Discover the secrets to a sizzling sex life that keeps getting better and better year after year! In this episode, Jason and I reveal our sexual journey, sharing candid tips on maintaining erotic energy and emotional connection. Learn why safety, vulnerability, and shared responsibility are the keys to unlocking unparalleled pleasure and deepening your bond. Whether you're struggling with sexual challenges or looking to elevate your passion, this episode can revolutionize your approach to intima...
Oct 10, 2024•48 min•Ep. 136
In this episode, my husband Jason and I dive deep into the raw, real, and often messy side of relationships by sharing our three biggest fights and lessons from them. From trust issues and emotional disregulation to financial stress and fertility struggles, we explore how rupture and repair are essential for growth in any partnership. We also introduce our new programs, Evolutionary Couples & 12 Epic Dates, designed to help couples build stronger, more resilient relationships through skill-b...
Oct 03, 2024•44 min•Ep. 135
If you only had about 2 hours a week to spend on your relationship, how could you use that time most wisely? The truth is relationships can be incredibly challenging, especially in today’s fast-paced world where it can be hard to prioritize the relationship. Even when partners deeply love each other, they may face difficulties in maintaining passion, resolving conflicts, and growing together over the long term. Many couples are stuck in unfulfilling patterns, feeling more like roommates than lov...
Sep 19, 2024•37 min•Ep. 134
How do you awaken an innocent connection to your body and the Earth? How do you reclaim all of the parts of you, and be witnessed in your fullness? How can you access greater truth, power, freedom and love? Tune in to hear more about Wild Sensuality including details on my upcoming retreat in November: https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/ Click the icon below to listen....
Jul 12, 2023•17 min•Ep. 133
Fire + fire will burn out...balancing the elements in our relationships, and in ourselves, is key. Learn how to tap into your elemental sensuality and alchemize stuck areas, so you can plant the seeds of your vision of love. For more practice and support in this area, check out my Wild Sensuality retreat at https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/ or my Sacred Sensuality program https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/ Click the icon below to listen....
Jul 07, 2023•30 min•Ep. 133
Going through a lull, or a total freeze, in your sex life? Not feeling very sexy or radiant? Tune in for a unique perspective on turn-on. To sign up for Sacred Sexuality visit https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/ Click the icon below to listen....
Jun 15, 2023•28 min•Ep. 131
Ever wonder if your "picker" is broken? Have you unknowingly fallen for the same type of person again and again? Listen to learn how to change your patterns of attraction and stop falling for your dating "catnip." Click the icon below to listen....
Jun 11, 2023•20 min•Ep. 130
Creating healthy love isn't just about affirmations or a checklist. Bring your list to life with this episode and get tips for speeding up the process. Click the icon below to listen....
Jun 07, 2023•23 min•Ep. 131
My guest Melanie Curtin, host of the Dear Men Podcast, joins to share three things you might not know about men, dating, and sex. Find out more about her at www.melaniecurtin.com Click the icon below to listen....
Jun 01, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 128
If you feel stuck in negative beliefs or have great self-care but something seems missing, listen for how to dial up your self-love to level fierce. The book mentioned: No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz. Click the icon below to listen....
May 29, 2023•27 min•Ep. 127
Emotional and physical intimacy can sweep us away, but practical intimacy is what sustains a relationship. It's also the missing piece to make dating more efficient and effective. Click the icon below to listen....
May 21, 2023•18 min•Ep. 126
Ever let resentments pile up like the dishes, then just avoid them? If you want a smoother, easier relationship or dating experience, listen now. Click the icon below to listen....
May 19, 2023•18 min•Ep. 125
You might be surprised to discover that good men are everywhere if you know how to look. Tune in to this episode to find out how to make it easy to find a great man. Click the icon below to listen....
May 09, 2023•20 min•Ep. 124
If you feel like love is just out of reach, this episode is for you. Learn how using archetypes can bring love even closer to you. Click the icon below to listen....
May 06, 2023•23 min•Ep. 123
Want that sizzle, that dazzle, that magical mystique? Of course you do. Everyone does. And if you're in a long-term relationship, it can feel harder to maintain that over time. We're witnessing an epidemic of sexless relationships — some studies put it at 15% of all marriages. When it comes to sex, sensuality, and a woman's erotic essence, it can be easy to lose. One way this can show up is as mismatched desire. A man wants sex with his woman (i.e. wants to know, "How do I get my wife to have se...
Oct 25, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 122
In this episode of my Dating with Pleasure series, I share about the joy of aligning with the right time to date. Should you date after a divorce? When is your heart ready? what if you're sick of the apps and want to take a break? I answer all these questions and more so listen now. Click the icon below to listen....
Feb 18, 2022•21 min•Ep. 121
This series of episodes is all about dating with pleasure -- bringing the joy, fun, and romance back to our opening to love. One of the biggest complaints I hear is about dating apps, yet, over 50 million people use them. Tune in to hear how to make this process fruitful and fulfilling! Click the icon below to listen....
Feb 11, 2022•30 min•Ep. 120
Reclaiming and embodying our sexual wholeness is a gift to ourselves, our partners, and the world. Listen as Rahi Chun, host of the Organic Sexuality podcast, shares his wisdom as a practitioner and healer. Click the icon below to listen....
Feb 05, 2022•51 min•Ep. 119
What is life without beauty and ritual? Listen in as my special guest Caren Chroma and I talk about adornment as soul empowerment, and how body-painting helps us to celebrate our ever-changing identities. IG: @carenchroma https://www.carenchroma.com/ Click the icon below to listen....
Feb 03, 2022•31 min•Ep. 118
My special guest Dr. Giavanni Washington shares about her powerful oracle card deck The Black Goddess Within, her program for ancestral restoration and racial healing Meet the Goddess Within, and we talk about why it’s so important to revere, honor, and see the black body in all it’s divinity and beauty. IG @blackgoddesswithin and https://go.blackgoddesswithin.com/bgw-deckClick the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Jul 15, 2021•37 min
In this episode, I’m sharing all of my thoughts on the hit series Bridgerton. How did the characters help, or hurt, their romantic potential or partnerships? Do you see any of the patterns or personalities or situations in your own love life? What would be great to see in season two?Click the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Jul 11, 2021•26 min
My guest Princess McKinney is an expert postpartum doula and author of the book Belly Binding: a simple postpartum ritual to reclaim your body and heal your spirit. We talk about self-care and more as women and as mothers. Her company Bellibind does virtual and in person sessions nationwide and their services were a Godsend […]Click the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Jul 07, 2021•39 min
Logan Ury joins the show and shares many gems on how to date more effectively AND with more humanity. Her recent book How Not to Die Alone is an Amazon best-seller and she is also the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge (my favorite dating app). www.loganury.com and IG @loganuryClick the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
May 06, 2021•40 min
Learn the top 5 dating mistakes even smart, self-aware women make, plus a juicy framework for loving yourself, loving dating, and loving your future (or current) partner. Join my live webinar at www.violetlange.com/datequeenClick the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Apr 16, 2021•15 min
Learn about what Carole calls the ‘motherlode’ and why it’s important to be conscious about what you may be taking on from your mother, as well as celebrating that she gave you life. We talk about sexuality as mothers and so much more, so you don’t want to miss it. Motherlode Experience Facebook GroupClick the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Mar 25, 2021•25 min
This episode is an important reminder that mental health is so important, especially as mothers. My guest Emily Adler Mosqueda shares her journey with late post-partum depression. emilyadlermosqueda.com IG @emily.adler.mosquedaClick the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Mar 18, 2021•45 min
Join Dawn Wylde, sex coach and badass fairy godmother, as we dive into pleasure…all the ways pleasure gets distorted in our society, and how important it is to do pleasure first, versus as a reward. There’s a pleasure activation and lots of fun to be had so tune in now 🙂 joyfullbody.com Pleasure Priestess ProgramClick the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Mar 11, 2021•1 hr 3 min
What we hide away, eventually gnaws at us and gets in the way of a healthy relationship with ourselves, our children, and our environment. Christine O’Brien helps women clear the clutter, do their inner work, connect with their emotions, and change their legacy. From Tidy Parties to learning how to fight in a loving way […]Click the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Mar 04, 2021•40 min
Do you or have you struggled with a weak core? Too tight or too weak pelvic floor? Incontinence? Sexual shame? Then this episode is for you. Tune in as Jacqueline Morasco shares about pelvic health and sexual reclamation. It’s time we have more open conversations about this topic. www.spiritedpractice.com jacqueline@spiritedpractice.comClick the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Feb 25, 2021•39 min
This episode is JUICY! We cover all the things — sexuality, desire, generational cycles, our saboteur and sage mind, mental fitness, and the importance of healing together as women. Felicia Hunt has an amazing program and so much wisdom. I’m grateful for all that she shared on the show and I know you’re going to […]Click the icon below to listen. Click the icon below to listen....
Feb 18, 2021•50 min