Are you finding it difficult and challenging to lead others and yourself? Do you find yourself self-sabotaging at times? You may be struggling with self-awareness! The starting point of good and efficient leadership is mastery of self-leadership. However, efficient self-leadership requires a heightened degree of self-awareness. If you are struggling with this and have no idea where to start, do tune in. In this episode, I share four easy tips to kickstart your transformation journey. I hope you ...
Jun 02, 2022•11 min•Season 2Ep. 68
In this episode, Podcast friend and regular, Carolinah Teffo joins me in a conversation on All things MOM. The conversation is filled with loads of lessons: things we have learnt and have been unlearning. Having both lost our Moms, the conversation is heartfelt, open and authentic. I hope you enjoy it and take something from it. Do share some of your experiences on being a mom with us. We'd love to hear from you. Join in the conversation and be a part of the growing Village Conversations Podcast...
May 09, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Season 2Ep. 67
In this episode, I am joined by Noxolo "Intokazie" Ngomane who takes us on the journey she has travelled from being a bev and party girl to rededicating her life to God. In this episode, Intokazie shares how she speaks heart-to-heart with God about things that bother her including the loss of her mother, going through a rough phase, numbing her pain with wine. Intokazie candidly shares her journey with Christ and teaches us that just because you are with Christ, you will not experience hardships...
Apr 03, 2022•46 min
In this episode, I am joined by Mpho Retonia Sephoko, Rapelang Ramatlhodi, Carolinah Teffo and Palesa (RoseQueen) Ramatlhodi. We chat about taboo topics such as grief, growing up as girls into womanhood, love, menstruation, and everything in between. I believe these are conversations we should be having more of with, within our communities. The conversation is unscripted and is as raw as it was shared. I hope it encourages you to have open dialogues about anything with those in your circles. Joi...
Mar 21, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 65
This week’s episode is all about being bold, daring in prime years. Carolinah Teffo shares candidly her journey of becoming. She shares details about finding herself, starting a business during a pandemic, in her 40s and things she’s had to learn and unlearn along the way. I hope Caro's personal story inspires you. If you'd like to be a guest on the Village Conversations Podcast, do get in touch with me. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Conne...
Mar 08, 2022•47 min•Season 2Ep. 64
We've all heard that entrepreneurship is not for the faint-hearted. But what does this really mean? In this episode, I chat to my husband, Capes Ndhlovu about the his experience as a first time entrepreneur. After leaving his job following a retrenchment, he embarked on an entrepreneurship journey which has build him up to being the person he is today. With loads of money lost, failed at planning and preparation, rebuilding after COVID-19, he is gearing up towards building an empire. A dream he'...
Feb 20, 2022•32 min•Season 2Ep. 63
This week on the Village Conversations Podcast, I am joined by my 3 siblings in a Wholesome Conversation about the life lessons we've learnt in 2021. In this unscripted conversation, we delve deep into some lessons about money, procastination, character, etc. I hope this episode inspires and encourages you. If you'd like to be a guest on the Village Conversations Podcast, do get in touch with me. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with ...
Feb 13, 2022•27 min•Season 2Ep. 62
Hello 2022 The very first episode of the year! Whoop Whoop! In this episode, I reflect on the journey since I started this podcasting journey. I share the lessons learnt, prayer, and a special call to you to raise your hand so we can have more conversations this year. Thank you for being with me on this journey. I look forward to an even more fulfilling and life-changing 2022. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: Website: www...
Feb 06, 2022•8 min•Season 2Ep. 61
'"Tis the time for healing" says Tabea Mngadi. In this episode of the Podcast Takeover, Tabea reflects on the need to heal from our hurts, so as not to drag them with into our future (new year). A powerful reminder of how much this season can mean for us if we aren't just focused on its busyness. I hope this message encourages and inspires you to take stock of what you need healing from. And as you step into the new year, may you do so with boldness and courage from a place of healing. Don't for...
Dec 26, 2021•9 min•Season 1Ep. 60
In this episode of the Podcast Takeover, Daniela Van Aswegen reminds us that God's promises are "Yes and Amen". In this poignant reflection, Daniela shares how she went to bed with unmatched peace despite the knowledge that her dad's final earthly hours were upon them as a family. This peace can only be experienced when we surrender fully to God, allowing for His will to be done. I hope that this message encourages you not to give up hope, despite what you see with your naked eye. May it remind ...
Dec 21, 2021•8 min•Season 1Ep. 59
In this episode of the Podcast Takeover, Rami Makete reminds us of the power of worship. Worship is a powerful tool we have at our disposal to stay connected to our Maker, get connected to Him when we've departed from Him. Worship, like Rami says, it "propels us to win the war and should not be neglected". I hope this message encourages you to worship Him more. Don't forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via : Website: www.refilwern.com ...
Dec 12, 2021•7 min•Season 1Ep. 58
In this episode of the Podcast Takeover, Kefiloe Fokase draws insights from Naomi’s life. With this, she emphasises and reminds us of the importance of practicing gratitude even when we are faced with rough moments in our lives. I hope this message encourages you to not zoom in focus on the difficult moments but more so, on those that we have overcome. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: Website: www.refilwern.com Voice mess...
Dec 07, 2021•10 min•Season 1Ep. 57
In this week's episode, we look at obedience, what it means and why it is important. I hope this message encourages, inspires and challenges you. For a closer look and reflection, answer the questions at the end. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: Website : www.refilwern.com Voice message : https://anchor.fm/refilwe-ramatlhodi/message YouTube: Refilwe Ramatlhodi Ndhlovu Facebook : Refilwe Ramatlhodi Ndhlovu Instagram : fifi...
Nov 21, 2021•8 min•Season 1Ep. 56
In this episode, Rosetta Mphou shares delicate pieces of her life story. From 3 years old, Rosetta was raised by her grandparents after the passing of her mother, subsequently losing her father to alcoholism. If that wasn't enough, the tragic accident left her with disabilities. and in a depressed state. Looking for love and affection in the wrong places, she became a teenage mom at 14. BUT GOD rewrote her life story. Rosetta's story reminds us that our God, as the author and finisher of our liv...
Nov 07, 2021•38 min•Season 1Ep. 55
This week's episode focuses on weaknesses (the state of being weak). Weakness is often attached to failure and deficiency or defects. But what if you knew that your perceived weaknesses may very well be your strength and the one thing that God uses to magnify His name? I hope this message encourages, inspires and challenges you to have perspective. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: Website: www.refilwern.com Voice message:...
Nov 01, 2021•11 min•Season 1Ep. 54
The pruning season can bring upon us a lot of harsh realities, painful experiences and sometimes massive disruption into our comfortable lives. However, the season actually comes to present us with great opportunities of growth and if our perspective dwells on the negative, we will miss what the season is there to present. Therefore, missing the greatest years of our lives. In this episode, I share about how to not just survive but thrive during this season. I hope this message encourages, inspi...
Oct 24, 2021•8 min•Season 1Ep. 53
This week's message I reflect on how we tend to lose focus when we are going through rough patches of life. When my mom past away, it was undoubtedly the worst and darkest season of my life but I came out of it by God's grace. It was a tough period, depression and hopelessness was the order of the day. But, my siblings and I did not just survive, we conquered and it was only possible through GOD'S GRACE! Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Conne...
Oct 18, 2021•6 min•Season 1Ep. 52
In this episode, Selloane Mokoena shares a part of her life story on how she is recovering from a hearing loss she experienced during her adult years. The journey of recovery has been a tough one but Selloane remains optimistic and on fire for The Lord like never before. This is a story of hope and restoration. An amazing testimony of God's goodness. You will definitely be inspired by it. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: ...
Oct 03, 2021•49 min•Season 1Ep. 51
24 September marks Heritage Day in South Africa. This day is a celebration of our cultural diversity as a nation. This episode is a reflection inspired by activities surrounding this day, reminding us that a lot has changed and adapted but what has remained the same is our foundational heritage. For over 2000 years, God's word has remained the same: how He sees us, what He thinks of us, who we are in Him, etc. His word and promises has remained constant to this day. I hope this episode inspires ...
Sep 24, 2021•6 min•Season 1Ep. 50
What does it take to let go? How are you building this muscle to enable you to move forward in life? This week, I share notes about how I am practising the art of letting go from a conversation I had with Life Coach, Tabea for her Wednesday Conversations Series. I hope this week's message inspires and encourages you on your own journey of letting go of what you need to move forward with your life. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with...
Sep 12, 2021•13 min•Season 1Ep. 49
This week, as we step into a whole new month and season, I reflect on some lessons from my journey. The crux of the message is that, delay is not denial. This week's message will remind you that God's timing is always perfect and that, what is ordained by God will come to pass, no matter what may seem to be against you. I hope this week's message encourages you to look at your journey differently, through the lens of our loving Father. When you do that, hope stays revived and renewed, with each ...
Sep 06, 2021•17 min•Season 1Ep. 48
This is final episode from the series, notable lessons from women in the Bible . In this episode, we learn about Abigail's courageous, humble nature that saved her family line. Abigail teaches us to do what is right even when we are faced with opposition, use good judgement and to be daring and courageous even when we are afraid. I hope you will be challenged and encouraged by this week’s message. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with...
Aug 29, 2021•7 min•Season 1Ep. 47
Series: Notable lessons from Women in the Bible This week we learn powerful lessons about prioritising, defying norms and taking upon ourselves only what will help advance us. We learn these lessons from Martha's sister, Mary. Instead of fulfilling "womanly roles" by providing hospitality to their guests, Mary chose to sit at the feet of Jesus, to listen and learn from Him. In a turn of events, following Martha's complaint, Jesus puts a stamp of approval on Mary's actions, teaching Martha and us...
Aug 22, 2021•6 min•Season 1Ep. 46
In continuing with the series, notable lessons from women in the Bible , this week we learn from Lot's wife and his daughters. From Lot's wife we learn that not everything is worth looking back at. His daughters teach us about being aware of the impact our environment and those we keep close has on us. I hope you will be challenged and encouraged by this week’s message. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: Website: www.refilw...
Aug 15, 2021•6 min•Season 1Ep. 45
In honour of woman's month here in South Africa, this month's devotionals will be centered around the lessons from women in the Bible. This week we learn from Achsah, Caleb's only daughter what being bold and audacious in our requests means and what it can yield for us. I hope you will be challenged and encouraged by this week’s message. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: Website: www.refilwern.com Voice message: https://an...
Aug 08, 2021•4 min•Season 1Ep. 44
The second greatest commandment is to love our neighbour as we love ourselves. The Bible tells us to love our enemies and return good with evil. This can be quite tricky for us when we are on a solo-journey of loving. In this week's message, I look at Luke 6 verse 35 where we are commanded to "love our enemies and do good to them without expecting nothing back". I am personally challenged by this scripture but with the new found understanding, I am certain that I will continue to improve on lovi...
Jul 25, 2021•9 min•Season 1Ep. 43
Unforgiveness holds us back on so many occasions. We forget that God has forgiven us first, and therefore, we should also forgive ourselves. I hope you will be challenged and encouraged by this week’s message. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: Website: www.refilwern.com Voice message: https://anchor.fm/refilwe-ramatlhodi/message YouTube: Refilwe Ramatlhodi Ndhlovu Facebook: Refilwe Ramatlhodi Ndhlovu Instagram: fifi_says_ ...
Jul 18, 2021•6 min•Season 1Ep. 42
In this week's episode, I explore how we can leave room for God to move in our lives. Most times we think we are but we actually aren't. What does leaving room for God look like? Tune in and find out. I hope you will be challenged and encouraged by this week’s message. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect with me via: www.refilwern.com Voice message: https://anchor.fm/refilwe-ramatlhodi/message YouTube: Refilwe Ramatlhodi Ndhlovu Facebook...
Jul 11, 2021•8 min•Season 1Ep. 41
As inhabitants on this earth, our character is always tested. As Christ's children, how we respond to these tests differentiates us from everyone else. Luke 6:36 challenges us to show mercy to others, just as God shows mercy to us. This is a great challenge indeed, which we can't conquer alone but only with God's guidance and help. I hope you will be challenged and encouraged by this week’s message. Don’t forget to review, subscribe and share this podcast with your friends and family. Connect wi...
Jul 04, 2021•7 min•Season 1Ep. 40
True freedom comes from God. For us to experience this freedom, we need to repent of our sins. Because of His great love and mercy, God will always forgive us for all that we have done. Psalm 51: 1-2 reminds us of how merciful He is, and because of this mercy, He will wipe away all our sins and wash away all our evil. If you want to get loose from the shackles that have you bound, and to experience His freedom, come to Him, just as you are! I hope you will be challenged and encouraged by this we...
Jun 27, 2021•5 min•Season 1Ep. 39