In this bonus episode, the crew gets real about parenting—then vs. now. We reflect on how we were raised, the lessons (and trauma) we inherited, and what we plan to keep or leave behind as we raise the next generation. From old-school discipline to gentle parenting, we break down the shifts in parenting styles and ask: Are we doing better, or just different? Whether you're a parent, thinking about having kids, or just here for the real talk , this episode is full of laughs, insights, and a few h...
Mar 04, 2025•16 min
This week, we’re joined by MAX from Fax From The Lab Podcast to talk all things blerd culture and how it’s always been a part of Black identity. From Parliament Funkadelic to Erykah Badu , we break down how Black people have always embraced futuristic, imaginative worlds—long before anime and sci-fi went mainstream. Whether it’s Dragon Ball Z , comics, or deep space beats, we’ve been leading the way in creativity and innovation. But that’s not all—we take a trip down memory lane, talking about g...
Mar 04, 2025•1 hr 4 min
Truckin’ Through Love, Sex Playlists & Valentine’s Day Fails | Unsolicited Views Podcast Ep. 249 This week on the pod, Jon, Mal, Syd, and special guest Franklin are bringing the laughs and real talk! Franklin gives us the lowdown on his life as a trucker and opens up about his love life on the road. He’s got one big question: Why doesn’t his lady ever say “I love you”? Is she just not that into him, or are emotions just not her thing? We dig deep into whether we take love for granted or not ...
Feb 25, 2025•1 hr 19 min
The gang is back with another unfiltered episode of Unsolicited Views ! Mel returns from FMLA, and we catch up on everything—from her love for Sprinkles to Jon’s latest peculiar story. We dive into whether we truly stand up for Blackness, why so many of us are fighting for work-from-home life ( work plan antics ) and Jamal’s name if he went to jail. The conversation gets deep as we debate spirituality—do we believe in a higher power, and how do our perspectives shape our lives? (Spoiler: Mel and...
Feb 12, 2025•1 hr 15 min
Episode 247 is packed with laughs, truths, and a little bit of soul-searching. Jon gets candid about his allyship to the LGBTQIA+ community—because supporting all the letters matters 🌈. Mel is back… well, kind of. He’s on FMLA (again), and we’re still trying to figure out how he makes it work. 😂 Meanwhile, Mal keeps his emotions locked up like Fort Knox, so we spend some time hilariously (and unsuccessfully) trying to crack him open. On a deeper note, we explore the ways we love—how we express...
Jan 28, 2025•50 min
We’re back, and so is Mel! 🎉 After catching up and hitting you with a top-tier dad joke (don’t worry, we’re cringing too), we dive into some real talk. Are deal breakers and pet peeves the same thing, or are we just being dramatic? 🤔 Can you maintain relationships with people who keep testing your patience? And when your inner child feels unsafe, is that a deal breaker? But that’s not all—parenting takes center stage as we discuss the wild adjustment to becoming new parents and how it flips yo...
Jan 09, 2025•1 hr 11 min
This week, the crew is here to tackle the big questions in life…sort of. First, we dive into the “Sin Spectrum” and decide which sins are worse—spoiler alert: marriage might just be the cheat code to knock fornication and adultery off your list. Next up, we settle the age-old debate: is 2-ply toilet paper the only acceptable option? (The answer is obvious, but we had to say it.) Finally, we get into women giving up their last names after marriage—what does it really mean in 2024? Tune in for lau...
Nov 26, 2024•1 hr 13 min
With Mel still on LOA and Mal out here galavanting, Jon and Syd are left to roast every generation. First, they dig into the age-old question: why did Millennials sneak around while Gen Z just throws it all out there like they’ve got nothing to lose? Then they dive into life trajectories—turns out, how we turn out really isn’t that shocking. They also introduce the “Ain't Sh*t Spectrum” (yes, it’s real), tackle partners who outgrow each other, and ask: are we secretly all addicts? And why does w...
Nov 12, 2024•1 hr 14 min
In this laugh-out-loud episode, Jon, Mal, and Syd are diving headfirst into the big questions no one asked but everyone wants answered. First up, we’re getting real about oral sex—what's easier, for men or for women? Things get heated fast! Then, they debate the real top 5 Disney slaps of all time—will your childhood favorite make the cut? We also tackle the serious topic of raising kids: is co-parenting more manageable than married life, or vice versa? Lastly, we get deep (well, kind of) on wha...
Oct 09, 2024•1 hr 27 min
In this hilarious and thought-provoking episode, the Unsolicited Views crew—Jon, Mal, and Syd (Mel's still on LOA)—dive into a range of topics that'll have you questioning everything from your happiness to your attachment style. Mal opens up about what really makes him happy and whether he’s the type to jump for joy. The team then tackles the ever-controversial topic of the “hoe phase”—what defines it, and have we all had one? Next, they get real about community—do Millennials actually want it? ...
Sep 20, 2024•1 hr 14 min
Join Jon, Mal, and Syd as they dive into a mix of deep thoughts and hilarious takes (Mel’s still on LOA, and we miss him!). We’re unpacking our favorite five-year stretches of life—were they wild, and what do we regret? Plus, we’re breaking down why Black women slow down on the twerking in their 30s. We’re voting on the top 4 words to retire in 2024: Monolith, Diabolical, Narcissist, Toxic and the latest Demure—seriously, they need to go! We also get into why millennials seem to over-therapize a...
Aug 28, 2024•1 hr 12 min
“Audience, pardon the audio—this one needed some serious fixing after the distortion monster attacked. But we’re back and better with Jon, Mal, and Syd (Mel’s on LOA), diving into some hot topics. We’re talking about men letting women pick up the tab and who you call first when masculine duties pop up—whether you’ve got a man or not. Plus, getting into a fight as an adult? Yeah, that’s wild. We also get deep into rituals and religious practices, rate our adulting skills on a scale of 1-10, remin...
Aug 21, 2024•1 hr 39 min
In this hilariously candid episode of Unsolicited Views, Mal, Mel, Syd, and Jon catch up on the latest shenanigans and drop a dad joke that’ll make you groan. They dive into the art of knowing when an argument is almost over and debate whether it’s okay to pass up on a kiss if the fight isn’t finished. Tune in as they tackle creating open communication while still getting your needs met, all inspired by some viral Instagram reels. Don’t miss their unsolicited thoughts on these oh-so-relatable di...
Aug 06, 2024•1 hr 5 min
This pre-pod we discuss what we were taught about sex as adolescents and teens.
Aug 03, 2024•10 min
Join Jon, Syd, and Mal as they navigate the tricky waters of friendships with different financial situations. They discuss what it means to be "well traveled" and whether a passport is a must for certain social circles. The trio also explores the pressures of maintaining status among friends, the art of accepting criticism, and Mal's ongoing battle with procrastination. Tune in for honest discussions, relatable stories, and plenty of laughs on Unsolicited Views!
Jul 23, 2024•1 hr 34 min
Join Jon, Mal, and Syd for a hilarious and thought-provoking episode where they tackle everything from picking cotton for $350 an hour to the age-old debate: is a hotdog a sausage? Relive high school lunch meal classics and explore the difference between twerking and grinding. They also dive into the quirks of bad built skinny people, discuss if support in relationships should be conditional, and question if men die on the wrong hill in arguments. Plus, when is too much touching not okay from a ...
Jul 16, 2024•1 hr 43 min
In this engaging episode of Unsolicited Views, hosts Jon, Mal, and Syd dive deep into a range of topics that resonate with adults navigating the complexities of modern adult life. Here's what you can expect: 1. **Great Parent vs. Great Partner**: We explore why the qualities that make someone an exceptional parent might not align with those that make a great partner. Join us as we unpack the distinct roles and the challenges of balancing both. 2. **Parenting on the Shit-o-Meter**: Can parents be...
Jul 04, 2024•59 min
This episode we sit down with the owners of Blackstone Brothers Distillery. We discuss their journey into the alcohol business and the life experience that led them to business. Sorry for the audio we got a little turnt. Enjoy!
Jun 21, 2024•1 hr 41 min
This episode Jon and Mel sit down and discuss mans inability to hold them selves accountable. I’m addition to how masculinity can show in a healthy way.
May 28, 2024•1 hr 18 min
This week the crew sits down to discuss body positivity and not settling.
May 14, 2024•1 hr 31 min
This episode we back at it. We discuss the topic if therapy has made our generation victims. Have we taken something that should help and made it a hindrance. Jon, Mel, Syd, Mal and Quentin
May 07, 2024•1 hr 29 min
This week the whole crew is together. We discuss generalization and does changed behavior mean more than words. Jon, Syd, Mel, Mal
Apr 16, 2024•1 hr 6 min
This episode Mal, Mel and Jon discuss several topics. At what point do people peak in there lives? Did some of us peak too early? Lastly, What are some goals set in 2024 and will they hit them.
Apr 02, 2024•50 min
This episode we talk life, celebrities and why they might not matter anymore.
Mar 28, 2024•1 hr 32 min
In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into a range of topics that often remain unaddressed in everyday conversations. From the complexities of creating trauma-aware environments for children to the lingering questions we've never dared to ask our parents, our discussion is as raw as it is enlightening. Finally, we address the common misconception that patience is solely a virtue for women, urging men to embrace the power of patience in all aspects of life. Jon, Syd, and Mel...
Mar 20, 2024•1 hr
Hey, Thanks for listening.This episode we discuss lies, life and pet peeves. Who lies more..men or woman? Are white lies ok? Is avoiding questions lying? Is lying necessary. All that and much more on this episode. Visuals coming soon....
Mar 05, 2024•1 hr 24 min
This week we sit down and discuss many things of course. Some topics included Mel and Syd buying s new house and settling in. Also we talked about loosing your appearance as you get older. Most importantly we talked consumerism and how we fall victim as adults. Other topics included: Are we too old for music festivals? How to shake poverty mindset? And so much more. Jon, Mel and Syd
Feb 27, 2024•1 hr 19 min
This episode Syd, Jon and Mel sit down and discuss adulting and growth. We discuss the main question: What to do once triggered?
Jan 30, 2024•1 hr 25 min
This episode we open up with a what if we lived when Jesus was out in the streets. Would we call it cap? We also discuss what it means for men to emote properly and why we so easily take the back seat. Lastly, we talk about what do we look for in ones character and does ours measure up to our own defintions. New Year new US! We posting these episodes. Visuals coming this week! Jon, Mel , Syd and Dame
Jan 23, 2024•1 hr 29 min
This episode we discuss heavily what past relationships and dating experiences may have taught us. We also find a conversation in holding friends and those close accountable. Jon, Syd, Mel
Jan 17, 2024•1 hr 17 min
