Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all ...
Jun 25, 2025•33 min•Ep. 199
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP198 – Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!) and while we only touch on that wild weekend, we’re diving deep into what’s really heating things up: our return to Cap d’Agde in 2025, a brand new sex toy, and Darrell’s spicy fantasy. In this episode, Darrell receives a mystery box that leaves Cate both suspicious and very curious. Spoiler alert: it’s a ne...
May 28, 2025•54 min•Ep. 198
How does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey? Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening. In this vulnerable and powerful episode, Cate is joined by trauma-informed coach Meshai from Expansive Connection to explore what happens when past trauma meets lifestyle play. Cate also shares her personal experience with sexual trauma — opening up publicly for the first time. Whether you’re navigating your own...
May 14, 2025•42 min•Ep. 197
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Cate and Darrell revisit soft swap play for the first time in seven years — and it happened at none other than Fun4Two, the iconic swingers club in the Netherlands. What started as a night out turned into a wildly sensual experience filled with connection, chemistry, a six-handed massage… and yes, some cum on the floor. We explore the dynamics of soft swap play, the assumptions people make about it, and whether full swap cou...
May 08, 2025•58 min•Ep. 196
In this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth. Only five months into a three-year lease, the club is now in the midst of a legal and political battle that raises serious questions about privacy, zoning laws, and stigma against non-monogamous communities. Steve shares what really happened, how it’s affecting the club and its memb...
Apr 23, 2025•31 min•Ep. 195
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories In this thought-provoking episode of Wanderlust Swingers, Cate and Darrell dive deep into the Scarcity vs. Abundance mindset in the swinger lifestyle. Are your decisions driven by FOMO, settling, or a fear of limited options? From personal stories to juicy Reddit replies, we’re unpacking how scarcity might be shaping your lifestyle journey—and how to play smarter. Here’s what you’ll hear: Scarcity in Action: We explore real-...
Dec 30, 2024•36 min•Ep. 194
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Join us for a cheeky bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! Darrell has been up to mischief, creating a Feeld dating profile as Cate, and now he’s sharing all the juicy details. This hilarious and insightful episode uncovers the secrets to navigating Feeld for hotwives in the swinger lifestyle. Here's what you’ll hear: The Feeld Experiment: Darrell dives into his surprise project, managing Cate’s profile on Feeld and filterin...
Dec 23, 2024•50 min•Ep. 193
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Join us for a jam-packed episode of Wanderlust Swingers as we dive into the highlights from the Libertine Events San Antonio Senses takeover! This episode features three incredible interviews with special guests who share their unique perspectives and experiences from the event. Jason and Sarah: Midwest-based hosts who joined Libertine for the first time as guest hosts. Hear about their role in hosting mingle games, how Sara...
Dec 16, 2024•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 192
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories The DTF Spectrum: Are Down to F*ck Couples Just More Fun? In this solo episode, Cate dives into a hot debate among swingers today: the phenomenon of “DTF” couples. Inspired by a lively discussion on Reddit, Cate unpacks the various interpretations of being “down to fuck” and how it impacts connections in the lifestyle. From couples who prefer a straight-to-the-fun approach to those with a selective DTF style, Cate explores w...
Nov 11, 2024•26 min•Ep. 191
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Having Sex In A Maze, Swingers Café + Kama Sutra Beurs In this adventurous episode, Cate and Darrell finally attend the sex-positive Kama Sutra Beurs in their hometown of Utrecht, diving into an experience that’s both eye-opening and outrageous! After years of planning to attend, they explore every part of the convention, from a bustling Swingers Café to a surprise maze encounter that gets steamy. Cate and Darrell share each...
Nov 04, 2024•34 min•Ep. 190
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Episode Title: Failures at Being a Swinger; Failed Pool Parties, Ghosting, and More In this playful yet candid episode, Cate and Darrell tackle the less-than-glamorous side of the swinger lifestyle, where best-laid plans don’t always work out! From a last-minute pool party flop to a local single who ghosted us on a date, we’re digging into what happens when expectations don’t match reality. Join us as we explore how swinging...
Oct 29, 2024•34 min•Ep. 189
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Guilty By Association In The Swingers Lifestyle In this eye-opening episode, Cate teams up with Mickey and Mallory from Casual Swinger to dive deep into the lesser-known pitfalls of the swinger lifestyle. Ever wondered how social media connections or your choice of friends could impact your reputation in the community? This episode covers it all. From unknowingly outing yourself on Facebook to navigating the fine line betwee...
Sep 24, 2024•58 min•Ep. 188
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Cocksucking Train, Electrical Play & More with Jason and Sarah Cate sits down with Jason and Sarah, a couple from the Upper Midwest, who share their bold journey into the swinging lifestyle after ten years of monogamy. From a surprising encounter with a stripper in Las Vegas to getting yanked into their first threesome, this episode covers all the bases of a wild and memorable adventure. Jason and Sarah get candid about ...
Sep 16, 2024•54 min•Ep. 187
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Unicorn Hall Pass Spicy Island In this episode, Cate takes us on a wild adventure as she heads to Spicy Island for a full island takeover in Croatia, embracing her role as a unicorn with a hall pass. From cheeky playroom encounters to naked swims under the stars, this episode is packed with fun stories, poolside masturbation, and flirty moments. But was Cate as slutty as she and Darrell had hoped? Let’s find out! Episode Eve...
Sep 09, 2024•54 min•Ep. 186
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories UK Swingers Takeover Vanilla Alternative In this electrifying episode, Cate takes you inside the unforgettable UK Swingers Takeover at the Vanilla Alternative, a night bursting with neon vibes, sultry playrooms, and a dance floor that didn't quit until the early hours. Cate recounts every detail of the weekend, sharing the highs, the laughs, and the tips to make the most out of such a thrilling event. Event Highlights: Neon ...
Sep 02, 2024•40 min•Ep. 185
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast In this episode, we dive deep into the experience of attending the exclusive Killing Kittens Mansion Party in April 2024, a highly anticipated event known for its luxury, sophistication, and sensual ambiance. Did it live up to the hype? We're spilling all the tea, from the venue's opulence to the social dynamics, costs, and whether we think it was worth the money. Plus, we'll share Darrell's solo play experience and off...
Aug 26, 2024•52 min•Ep. 184
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Behind the Scenes with Mallory from Casual Swinger: Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover Get ready for a fun, sexy, and behind-the-scenes look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover with special guest host Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast! We spent a few wild days in an Airbnb before the event, filled with swimming, drinking, dancing, and karaoke. In this episode, we dive into: Pre-Event Adventures: Our crazy time togethe...
Jul 08, 2024•56 min•Ep. 184
Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover: Behind the Scenes and Beyond Get ready for an inside look at the Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover! Join us as we share the excitement, fun, and unique experiences from this unforgettable event. We start with an overview of what made the Miami takeover special, followed by a break to tell a sexy story from the event, and wrap up with our top tips for newcomers and future events. In this episode, we dive into the planning and logistics, the vibrant atmosphere, and the s...
Jun 21, 2024•48 min•Ep. 182
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast DoxyPEP STI Prevention - Swingers Health Vol 7 In this episode of Swingers Health, we delve into the world of sexual health and explore a groundbreaking method for preventing sexually transmitted infections (STIs) within the non-monogamous community: DoxyPEP. Join us as we unravel the science behind DoxyPEP, its application as a post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP), and its implications for modern sexual health practices. Wh...
May 06, 2024•45 min•Ep. 181
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Let's Get Spicy Welcome to a Bonus Episode of the Wanderlust Swingers Podcast featuring our friends Mr and Mrs H from the bed hoppers Podcast in the UK. Spicy Island Takeover by Spicy Match We're heading to the Spicy Match Swingers Island takeover in July called Spicy Island for week 2 of their takeover. We have been before but this is Mr and Mrs H first time in Croatia, first time at a swingers event this size and firs...
May 01, 2024•39 min
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swinger Friends In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of "Pants On / Off Swinger Friends," a dynamic that blurs the lines between friendship and sexual exploration within the swinging lifestyle. Pants On / Off Friendships The Pros Explore the freedom and excitement of maintaining close friendships while also enjoying the benefits of sexual intimacy. Foster a deeper level of trust and understanding between partn...
Apr 22, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 180
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Date Ideas Get ready to spice up your dating game with swingers date ideas. Firstly, we share what we think a date in the swingers lifeestyle is, then we take a break and tell a sexy story before sharing our top 5 tips to creating sexy swingers dates. In this episode, we're dishing out hot tips for picking the perfect date spots, from quirky outings to steamy soirées, join us as we reveal the secrets to sizzlin...
Mar 28, 2024•37 min•Ep. 179
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Health Vol 6 - Mental Health The Swingers Lifestyle is exciting, there are all these fun parties, costumes and new emotions to play with. But there is also the reality that with these new emotions and new experiences we need to consider what impact this might have on us, our primary relationship and the other people. In today's epsiode we're diving into the fascinating world of nonmonogamy,we’re going to dig in...
Mar 08, 2024•51 min•Ep. 178
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today we’re interviewing Jem and Daz, UK Swingers that seem like any other couple. They have kids, they go to the gym together, they lead normal lives. But that relationship was broken according to Jem and Daz and Swinging Saved Their Relationship. Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers We’ve all heard creators, bloggers, podcasters… random swingers on the sidewalk give the advice not to enter the lifestyle if yo...
Feb 16, 2024•54 min•Ep. 177
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Get ready for an intimate and revealing episode as Darrell, your host, turns the tables and interviews Cate about hosting a Swingers Hotel Takeover in the sizzling city of Miami. Tune in now for a conversation that goes beyond the surface and into the heart of the Swingers Hotel Takeover experience. Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami In this candid conversation, delve into the ins and outs of organizing the Libertine Events ...
Feb 09, 2024•45 min•Ep. 176
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today I'm interviewing Ash and Russ aka That Hot Couple In GA on all social media platforms. We're going to be talking about their jouney and how they met at 22, started in a DOM / SUB relationship and eventually found the swingers lifestyle and now live out and proud with their faces on social media. BDSM and The Swinging Lifestyle What do you know about the Dom/Sub relationship? Have you heard couples discuss their co...
Feb 01, 2024•48 min•Ep. 175
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today I'm interviewing Mr Dutchie, one half of an amazing couple that live in the Netherlands that we met through reddit of all places. We're talking about the different approaches to nonmonogamy in Europe and how Mr and Mrs Dutchie have navigated their lifestyle journey. Swinging In The Netherlands Mr Dutchie walks us through their experience visiting one of the biggest clubs in Europe (Fun4Two), how culturally diverse...
Jan 05, 2024•44 min•Ep. 174
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast We share all the details about our recent event in the UK for the first ever Swingers Hotel Takeover, Floor Crawl and Swingers Club Takeover of Penthouse Playrooms UK Swingers Hotel Takeover We took over an entire 87 room hotel and share the details from the event in a mash up podcast called the Wanderhoppers Podcast (a PennyYoko Production) Find part 2 on the bed hoppers podcast https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Parties, b...
Nov 28, 2023•46 min•Ep. 173
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast We share all the details about our recent event in Sicily with the team at Spicy Match. We shares the ins and outs of the event, some useful tips on how to make an event a success, what types of people attended this event and all the juicy details. We also share a story about Darrell playing solo in an orgy.... check it out. Cap En Sicile Cap En Sicile is inspired by the famous Cap D'Agde in Southern France. Spicy Match...
Oct 09, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 172
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Health Vol 5 - Vaginal Health and BV Keeping your Vaginal health at optimum levels is one of the most difficult things about the swingers lifestyle. Vulva owners need to deal with potential risks that extend outside of Sti’s and into general wellness and health which include Yeast Infections, Uti’s, BV, Thrush & more Vaginal Health You might not think these are sexy topics to talk about AND that is part of ...
Sep 18, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 171
