DR. STAN TATKIN: Our Partner Is In Our Care

The first book I read from Dr. Stan Tatkin was Your Brain On Love, about the neurobiology of healthy relationships… and I learned so much about myself when it came to my relationship attachment style and what my needs were according to that style. 

I then read Wired for Love, Relationship Rx, and his most recent book In Each Other’s Care. 

Each book has been relationship transforming! 

We discuss:

-secure attachment 

(Secure operate as a 2 person system who are in each others care, especially when one is under stress. 

Insecure operate as a 1 person system “me, my, I” .. I will talk & act like I only care about my own fears & needs)

-How we can move towards being securely attached?

-Our partners safety is our responsibility

-If one partner experiences jealousy, that is a sign of mismanagement by the other

-Putting our relationship before self

-navigating conflict effectively

-a Win/win mindset instead of win/lose, otherwise both are actually losing. (For win win you have to think of each other always, even when reacting)

-Memory influences state & state influences memory … how to keep this from intensifying conflict

-Eye contact keeps attunement

-Micro communications 

-ways to become a true expert of your partner, so that they can truly be in your care

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Past Guests on The Untamed & Unashamed Podcast include Tom Shadyac, Stan Tatkin, Kelly Brogan, Mama Gena, Paul Selig, Alison Armstrong, JP Sears, Kyle Kingsbury, Chervin Jafarieh, Layla Martin, & more!