George has been hosting elaborate and sexy lifestyle events all over the world for 15 years. Since we've attended several and get many questions about these 'mysterious' lifestyle gatherings we thought it best for you to hear directly from George! From Burning Man to Cuba to London, Mexico City, Manhattan Napa and even Washington, DC you're sure to find an event to pique your interest. Care to join us? Explore all of George's upcoming events here !...
Mar 28, 2019•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 61
Discussion Topic: In Part 2 of our judgment series we are joined by our "much younger friends" to talk about how age factors in to meeting, connecting and even playing with couples who are much older or younger. We also break down age related stereotypes in the lifestyle. Is age truly just a number? The New Monogamy - Redefining Your Relationship after Infidelity by Tammy Nelson Join our members only community!...
Mar 11, 2019•1 hr 36 min•Ep. 60
Discussion Topic: We all have experienced being judged. However, we don't often reflect on how we judge others or why so many people in the lifestyle still tend to judge. We discuss how we are wired and what influences in our lives may predispose us to our own personal bias when assessing and judging others. Try Double Date Nation free for three months! Use promo code WGTPC and join us as we help build a brand new lifestyle dating site. Listen to our friends Jay and Kay from That Couple Next Doo...
Feb 18, 2019•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 59
Discussion Topic: The swinging lifestyle is a place we go to grow our relationship. But to experience any kind of personal or relationship growth we must step out of and beyond our comfort zones. Listen as we discuss the topic ourselves and then hear similar thoughts from others in a session we recorded with Swinging Downunder on our latest trip to Desire Pearl Resort in Cancun, Mexico. Less than 10 rooms remain! Travel with us to Desire Pearl the week of November 16-23, 2019! Book your trip her...
Jan 15, 2019•1 hr 37 min•Ep. 58
Discussion Topic: Does being in the lifestyle mean a race to full-swap? Will we find ourselves always wanting more? Why does trying the lifestyle seem like a risk to our relationship? Will we become addicted and always want more? We discuss the importance of agreeing on "why" you are in the lifestyle and how critical it is to stay on the same page throughout your journey. Travel with us to Desire Pearl the week of November 16-23, 2019! Book your trip here. Join our Members Only community here!...
Dec 12, 2018•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 57
Discussion Topic: Using Stephen Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People , we align how those same habits can make you successful as a couple in the swinging lifestyle. Travel with us to Desire Pearl the week of November 16-23, 2019! Book your trip here. Join our Members Only community here!...
Nov 05, 2018•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 56
Discussion topic: In this episode we catch you all up to date on what we've been going through since we were "outed" as lifestyle podcasters 18 months ago. Through all the turmoil we lost our "happy place" and share how we've grown and rediscovered each other. Each person and couple has the freedom to define and then find their happy place in the lifestyle. Our We Gotta Thing Desire Pearl trip next year we be the week of November 16-23, 2019. Click here to join us! Join our WGT Members Only Comm...
Oct 09, 2018•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 55
Discussion topic: Most agree we'd like to avoid any drama in a lifestyle experience. But is this a realistic expectation? Is drama such a bad thing? Do we know what drama really is and is not? How should we handled drama if we encounter it in ourselves or another couple? Catherine (from episode 41), a licensed professional counselor joins us again and provides answers, insights and tools to help answer these and other questions around drama in the lifestyle! You can reach Catherine via email at:...
Sep 17, 2018•1 hr 45 min•Ep. 54
Discussion topic: In this episode we discuss the tension between wanting to be discreet yet at the same time wanting to know as much as possible about others. Too much discretion and nobody knows you but being vulnerable is necessary to connect socially to make true friends (with benefits) in the lifestyle. Join us at our first WGT Regional Meet & Greet on Saturday, October 20 at 8pm in Providence, Rhode Island! Register at Choice Social Club and be sure to put "WGT2018" in the comments sect...
Aug 20, 2018•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 53
Discussion Topic: We share sexy stories from our trip to Desire Pearl and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of sexual play with newbies and veteran couples in the swinging lifestyle. Spoiler alert: we enjoy both! Mentioned this episode:Join our We Gotta Thing private members only group Listen to our podcast with the Spiritual Swingers Desire Pearl Resort in Cancun, Mexico...
Jul 15, 2018•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 52
Discussion Topic- Whether it's your very first play experience or you've been swinging for years awkward encounters will always be a part of your lifestyle journey. We share some awkward lifestyle moments, discuss why they occur, what (if anything) can be done to avoid them and how to work through them as a couple. Visit our website: https://wegottathing.com/ Join our private community: We Gotta Thing Members Only Join Kasidie Book your trip to Desire!...
Jun 19, 2018•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 51
Discussion Topic: In this episode we celebrate the milestone of reaching 50 episodes by reflecting on our lifestyle journey thus far. We are learning a lot and having a loads of fun but it's the people we meet and the growth in our relationship that are most valuable. Care to join us? Our new We Gotta Thing Members Only Subscription Our Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey online course Our new We Gotta Thing website Email: mrjones@wegottathing.com Email: mrsjones@wegottathing.com Follow us on Twit...
May 21, 2018•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 50
Discussion Topic: Mrs Jones is joined live by "C" from the Swinging Downunder podcast to discuss what the two ladies believe men need to know and understand to be successful in the swinging lifestyle. Mentioned this Episode: The Swinging Downunder podcast Our brand new We Gotta Thing website Our new "Members Only" subscription Our online Lifestyle Course...
Apr 26, 2018•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 49
Discussion Topic In this episode we discuss the difference between being courageous and being confident as you enter and navigate the swinging lifestyle. Many people say "just be confident" and you'll be fine. But is that enough to be helpful? We offer tips to help you understand the difference and how being courageous leads to being a more confident person and couple in the swinging lifestyle. Confidence is sexy!
Apr 12, 2018•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 48
Discussion Topic- In this episode we discuss how we see the lifestyle bumping up against real life. Personally we are becoming more "out" as swingers, more and more mainstream media is reporting on swinging and the lifestyle community seems to be growing rapidly. What does this all mean? Listen in to find out! Mentioned in this episode: Our online lifestyle course- Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey The Joneses Interview- Leading Questions w/Calvin Moore Podcast Swinger Diaries Interview- The Tog...
Mar 12, 2018•1 hr 32 min•Ep. 47
Discussion Topic- Connecting with your play partner while trying to maintain a connection with your own partner is a balancing act many find difficult to achieve. This month we discuss the challenge of and some helpful tips for staying connected as a couple during playtime with others. Online Lifestyle Course Relaunch- we are excited to announce the following major changes and additions to our course products: Base price reduction on our Community and Premier level courses A new a la carte menu ...
Feb 12, 2018•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 46
Discussion Topic- Navigating this lifestyle can be awkward at times, especially when trying to transition from conversation to playtime. We discuss our experience in this area and share some tips to help couples take the leap to enjoying some sexy fun with others! Our New Online Lifestyle Course is Live!Our new online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey is now available! Purchase in the month of January 2018 to have a chance to win two free passes to Naughty in N'awlins 201...
Jan 09, 2018•1 hr 30 min•Ep. 45
Our New Online Lifestyle Course is Live!Our new online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey is now available! We've created 6 modules and over 40 lessons to help you move into the through the lifestyle while having fun, growing your relationship and avoiding the pitfalls and mistakes. For more information and to purchase visit our new course website or send us an email at mrjones@wegottathing.com. Discussion TopicWe contrast the sexy, fun, respectful, open and honest (for th...
Dec 10, 2017•1 hr 28 min•Ep. 44
Announcing our special projectMrs Jones and I are developing an online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey to be released in December 2017! We've created 6 modules and over 30 lessons to help you move into the through the lifestyle while having fun, growing your relationship and avoiding the pitfalls and mistakes. For more information please check out our website or send us an email at mrjones@wegottathing.com. Discussion TopicAs we prepare for our first group trip to Desir...
Nov 08, 2017•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 43
Discussion Topic: Setting expectations is something we (and many couples) struggle with in the lifestyle. With expectations usually comes disappointment. Disappointment can lead to leaving the lifestyle or stir up negative emotions and feelings about yourselves. We discuss how we TRY to manage our interactions with others and share some tips we hope will help you do the same. Good luck!
Oct 20, 2017•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 42
Discussion Topic: Way back on WGT Episode 3 we discussed Mr Jones's struggle with jealousy when we entered the lifestyle. In this episode we welcome Catherine, a licensed professional counselor AND swinger! She breaks down jealousy: what it is, how to prepare for it, what it feels like, how to identify it, how to work through it and come out of it stronger as a couple. You can reach Catherine by email at expansiveconnection@gmail.com or on her website: www.expansiveconnection.com Resources Menti...
Oct 02, 2017•1 hr 35 min•Ep. 41
Discussion Topic- Many couples approaching the lifestyle consider clothing optional resorts as a first step on their journey. This episode we tackle some commonly held beliefs and fears regarding clothing optional resort vacations. Just back from another trip to Desire Pearl, we use our experiences from the week to "bust some myths." Book your trip to one of the Desire Resorts right here ! Subscribe to our Finding Your Thing weekly newsletter here ....
Sep 12, 2017•1 hr 35 min•Ep. 40
Read our latest newsletter here and then Subscribe to our newsletter here! Keeping up with the Joneses We update you on our new business ventures and Mr Jones makes his request to Mrs Jones for his home office modifications. We also describe a visit from our Canadian friends, our Southwest friends and our long-time LS friends. Topic Many people say how intimidated they are by having to flirt with others in the lifestyle. We break down flirting in society, in the lifestyle, tie it to individual g...
Aug 15, 2017•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 39
Read our latest newsletter here and then Subscribe to our newsletter here! Keeping up with the Joneses We recap the highlights of our experiences at Naughty in N'awlins 2017! Our WGT Meet & Greet and workshops were amazing, we were runner-ups again at the Annual Lifestyle Awards for Best Lifestyle Podcast. Discussion topic We hear from many listeners how difficult it is to find that "four-way connection" with other lifestyle couples. We break down the issue and offer insights into what works...
Jul 24, 2017•1 hr 27 min•Ep. 38
Discussion topic: This month we stray from our regular format to talk about being "outed" as podcasters in the lifestyle. We discuss what happened, how it impacted our lives, how we managed the fallout, what decisions we had to make and how we've decided to move forward. Snapshots: This month we share two emails from listeners that describe perfectly how we view the lifestyle and why it's so important to us both. Mentioned this episode: It's time to vote for your favorite lifestyle podcasters. C...
Jun 20, 2017•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 37
Keeping up with the Joneses "Friends" from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships and what they might look like. We categorize friendships into four types: Community, Casual, Close and Core to help put some perspective on expectations for making Friends With Benefits in the lifestyle. Snapshots Mr Jones enjoys watching a friend give Mrs Jones a good tongue lashing on the massage ...
Apr 12, 2017•1 hr 26 min•Ep. 36
Keeping up with the Joneses This episode we share three explicit experiences, a weekend with some "tried and true" LS friends, an evening with our new Texas friends and (queue the trumpets) our first experience with a single female! Discussion topic We discuss how we developed a healthy approach to the lifestyle by 1) setting priorities, 2) staying balanced and 3) keeping a healthy perspective as a couple in the lifestyle. Snapshots Mr Jones shares an extremely "happy ending" with a new friend a...
Mar 12, 2017•1 hr 34 min•Ep. 35
Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a "unicorn", an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event. Discussion topic Mrs Jones recently discovered the lifestyle changed Mr Jones more than herself. Armed with this revelation she decides to "interview" Mr Jones in order to dig into how men may view the lifestyle experience differently than women. Snapshots We start off by sharing two newbie "hot tub...
Feb 12, 2017•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 34
Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on the sexy weekend we had with a very special couple as the four of us visited the Trapeze Club in Atlanta, Georgia. Oh, and you'll also want to hear what we put in each other's naughty stockings! Discussion topic How is it that we can watch each other have sex with other people and not only does it turn us on but it brings us closer? Many of you have asked this question so we decided to share some tangible things we've experienced that pro...
Jan 11, 2017•1 hr 34 min•Ep. 33
Keeping up with the Joneses Our trip to Desire Pearl is set! Join us the week of November 11-18, 2017 as we bring T&A from The Curious Couple and C&D from the Swinging Downunder podcasts to meet you all for some sexy fun times. Book on our website through our affiliate link on the page titled "The Joneses Recommend." We also describe what happened at our second house party (note: it was better than the first). Discussion topic As much as we try to research, learn and discuss everything b...
Dec 13, 2016•1 hr 26 min•Ep. 32
