Today, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener’s question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more about al-anon meetings HERE Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your review means the world to us. Find ...
Nov 07, 2024•1 hr
Today, John and Shaun talk about fear, negative feedback from listeners, asking for what you need, and male body and bedroom insecurities. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you get the courage to leave a marriage, and how do you deal with jealous feelings in a relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your review means the world to us. Jump...
Oct 31, 2024•1 hr 8 min
Today, John and Shaun talk about jet skiing to Catalina, their first fight, being seen v.s. fitting in, and repairing after conflict. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I avoid getting into unhealthy relationships, and how much information should I share about my divorce on the first few dates? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your review means t...
Oct 24, 2024•1 hr
Today, John and Shaun talk about Shaun’s first tattoo, getting rejected after one date, different types of breakups, and more “icks” in dating. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you move on from a breakup that completely blindsided you, and how do you stop feeling unworthy after a breakup? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your review means the w...
Oct 17, 2024•1 hr 10 min
Today, John and Shaun talk about their parents, post travel blues, overthinking your first tattoo, and upcoming creative projects. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I reverse having "the ick" for someone I'm dating, and how long does it take for someone to get over infidelity? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your review means the world to us. F...
Oct 10, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Today, Shaun and John talk about tattoos, MIGs (most inappropriate guests) at weddings, and not wanting to have kids. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should I tell someone their partner is cheating on them, and the men I date don't want anything serious after a few months - is it personal? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your review means the world to...
Oct 03, 2024•58 min
Today, Shaun and John discuss making romantic connections while traveling, feedback from listeners about consent, sex parties in Berlin, and skinny dipping. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: why does Shaun want to have a "super slutty hot girl summer" instead of a "f*ck boy summer," and is there a list of fool proof questions to ask someone to be more serious with you? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and lea...
Sep 26, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Today, John and Shaun talk about nudity, dating without relying on technology, verbal consent, and ghosting. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: will men lose interest in women if they want to be friends with benefits but without penetration, and how can people flirt without it turning into dirty talk? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your review means the wor...
Sep 19, 2024•1 hr 5 min
Today, John and Shaun discuss travel, dropping into your body, who pays on the first date, and using dating apps to make friends. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to communicate interest in someone after the first date without scaring them off, and how do I check my male friend who's going down a toxic self improvement rabbit hole? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on...
Sep 12, 2024•1 hr 8 min
Today, John and Shaun talk about John's first time taking Molly, anal play, threesomes, and ethical porn. They also listen to a few dirty voicemails and give advice on two listeners' questions: why can't men be just as noisy as women in the bedroom, and how does one become more comfortable with dirty talk? Here are the links Shaun and John were talking about in today's episode! A Worksheet To Help You Talk To Partners About Sex How To Dirty Talk Ethical Porn: xconfessions.com ( Erika Lust ) &...
Sep 05, 2024•1 hr 11 min
Today, John and Shaun discuss emotional safety in the bedroom, erectile dysfunction, and compromise in friendships. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to be vulnerable with your partner so they don't use it against you, and am I wasting my time dating people who aren't looking for a serious relationship when I want one? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podca...
Aug 29, 2024•1 hr 8 min
Today, Shaun and John discuss controlling behaviors that show up unconsciously, breaking up with friends, and providing a safe space for men on this podcast. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the concept behind "bros before hoes," and how do you deal with libido differences in a long term relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your review means the wo...
Aug 22, 2024•1 hr 7 min
Today, John and Shaun talk about their recent retreat experiences, celebrity man crushes, and their first blowjobs. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: Is it a woman's responsibility to ask the man she's dating to go down on her, and how do I know when (or if) I should pull the plug on a connection after giving it a fair chance? You can leave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts . Your rev...
Aug 15, 2024•1 hr 14 min
Today, Shaun and John talk about how men struggle to be vulnerable, abandonment wounds from childhood, thirst traps, and their new voicemail hotline. They also answer two listener questions: how should I tell my boyfriend he's leaving skid marks on the bedsheets? And where do I find a good man to date after doing the inner work and being single for so long? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Insta...
Aug 08, 2024•59 min
Today, John and Shaun discuss how they handle criticism on social media, men getting vasectomies, using sex toys in the bedroom, and hall passes for celebrity crushes. They also answer a listener's question and give advice about whether women should wait for men to chase them, or if they should ask men out first. Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE ...
Aug 01, 2024•1 hr 1 min
Today, Shaun and John discuss hairstyle insecurities, aging, and the ethics of keeping exes' nudes. They bring on two live caller's and give advice on how to bring more flirty energy into your life, and what to do about a boyfriend's panty kink. Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE ...
Jul 25, 2024•56 min
Today, Shaun and John touch on their kinks, seeking therapy, experiences growing up, and “parts work.” They also bring on their first two live callers and answer their questions. The first caller asks how to set boundaries and distance yourself from unhealthy people. The second caller seeks their guidance on coping with anger towards systemic injustices and daily dilemmas. Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE ...
Jul 18, 2024•1 hr 1 min
Today, Shaun and John discuss the concept of 'nectar' as a source of joy, and retiring the term 'Big Dick Energy.' For the Q&A, they tackle when to define the relationship and what the most appropriate age gap in relationships is. Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE ...
Jul 11, 2024•1 hr 2 min
Today, John and Shaun discuss ankle socks, and sexual terms like 'stealthing.' For the Q&A, they tackle the topics of keeping mementos from past relationships, retroactive jealousy, threesomes, and more. Here are the links Shaun was talking about in this episode: Yoga Nidra For Deep Rest Radish House, Oakland Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE...
Jul 04, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Today, John and Shaun touch on the challenges of dealing with criticism, and disclosing herpes status. For the Q&A, they explore why we tend to date a**holes, and what it means when our exes still watch our stories. You can read Shaun's article, How to Talk About Sexual Health For the First Time, HERE Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE...
Jun 27, 2024•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 3
Today, John and Shaun read some feedback from listeners about their new podcast. For the Q&A, they dive into the significance of height in dating, and explore the topic of infidelity. Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE...
Jun 20, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 2
In the first episode of We Can Do Better, John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Shaun Galanos (The Love Drive) share their excitement and fears about the new venture and collaboration. They dive into their addictive tendencies, the importance of sexual compatibility in a relationship, and give advice on how to navigate the dating scene. Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE...
Jun 13, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 1
