Kevin and I talk about everything you wanted to know about Poly relationships and his upcoming book! So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem Text us or leave a vm at 443-692-7802
Mar 08, 2018•1 hr 7 min
This week's episode is a listener letter show. We talk about g-spots in men, open marriages, getting wet and more! Tune in! So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem Text us or leave a vm at 443-692-7802
Mar 01, 2018•34 min
Today, I have the hosts of the amazing Fat Chat with 2fatchicks! We discuss sex with fat girls, body confidence, and answer listener questions! Here's a little about out guests: Erica Ware Facebook: I Am The Confidence Coach. Instagram: theconfidencecoach Bio: Born and raised in Brownsville, Brooklyn, NY, life has not always been so sweet for the Ms Erica Ware but, through the adversity and struggle of the concrete jungle, Erica blossomed into the strong, admirable, and driven woman she is today...
Feb 22, 2018•1 hr 11 min
Paris, the mansplainer interviews me.
Feb 15, 2018•1 hr 20 min
This week we are talking about sex and disabilities with Robin Wilson-Beattie! We discuss perceptions of able bodied folks on folks with disabilities and their sex lives, Robin's transition into loving her new body, and dating. Follow her on: https://www.sexabledwithrobinwb.com and on twitter: @sexAbled So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter....
Feb 08, 2018•41 min
SO! I UPLOADED THE WRONG EPISODE BEFORE! THIS! This is a men's episode on consent. We discuss the definition of consent, how men learned about consent (or didn't learn) and how they can be conspirators in the #metoo movement. So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facebook: https://www.f...
Feb 01, 2018•32 min
This is a listener episode on consent. We discuss the definition of consent, how to actually get consent, black women not being represented in the #metoo movement and more. Tune in! So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem Text us or leave a vm ...
Jan 25, 2018•1 hr 11 min
We discuss consent. We discuss Asiz Ansari. So! what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem Text us or leave a vm at 443-692-7802
Jan 18, 2018•1 hr 26 min
Hey y'all! This week I speak with Rev. L about loving God and sex too! Tune in!
Jan 12, 2018•52 min
Happy New Year loves! Today, it's all about you. You wanted to talk about period sex, so you did! We have 4 awesome listeners sharing their period sex insights! Follow the conversation using #vagesteem! Shout out to Breon, K.A, J.M., and Elle So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facebo...
Jan 04, 2018•15 min
So! We had some technical difficulties last week and my computer died. SO! We're back! and we're back with the author of Becoming Cliterate, Dr. Laurie Mintz. We discuss the orgasm equality gap, how to get in tune with the clit, asking for what you want and much more! Dr. Laurie Mintz is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, and joyful lives through the art and science of psychology. As a tenur...
Dec 28, 2017•57 min
We got fried of the podcast, Goody- our dildo dealer! This show is about the toys for the holidays lol! Goody is an intimacy consultant, sex educator and HIV activist! She’s been an adult industry insider for over 10 years and she informs, educates and empowers her clients with the knowledge that sexual pleasure IS sexual health. She's giving the listeners on a discount on toys on her website www.askgoody.com. Use coupon code "vagesteem" to get 15% of your purchases! Oh, and the toy she refers t...
Dec 14, 2017•23 min
Today on the podcast, we discuss STDs, getting tested, what they are, dating and sharing your STD status and more! with Nhakia Outland. A little about Nhakia, Nhakia Outland, MSW is the owner and principal consultant of Prevention is Key Consulting, LLC, a sexual health consulting business that provides inclusive and supportive education, training, and consultation services. Nhakia enjoys talking about sex in a bold, raw, and honest way. Nhakia started her business after working in social servic...
Dec 07, 2017•1 hr 8 min
SPOILER ALERT: I have a special guest talking about She's Gotta Have it! Tune in and follow the conversation using #vagesteem and share your thoughts! Shout out to Deidre, Khadija, Kandaka, and Niki Gee for sharing their thoughts this week! ALSO!! ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com! So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like fo...
Dec 01, 2017•1 hr 12 min
Paris, the mansplainer and I discuss rape culture, Lena Dunham being the mansplainer of the week, Gabby Douglas shaming Aly Raisman (EDIT: this was recorded on Tuesday before Gabby shared her story), Russell Simmons, relationships being a partnership instead of ownership, and more. So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagra...
Nov 23, 2017•1 hr 57 min
This week we are chatting with professional cuddler, Shayla D. Tumbling! We discuss what is it, who gets "cuddled" and if black folks actually get this service lol! A little about our guest: Shayla’s mission is to educate people in understanding historical, cultural, generational trauma; the impact it has on our daily functioning and supporting them in developing solutions and healing the trauma in order to have a healthier quality of life Understanding the different levels of Human Connection &...
Nov 09, 2017•1 hr
This is Part 2 of the week I was on the Spiritual Homegirl podcast! We discuss all the listener questions! From sex toys to bedroom performance! Tune in! Shoutout for the Spiritual Homegirl for inviting on to your platform! I'm grateful and humbled! A little about the podcast: The Spiritual Homegirl Podcast about talk self development and bettering the spirit, but from the homie perspective. Check her out on itunes and Soundcloud. Check out her work: http://spiritualhomegirl.com/ https://twitter...
Nov 02, 2017•1 hr
Paris, the mansplainer and i discuss freezing with powerful people encroach on your personal space, Kevin Spacey crimes and ridiculousness, and more AND guess what!? Paris is getting married yall!!!! So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem Text...
Nov 02, 2017•54 min
This week is all thing booty, butt, anal! We discuss eating it, we discuss sticking it, we discuss loving it or not so much with Dr. Donna! Just a little bit about our guest: Dr. Donna Oriowo is a speaker, sex educator and therapist in the DMV area. Focusing on Black women, texturism, colorism, self-esteem and the anxiety (&depression) life can bring for having to be strong all the time. MSU alum, Owner and Lead Therapist of AnnodRight, most likely to be found reading and eating pretzels (on...
Oct 26, 2017•59 min
This week I was on the Spiritual Homegirl podcast! We discuss the makings of VagEsteem, pleasure, gender roles, answer awesome listener questions, and more! Shoutout for the Spiritual Homegirl for inviting on to your platform! I'm grateful and humbled! A little about the podcast: The Spiritual Homegirl Podcast about talk self development and bettering the spirit, but from the homie perspective. Check her out on itunes and Soundcloud. Check out her work: http://spiritualhomegirl.com/ https://twit...
Oct 20, 2017•1 hr 1 min
We luh God... and getting my freak on! Today we talk about God and sex with Brittany Mitchell! A little about Brittany: Brittany Mitchell, MSW, LSW is the founder and lead educator of The Intimacy Firm. The Intimacy Firm is a Sex and Sexuality Education organization based in Pennsylvania. Brittany earned a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from Millersville University and a Masters of Social Work from Temple University. She is completing a MEd at Widener University’s College of Human Sexuality Stud...
Oct 12, 2017•1 hr 24 min
Today, me and HonestlyNae are discussing all things cunnilingus, eating the box, up in the hot pocket, getting head! Whatever you call it, we're talking about how to do it today and how to get comfortable receiving- because you deserve it! A little about Nae: Shanae HonestlyNae Adams is a sexologist, innovator, and educator located in Denver Colorado. Currently, Nae is pursuing her Master's in Clinical Counseling with emphasis in Sex Therapy with the goal of opening mental health institutes for ...
Oct 05, 2017•1 hr 26 min
Cuffing season is almost here and we hear your dating stories! Taking it back to the VagEsteem roots and having listeners share what's on their minds. Before we got to your amazing, hilarious, insightful dating stories, we mansplain women cheating on their husbands, dating lessons, and how some men view child support. ALSO!! ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com! So what...
Sep 28, 2017•1 hr 49 min
This week me and Paris chat about Kevin Hart's "apology", fights about self pleasuring, and lastly Black men being the white people of black people. So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem ALSO!! ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do y...
Sep 21, 2017•1 hr 14 min
Paris and I chat about Insecure, relationships, and a listener question about what's too much when it comes to beating the meat, buffing the banana, jerkin' the.... okay, you get the picture! ALSO!! ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com! So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch w...
Sep 14, 2017•1 hr 28 min
We're talking break ups with Esther Boykin because we had to start getting folks in formation before you walk into the new year with a raggedy and stressful situation! lol! Ya'll know we got to let them go! Esther Boykin is licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship coach, and expert. Esther’s passion to change the face of mental health and emotional wellness drives her to continuously find innovative ways to reach her community. She is the creator and host of Therapy Is Not a Dirty Wo...
Sep 07, 2017•57 min
Hey Everyone! Today we talk about that becky, that fellatio, that head, blow jobs with ExxxiteMe! We laughed, we joked, we got some techniques down, and she answered your questions as well! Check her out! Linnea Marie [ExxxiteMe] can be described as an enthusiastic advocate for sex-positivity. Throughout the years she found that distributing toys through her own website was not enough. She decided to become a love teacher rather than a love dealer. This allowed Linnea to empower the masses with ...
Sep 01, 2017•1 hr 21 min
It's just me today and your questions!!!! We just follow up and talk about open marriage. Send your own questions to vagesteem@gmail.com or text/voicemail me at 443-692-7802. So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facbeook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem
Aug 25, 2017•13 min
It's just me today and your questions!!!! We talk anal bleaching, we got coochie questions, we got sex questions! Let's get into it! Send your own questions to vagesteem@gmail.com or text/voicemail me at 443-692-7802. So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem Facbeook: https://www.facebook....
Aug 17, 2017•37 min
Renelle was bomb! She had me laughing and thinking about relationships on this episode. Renelle and i discuss love, making it work after cheating, the keys to having a healthy relationship and much more! Here's more on Renelle: Renelle Nelson is a Licensed Marriage, Family, AASECT certified sex therapist, and Infidelity Recovery Coach with an experience of more than 11 years. Renelle hails from the state of Milwaukee, Wisconsin and got indulged in the profession of Marriage and Family Therapy in...
Jul 27, 2017•47 min
