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We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaarart19.com

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

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Episodes

Taking Someone Back After They Cheat Ft. Paige DeSorbo from Summer House

In this episode with Paige from Summer House, we talk about turning friendship into a relationship, dating an older guy, taking someone back who cheated on you, men who care about religion, the effects of reality TV, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

May 26, 201940 minEp. 86

Ghosts Who Haunt Us, and Who Proposes With Two Guys ft. Mike Kelton

In this episode, Mike and I talk about having a finsta, ghosts, mental health, who proposes in a gay couple, skipping the engagement period, the proposal photo that has a dick in it, the gay mating call look, spray tanning and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

May 19, 201943 minEp. 85

SURPRISE PROPOSAL: WOMAN THAT MET HER BOYFRIEND AT ACME PROPOSES

In this SPECIAL SURPRISE proposal episode, I talk to Meghan Asha and Lev Brie about how they met at Acme! We also discuss running start-ups, how entrepreneurship mentality coincides with relationship mentality, meeting once a week about your relationship, what a pre-proposal is, and of course, THE PROPOSAL! (Yes, I cried) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 12, 201946 minEp. 84

Mark Manson, author of "F*** Yes Or No"

In this episode of We Met At Acme, I sit down with one of my favorite writers Mark Manson. Mark has a new book coming out called "Everything Is Fucked." We discuss when Mark was a dating coach, what inspired him to write Fuck Yes Or No, how long you can fake having game, defining the relationship the right way, how he got his wife, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 05, 201941 minEp. 83

The Couple That Keeps A Sex Journal

In this episode, I sit down with Levina Li and Caleb Spaulding, founders and creators of "A Sex Journal." We discuss journaling after sex, Evryman, going from friends to dating, working on ourselves, navigating fights in relationships, stepping away from our narratives, talking about sex with our parents, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Apr 28, 201938 minEp. 82

F*** it, get a divorce ft. Steve Kane

In this episode, Steve and I talk about how to know if you should get a divorce, if you're unhappy in a moment vs unhappy in general, ages 26 vs 56, how much luck plays into relationships, having the same problems in different partnerships, if marriage was an 8 year contract, women who propose to men, when is the right time to divorce when you have kids, what men are like when women aren't around, and much more! Get Steve's book, F*** It. Get A Divorce: A Guide For Optimists: https://amzn.to/2P3...

Apr 14, 201944 minEp. 80

What's Acceptable To Ask A Queer Person, And Moving On Fast Is Okay

In this episode, Ali and I discuss what "brunch" has become, how she met her current girlfriend IRL, the stigma around moving on really fast, stalking your partner's social media, how important trust is, how you should break up if you have a desire to cheat, your partner being your social currency, putting me in my place when it comes to lesbian questions, telling our partners if we masturbate, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at htt...

Apr 07, 201939 minEp. 79

Singer/Songwriter Jake Miller

In this episode, Jake and I talk about how he got into music, his big break, aim away messages, opening for Snoop Dogg, his friendship with Colton Underwood, people who go on dating apps to look for friends, when it's appropriate to be on your phone, tattoos, crying during yoga, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Mar 31, 201946 minEp. 78

Scheana from Vanderpump Rules

In this episode, Scheana and I talk about how Vanderpump Rules began in the first place, the Eddie Cibrian/Brandy drama, her current relationship status, being married to someone with addiction, why she froze her eggs, hooking up with John Mayer, who she would get rid of on Vanderpump, and SO much more! This episode is sponsored by Scentbird. Head to Scentbird.com/ACMEand use my code ACME for 50% off your first month! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice ...

Mar 24, 201944 minEp. 77

Dating and Attraction Coach Connell Barrett

In this episode, Connell and I discuss the no game game, being vulnerable, how men overthink dating, getting out of the friendzone, the difference between pick up artists and sincere guys, roadblocks for men when dating, attracting vs connecting, male insecurities, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Mar 17, 201939 minEp. 76

Dating Women, Quitting Ciggs, and Finding Someone When You Least Expect It ft. Carly Chaikin

We Met At Acme Episode 75 features my friend Carly Chaikin, best known for her role as Darlene in Mr. Robot. Carly also starred in Suburgatory, The Last Song, and many more amazing films. In this episode, Carly and I discuss finding someone when you're not looking, guys who bring up their exes, Carly's relationship with a woman, when people speak on text but are a mute in person, Liam Hemsworth, if the camera actually adds 10 lbs, quitting smoking cigarettes, and so much more. See Privacy Policy...

Mar 10, 201944 minEp. 75

Our Demons, Talking Shit, Objectifying Men, and Why You Shouldn't Take Advice From Your Single Friends ft. Hannah Berner

On this episode, Hannah and I discuss our demons, talking shit, playing tennis, tall guys, dating comedians, why you shouldn't take advice from your single friends, objectifying men, break up advice, insecurities, girls who are funny, fighting well, and so much more! This episode is sponsored by Joybird and Scentbird . 2 birds, 1 stone. Get 25% off your first Joybird order by using the code ACME and go to scentbird.com/ACME for 50% off your first scent! This episode is also sponsored by Lola . F...

Feb 24, 201938 minEp. 73

Growing Up In A Bubble And Going To Jail ft. Jonathan Shokrian

In this episode, we talk to Jonathan Shokrian aka Shok, the founder and CEO of MeUndies . We discuss Persian weddings, new relationships, Shok's experience in prison, the flaws of the system, bonds that Shok built with the other inmates, growing up in a bubble, creating scenarios where we can give back, showing up for one another, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Feb 17, 201941 minEp. 72

Adderall Addiction, Sexual Confidence, and Scams ft. Caroline Calloway

In this episode with Caroline Calloway, we talk about how she ended up at Cambridge, her quintuple Sagittarius, being labeled as a scammer, how we define influencers, adderall addiction, sexual confidence, learning how to handle Instagram fame, and more. Find Caroline on Instagram at @carolinecalloway Visit Zola.com/ACME today to start your free wedding website and also get $50 off your wedding registry! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art...

Feb 03, 20191 hr 23 minEp. 70

Guys Who Finish Quickly, Long Distance Relationships, Scheduling Sex, and Defining Relationships Before Sex ft. Thomas and Tucker

In this episode, I chat with Thomas and Tucker, co-hosts of the Undesirables Podcast . We discuss defining a relationship before sleeping together, talking during sex, being turned off, guys who finish quickly, long distance, communication priorities, scheduling sex, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Jan 27, 201940 minEp. 69

Saturn Return, Past Lives, Meeting People You Aren't Meant To Meet, and Self Awareness ft. Aliza Kelly

In this episode, Aliza and I talk about our Saturn return (it happens between late 20s and early 30s), hereditary lines, past lives, cardinal/mutable/fixed signs, dating apps, meeting people we “weren’t meant to meet”, sign compatibility, self-awareness, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Jan 20, 201945 minEp. 68

Female Entrepreneurship, Supporting Your Partner, Showing Up For People, and New York vs. LA ft. Sally Kim of Crushed Tonic

In this episode, Sally and I discuss why she created Crushed Tonic, New York people vs LA people, being a female entrepreneur, jealous guys, the importance of supporting your partner, turning networking into a date, showing up for people, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 13, 201945 minEp. 67

Dealbreakers, Dating With A Positive Attitude, Love Languages, and Moving In Together ft. Oliver Kremer of Dos Toros

In this episode, Oliver and I discuss dating apps, how technology influences our conversations, dealbreakers, dating with a positive attitude, acting with intention, intellectual connection, love languages, being adventurous in a relationship, how to tell someone you’re not into it, moving in together, and so much more. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Jan 06, 201955 minEp. 66

Britni Interviews Me On Why I Created The Podcast And We Discuss What Qualities To Look For In A Partner and Why You Shouldn't Have Sex On A First Date

In this episode, Lindsey Metselaar, host of the podcast, is interviewed by her dear friend, Britni. Lindsey discusses everything from why she created the podcast, what qualities to look for in a partner, therapy, sex on a first date, poll questions that shock her, defining a relationship, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Dec 30, 201851 minEp. 65

Bridesmaids For Hire, Worst Wedding Experiences, Opening Up To Strangers, and Being Helpful In A Wedding Party ft. Jen Glantz

In this episode, Jen and I discuss what it looks like to be a bridesmaid for hire, bad breakups, dating app romances, her worst hired bridesmaid experience(s), how opening up to strangers can be easier than opening up to friends, how to treat the people in your wedding party, and so much more. Must listen before wedding season is underway! This episode is sponsored by Lola, Fabletics, and Zola. mylola.com promo code: acme fabletics.com/acme zola.com/acme See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/p...

Dec 23, 201843 minEp. 64

Long-term Relationships, Jealousy, What Sex-Ed Didn't Teach Us, Boarding School, Energy, and STDs ft. James Kavanagh

We Met At Acme episode 63 features our first Irishman James Kavanagh! On this episode, we discuss gay long-term relationships, jealousy, what we DON’T learn from sex-ed, how to learn about good sex, the boarding school experience, attracting those who match our energy (positive attracts positive, negative attracts negative), STD/STI’s, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Dec 16, 201835 minEp. 63

Relationship Expectations, Dating Anxiety, Healing, and Intuitive Dating ft. Nikki Novo

In this episode, Nikki and I discuss putting expectations on a relationship, betas, healing, feeling the presence of people who have passed on, psychedelics, dating anxiety, Nikki’s 3 stage program, creating space within yourself, clarity on what you want, presenting your best self to the world, and much more. This episode is sponsored by Zola and Fabletics. Check out Zola.com/Acme to start your free wedding website and also get $50 off your registry and get 2 leggings for $24 when you go to Fab...

Dec 09, 201856 minEp. 62

ASMR, Religious Cults, Being Very Single, Two Week Relationships, and Bad Dating App Experiences ft. Musician Kyan Palmer

In this episode, Kyan, 24, and I talk about being veryyyy single, two-week relationships, bad dating app experiences, his desire for his partner to be a teacher, ASMR, religious cults, one of our favorite topics, sex on a first date, and so much more! This episode is sponsored by Quip and Thirdlove. Go to getquip.com/acme for a free refill pack with your purchase of a Quip toothbrush! Go to thirdlove.com/acme for 15% off your order! Thanks and have a great weekend!! See Privacy Policy at https:/...

Dec 02, 20181 hr 2 minEp. 61

Gender Reassignment Surgery, and Cyber Bullying ft. Trans Activist and Model Corey Rae

In this episode, Corey and I discuss being transgender from birth, cyber bullying, dating while trans, getting surgery, dating apps and people’s responses, transgender idols/icons, and so much more! This episode is sponsored by Shoedazzle. Go to Shoedazzle.com/ACME for 50% off your order if you sign up as a VIP today. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Nov 25, 201848 minEp. 60

Kissing And Telling, Connecting vs. Just Being Attracted, and Nick's Favorite Bachelor Date ft. Nick Viall

In this episode, Nick and I discuss his best bachelor date, connecting with someone vs just being attracted to them, kissing and telling, dating apps, how to weed out the fame-chasers vs genuinely interested women, sex on the first date, gender roles in dating, and of course, astrology. This episode is sponsored by Fabletics and Zola. Go to fabletics.com/acme now! Check out zola.com/acme too for 20% off! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art...

Nov 18, 20181 hr 1 minEp. 59

Making The First Move, Different Types Of Orgasms, The Gooch, and Proper Anal ft. Sexologist Shan Boodram

We Met At Acme Episode 58 features Shan Boody, the Martha Stewart of Intimacy. In this episode, we discuss making the first move, the steps of intimacy, consent and intent, knowing what works for you in the bedroom, different types of orgasms, doing anal the right way, the gooch, the benefits of coconut oil, and so much more! This episode is sponsored by Quip and WooMorePlay. Go to www.getquip.com/acme See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19...

Nov 11, 201854 minEp. 58

Exes Coming Out, Paying On Dates, Therapy, Dating A Comedian, and Stalking Exes ft. Sam Morril

In this episode, Sam and I talk dating apps, exes coming out as gay, fear of becoming part of his comedic act, therapy in the city, Lindsey’s love of Edward Norton, keeping tabs on exes’ social media, paying on dates, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

Nov 04, 201852 minEp. 57

Zodiac Sign Compatibility, Birth Charts, Nature Vs. Nurture, and The Importance Of The Moon ft. Nadine Jane

In this episode, Nadine and I discuss the purpose of astrological readings, the importance of the moon, sign compatibility , the meaning of Venus in retrograde, the birth chart, the houses, nature vs nurture, birth order, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

Oct 28, 20181 hr 4 minEp. 56

Dating When You're A Celeb, The #metoo Movement, And Trust In A Relationship ft. Jerry Ferrara from Entourage

We Met At Acme Episode 55 features actor Jerry Ferrera of Entourage. In this episode, we discuss how Jerry landed his gorgeous wife, pre-Entourage dating vs post-Entourage dating, what it’s like to be super famous, women expecting him to actually be like Turtle, Entourage in the era of #metoo, being happy alone, trust in a relationship, and so much more! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Oct 21, 201859 minEp. 55
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