto Rican drag king, actor, and activist that is pushing boundaries in the media, but today they’re in the apartment to pop our drag king cherry! In addition, all of our usual co-hosts are tied up, away, or sick, so Ashley’s girlfriend Jen Davis fills in as our temporary co-host! We discuss polyamory, relationship anarchy, decolonizing your life, tricking straights into reading queer smut, and...
Jan 12, 2026•1 hr 6 min
This episode is saying all the wrong things, listener! Yvette Segan is a fan-favorite stand up comedian, actor, writer, and podcaster with over 400k followers across all platforms from her hilarious videos. However, today she RETURNS to the apartment because she’s finally in a queer relationship — she's dating a bisexual man! We discuss queerness in straight-passing relationships, being so in love that you’re writing poetry (gay), dating vs. self worth, and making dated assumptions about queers ...
Jan 05, 2026•1 hr 3 min
Happy Holidays, Bottoms! To celebrate everything you have done for us, enjoy this special highlight reel of some of the best moments from our Patreon bonus series, “You’re Having Gay Sex,” where we read and react to stories submitted by you! In addition, Ashley gives an extra long holiday message, answering some of your gayest questions about the holidays. Gather round your chosen family and get ready for some of YOUR most hilarious moments! Want even more bonus? SUPPORT THE PODCAST: Patreon: ht...
Dec 29, 2025•1 hr 9 min
This episode is risking it all, listener! Brandon Rogers is a massive queer actor, content creator, and comedian that’s had you laughing on everything, from YouTube sketches to shows like “Helluva Boss.” However, today he’s in the apartment to have you GASPING from the situations he has put himself in! We discuss your first time having gay sex getting interrupted by your partner’s family walking in, acting, representation, the depth & beauty of queer characters, and interior design. Ashley a...
Dec 22, 2025•1 hr 2 min
This episode is flirty, listener! Catherine McCafferty is an enchanting actor, stand-up, podcaster, and host of the hit internet series “Pretty Gay,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to make Ashley malfunction! In addition, beloved co-host Breanne Williamson joins us from the great North! We discuss crying because of a bad hookup, your friends stealing your bed, sexting, how to flirt with gorgeous gay women, and wanting nothing more than to be so good in bed that you ruin lives. Ashley...
Dec 15, 2025•1 hr 5 min
This episode is taking its time, listener! Freddie Shanel (they/them) is an absolutely hilarious up-and-coming comedian whose work you’ve seen on your TikTok feed or Reductress, but today they’re in the apartment to work on shedding their long-time gay virginity! We discuss being a late bloomer in queer sex, how awkward your first time can be, the appropriate grammatical usage of neo-pronouns, and how Freddie’s girlfriend has been a WHGS fan since DAY ONE! Ashley bangs a pure lesbian. Lizzy does...
Dec 08, 2025•1 hr 12 min
This episode is a MILESTONE, listener! To celebrate the 300th episode of WHGS, we are joined by beloved co-host and dear friend Ali Kolbert to bring things full circle: this podcast started alongside Ashley’s relationship with Jen, so it’s only right that we have another life milestone alongside an episode milestone! We strategize how Ashley should propose to her girlfriend, and even manage to fit in discussions about relationship mementos, intimacy kink, shadow work, boob reductions, and the po...
Dec 01, 2025•1 hr 7 min
This episode is in Simlish, listener! Chloe Moriondo is an incredible singer-songwriter with over 1M monthly listeners, collabs with queer legends, and even music in THE SIMS, but today she’s in the apartment to play her music in your boomBOX (if you catch my drift). In addition, Kylie Vincent is joining us on a quick trip back from LA! We discuss song-writing, making music for The Sims, the internet, coming out as queer when young, and playing with ALL the pronouns in your gender presentation. ...
Nov 24, 2025•1 hr 10 min
This episode is queer history, listener! Gabe Dunn is an iconic writer, podcaster, and filmmaker that has pioneered queer content since the days of Buzzfeed Video, but today he’s in the apartment to break down the most iconic lesbian hookup in internet history! We discuss Gabe’s fabled hookup with Stevie Boebi and Anna Akana many years ago, activism in the modern age, how to fight back against an administration hostile to queer people, and the various problems within the queer community that are...
Nov 17, 2025•1 hr 10 min
This episode is non-binary, listener! Dan Docimo (they/them) is an incredible up-and-coming comedian that opens for some of the biggest comedy acts in the world, but today they’re in the apartment to open some LEGS! We discuss being non-binary in a very straight field, staying sane in a gendered world, dating not going well, and not putting in much effort at all to change all that, anyways. Ashley is a pincher. Lizzy goes butch on her toilet. Follow Dan on IG, Twitter/X, & TikTok: https://ww...
Nov 10, 2025•1 hr 8 min
This episode is ALARMING, listener! Claire Sundbye is a queer stand-up comedian and writer that opens for Ashley all across the Midwest, but today she’s in the apartment to open up Pandora’s Box — because she’s suddenly BANGING MEN?!?! We discuss sleeping with men and enjoying it after living as a lesbian for your whole life, why this may have happened, the sexual and emotional trauma fueling it all, and growing up queer surrounded by the notoriously hateful Westboro Baptist Church. Also we talk...
Nov 03, 2025•1 hr 9 min
This episode is deeply informative, listener! Harrison Browne is a transgender actor, filmmaker, and former professional hockey player in the National Women’s Hockey League, but today he’s in the apartment to silence the moral panic around trans athletes in sports ONCE AND FOR ALL! We discuss coming out as trans in a professional sports league, testosterone vs. athletic performance, the nuances of regulations around transgender players, and bizarre gay sex scandals in Boise. Ashley transitions i...
Oct 27, 2025•1 hr 5 min
This episode is DEEP and PHILOSOPHICAL, listener! Gianmarco Soresi is a wholly unique stand-up comedian, podcaster, and writer with a new special, “Thief of Joy” out RIGHT NOW, but today he’s in the apartment to out HIMSELF! We discuss visiting Fire Island with your girlfriend in order to flirt with men, straight vs. gay sexual dynamics, Taylor Swift, and money’s effects on the creation of art. Ashley sleeps with a witch. Lizzy ponders language and comedy. Watch his new special, “Thief of Joy,” ...
Oct 20, 2025•1 hr 7 min
This episode is rock n’ roll CHAOS, listener! Leandra Earl is the stunning guitarist for The Beaches, one of the hottest rock bands working, but today she’s in the apartment to become the band’s LOVER?! We discuss fighting band-mate relationship allegations, coming out later in life, masc fashion tips, threesomes with friends, and much much more. Yeah, there’s also some tips about how to save your cat. And yeah, there’s a Trump-off too. Things really break format this time, listeners. See The Be...
Oct 13, 2025•1 hr 6 min
This episode is RAUNCHY, listener! Lauren Chan is an iconic model, writer, entrepreneur, and the first ever lesbian to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, but today she’s in the apartment to show off what’s *underneath*, listener! We discuss compulsive heterosexuality, blowing up your marriage to be lesbian, couch sex, and findom. Ashley bangs a hippie. Ali tries to recreate a movie sex scene. Also, we unveil the first WHGS BABE OF THE WEEK!!! Follow Lauren on IG and Tik Tok:...
Oct 06, 2025•1 hr 2 min
This episode is NERDY, listener! Gabby Bryan is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, actor, and Emmy-award winning producer, but today she’s cosplaying as a magical fairy wanting to dance in your forest! We discuss the Renaissance Fair and being an undercover weirdo, assuming a masculine role in lesbian relationships, the toxicity that can emerge from that, and how bisexuals most certainly cannot drive. Ashley has a bizarre podcast fan. Lizzy gets gay married / Chuck-and-Larry’d. Follow on ...
Sep 29, 2025•1 hr 3 min
This episode is deeply informative, listener! Stevie Boebi is an iconic queer sex educator, content creator, and OG lesbian YouTuber that has pioneered internet queer content, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to pioneer new ways to GET US OFF! We discuss polyamory, censorship of queer content, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS), unpacking sexual trauma, and a variety of other important topics! And at some point, Stevie Bobbi scissors on camera (but not really). Is Ashley polyamorous? Is Kyli...
Sep 22, 2025•1 hr 4 min
