We've all been there—having a crush on someone in your friend circle. It's exciting, it's scary, and you never know what's coming next. In today's episode, our writer had a chance to take things to the next level with a close friend but panicked and hit him with the “just friends” line. Now, feelings have shifted, and she wants to know: can you un-friend zone someone after you've put them there? We’re breaking down the do’s and don’ts of turning friendship into romance. Follow the Podcast on Ins...
Jun 23, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 333
Happy Monday, everyone! On this week’s episode of UA, we’re diving into two big topics: craving male validation even while in a relationship, and how to navigate tough conversations with strict parents—especially when they don’t agree with your decision to live with a partner. We’re discussing how to approach the conversation, set boundaries, and stand firm in your choices as an adult. Follow the Podcast on Insta: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ht...
Jun 16, 2025•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 332
Wedding drama, stalkers, and an accidental kiss?! This episode is full of unexpected twists as one listener shares her story of breaking up with her ex three years ago—only to have him continue stalking her to this day. Even though she's now in a loving and supportive relationship, the fear hasn’t stopped. We dive into what to do if you’re in a similar situation, including how to document incidents, who to contact, and ways to stay safe. Stalking is a serious matter, so please take care and reac...
Jun 09, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 331
Happy Monday, UA Fam! Today, we thought it’d be fun to build a Lego Set while we answer your questions—and help out our writer, who feels like her boyfriend is choosing work over their relationship. Let’s talk it out, piece by piece. Follow the Podcast on Insta: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta Follow the Podcast on TikTok: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceTikTok Follow Ashley: https://www.instagram.com/ashnichole/ Follow Taryne: https://www.instagram.com/tarynere...
Jun 02, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 330
What do you do when you catch feelings for your best friend… who also happens to be your roommate? In this episode, we dive into the messiness of navigating a friendship that's starting to shift, the overthinking that comes with new feelings, and the fear of ruining a good thing. Should she confess her love or wait until the lease is up—just in case the feelings aren't mutual? Follow the Podcast on Insta: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta Follow the Podcast on TikTok: https://bit.ly...
May 26, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 329
We went to Vegas, baby! Despite a few bumps in the road, unexpected illness, and a slight plane mix-up, we powered through and made unforgettable memories. Huge shout-out to Remi for planning and pulling off the ultimate Vegas bachelorette trip. It was a weekend to remember for sure! Thanks to our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/UNSOLICITED and get on your way to being your best self. Get better sleep, hair and skin with Blis...
May 19, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 328
Today's episode is all about love first loves, forever loves, and what happens when you're trying to make someone fall for you. If you met your first love early on, is it okay for that to be your one and only, your forever? In our other story, our girl is crushing hard on her flatmate. The problem? She can barely talk to him. We’re giving her some practical, flirty convo tips to help her break the ice and maybe even get him to fall for her. Thanks to our Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by Be...
May 12, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 327
Hey UA Fam! If you’ve been following the podcast for a while, then you probably guessed from the title, that today’s episode is a sweet one. We're sharing all the details of Ash’s proposal, from the weeks and days leading up to how everything came together for the big moment. Thank you for being with us through all of life’s milestones! Follow the Podcast on Insta: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta Follow the Podcast on TikTok: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceTikTok Follow Ashley: https...
May 05, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 326
How do you move on after betrayal? What do you say when you know something’s off—but they keep gaslighting you? In today’s episode, we’re diving into cheater's and emotional cheating: the signs, the gut feelings, and what to do when you’re ready to confront a partner who may be crossing lines. Whether you’re stuck in the “Is this cheating?” spiral or preparing for that conversation, we’ve got you. Follow the Podcast on Insta: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ht...
Apr 28, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 325
The highs, the lows, and the HEAT—yep, you guessed it, it’s our Coachella recap! From epic music to sore feet, sweaty outfit regrets, and one very dramatic sandwich situation (looking at you, Taryne), we’re spilling everything. It was chaotic, magical, a little dusty—and probably the best weekend of our lives. Let’s break it all down. Thanks to our Sponsors: The juggle is real. Don’t just respond to stress, get ahead of it with Stress Relief from Ritual. Get 25% off your first month at https://r...
Apr 21, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 324
Today's episode is extra special because we're diving deep into some of our juiciest stories with major updates! If you'd like to catch up before we begin, we've listed the previous stories below—don’t worry, no spoilers! PREVIOUS EPISODES: I Am Definitely the Villain in the Story https://bit.ly/3RBjTNW A Girls Is Sending Inappropriate Photos to My BF! https://bit.ly/3DSXDfz My BF Called Me Ugly, Why Am I Still Here? https://bit.ly/4lm41Nh Thanks to our Sponsors: Get better sleep, hair and skin ...
Apr 14, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 323
Happy Monday, UA Fam! This week’s episode explores the emotional rollercoaster of betrayal after a breakup and the journey of learning how to trust again. In our second story, we dive into the tricky situation when your boyfriend’s best friend of 15 years tries to make a move on you. Oh, and did we mention they all live together? Navigating the tension in the house and having those tough, honest conversations won’t be easy. Tune in for our advice on how to heal and rebuild trust. Thanks to our S...
Apr 07, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 322
Fair warning—today’s stories are heavy. In one, our writer opens up about the struggle of dealing with a parent’s addiction and the difficult question: How do you help someone who doesn’t want help? In the other, our girl is juggling a lot, but things take an unexpected turn when her husband makes a major decision without consulting her. What do you do when you feel completely left out of the conversation? Tune in as we dive into these tough situations and explore the complexities that come with...
Mar 31, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 321
Hi, I'm the Problem, It's Me... In today’s episode, we have a first: our girl admits she is the problem! Navigating a friendship with someone who's confessed their feelings can be tough—especially when you’ve led them on and then moved on to a new man. In another story, our writer has been dreaming about an ex for two years... but here’s the catch: she’s engaged. Thanks to our Sponsors: New players can get FIVE HUNDRED CASINO SPINS ON A FEATURED GAME! Just sign up with code ADVICE and wager a mi...
Mar 24, 2025•53 min•Ep. 320
Happy Monday, UA Fam!! Today, we're going back to the basics with some juicy stories and relationship drama. In our first story, our girl is navigating a FWB situation that’s starting to spark some real feelings... but her guy isn’t on the same page. Then, we dive into setting boundaries around texting – what’s okay and what’s not, like when another girl is sending inappropriate photos to your partner... Thanks to our Sponsors: The juggle is real. Don’t just respond to stress, get ahead of it wi...
Mar 17, 2025•55 min•Ep. 319
This week’s stories are a mess, and we’re here for it! In our first story, we dive into a flirty workplace romance, at least, that’s what she thought until she discovered he had a girlfriend the whole time! In our second story, our writer confesses to hooking up with her best friend's ex. But now that feelings have developed, how does she come clean without risking their friendship? If you'd like to support or contribute in any way, we've included some helpful resources below. Thank you all for ...
Mar 10, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 318
In today's episode, we dive into the tough reality of being in a relationship with someone who resorts to name-calling and psychological manipulation. To our sweet writer, you deserve so much more than this. With some tough love and big sis advice, we're talking about how to move forward with strength and self-love. If you'd like to support or contribute in any way, we've included some helpful resources below. Thank you all for your kindness and generosity. Stay safe, and remember to be kind to ...
Mar 03, 2025•1 hr 26 min•Ep. 317
Ghosting, crushes, and bestie drama – we’re back and it’s messier than ever, fam! In today’s episode, we’ve got some messy stories. In one story, our girl’s bestie/roommate hooked up with her crush... so how do they move past this? How do they navigate their friendship, let alone live together? And in another story, one of our listeners’ boyfriends ghosted her during the holidays... oh, and they also live together. Trust us, this one's a rollercoaster! If you'd like to support or contribute in a...
Feb 24, 2025•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 316
Happy Monday, UA Fam! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the juicy details of the Bachelor breakup everyone is talking about! We’re unpacking what went down, how it played out in the public eye, and why it’s important not to let a messy breakup set unhealthy patterns in your own relationships. Cozy up, because we’re serving up some real talk on love, growth, and keeping things positive! Please consider donating to those affected by the Los Angeles Fires: https://supportlafd.kindful.com/ https...
Feb 17, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 315
Happy Valentine's week, cuties! This year, we decided to read your heartwarming and positive meet-cute stories. We love love and want to share that joy with all of you. Wishing you a day full of love and happiness! Please consider donating to those affected by the Los Angeles Fires: https://supportlafd.kindful.com/ https://give.pasadenahumane.org/give/654134/#!/donation/checkout Thanks to our Sponsors: The juggle is real. Don’t just respond to stress, get ahead of it with Stress Relief from Ritu...
Feb 10, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 314
What do you do when you can’t stand your best friend’s new boyfriend? He’s rude, obnoxious, and seems to be ruining the vibe yet your friend is totally smitten. In this episode, we’re diving into this tricky situation of how to handle, when you don’t like your bestie’s partner. At the end of the day we want you to protect your friendship without letting your friend date someone who’s clearly not right for her. Sometimes, holding your tongue is harder than it seems. Please consider donating to th...
Feb 03, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 313
In today’s episode, we dive into some serious mamma drama! Our writer is facing major red flags from her boyfriend's mom, and it's starting to affect their relationship. We're diving into how she should approach this sticky situation. If you'd like to support or contribute in any way, we've included some helpful resources below. Thank you all for your generosity. https://supportlafd.kindful.com/ https://give.pasadenahumane.org/give/654134/#!/donation/checkout Follow the Podcast on Insta: https:/...
Jan 27, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 312
It's not a Monday without a new UA episode! A huge thank you to everyone who's reached out or contributed to the California wildfire relief efforts, your support means the world. On today's episode, we're diving into the art of crushes! We’re sharing practical tips on how to flirt, how to make a move, and how to talk to that cute new guy in your friend group! If you'd like to support or contribute in any way, we've included some helpful resources below. Thank you all for your generosity. https:/...
Jan 20, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 311
Happy Monday, UA listeners! This week’s episode is going to be a bit different. In light of the devastating California fires and the ongoing crisis, we wanted to make sure we still brought you a Monday episode, but our team wasn’t able to gather in person to record. So, this episode will be audio-only. If you'd like to support or contribute in any way, we've included some helpful resources below. Thank you all for your kindness and generosity. Stay safe, and remember to be kind to one another! h...
Jan 13, 2025•53 min•Ep. 310
We’re kicking off 2025 with a bang! In our first story, our writer is feeling hesitant about a new relationship and wondering if being a late bloomer in the dating world is a red flag. Spoiler alert: It’s not! In the second story, we tackle a much heavier topic: How do you leave a marriage when you have nowhere to turn? We’re here to remind her (and anyone else feeling stuck) that breaking free and starting over is always possible. You’re never alone in this journey. Follow the Podcast on Insta:...
Jan 06, 2025•1 hr 26 min•Ep. 309
Happy (almost) New Year, everyone! As we wrap up 2024, we're reflecting on all we've achieved this past year and sharing our dreams, goals, and resolutions for 2025. Thank you for all your support we couldn’t do this podcast without you! Follow the Podcast on Insta: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta Follow the Podcast on TikTok: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceTikTok Follow Ashley: https://www.instagram.com/ashnichole/ Follow Taryne: https://www.instagram.com/tarynerenee/ Become a premium su...
Dec 30, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 308
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, everyone! This year, we’re re-airing our most listened to episode—an absolute nail-biter! We can’t thank you enough for all the love and support over the years. We truly appreciate you all! Young love can be so sweet, but it can all come crashing down when your college crush marries someone else. In today's story we have a girl that has finally moved on from a guy she used to like, now he's married. But his questionable text messages have her second guessing e...
Dec 23, 2024•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 307
Navigating life in your late 20s can be a confusing season of change: weddings, baby announcements, and so much more. It’s completely normal to find yourself drifting apart from friends during this time. In our first story, we explore the reality of growing apart and how to embrace these changes. In our second story, we're talking about self-love! Join us as we share practical steps to help you break free from negative thinking and cultivate a healthier relationship with yourself. Follow the Pod...
Dec 16, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 306
In today’s episode, we dive into a difficult and emotional situation: What do you do when you find out your dad is cheating on your mom? It’s a heartbreaking position that leaves you torn between your parents. Navigating the discomfort of this situation is anything but easy, and knowing when and how to tell your mom can feel overwhelming. We explore the importance of communication, finding trusted support, and taking steps toward healing—for yourself and everyone involved. Hinge is the dating ap...
Dec 09, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 305
Happy Monday UA Fam! We’re back with our regularly scheduled programming! In today’s story, our writer has been happily in a relationship with her boyfriend for 7 years. But recently, she’s been grappling with guilt over a brief breakup they had a few years ago. How does she move forward when she can’t shake the feeling that she hurt him? Start your free online visit today at https://forhers.com/ADVICE Follow the Podcast on Insta: https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta Follow the Podcast on TikTo...
Dec 02, 2024•59 min•Ep. 304
