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We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaarart19.com

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

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Episodes

Being A Work Wife, Not Wanting Kids, And How To Ask Your Partner For Help ft. Claire and Erica

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Claire and Erica from A Thing Or Two Podcast. We discuss relationship dynamics when you work together, being sure you don’t want kids, how fulfillment looks to everyone, living with friends, wanting to be like your partner, ebbs and flows in relationships and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss sabotaging relationships, dating “for fun”, distancing from friends who aren’t taking care of their mental health, and gift giving. www.mejuri....

Jul 26, 202045 minEp. 146

Dating Someone Twice Your Age, Co-Dependence In Quarantine, And Attracting The Right Partner ft. Arielle Lorre

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Arielle Lorre from The Blonde Files. We discuss age differences in relationships, moving in with a partner after 5 months, co- dependence during quarantine, and working on yourself to attract the right partner. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss talking about marriage, how to not have sex too soon, how many people to date before marriage, Will and Jada, benefits of therapy, and more! www.sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your order! Produced by D...

Jul 19, 202055 minEp. 145

Owning Your Body, High-school Sweethearts, And Testing Your Relationship ft. Cameron Rogers

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Cameron Rogers aka Freckled Foodie. We discuss the instagram obsession to not have fat rolls, testing your relationship when it’s longterm, and her marriage with her high school sweetheart. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if you think your partner should be a 10, separation anxiety during COVID, other podcasts I like, red flags while falling in love, splitting things, growing your confidence, and more! www.functionofbeauty.com/ACME for 2...

Jul 12, 202047 minEp. 144

How To Trick Men Into Thinking It’s Their Idea ft. Sarah Fraser And Andrea Lopez

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Sarah Fraser and Andrea Lopez, co-hosts of Hey Frase Podcast. We discuss celebrity gossip, dick size, leo and aquarius, making guys think things are their idea, getting married young, the 3 week 3 month 3 year rule, saturn return, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss changing last names, if love can grow if you’re not obsessed at first, anxiety over being engaged, and love languages. www.drinkhydrant.com/ACME for 25% off your first ...

Jul 05, 202051 minEp. 143

What A Matchmaker Looks For When Matching Two People ft. Emily Holmes of LastFirst

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Emily Holmes, the founder of LastFirst matchmaking. We discuss what makes a match compatible, breaking out of your type, time limits for a first date, do opposites really attract, talking about exes on dates, match- ing people with opposite political views, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I dis- cuss what rules can be broken, dating app rules, what to do when one partner isn’t a local, and moving in with my boyfriend. www.sakara.com/ACME...

Jun 28, 20201 hr 6 minEp. 142

The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets For Capturing the Heart Of Mr. Right ft. The Author herself

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Sherrie Schneider, the co-author of the famous “The Rules” book, published in 1995. We discuss what the rules are, and why it is so important to follow them. Sherrie explains how important it is for a woman to be someone that a man chooses, and not the other way around. Definitely some controversial opinions, so I’m excited to hear your responses! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss age differences, how I met my bf, manifesting someone, sayi...

Jun 21, 202050 minEp. 141

What Comes Up When Interracial Dating, Jobs In Your Early 20s, And Training Men For Other Women ft. Baylie Robinson

In this episode, I virtually sit down with published author and blogger Baylie Robinson. Baylie and I discuss the “no-contact rule,” the difference between dating a Black woman and a White woman, interracial relationships, what we need in our friendships, how to become self aware without therapy, how to talk to your Black friends, training guys to date other women, stories of us getting fired, and more! The episode starts with a solo where I discuss how mental health issues affect relationships,...

Jun 14, 202045 minEp. 140

An Easy Way For Women To Orgasm And How Important Your Friend Group Is ft. Adam Lyons

This episode starts with a solo with my friend Brihanna where we have an open conversation about what it’s like to be a Black woman in America. The episode continues with Adam Lyons, a dating coach who also happens to be in a polyamorous relationship. Adam and I discuss how to get a woman to achieve an orgasm, dealing with low testosterone, monogamy vs. polygamy, how your friend group affects your dating life, and more. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order! Produced by Dear Media See...

Jun 07, 202057 minEp. 139

Why Couples Get Divorced And The Unsexy Conversations You Should Have To Avoid It ft. Laura Wasser

In this episode, I virtually sit down with divorce attorney Laura Wasser. We discuss why couples get divorced, crucial conversations you need to have with a partner, if a pre-nup is necessary, what to look out for when dating, how much a divorce costs, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss friendship/friend groups, watching ex’s stories on Instagram, insecurities when single, and the Call Her Daddy drama. . www.drinkhydrant.com/acme or use code ACME at checkout for 25% off yo...

May 31, 202046 minEp. 138

Going Through A Break Up During Quarantine, Virtual Dating Tips, And How We Were As Teenagers ft. Kay Brown

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Kay Brown (of @Betches). We dis- cuss her break up during quarantine, tips for virtual dating, why women think the men we date are the one, what we were like as teens, our insecurities, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss masturbating, signs a relationship is going well while apart, body changes in relationships, and pressure on women to take birth control. “The Feeling Is Virtual” - Coming Soon. Produced by Dear Media See ...

May 24, 202041 minEp. 137

How To Get Them To Define Things, Dressing For Dates, And The Power Of Social Media ft. Danielle Bernstein

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Danielle Bernstein, the founder of WeWoreWhat. We talk about her new book, feeling confident in your body, quarantining with a boyfriend, what to wear on a first date, haters, what is off-limits to share online, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my mental health struggles, quarantine activities, and dating post quarantine. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice...

May 17, 202039 minEp. 136

There Is No Such Thing As Sexual Incompatibility ft. Ian Ferguson

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Ian Ferguson, an intimacy coach and teacher of the Erotic Blueprint BreakthroughTM platform, designed to radically transform how we talk about and experience sex. We discuss the 5 different types of erotic personas, how people give and receive love, how you can meet someone halfway when it comes to sex, different kinks, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss Mother’s Day, sharing phone passwords, the law of attraction, and watching po...

May 10, 202053 minEp. 135

Ending Friendships, Starting New Relationships In Quarantine, and Vanderpump Rules Gossip ft. Kristen Doute

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Kristen Doute from Vanderpump Rules. We discuss her friendship with Stassi and Katie, her book, what she would tell her 20 something self, how therapy has helped her, her new quarantine buddy, how she is portrayed in the show, her thoughts on the Vanderpump couples, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss getting broken up with out of nowhere, how to increase sex drive during quarantine, and keeping your cool being quarantined with fam...

May 03, 202047 minEp. 134

Men Want Sex, Women Want Security ft. Rob Kowalski

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Rob Kowalski. Rob is a best-sell- ing author and speaker who is best known for his views on waiting to have sex before marriage. We discussed why it’s good to wait, how men and women view sex differently, what sex can do to a relationship dynamic, living together before marriage, and more. As you can prob- ably imagine, Rob and I had many debates on this subject and did not see eye to eye. However, we did find a common ground at the end of the episode. ...

Apr 26, 202059 minEp. 133

First Relationships, Sticking Around When A Guy Doesn't Define Things, And Why Living Together Is Hard ft. My Friend Leo Sloan

In this episode, I virtually sit down with my friend and first *middle school* boyfriend Leo Sloan. Leo is the founder of the amazing New Orleans restaurant(s) Good Bird. We discuss new-ish relationships in the time of corona, first relationships, faking confidence in middle school, how it pays to stick around before they define things, and so much more. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss exes reaching out, guys who follow insta models, sexting rules, and how quarantine affects a rel...

Apr 19, 202040 minEp. 132

Pursuing A Man Successfully, Abusive Relationship Patterns, And Fighting In Quarantine ft. Jeannie and Clem

In this episode, I virtually sit down with Jeannie Mai and her boyfriend Clem. We discuss what determines an abusive relationship, finding love after going through abuse, transitioning from friends to lovers, girls pursuing guys, being parents to a dog, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss NY coming together, the keys to a 35+ year marriage for millennials, keeping it sexy during quarantine, and more! Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Causebox.com/acme wit...

Apr 12, 202053 minEp. 131

My Dating Rules, Tips For Quarantining With A Partner, And Meeting The Parents On Zoom

In this full solo episode, I discuss my dating rules, tips for quarantining with your partner, zoom matchmaking and how it is going so far, meeting my boyfriend’s par- ents over FaceTime, sexting/nudes, maintenance during corona, one night stands, staying mentally sane, and so much more! Sakara.com/ACME to get 20% off your order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Apr 05, 202037 minEp. 130

Getting Sober, Dating Sober, And A Successful Set Up ft. Sarah Levy

In this episode I sit down with my friend and writer Sarah Levy. Sarah and I discuss why she got sober, what dating is like sober, how I set her and her boyfriend up, and the benefits of sobriety. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my new relationship: how we met, and how we defined things. TheOuai.com with code: ACME for 3 Free Samples with your order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do...

Mar 29, 202038 minEp. 129

Why You Should Date A Sign You Aren’t Compatible With ft. Colin Bedell

In this episode I sit down with astrologer Colin Bedell. We discuss everything from Taylor Swift lyrics, celebrities zodiac signs, Capricorn moons, people who ask you to call you for a sec, dating someone with an incompatible chart, if astrology has a gender, the three stages of a relationship and more. This episode starts with a solo where I talk about the madness of the world right now and how to date during the coronavirus. TheOuai.com with code ACME for 3 Free Samples with your order! Produc...

Mar 22, 202058 minEp. 128

They’re Not Your Ex If They Haven’t Met Your Family, Dating Two People At Once, And Sharing Traumas ft. Dan Perlman

In this episode I sit down with comedian Dan Perlman. We discuss every- thing from how to refer to people you’ve dated, loving the idea of someone vs. them, caring for a partner when they’re sick, sharing traumas too soon, taking risks in relationships, dating two people at once, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I talk about the gray area be- fore you’re official, weird dreams I had during mercury retrograde, and how to deal with a bad work environment. Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off...

Mar 15, 202052 minEp. 127

A Live Psychic Reading, Bisexual Experiences, and Standards vs. Expectations ft. Mickey Grossman

In this episode I sit down with psychic and energy reader Mickey Grossman. Mickey tells me all about my past lives, the energy he feels around me, and what he perceives for my future. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss period sex and awkward things you have to do when you first start dating. FunctionOfBeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-i...

Mar 08, 202045 minEp. 126

Why Guys Always Come Back, How To Lower Your Expectations, And After Date Follow Up ft. Chanel Omari

In this episode I sit down with comedian and podcast host Chanel Omari from Bravo’s Princesses of Long Island. We discuss everything from bad breath, guys not getting over girls, after date follow up etiquette, amazing dates that don’t turn into something, my last relationship, being able to meet each other emotionally, and more.The episode starts with a solo where I discuss period sex and awkward things you have to do when you first start dating. BUT LIKE MAYBE DON'T by Arianna Margulis is avai...

Mar 01, 20201 hr 5 minEp. 125

Why Breaks Are A Red Flag, What Rebounding Entails, And Comparing New People To Exes ft. Elizabeth Endres

In this episode I sit down with Elizabeth Endres from Sweats And The City. We discuss her break up, whether or not a heads up is necessary if you’re going to publicly talk about an ex, why breaks are possibly a red flag, guys who have fomo, rebounds, parents getting too involved in our dating lives (MY MOM REQUESTING SOMEONE I WENT ON A DATE WITH ON FACEBOOK), and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss soulmates vs. twin flames, my strip club experience, and how often you should s...

Feb 23, 202050 minEp. 124

Dating Without Dating Apps, Closure Conversations, And Why Exclusivity Is Bullshit

In this solo episode, I talk about my first few dates being single, why I’m not on dating apps and how that has been so far, my closure conversation with my ex, why exclusivity is bullshit, betraying yourself for a relationship to work, my experience with matchmaking companies, and more! Function of Beauty for 20% off your first purchase Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....

Feb 16, 202031 minEp. 123

But Like Maybe Don’t… Do Any Of These Things ft. Arianna Margulis

In this episode, I sit down with my friend and talented cartoon artist Arianna Margulis of But Like Maybe. We talk about what not to do when you’re dating in your early 20s, her favorite passage from her new book, our own personal mistakes, a bad date I went on, why set-ups don’t work, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to attract people IRL, rebounds, dating again without alcohol, how you know if they’ll be a good parent, and more! But Like Maybe Don't - Now available...

Feb 09, 202048 minEp. 122

How Much Men Care About Looks, Putting Yourself Out There, And The Difference Between A First And Second Date ft. Harrison And Brandon from The UpDating Show

In this episode, I sit down with the creators of UpDating Brandon Berman and Harrison Forman. We discuss everything from how they match couples for blind dating, if people who like to talk need other people who like to talk, how much people care about looks, the law of attraction, putting yourself out there, date horror stories and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to know if a relationship isn’t working even if it’s healthy, what to get for Valentine’s Day, and being fri...

Feb 02, 202052 minEp. 121

My Break Up, What Men Need To Fall In Love, And Why You Should Tell People You Like Them ft. Jonathon Aslay

In this episode, I sit down with author and dating coach Jonathon Aslay. We discuss everything from why you can never assume anything in dating, leading with love, why it’s okay to tell people you if you like them, guys in their 20s vs guys in their 40s, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my break up and what to say and not say to someone who is going through one. http://www.jonathonaslay.com/love for free chapter's of Jonathon's book! FunctionofBeauty.com/ACME for 20% off...

Jan 26, 202052 minEp. 120

Getting Financially Naked: When You Should Ask A Partner What They Make And Why Prenups Are Crucial ft. Shannon McLay

In this episode, I sit down with Shannon from The Financial Gym. We discuss everything from when you can ask a partner about money, why prenups are necessary, getting “financially naked,” who should pay for what based on their salary, and our past lives! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss whether or not you should break up if you’re unsure, living together after a LDR, and a roommate’s partner who stays over every night. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com...

Jan 19, 202043 minEp. 119

What Isn’t Attractive To Guys, Wishing Your Ex A HBD, and Dating Someone With Addiction

In this first solo episode of 2020, I answer your questions that came in via email and Instagram DM. I discuss what I keep hearing from single guys, dating anniversaries, wishing your ex a happy birthday, telling someone you meet if you’ve slept with their friend, if your SO doesn’t post you on Insta, dating an alcoholic, dating post break up, and more! Visit Sakara.com/ACME or use promo code ACME at checkout for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19...

Jan 12, 202032 minEp. 118
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