This week on Unsolicited Advice, we discuss all aspects of love. Valentine's Day is a difficult day for those single and in relationships. However, getting dumped on the most romantic day of the year blatantly sucks. Rather than sitting in self-sabotage and sorrow, get your Glow Up on, and become the best version of yourself. It starts by saying yes. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://b...
Feb 14, 2022•58 min•Ep. 154
When in a committed relationship, we all want to be sure the person we're with is in it for the right reasons. The idea of marriage shouldn't feel like an obligation, and if that relationship is not moving as fast as you'd like, communication is key to finding out one's true intentions. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAPodcastYouTube Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast f...
Feb 07, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 153
This week, we discuss the age-old question: can two people be friends while avoiding romantic interest? Whether it's navigating the friendship vessel through choppy waters or steering clear of the romance iceberg, establishing clear boundaries can be key in protecting yourself from heartache. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAPodcastYouTube Don’t forget to subscribe to the pod...
Jan 31, 2022•58 min•Ep. 152
Breakups are hard, Friendship breakups are worse. Today we tackle losing A friend and seeking validation. A relationship is a two-way street, but how much longer can you invest in someone that isn't investing in you? This sudden pull away can cause insecurities and validation. Learning to love yourself as you are and accept that sometimes people just grow apart. No one person should be the source of your happiness. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Fol...
Jan 24, 2022•55 min•Ep. 151
Life is full of big decisions, between deciding where to go to college and choosing a career path. This week we cover getting accepted to your dream school & landing that perfect job. But sometimes getting to the other side, we realize the grass truly isn’t always greener. It’s important to take chances but be well informed before taking the leap. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://...
Jan 17, 2022•49 min•Ep. 150
On today's episode, we talk about motivation and social anxiety. School can be tough in all kinds of ways, especially when you have social anxiety. Learning how to communicate with peers and professors is essential in order to excel in education and life. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAPodcastYouTube Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listenin...
Jan 10, 2022•55 min•Ep. 149
As the days finally begin to get longer and a brand-new year is on the horizon, most of us set a new year's resolution or two. In this week's episode, we discuss past resolutions, forthcoming goals, and what to do when you lose a loved one and no longer feel like yourself in the new year. One resolution we can all make? Whatever life throws your way, devise a plan to cope and move forward in a healthy and productive fashion. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshN...
Jan 03, 2022•50 min•Ep. 148
As Ashley and Taryne take a much-needed holiday break, we'd like to revisit one of our favorite UA episodes of all time. From all of us on Team UA, Happy Holidays! To say that there are gray areas in life is perhaps one of the greatest understatements of all time. Today's episode explores those gray areas, specifically the ones labelled "Friend-Zone" and "Ex-Zone". Whatever zone you or someone you know may fall into, this episode has some rock-solid info to help you navigate a wide variety of tr...
Dec 27, 2021•52 min•Ep. 147
Relationships are like maps. There are roads, shortcuts, and most importantly: boundaries. Today's episode is all about those boundaries. First, we cover the always perilous arena of labeling a relationship, with all the dangers that accompany that occasionally self-sabotaging task. Second, we talk about the pitfalls that arise when boundaries are loose and lead to some mischievous flirting. In both scenarios, it's the existence of undefined and/or confusing boundaries that can lead to misunders...
Dec 20, 2021•53 min•Ep. 146
Let's just admit it: we all have insecurities, whether they stem from body image, social anxiety, or all of the above. When those insecurities are combined with family drama, it can spiral into a toxic brew of bad habits. Navigating healthy outlets, learning how to have progressive conversations, and finding a strong support system can be a great start to conquering those insecurities once and for all. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Follow Taryne: @...
Dec 13, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 145
Parents. They just don't understand, right? Whether it's a Mom with body image issues or a Dad with entirely too many issues to list, parents can be a source of stability, safety, and guidance, or an absolute mess full of chaos and uncertainty. If your parents are amazing heroes or total zeroes, this week we discuss some tactics you can use in dealing with your own parental pitfalls. To check out Harper Wilde, go to: harperwilde.com/advice Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follo...
Dec 06, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 144
We all, with zero exceptions, feel pressure. Whether that pressure is from friends who constantly need a shoulder to cry on, or from a new job where you desperately want to impress your boss, it's an absolute must that we find ways to mitigate that pressure and construct clear boundaries. It doesn't matter if it's regarding a roommate or your boss Carol, there are times when a simple "No" is not just a word, but a sentence. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNi...
Nov 29, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 143
When it comes to so many situations in life, it is human nature to let that little voice inside you fill your brain with self-doubt. It could be a trip halfway around the world for college, or the simple act of encountering growing pains from the evolution of a long-term relationship. In most cases, it takes boldness and confidence to not just face the challenge head-on, but to simply admit that it's a challenge in the first place. That, dear listeners, is the bold step one must take. Follow the...
Nov 22, 2021•54 min•Ep. 142
This week, we tackle lies, friends, COVID, and dating. (not necessarily in that order) From an awkward situation in a fading friendship to an abrupt end to a relationship, sometimes lies can hurt just as much as the truth. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAPodcastYouTube Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://b...
Nov 15, 2021•59 min•Ep. 141
When it comes to some people's relationships, occasionally things come easy. For the other 99.9% of us, however, things can get a tad complex. This week, we cover two stories that while very different, both lead to the same inevitable place: relationships are friggin' hard. It's hard to find them, it's hard to maintain them, and it's hard to get over them. Hopefully, this episode will make those endeavors just a wee bit easier. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @A...
Nov 08, 2021•55 min•Ep. 140
While we all take a moment to fondly remember the 2021 edition of our October Series, we are officially back to our regular stories and we couldn't be more excited! On today's episode, our first story is about overcoming loss and reluctantly settling into a "new normal", while the second story is about celebrating oneself and making efficient use of that much-maligned "me time" between dating spurts. In both, we see that while change is oftentimes dark and unsettling, things can and will return ...
Nov 01, 2021•59 min•Ep. 139
Happy Halloween, UA Fam! It's our annual Halloween bonus episode, and this year we've got nothing but straight-up, spine-chilling, stalker stories. From a workplace nightmare to a stuffed animal fright-fest, this year we've got a surplus of chills for your dark and spooky Hallows Eve. So dim the lights, light the jack-o-lantern, and grab a mug of something warm and toasty. It's time for the grand finale of our annual October Series! Have a safe and Happy Halloween, everyone! Follow the Podcast o...
Oct 31, 2021•52 min•Ep. 138
As you can tell from the title, this week's October Series episode is chock-full of chilling tales of terror. The first story is about a haunted Inn on the coast of Maine where one particular spirit isn't just around for scares, but for handing out justice as well. The second story is terrifying, touching, and everything in-between. The next time you're on a quiet street and see headlights in your rear-view mirror, you will undoubtedly remember this particular tale of panic and dread. Don't forg...
Oct 25, 2021•58 min•Ep. 137
Ghostly apparitions. Cats chasing dark shadows. Night lights destroyed by an angry, invisible entity. This week's October Series episode is filled to the brim with imagery that will haunt you for months. But have no fear, this one is filled with laughter as well. It's truly an emotional roller-coaster, folks, so strap in! Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAPodcastYouTube Don’t ...
Oct 18, 2021•44 min•Ep. 136
Spookiness comes in many forms, be it physical or spiritual, or sometimes even familial. This week's special October Series episode features two stories about a freaky family member and an abnormal apparition that are guaranteed to make you search for that old nightlight from your sock drawer. Sleep tight, y'all. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAPodcastYouTube Don’t forget...
Oct 11, 2021•45 min•Ep. 135
The leaves are changing, the air is crisp, and the decorative gourds are invading our dining room tables. Fall is finally here, and with it comes the 3rd Annual October Series! To say that we're excited is perhaps the understatement of the year. If you're in the mood for some stupendously-scary stories and groovily-ghoulish delights, you've come to the right place. Dim the lights, grab a mug of hot cider, and let's get spooky, UA fam! Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ash...
Oct 04, 2021•53 min•Ep. 134
Today's episode is all about beginnings, endings, and everything in-between. If you're at the very pinnacle of a relationship (i.e. - marriage), or the very start of a budding romance (i.e. - that amazing first date), the roadmap before you may not be as straightforward as you assume. Every relationship is a crazy choose-your-own-adventure, and today's stories capture that essence perfectly. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @TaryneRe...
Sep 27, 2021•49 min•Ep. 133
Today's episode is all about questioning both the big things and the small things in life. Whether it's a tongue-in-cheek inquiry into one's own mental state, or an impossibly difficult situation involving kids and their father, self-reflection and the seeking of advice from trustworthy people are two great steps to start you on your way. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAP...
Sep 20, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 132
While most of the general populace assumes that confidence is a rent/lease/sublet type of situation, they are sorely mistaken. Confidence is yours and only yours. It does not depend upon others, nor does it need anyone's permission to exist and thrive. The next time you're considering making a self-deprecating joke or about to mock an aspect of yourself, please, as a favor to us: hold that thought. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @T...
Sep 13, 2021•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 131
This week, we tackle two stories about facing a tough reality and figuring out how to move forward. In one, it's all about doing things for love. In the other, it's all about doing things for fun. In both instances, however, one has to confront extremely hard truths, accept the complexity of the situation, and devise a strategy in order to make a course correction for a healthy, happy future. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @TaryneR...
Sep 06, 2021•55 min•Ep. 130
There are times in life when the old saying, "Judge not, lest ye be judged" is 100% appropriate and applicable. There are other times, however, when you have to take off your neutrality hat and judge the ever-loving heck out of someone because they've acted poorly and are totally deserving of that judgement. On today's episode, we cover both scenarios and give you some insights on how to tell the two apart. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow T...
Aug 30, 2021•51 min•Ep. 129
You'd be surprised to learn that many of our problems are sometimes a matter of perception. Because perception can make those problems seem more severe than they truly are, oftentimes the solution is mind over matter. Both of today's stories involve incidents where changing one's perception may be the key to dealing with issues head-on, leaving behind the emotional baggage, and eventually moving forward in a healthy way. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNicho...
Aug 23, 2021•54 min•Ep. 128
Life is full of ruts, and we've all been in one at some point in our lives. It can be a relationship rut, a friendship rut, or even a happiness rut. While the way to get out of a rut is not an exact science, there are clear ways to minimize the low points and eventually find a way back to normalcy. Trust us on this one. We've been there. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @TaryneRenee To watch our podcast on YouTube: http://bit.ly/UAPo...
Aug 16, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 127
We'll just come out and say it: relationships are hard with a capital "H", people. Whether you're related by blood, joined at the hip as best friends, or work closely as business partners, dealing with other humans, even ones you love with every fiber of your being, can be challenging at best. This week, we have two amazing stories of interpersonal relationships that are in dire need of a fine-tuning and a general re-opening of lines of communication. Also, Ashley takes it upon herself to record...
Aug 09, 2021•59 min•Ep. 126
Cruelty and pain can wear many masks, folks. In today's episode, we have two amazing stories: one maddening and one absolutely heart-breaking. In each, the end-result is unfortunately anguish and pain. That's sadly a part of life. But living isn't about simply accepting pain and hurt, but rather about dealing with it directly, addressing the source of that pain, and figuring out how to move forward. Follow the Podcast on Insta: @UnsolicitedAdvicePod Follow Ashley: @AshNichole_xo Follow Taryne: @...
Aug 02, 2021•54 min•Ep. 125
