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We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71www.studio71.com
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com   We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4  Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

Episodes

Despite Being Lesbian, Emma Dalenberg Dates Men | WHGS Ep. 263

This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a dishy dame. Kylie sets boundaries. You can follow Emma on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.insta...

Mar 10, 20251 hr 9 min

Kate Sisk Reacts to YOUR Crazy Stories | WHGS Ep. 262

This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc hookups and locking people out of a home to bang. In-between, we...

Mar 03, 202554 min

Grace Reiter is a Gold-Star Virgin | WHGS Ep. 261

This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities like playing Minecraft. Ashley bangs her boss. Kylie wrestles with snakes. You can follow Grace on ...

Feb 24, 20251 hr 9 min

How to Date a Trans Woman w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 260

This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality crises, and how long you have to be on estrogen before you earn your slur rights. Ashley gives her t...

Feb 17, 20251 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 260

Interviewing the Manager of a Legal Brothel (w/ Madam Tara) | WHGS Ep. 259

This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patrons who seek them out. This episode has it all: elderly lesbians using the brothel to explore polyamo...

Feb 10, 20251 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 259

Akeem Woods Easily Attracts Porn Stars | WHGS Ep. 258

This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked off to this podcast. Ashley is the 5th wheel. Maddie starts GLP-1s...

Feb 03, 20251 hr 10 minSeason 1Ep. 258

Lizzy Cassidy Unlocks the Most Vile Queer Ick | WHGS Ep. 257

This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs to embrace her true identity that she’s been shoving down: goth. Ashley gets gay in Thailand. Maddi...

Jan 27, 20251 hr 15 minSeason 1Ep. 257

Irene Tu DENIES Non-Binary Identity | WHGS Ep. 256

This episode is genderless and asexual, listener! Irene Tu is a side-splitting comedian, writer, WHGS regular, and self-prescribed “nun” who never has sex, but today she’s in the apartment to spurn ace identity regardless. We go DEEP on philosophy this episode as we discuss rejecting both gendered AND genderless labels, reconciling how you perceive yourself vs. how people perceive you, and how the only thing stopping Irene from being asexual is that they’re dorks. Ashley bushwhacks a pubic fores...

Jan 20, 20251 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 256

The Entire Cast of “The Bachelor” Hates Me… w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 255

This episode is scandalous, listener! Our dear co-host and Canadian compatriot Breanne Williamson has RETURNED to the apartment from her mental health break, but today she’s in the apartment to break your BACK! We have a big catch up this week and discuss Bre’s sabbatical, lesbians in Florida, encountering vehement homophobes in the wild, and how Bre has been hiding a secret weapon: massive boobs. Even crazier, Ashley finally confronts “The Bachelor” cast member that dated her girlfriend and blo...

Jan 13, 20251 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 255

First Time Daddy w/ Watts the Safe Word (REMASTER) | WHGS Ep. 254

This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight another classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon! It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from the "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gabriel calls someone daddy for the first time. You can f...

Jan 06, 20251 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 254

Breanne Williamson is Quick Switch Bre (REMASTER) | WHGS Ep. 253

This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight a classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon! Breanne Williamson dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "opposite hand" lesbian relationship. Ashley has phone sex and gets vulnerable. Gabriel goes too...

Dec 30, 20241 hr 21 minSeason 1Ep. 253

Snow Tha Product Will Do Bromance | WHGS Ep. 252

This episode is for the bros, listener! Snow The Product is an incredible rapper, singer, and podcaster whose music has topped charts and gained millions of views, but today she’s in the apartment to get some views on your BODY! We discuss coming out late in life after having children with a man, being a woman in a male-dominated field, abstaining from sex when visiting in-laws, and how you should definitely NOT surround yourself with employees that are ugly. Ashley can’t find the boob. Kylie ha...

Dec 23, 20241 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 252

Abigail Thorn Has a (S)existential Crisis | WHGS Ep. 251

This episode is a philosophical one, listener! Abigail Thorn (House of the Dragon, The Acolyte) is an actor, writer, and content creator that dives deep into ideas on “Philosophy Tube,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to dive deep inside YOU! We discuss sexuality crises after good dates, the challenges of being a transgender actor, transphobia and freedom of expression in the UK, and getting banned from dating apps for being yourself. Ashley hits the red light district. Maddie unravel...

Dec 16, 20241 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 251

Georgia Bridgers Takes Self-Love Too Far | WHGS Ep. 250

This episode is an egocentric one, listener! Fan-favorite Georgia Bridgers is an actor, content creator, hot gay jester, and dear friend of the WHGS podcast, but today she’s finally joining us LIVE IN THE APARTMENT to get frisky with she, herself, and hers! We discuss touching yourself to the thought of yourself, having Tourette syndrome, and the ultimate pain of hitting your head while cleaning up after cats. Ashley burns her cooch. Maddie has butt cysts. You can follow Georgia on IG, Twitter, ...

Dec 09, 20241 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 250

Carmen Lagala and I Date the Same Woman | WHGS Ep. 249

This episode is a juicy one, listener! Carmen Lagala is a hilarious stand-up comedian and writer who has charmed you with her whimsical comedy on the Late Show with Stephen Colbert, but today she’s in the apartment to charm you into some LOVIN’! We discuss going on dates with the same exact woman, cradle-snatching your boyfriend as a 40 year old woman, and being an endless supporter of liberty…basketball. Ashley impresses her surrogate mother. Kylie shoots her shot (out of a bazooka). You can fo...

Dec 02, 20241 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 249

Brittany Carney Is a Fairy In Your Armpit Forest | WHGS Ep. 248

This episode is a smelly one, listener! Brittany Carney is a one-of-a-kind standup comedian and writer that will have you rolling on the floor laughing, but today she’s in the apartment to roll around in your beautiful armpit stench! We discuss the various smells of the human body, getting lost in armpit forests, and kissing girls while looking for your laptop. Ashley traces your scent. Maddie does cotillion. You can follow Brittany on IG and Tik Tok: https://www.instagram.com/brittany.goblin.ca...

Nov 25, 20241 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 248

Tiffani Faison Cooks the Perfect Dish For Date Night | WHGS Ep. 247

This episode is a tasty one, listener! Tiffani Faison is a superstar chef, restaurateur, judge on “Chopped,” and winner of “Tournament of Champions,” but today she’s in the apartment to win your heart, taste buds, and loins with a delicious dish! In addition, Ashley’s girlfriend and actor Jen Davis fills in as temporary co-host while the other co-hosts are away! We discuss the perfect ingredients for a successful date night meal, her path to becoming a chef, why there are so many lesbians in the...

Nov 18, 20241 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 247

The WHGS Family Saves Their Children (A.K.A. Pets) | WHGS Ep. 246

This episode is a cozy one, listener! It’s a family episode today as we are joined by both of our beloved co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Kylie Vincent, and sadly we must put aside sex and go all-hands-on-deck to save our KIDS! We discuss pets and the special healing bonds they form, giving the old “Gypsy Rose-Blanchard” treatment to your dog, and golden showers. Ashley is having sex in her sleep (featuring Jaime Wolf). Maddie is saving her ill rabbits. Kylie is closing the cyc...

Nov 11, 20241 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 246

Kate Sisk is BACK and Better Than Ever | WHGS Ep. 245

Kate is running an amazing hour of stand-up on Wednesday, 11/13, at the NYC UCB Theater! Support our Cancel Coach and get tickets at: https://ucbcomedy.com/show/kate-sisk-nycf/ This episode is LONG-AWAITED, listener! Kate Sisk is a stand-up comedian, writer, and former co-host/beloved “Cancel Coach” of the WHGS Podcast, but today they’re back in the apartment to update us on their new, improved self. You’ve been asking for them back, and we’re finally providing! We discuss starting testosterone ...

Nov 04, 20241 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 245

Izzy & Emma (Turtlewithhat) Get a Kissing Intervention | WHGS Ep. 244

This episode is a wholesome one, listeners! Izzy & Emma, also known as Turtlewithhat, are a pair of content creators and filmmakers that are deeply in love, but today they’re in the apartment to go deep inside of YOU! We take a break from our traditional story format to dive deep into the story of Izzy & Emma: how they met, when they came out, how their love blossomed, and how it all translated into sick content. More importantly, between all the discussions of fidgets and firings of our produce...

Oct 28, 20241 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 244

Austen Faggen Strips for Trans Rights | WHGS Ep. 243

This episode is a groovy one, listener! Austen Faggen is a television writer that has been behind some of your favorite shows like “Undateable”, “The Neighborhood,” and “Everybody Still Hates Chris,” but today he’s behind YOU, ready to give you a lap dance! We discuss working as a stripper after getting fired for speaking up about trans rights, the allure of sleeping with the opposite sex via threeway, and how being a nerd makes you stand out at the strip club. Ashley is dreaming about boys. Kyl...

Oct 21, 20241 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 243

Mal Glowenke Manifests Craigslist Kisses | WHGS Ep. 242

This episode is a witchy one, listeners! Mal Glowenke is a podcaster, content creator, and late-in-life Lesbian that is sharing her journey with the world, but today she’s in the apartment to share with us the secret to manifesting PUSSY! In addition, fan-favorite stand up comedian Ali Kolbert steps in as our temporary co-host! We discuss positive vibrations and the powers of manifesting, coming out later in life, secret lesbian hookups on Craigslist, and how there’s nothing hotter than bangin’ ...

Oct 14, 20241 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 242

Weezy WTF Tries Kink That Will Make You Furious | WHGS Ep. 241

This episode is a SAUCY ONE, listeners! Weezy WTF is a genius sex expert, writer, and podcaster that is dedicated to destigmatizing kink for people of color, but today she’s in the apartment to introduce Bottom Nation to the FREAK SIDE! We discuss a whole plethora of topics in the sex and kink world, like the gender’s roles within sex, attraction vs. fetishization, pee play, and other stuff that’s so nasty, you need to listen to learn more. Ashley is throbbing down there. Maddie is learning from...

Oct 07, 20241 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 241

Russell Daniels is (No) Magic Mike | WHGS Ep. 240

Today’s episode is an absolute riot! Russell Daniels is a hilarious actor who’s the star of “Titanique,” the understudy of Josh Gad, and co-host of “The Downside” with Gianmarco Soresi, but today he’s in the apartment to bring you down to the underbelly of New York acting! We discuss terrible jobs and their effect on your confidence, the nuance and ethics of drag performance in comedy, and how selling magic at Toys R Us is one of the least magical things in existence. Ashley is hitting on boys f...

Sep 30, 20241 hr 15 minSeason 1Ep. 240

Remy Kassimir’s Ultimate Date Night for Bisexuals | WHGS Ep. 239

Fan-favorite Remy Kassimir is a stand up comedian, writer, and host of award-winning podcast “How C*m,” but today she’s in the apartment to share some FORBIDDEN KNOWLEDGE with you bisexuals in the crowd! We go full reaction mode today as Remy brings in a variety of topics, and we discuss the chaos of coming out, queerbaiting, the smokin’ hot stars at this year’s VMA’s, and whether or not everything is either a salad or a sandwich. Finally, Remy shares with us the ULTIMATE date night for bisexual...

Sep 23, 20241 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 239

Lesley Hart Gets Stuck in Lesbian Purgatory | WHGS Ep. 238

Lesley Hart is an incredible Scottish actor and playwright who is best known for her great work on the long-running Scottish series “River City,” but today she is here to work on a way to get into your PANTS! On another installment of Ashley’s Fringe Fest podcasts, we discuss the long journey to fully coming out as queer, surviving closeted relationships, being an older queer, and how the hottest kind of woman is one who is HOSTILE! Ashley can’t crack Scotland (sexually). Lesley was in lesbian p...

Sep 16, 20241 hr 1 minSeason 1Ep. 238

Anna Akana Gets Trapped in a YouTuber 3way | WHGS Ep. 237

(TW // Self-harm; skip 30:42 - 38:23 to avoid) Anna Akana is an amazing actor, comedian, and veteran content creator who has been making you laugh on YouTube since 2011, but today she’s hopping on the podcast to make you NUT!!! From the backstage of our theater at the Fringe Festival, we discuss losing your gay virginity to YouTubers, struggling with bisexuality, mental health, and how masc lesbians may only be pulling due to supply and demand. Ashley is planning her proposal to Jen. Anna is fli...

Sep 09, 20241 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 237

Tayla Parx’s Exes Invade Her Birthday | WHGS Ep. 236

Tayla Parx is a singer, songwriter, and four-time Grammy nominee who has written chart-topping tracks for Ariana Grande, Panic! at the Disco, and Khalid, but today she’s in the apartment to write some EROTICA! We discuss how staying friends with your exes can go terribly wrong, the nuances of gender and queerness in songwriting, and what one must sacrifice to become the first gay Kardashian. Ashley is getting rejected. Maddie is saving gay rabbits. You can follow Tayla on IG, Twitter, and Tik To...

Sep 02, 20241 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 236

Kylie Vincent and I Fall In Love After Going Deep | WHGS Ep. 235

Kylie Vincent is an amazing stand up comedian, writer, and one of the beloved co-hosts of WHGS, but today SHE is the one sitting on the couch to give all of US a chance at GETTIN’ IT! In a radical departure from the standard podcast format, we take a dive-in deep into the mind of Kylie and get to know our partner-in-pussy a bit better, touching on everything from abusive relationships to finding respect for your queer identity, and the existence of soulmates. Finally, we take some write-ins from...

Aug 26, 20241 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 235

Brandon Contreras Runs a Relationship PYRAMID SCHEME? | WHGS Ep. 234

Brandon Contreras is an iconic non-binary actor, writer, creator, and star of the hit off-Broadway show “Titanique,” but today he’s in the apartment to recruit you into their MLM (Men-Loving-Men)! We discuss polyamory and levels of love, the beauty of queer collaboration, and how the best way to flirt with a gay man is not talk at all. Ashley is getting jealous. Kylie is getting lucky. You can find Brandon on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/ohhey_brandon/ https://www.tiktok.co...

Aug 19, 20241 hr 10 minSeason 1Ep. 234